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Why morticians in Africa behave like crazy people beats me the ones in developed countries don't act that way o.

solreb:
Situations happen in life that enable one to look back and thank God and thereby able to forgive the wrongs anyone has done you in the past. My case was like yours. We later reconnected after several years. She told me about her financial state and I even helped her husband secure a job and helped her and the husband financially. She never told the husband we dated. So, it is OK if you could help with no strings attached. You would have to watch it though as she may want yo pay back in kind. Keep your distance.

Can a man carry coal in his bosom and not be burned?
Your case was clear and open, OP's may fall short cos already he started by telling us how much he loved her! Very easy for her to trip him again!!

Abeg, don'tlook at the short term effect that helpingher will give her relief from financial burdens, look at the long term resultsthat will mean she will be all over you in "appreciation" which will eventuallylead to.........
Learn from other people's mistakes

Toolegit123:
Good day my Nairaland fam.

Please,matured minds in the house,is it a good thing for a man to help his ex girlfriend who's now married, financially. She used to be someone whom I loved so dearly in the past but unfortunately,she broke up with me immediately she met someone who was already asking her hand in marriage. It's been over 3 years since she got married and I made sure I cut every bit of communication between us. Out of the blue,I don't know who gave her my number. She called me,and apologized for what she did to me. Even before she could ask for my help,I already knew her husband wasn't financially buoyant like I thought. She said she wants to open a provision store ,cuz immediately after they got married,they relocated to Lagos. And she asked for my assistance.

So,I don't know if it's appropriate at all to help her, considering how she left me emotionally stranded when I needed her the most in my life. Tho I've completely moved on with my life,but receiving a call from her brought back a whole lot of memories.

Please,my fellow Nairalanders, reason with me. Should I help her out?

Visblog:
After a quarter-century of hurt, heartbreak, and hard grinding through the lower leagues, Coventry City are finally going back to the Premier League.

Frank Lampard's side have ended one of English football's longest top-flight absences, booking their place among the elite for the first time since their relegation in 2001. For a fanbase that has endured financial chaos, ground disputes, penalty shootout agony, and four divisions of English football, this moment is nothing short of historic.

From the Summit to the Basement and Back
Coventry City spent 34 consecutive seasons in England's top division between 1967 and 2001, and were founding members of the Premier League when it launched in 1992. (Wikipedia) But when the curtain fell in May 2001, few could have imagined just how far the club would fall or how long the road back would be.

The years that followed were dark ones. By 2017, the club had sunk all the way to League Two, plunging into the fourth tier of English football for the first time since 1959. (Sky Sports) To make matters worse, they were left without a proper home ground for years, forced to groundshare far from their own supporters. The Sky Blue Army, loyal as ever, turned up anyway.

It was manager Mark Robins who began the slow rebuild, guiding Coventry out of League Two at the first attempt through the play-offs in 2018, and then delivering the League One title in 2020 to restore Championship football to the city.

Heartbreak Before the Breakthrough

Promotion to the Premier League came agonisingly close twice. In 2023, Coventry reached the Championship play-off final at Wembley but lost to Luton Town on penalties. The following season, they mounted a stunning FA Cup semi-final comeback against Manchester United, recovering from 3-0 down only to fall on spot-kicks again.

Fool me once. Fool me twice. There would be no third time.

Lampard Delivers

Following a difficult run of results in 2024, Coventry parted ways with Robins and handed the reins to Frank Lampard.The former Chelsea and England midfielder transformed the club into an attacking machine. Players like Victor Torp, Ellis Simms, Haji Wright, and Brandon Thomas-Asante tore through Championship defences all season, making Coventry the top scorers in the division.

USMNT striker Haji Wright was particularly influential throughout the campaign terrorising backlines and firing the Sky Blues clear at the top of the table.

How It Was Confirmed

The title of Championship champions may still be up for grabs, but the promotion itself is settled. Coventry sit on 85 points with a goal difference of +42, a margin so vast over their nearest rivals Middlesbrough and Millwall that no realistic set of results can dislodge them from the top two.

After 34 years in the top flight the first time around, the Sky Blues finally have their moment. (Sky Sports) The CBS Arena will welcome Premier League football next season. The big clubs are coming to Coventry.

A New Era Begins

Off the pitch, the foundations are finally solid. Local businessman and lifelong Coventry fan Doug King took over the club in 2023, ending years of unpopular ownership, and the club eventually secured full ownership of the CBS Arena in August 2025. Stability in the boardroom. Progress on the pitch.

For a club that has known so much uncertainty, this is a new chapter and for the thousands of Sky Blue supporters who never stopped believing through League Two groundshares, Wembley heartbreaks, and everything in between, it is a moment that will live forever.
Coventry City are back. And this time, they mean to stay.

https://www.visblog.ng/2026/04/coventry-city-promoted-premier-league-2026.html

Wow! Welcome back!!!

Juliearth:
You are the proverbial third party. Why not mind your business? Your friend is not a child. He has made his choice and the consequence(s) would be solely his to deal with.

QED

Alabig1000:
Pounded yam with egusi soup

My kinda person!! This was the first meal in the garden of Eden!!

Diamond098454:
You are not ready for marriage Aunty. Very soon you will no longer be comfortable in that your father's house.

Even before she becomes uncomfortable he will definitely walk the street of many "rods" just trying to find rhythm for relationship!
We know their crew!

Have a great day...stay blessed

Dpsychologist:
The Ring Didn’t Kill the Desire,Your Habits Did.

Yes, a lot comes into sustainable married life.
And there's the aspect of how both couples look at each other. Respect, Response, Reciprocal Resistance to negative emotions are key to keeping the spark...unfortunately habits and character changes fueled by too much expectations are triggers to killing marriages

Ebenezer2021:
I have 4 girlfriends that I have come to realise they're wife materials and I want to propose to all of them and will first discuss the idea of polygamy with them.
I hope they accept it.

Before you propose to them, dig 4 graves, that's where you're going to bury your happiness!!

educatedfool:
That chicken na Ghanaian or Ivoricostian

She be ivorycostrian as you can see she only went to Ghana to see her cock!

timilehin007:
Very very scary stats that year where they would announce total Infected patients, death tolls, recovery of each state in Nigeria and other countries...

Very scary...I remember following on BBC every evening, the death rate in France 🇫🇷 and Italy 🇮🇹 was terrifying! 700-900 people daily!!
It was like a holocaust!!

Ask him if the arabs in north Africa are the real peopleof that region. Then follow up by asking what happened to the true inhabitants of that area.

mikeapollo:
This is the lie that you people tell when you have no other thing to say! Very shameful!

Go and bring the real Israelis then, or you go to Israel and tell the people who amongst them is not real israeli
Since it is now your business to sit in your country and decide who is real or not real in another tribe that does not concern you.

11doubledee:
What year in history are you talking about?
The greed of ISLAM is the root cause of the problem, gradually exterminating minority faiths and religions in the middle east all in the name of jihad.
Judaism and Christianity has been existing in the middle east long before Mohammed was born.
Suddenly in the 21st century they are all Islamic Republics.
Same format Islamic fanatics are using in Northern Nigeria today later in future they will also be called land grabbers if and when they try to reclaim what is rightfully theirs.

Thanks for this!! Even the Koran never mentioned Palestine but has BANI ISRAEL several times over...

How shocking to read comments from Nigerians who have never been to Israel or even "Palestine" yet have swallowed proper pro Palestine lies!
History tells the truth, not ideology.
Those who say Iran is a known devil and Israel is unknown angel, i laugh at them...
Your country is currently overrun by the lovely known devils as proxies from "you know where" and here you are like chickens advocating for KFC.
Enjoy your ignorance ooooh!

HeatSeeker:
Mummy's boy 😒

A man that does only what his mother tells him to do. That wan na man?!

At least for once him mama saved him from the grips of a gold digger!!

Hmmmm...I'm sure i take up to 15 sachets of water daily...water dey sweet me too much. And I really mean what I just said.

meobizy:
Oya, find the example of the female and post the link let me see. Time has erased the matter. You probably forgot about it or never saw it to begin with.

Maybe you didn't grasp my context. I meant time doesn't erase everything. Not the b b l rather , I meant things about life in general.
Sometimes and event situation can bring up something.We may have forgotten

meobizy:
Three days later, we forgot about the news. The woman who died is slowly decomposing as I type this. Life continues for the living. Nairaland provides only an avenue to vent about concepts which members know nothing about.

Remember the kids who got expelled for inflicting violence? Yes, Nairaland has forgotten.

Remember the female who got famous for three days because her sex tape with two males got released? That was six years ago.

Time erases everything.

Time DOESN'T erase anything, it just buries it until some wind, rain or shift decides to unearth it, the putrid smell retells the story!!

God1000:
The terrorist deserves a painful death


He's responsible for several genocides and humanitarian crisis the world is currently having

Let's talk about home front, banditry is now ravaging the country you live in, you're tolerating them as "brothers " while they're murdering people around you. Do they deserve to live? Honestly if you're not middle eastern please leave them to sort themselves out and face your own situation! Killing Netanyahu won't eliminate banditry in Nigeria or even improve electricity!

Waiting for the day middle Eastern countries will protest against killings and mayhem in Northern Nigeria...let's be patient and see...

His election to use his election on a minor has had the judge vote to keep him where erections will be useless all the days of his remaining life!!

simpleseyi:
If he leaves Nigeria, how will he get Tithes and Offerings from the poor masses? Oyinbo no dey give their Salary to anybody ooooo

Your statement reeks of a mind that can never grow beyond a few millimeters!!
Can you face what that man has faced? Do you think a threat to your life feels good?? I'm sure lilylivered guys like you will flee at the slightest!!
How many politicians can stand by his people like this man!!
Go think and stop your display of ignorance

omenka:
Nobody offered you any asylum, baby Nnamdi Kanu.

You should look for the video of his interview with those who offered to take him out of the country before you run your mouth!! Are you also a terror supporter??

After putting hours of hardworking, sweat and tears, my sons are exhibiting their game platform at the Accra Digital centre just now!!
Keep up the good job guys!

Sometimes people just say things anyhow, some day the same people will be shouting that they are neglected by government when their hopes are dashed by situations where they are!! See those wailing in Libya...
Anyway...that's advice for another day!

bestman09:
Very painful and pathetic and unfortunate incidence. May God console the family.

So tragic!! Words can't qualify this event!! Very sad.

Uptheante:
You are very sharp

You know we know them well...

Starz825:
Better bread dey the guy hand...

Nothing weY anybody want tell me

You heard she escorted him to the airport not motor park...so, he's loaded!!

Natbrowny:
Dont sweat it.

The Nigerian guys u underrate and complain about is appreciated by Zimbabwean babes.

Balance the equation.
E fit be say the Zimb babes do not appreciate their men too. So there's an opening for you.

In that same UK. Look for Zimb guys, click and connect.

You've said it all!!

festacman:
E go shock you that not a single Nigerian will faint.

I even wonder....we didn't faint when Abacha's loot was exposed, Tafa Balogun, Dieziani, etc etc. Is it wristwatch collection that will faint us??
We are above and beyond this...