Asawoboy:
Sexathon nko

Na oyibo get that one....

Growing up we were told cats were bad, evil and signified a bad omen so much that we never had one. Then I started to watch documentary about them and see their behavior as pets to oyibo people...then I fell in love with cats!
But still can't keep any as my better half doesn't like any kind of animal.

Raskimonojendor:

We travel, we just don't travel to barren lands.

You're not adventurous enough, I'm sure you travel only to attend business or church program or weddings and quickly return to base.
Let me assure you that even the Siberian tundra will be an exciting place if you travel for pleasure or have an eye for adventure.

Trevor125:
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Please is abortion a very terrible sin??
Someone daughter is pregnant, but I'm not sure if the pregnancy is mine....🤔🤔🤔🤔😕i have been having sleepless nights.. 😭😭💔

I don't want to be a father yet😭😭😭😭, the country is very tough nd frustrating..can 2 months pregnancy be terminated??
She's older than me, I don't wanna start this journey; I'm too young for this..
I wanted to chop nd clean mouth but it has hooked me.. Bleep up.😭😭😭😭

7 minutes of fun, 9 months of pain, and 40 years of either regret or joy...
Now the ball is rolling...

Smartguyboy:

I believe his parents were married .
Don’t emotionally blackmail the innocent boy with murder. It better he correct the mistake now because once you become a father a lot will change .

He had better face the change! Did his dick fly to meet the lady? Didn't his brain give the impulse? Where were his senses? Oh, they were only thinking of chop and clean mouth! Now that has brought him sorrow! Too bad,
Best if he's not sure to do a DNA test after the child is born then he can decide.
In a terrible economic situation like now, d.icks do not jump out of their cages without purpose! And if it does, then the kwensikwensi must be borne! Thank you.

Fisiryorh:
Go drop am with Nigerian Navy for two weeks…Thank me later

Shikenan!
With specific instructions that toilet bathroom and kitchen should be places he's to wash daily for that period.
Then after two weeks to sign undertaken of good behavior.

CaptainFM1:


Read mainstream news, not gossip news like Nairaland.

The rail is a different project altogether. What they have done is to get the allotments/corridor ready for it.

The rail project is not in the scope of the current project, but it's corridor has been factored into the project.

That's foresighting! That way, they won't need to start destroying structures again or create a separate route when the country want to do the rail.

Thanks for the explanation..
You have enlightened me on this.

REDshouse:
Wao so fast .... Tinubu what we are after is quick quality delivery, we are not after who u decide to give the Job... You can as well give it to your side chick or your family we no care.. all we care is quick quality deliveries on every job awarded

Oh yes...and with Umahi on the job watchful eye on contractors, please nobody should allow Nigeria factor enter this noble work! Free cruise...Lagos to Calabar...no portholes!

Freshtruth:
I am the Manager of a Hotel. There is this waitress that is also working at the hotel, very respectful and loyal. All the workers in the hotel respect me to the bone.

Until the same waitress keep hailing me when ever she come to my office she will say may may u are a very handsome guy o. During my off day I called her to a bar in my area cause that was her off day too. I bought her barbeque and holandia yourgut. We lodge an hotel room and she satisfy me well.

The next morning I told her we won't do this again that is wrong because am a married man she said no problem, since then this girl has been disrespecting me, she embarrass me in front of the supervisors. My supervisor got angry and told me to sack her or report her to the owner of the hotel. I told them I will handle the issue.


Pls advise me what to do pls.

Advice
Rather I'll advertize your f.oolishness and incredible reckless adventure!
Guy, she's just wrapped you around her little finger! She knew exactly what to do to fell you...and you gullibly toed the line...
Goodbye to your freedom in that organization...goodbye to your work, welcome to unemployment and constantly looking over your shoulders...
Goodbye sanity...

I wonder...Buhari suffered worse, and he never spoke! He's still there while so many who called him dead are long gone!
Anyone can say anything it's their mouths!

Omotehanny:
Hi everyone

I'm 28 years of age and I'm female
In the book of ephesiand there's a verse that says children should obey their parents , but there is also another verse that says there that [/b]Parents should not provoke their children[b]

I'm open to criticism but put yourself in my shoes.

My mum is a pastor but at thesame time very very toxic person. My dad (bless his soul) has been seen has a bad person at home, it was not until I started looking at her toxicity apart from me that I knew that my dad wasn't has bad has she painted

She does and says everything she feels is favourable to her, then she puts it as that is what God wants. She literally calls herself God most times. Like when she wants you to do what she wants, she will say you are disobeying God that you will die.

When I was much younger I had depression which I've not recovered from till today both mentally and physically. I had no belief in myself, neither did I have a personality. It didn't make a sociable person, for example when I have a quarrel with other folks or even my younger siblings I end up crying.

She uses words that a mum shouldn't use on her children, she curses her children. She narrates how she has been suffering ti feed you since you were born , how she has clothed you , how she has sent you to you, she will always ask if you can repay her? Like why would she make such statements, did i ask to be born?

The one that will baffle you most is that as old as I am, she still physically abused me, she beats me even at this age. Last week she injured me near my eyes and the blood I lost was much. Several times I've wanted to report her but she will later manipulate me with words because she is manipulative also. She acts like okay at times just for you to listen to her , to things that had gone down in her life. But if I tell her things about my life she will use it against me tomorrow. So I usually keep my happenings to myself and just listen to her. It is still her that will be crying and saying that she takes us as friends but we dont tell her about our lives.

We are not in contact with our dads family, even her own family because of her as she is fighting them. Ever since childhood she has been narrating bad things about them to us, even encouraged us to not greet them whe they were still living with us in thesame compound.c

She fights everybody , even neighbors when she doesnt get what she wants.

And the problem is that she is extra toxic to her girl children. My elder has left the house for long and doesn't talk to her at all, she even got married without my mum attending her wedding(me and my elder sister do not share thesame father). She did not attend her mothers burial because of that quarrel she had with her family and she is the first daughter. My younger sister( thesame father) got intentionally pregnant without wedlock just to leave the house. I'm the only girl child at home now and my own level of tocixtiy is just 100
Na me suffer pass everybody. She never listens to anyone or take advice on anyone on how to discipline her children with love and not with violence.

She doesn't respect a child. Even tho I give her almost half if my salary every month, she doesnt give me a single respect. She abuses me in front of my younger brothers and their friends.


There is nothing I do that pleases her. She will use what has happened for years to still judge you, repition upon repition. She doesnt truly forgive and forget. She expects you to always do everything to her liking, forgetting you are human. She lays false accusers on me when reporting me to people , things I did not even dream of doing. She lies on me. One moments she loved you, the next day she hitting and beating you like a goat. And whether you are wrong or not , after physically and verbally abuse you, she will still expect to kneel down and beg her like God, forgetting she hurt you also.


When my dad was still alive, whenever she starts with me my dad will not make a single speech, If he does she will face him head on.
She brings her family matter to the church and preaches it like a sermon only for the members to be treating you as a bas person. She made me not to believe in God, I'm just gradually recovering from all those.

I've left the house bedorebeause of all these. But she manipulated me into coming back', crying and saying she was not able to wat

But honestly, with the way she injured me this last time, I've lost all fear fro her. At this moment we are not crossing paths. When I greet she doesnt answer me, whenever she is praying, she is abusing me saying all sorts of evil in her mouth while praying. Which Christian does that, not to talk of a pastor.
Shes still looking for ways to make trouble with me but I'm avoiding her. I don't fear her anymore. She stopped us from wearing jewelry when I was 16, but now she has made me stubborn. I'm wearing jewelry in the house and shes saying all sort of evil against me , but I dont really care

I dont think I can continue staying her. The boys dont have much problem with her. She gives them once in a while. But the girls is too frequent. P.s I'm not a bad person, I have never had a fight with anyone before, just misunderstanding here and there which is unevitable.


I want to move out, I'm not buoyant enough but as long as I have peace and mental sanity I dont mind. Because even though we resolve It today( which she will make me beg for days as if she is God) . A worse scenario will come up again

What do you think?

I'm really sad for you.
But can encourage you to move out discreetly, change number and break communication with her. No need feeling sorry for her.
At your age now you're above this kind of influence from a parent.

Maybe cos I'm a guy but when this kinda issue started with my mom, I counted my skills and talents and snuck out of the house and no one knew where I was for weeks! I never looked back from there!

I met a lady on a trip long ago and somehow she ended telling me about her toxic aunt who she lived with. I counselled her to move out get a job or sell something to cater for herself. Raised some cash for her and three years later she had married! That aunt tried to manipulate her back but she stood her ground!
She told me she'd never been able to do that...
10 years on she and her husband still reach me!
So girdle up and find yourself dear

Her name self...PrapaPORN!

Vinnie2000:


Kudos to her.👍

White Women are honest.🤨🙂

Our Nigerian Women will wait till he mistakenly Touch one Woman YANCH
and use the Action to divorce him Saying He cheated. 😏😕

Kaka no touch woman til he married her...he was a virgin! So no excuses for her on that...like she said he was flawless. I even realize that if you're nice women don't respect you...they love drama!

Ketamine9000mg:
The usual advice is be careful when you choose a life partner. Emphasizing on choosing the right partner. I am curious. What are the qualities that makes a man/woman a good husband/wife?

Qualities we are talking about here will be affected by time, work, environment, religion and internal and external families!
So it's best to from the start with what appeals to both of you together...if you both love a quiet life, good, if you both love wild living, good, but note that changes are coming....SOON!

gaby:
Wow...this is such a beautiful riddance to a waste of spermatozoa.

I spent my primary years in this same community and I keep asking myself everyday "what could have been my fate today if we hadn't moved on transfer to Bendel in 1988? Would I still be alive today?"

The above questions get in my head because of how I was already "Ikwerrenized" in the early '80s such that I spoke the language very fluently, could Dorn their traditional "ekpo" masquerade during festivals, and was even a member of one of the socio-cultural groups nicknamed "members" in those days that'd come to metarmophorse into various murderous groups known as "cults".

To crown it all up, all, and I mean all, of my childhood mates with whom I'd roam the forests in hunting wild animals and braving the waterside crab and obojo fishing while forgetting I had to go to school are all dead today.

In all, negative influences would have turned me into one of these guys and I thank God everyday that my dad got transferred out from there at the time it came.

I had the fondest memories of my childhood from Mgbuosimini (Agip village) though. It was a village indeed, at the time.

I rejoice with you on your timely leaving that area!
I'm shocked at the level of atrocities committed by that boy! Killing prominent sons and yet no one stood up to him

Truvelisback:
What Aba boys cannot do, does not exist. If you are buying Gadgets or eletronic appliances from places like Westminister, Alaba, Alaba International, you gat to be very very careful. Those Igbo guys there fit knack you. Dem fit sell fake things or package scrab sell give you.

And they will be so happy they conned people! I just imagine how the feeling is to scam someone and sit to "enjoy" the loot! Well, karma is watching..

Rexymania:
You were only lucky. Perhaps God saved you, not one yeye fanta

When did the gods begin to like fanta? Artificial drink o! The gods love natural things like palmy and it's subsidiaries! Not fanta!

jabor4Naija:


We really do not learn, you are very correct. Alot of ppl will rather risk it but the few wise ones do the right thing

True! And most of the time, those who suffer injury are calm to blame the government for everything!
Sad...

Forkthiefnubu:

Now all of you shud read the above post he completely summarized all the drama that happened, no life jacket no cpr , screaming and shout helplessly like the typical pre historic humans they are , then to to a mortuary , never heard any one mention a dr but ritual and all that jazz

We are literate but not educated, we know there's an All Supreme Being, yet trust more in lesser beings, we know facts and science exists and proves many things, yet more confident in superstition and myths!
That's our lot as Africans!

jabor4Naija:
Children are now fatherless, a wife is now a widow, Oh Lord have mercy on his soul.
When will we as Nigerians start taking safety serious? No life jacket, as in how na

How many times have petrol tankers fallen and humans roasted? Did those who saw it take any precautions when another happened in their presence? They'll rather risk it!
Our mentality is: it won't happen to me! I'm covered with the blah and blah...
For us, SAFETY is in the hands of God/ancestors/amulets/charms!
We don't learn!

dominique:




Wow! That's so scary. Imagine being thrown out of a vehicle straight into open waters. Lord have mercy!

I swear, only God can save anyone in that situation

dominique:
I'm trying to envision how this happened, did they get flung out of the bus into the lagoon like they're pieces of paper?

What happens when an accident occurs and you see it live is inexplicable sometimes! Seen a case of a car somersaulting and tossing occupants out like it was nothing...and it wasn't funny...

Juliearth:




Having good neighbours is like finding a good wife. Alot of people may not understand this point of view until they have had a taste of it. Do not renew your rent oh. These species of neighbours (I think I have an idea of their tribe) would never help you even if see you dying. Yet, they are the first people to exit the compound to church on Sunday. They act nice only to their fellow statesman. Others are treated as outcast.


I know someone who suffered a bone injury at night. That person was in distress and wailing in the dead of the night. Certainly the neighbours must have heard this person wail, but nobody came to inquire or help. This person had to lay helpless in the bathroom with a broken bone from past midnight until past 4 A.M before help from another compound came

Very disheartening!

Juliearth:





Hahahaahahaahah! Noted with thanks. I am not paranoid, afterall.

Smart! Well, we live and let live!

Juliearth:





I do too. Please drop a hint so I can be sure I am not paranoid.

somEtimes pAranoia keepS us spiriTual, that way wE aRe depeNdent on the supreme being.
now you get...

shortgun:
Tragically we lost a close friend to the cold hands of death who passed away in a ghastly motor accident.

He was in his late thirties to early forties,unmarried, no child, and a Christian from the North west.

In solidarity, we his friends, proposed to hold a formal wake keep for him at his Abuja residence and promptly began the preparation process. This included securing the services of a DJ and arranging refreshments for the gathering.

Certain members of his family objected to the idea of the wake keep, contending that it was inappropriate for us to engage in partying and funfair following the untimely passing of their loved one. They insisted we limit the gathering to just a public address system and a choir to sing, nothing more.

Some of our friends are threatening to hands-off and withdraw their involvement from everything about the funeral including not attending the burial and allow the family members do whatever that pleases them.
Others are of the opinion that we should ignore the family members and go ahead with our plans since we are going to be paying respect to our late friend and not members of his family.

What do you guys think?

Ecclesiastes 7:1-6 (KJV) A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth.
It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart.
Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better.
The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.
It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools.
For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool: this also is vanity.


I've left this passage of the bible for you to read and meditate.

PROPEACE:

Oya tell me the tribe without telling me the tribe!

This na simultaneous equation you gimme so oh! [center][/center]

JONSYN7154:
u no well.

I no dey for accident and emergency na!

Great0ne1:

You have a point though. But child support will still eat into what you earn. You didn't factor that in

Thanks for the addition...we learn always..

I thought electricity was to have been properly developed during the OBJ tenure, but because someone had the license to import generators nationwide that aspect of development was left unattended to!
Let's not call names now.

Ibaaboy:
the heart of man is very wicked

Desperately wicked!!!!!!

JONSYN7154:
which one?

That one!