Newsmic:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0tlL69KFv8?si=iGCwvv47l0wucaVP

Maybe it's the substitute bench o.
Once there's a need, the "injured" will be replaced!

tgmservice:


What u talking about

I'm giving you a clue

tgmservice:
Am currently dating a girl for q couple of years. We started dating after she broke up with her ex.

But recently I noticed anytime she posts a photo in FB she still tags her ex and does not Tag me.

Is this a course for concern?

Maybe it's just in my head, I can hear a song..
"Return of the mac"

xtivin2:
Watch as defenders go say na skit

If he had access to internet and could post on YouTube then he's not lost! How did he get the picture of the car? There's a boot showing in the picture of the car yet he's in the bush shoeless....
Let's stop playing with issues like this so it doesn't become a joke to others when it really happens!!

Kobicove:
In the first instance why would a reasonable adult seek advise from a mere 20 year old... don't care if he has supernatural powers

What does he even know about life at that age?

It's shocking indeed!
How can a woman who probably can birth him be soooooo foolish as to believe he can "solve" her problems? Women!! Bible said it and that's why they're not permitted to lead in Church, that they were first to be deceived! They're yet to still learn their lesson, and I'm wondering if they ever will!! Sad!!

frozen70:

True and negatively

So much so!! Too bad... but we still have to care for them!

frozen70:


Na so and it gives her mood swing steady

It's not easy... addiction affects victim and immediate family...

frozen70:


Anytime she falls sick thst she has to go to the hospital, follow her
While waiting for her medical test result to be out

Inform the Doctor about her consumption of those deadly foods

And tell Doctor to warn her to stay away from it if she wants to live healthy

I have an aunt that drinks cocacola like water, I warned her she didn't hear, her family warned her she did not take their words

I went to her family Doctor and reported it to him and ask him to warm her

The Doctor said he is tired of warning her and I ask the Doctor the way forward, he said she will reap it

Now she has Diabetics and her own is the bad one that she has been taught on how to inject herself daily morning and night

Its also affecting her seight as she uses eye drop that must be in the Fridge

Funny that she will end up burdening others with attending to her in everything!!

austinceasar:


Auto boss

Ok, have sent your number to my brother who needs it...will let you know if he's able.
Thanks

austinceasar:
Super sharp unregistered Peugeot 307 with untampered engine and gear, AC excellent just buy and drive without absolutely nothing to fix just for 2.3m net

Location: Karu owner’s house, Abuja.

DM or call 09038687770 to boo an inspection or for more enquiries

Manual or auto?

spencekat:
@gave him seat belt on the bench.

Seriously!!
Laugh don finish me here!!

Hardunmhi:
Pls I just wanna know if anything else is really wrong with me
I have been depressed for up to 7 months
Lost two businesses last year
My wife ran into huge debt which led to police arresting her and even she sold my things without my knowledge , every time when I ask her what was going on she would tell me nothing, I never knew she had sold many things I don’t use often in my house (big amount). Other things happen but in short it led to our divorce and she has my kid because my kid is only 1 year and 6 month.
Since like 7 months now I haven’t gotten a job or raise money for another business, it’s by Gods grace and family that I am surviving right now.
All these things makes me really depressed to extent that I don’t even go out no more because so many have even said it to my face that I was rich and now I have nothing, it’s really bitter. I have tried all my best to at least be happy and trust that every thing will fall in place again but it’s not possible for me to stop being depressed
Pls what can I do at this point, I really need help because I don’t want the devil to use me. I keep applying jobs and went for interviews but not successful , I tried to get along with one of my neighbor very beautiful girl , also got along with another girl thinking they would help me get out of this depression but No, I do not know what I can do again
Pls what can I do to help myself or how can you help me I don’t want to keep thinking too much like this , it’s very injurious to my health

I’m not looking for women , I’m only looking for a way to fight my depression while looking for a job. Talking to people can get me out of depression, I’ve tried to get closer to some older friends and friends I think can help me but nobody gives money or job easily at this time , everyone just fighting for themselves.

First, go and see your wife and baby, try to reconcile and repair your broken relationship. I don't agree that you're divorced, it's just the harsh circumstances that led to separation and being that she had series of issues with the police. It's not easy.
Then, since you already have a knack for business, why not seek a small loan and put hands together with your wife to set up a small business again, start small and watch it grow... forget about new relationship it won't work but lead to more heartbreak.
I'm sorry that this is all I can offer for now.
Cheers

Greenfaces:
Abi no be that dancing gofanor be this

Na him! Top to bottom he looks like a triangle!

talk2hb1:
So What Do I get in Return?

In return you will hear "I can't manage o, if you know you're not going to get it for me, why did you toast me in the first place?"

Demigod22:


Amen, thanks for your encouragement and understanding, it goes a long way for me.

We stand shoulder to shoulder, we see eye to eye!
Good luck sir.

Demigod22:


Thanks comrade. The society made us to internalize pains, swallow our anxieties, we are to hide our fears and worries.

There was a time I was trying to indirectly tell someone, the person laughed it off and said I should be grateful I got free pussy. Imagine such madness?

Can you imagine!!! Just hear that! So, free P has become antidote to pain and stress emotional or physical? That person has had a smooth ride to life so far, that's why.
Anyway, may negative vibes remain far from us, and if they come nearer, may our strength be strengthened to withstand! Amennnnn

Demigod22:
If this story is true, then you had been abused and it's a painful thing that our society neglect these cases of sexual abuse against the male child.

I am also a victim of this abuse but I never mentioned it to anyone. I still see the lady, she is married with two kids now. I allowed myself to heal from the trauma. I buried the memory within me, I don't let it affect my relationship with my society.

Strong man.
This is where mostly the African society has held up cos abuse is swallowed and people just grow out of it. In the "civilized" world, you would have become a serial killer or thief and blame the whole society for your situation!
Stay strong bro...our experience is not going to make us weak!

Stephen0mozzy:
Mehn....just mehn! Just the way I like my Egusi......before Naija spoilt

WOW.... same here! And that picture got the worms in my stomach gnashing their teeth!!! Wow!!

guobe:
A particular lady I know always posting men are scum on her WhatsApp status was recently impregnated and the guy refused to accept the pregnancy.
Prior to being impregnated, she was always posting men are scum on her WhatsApp status and I had actually met her and asked how what happened in her previous relationship that is making her to always post men are scum..she dint give me any reasonable answer but today she has been abandoned by one of the scum men.
Ladies should beware of what they post on their status as they are being watched as it can make or Mar them.

Scum cums in her!

OP, be there giving snap answers to each suggestions here. You're enjoying the situation. Continue...
If at your age you're behaving the way you're answering or commenting here then we will sit on the terraces and watch you when "the game" is up! Meanwhile, continue.... when rain begin fall blind man dey know!

Nicepoker:
She will accuse you of rape. Be joking with descendant of Jezebel.

I'm glad you said this to him. But I'm sure he will not hear...let him wait till it happens then we read part two of his story soon!

funkmrflexx:
I always heard that women were manipulative but I didn’t experience it until I got married.
My wife isn’t a bad person, in fact she’s a wonderful woman but I noticed that she develops this cold attitude towards me anytime I don’t dance to her tune most time

Recently she told me I’ve changed because I refused to go and pray with her and her mom and siblings. I told them I wasn’t interested in their prayers, it was new year eve. I told her I wasn’t going to cross over with her and her siblings , she was very angry.
She claims I’m too stubborn that I don’t listen to her , even when I try to tell her something new about my business , sometimes she will try to kill the idea and want me to do it her own way , so I stopped telling her about my business.

Another instance was when I told her that as a man I needed some time alone with my friends, because anytime I go out , she’s always calling me even when I’m in meetings. I got angry about and we quarreled about the issue . I work from home so I don’t go out a lot . I only go out maybe once throughout the week to either play football , hangout with friends but she’s always calling me , so after the quarrel she became very cold towards me .

There are other instances I can’t mention here where she has tried to label me bad because I didn’t agree to what she wants.

I now see that men who women label as good men are those that listen and act on their every whim but if you are a man who doesn’t like to listen to her and try do your own thing sometimes , you’ll become a bad person.


I Think this is how women are in general

Sir, you have only seen the top layer! More to come! I think women see husbands as puppets to dictate to! Only if you're very wealthy that they're kind of in agreement with you most times! But even that, before you offer help to anyone they feel they should like the person or else they won't agree!
Just be careful along the way sir!

CandidAdmin:
You people no go kill pesin ooo!

Which one be VAR?

But honestly women should learn to take better care of themselves.

Question of the day - If someone go down there, what do you think the outcome would be?

Wait ooo, how are you sure that's not the normal color?

Anyone goes down there
... Atomic explosion of infection!!

With all his philanthropy and soccer talent! Mane the man!!
Best wishes.
One of his last gasp goals made me jump and scream for joy one warm night in 2017!
My neighbors thought I had gone mad!!

Legend!! Player who developed football and gave meaning to technically good football!! What a loss!!

LUGBE:
Unnecessary

Says you?
They're welcoming an "industrialist, employer of labour and insurer/security of my life"!
If you understand my point....

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Better safe than sorry!

Stevenbright:


Yea, very true but I think he was too bland towards the lady to the extend of unsettling her.

You may be right! Anyway it's better he's bland than being exciting...it's saved him some suspicious looks and possible vawulence!

Stevenbright:


She might not mean "flirt" in the real sense of the word.

She probably meant appreciating her presence and work and once in a while having a few honest chatter with her that shows you recognize her importance in the house.

The same she who would have loved the idea will be the same who's going to say the idea was yours and you're planning to sleep with her!

Nebes:
I'll keep it short.

We've had series of useless and lazy househelps. They are a necessary evil for us given our busy schedules, kids and big house. Last year we got lucky to get Rukky, a beautiful and hardworking young woman. Rukky has just informed my wife that she is not returning after the Xmas holidays and my wife is now blaming me. Her reason is shocking to me and I need the opinion of married women and ladies in general.

My wife said that Rukky left because I made no attempts to flirt with her after 9 months. It was obvious Rukky liked me but I always acted like she was not there. How do I flirt with another woman under the same roof with my wife and kids? My wife believes that if I had given Rukky a little attention she would have stayed longer. She is just missing the girl's hardworking nature.

I truly don't understand this.

Lemme advice you like an experienced man I am.
Never allow women's blaming you for anything affect you. Had you attempted to smile at the maid even once, you would have taken enough flak to down you! Women's emotional turbulence isn't what you want to even begin to analyze.
Leave her to sweat out the work!

Antihypocrite:
Guys, what is the fun in clubbing abeg? Few days ago I went to a club. Here is what I observed

1. Some girls hustling to get hook up gigs.
2. Some guys trying so hard to out spend each other.
3. A new job industry has been created for hype men. Whatever that means.
4. How can the smoking of shi sha be legal?
5. You cannot have a good time in a club. It's too noisy
6. I will never go there again.



File photos used for illustration

Funny that I went for the first time in my late 30s on invitation...the noise, the smoke, the skimpy bikini dresses the showoffs and all that didn't impress me anyway because I was already used to those at teen parties!
Then I'm now living a quiet life, boring at a point....now in my early 50s I'm planning to go clubbing soon!
I'll find one for more mature people though... but once a while will go and have fun, but not getting dirty!

robosky02:




If you ask me
I will say no Nigerian number 10 has lived up to his potential


1. Erin Esin was a star that never shines because of youthful exuberance and women.


Even the late Stephen Keshi, also had this to say about him: “We had Etim Esin and relied so much on him. The team was built around him because he had so much skill and had so much to offer. So we said this is our “Diego Maradona” in Nigeria because he can do anything with the ball. It was like he was born with the ball.”

A player that was first and only to be compared to Maradona in Africa.
Even Ghanaian Abedi Pele was scared of him

But he never made it



2. Okocha too played so much to the gallery and never took the world by storm as he should and so was Never recognize as he should.
Ask Ronaldinho ., he feels Okocha problem was going to play in small clubs when the world was waiting.
Till date Ronaldinho a Balondor winners still adores Okocha, who did not even win one CAF best


3. Mikel Obi was another that was supposed to take the world by storm

When he started he was at same level with Messi sharing the podium.
Man United and Chelsea were fighting for his signature.
At the U20 he shines like a million Stars

But one career move turned him to just making back pass throughout his playing days. Hmmm

The world should have seen a trilogy of Messi Ronaldo and Mikel

Very good analysis! Most times Nigerian fans express more emotional support instead of correct comparison especially with established world-class players! So I agree with you