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DeepSight:
Israel of today is a European Caucasian settler colonial imperialist apartheid project.

And the Palestinian are the "real" owners? Tell us more.
What about Morocco, Libya, Algeria, Egypt, Tunisia, tell me those Arabs are the original dwellers therein....

Oakenshield:
don't mind him Bibi dey find him type 😂🤣😂

Guy is hiding behind keyboard and doesn't know what's happening on ground...
Everyone wants peace but not rejecting talks yet claiming victim...

zeestone99:
If you own a car then you should know there many reasons for such situations.
Are you married? Do you have kids? It's easier to talk about marriage as a single man or woman.

The man must have his reasons best known to him.

What would you have said if the wife have an accident with the car and injuring the kids.

The only reason a man will take his keys is if you are a stubborn person.

I use to be like that. I could drive but was not perfect, I drive my dad's car when I was still a sec school student decades ago, at first he warns me not to take the car and I still take it anyway and bring it back with small small scratches until I hit the corner of the fence while trying to enter the compound. I didn't pay a dime in maintenance or repair. Not to talk of this present age, I won't allow U drive until you are good enough or I have the funds for repair or pay people that you got Thier car damaged by hitting them. If he had such funds he won't be driving a corolla.

Sir your arguments are logical, but we all know that good or bad drivers still get involved in minor to major accidents but does that mean we shouldn't drive again? No, if you follow my statement, I blamed both sides but like I mentioned, IMHO, I'd rather my family are in a car than on okada...no, I never said the man is poor, we all have our priorities and I speak as a man with vast experience...
Whatever reason the man had for taking away the keeys we respect that but I still say, leaving the keys are better than going away with them.
Just my opinion...

Akhaz024:
Before you give your self false hope, what objective has Israel achieved in this war.
Hamas hasn't been defeated,
The hostages hasn't been released,
You are here giving yourself false hope.

Means you're on the side of Hamas and hoping you continue to maintain the false hope that the situation remains so the world keeps seeing Israel as "evil" while the truth remains hidden.
Continue...

HacheNoire:
The fake Jews will bomb anything and name it anything.

Let’s even imagine it’s a terror cell, shouldn’t they have disarmed Hamas yo see if kidnap victims are there.

These fake Jews always think we all don’t have brains to reason.

They probably must have bombed another shelter and call it a terror cell.

Caucasians claiming to be from the Middle East. As a matter of fact. They are not even creations of God

E dey pain you....obviously...kai, what do we offer you to ease your nerves?

Cum4me:
First of all a lot of women marry guys they don't love aren't sexually attracted to. They marry who's ready because they have limited time unlike men. Do you think it's easy for a woman to leave a good DK and live with 2min man all because of marriage. She tolerate sex with her husband because they need to have kid's. Just as a man prefer a woman who cooks very well same applies to the woman who's body has feel different DK. That's why you should try to marry a virgin or a lady with low body count.

Dateline 2012, a lady my younger brother kept telling her she's good wife material fell for him, though they didn't date, he didn't live in the place so only came to work and return to his station. One day he heard she was getting married so next time he was at the state he made it look like he was serious about her, she asked why he didn't say so earlier.
Long story short she confessed she was getting married to a man she didn't love. She offered herself to him saying she wanted to feel what it was like to make love to someone she loves before going to her new husband.
Well, the young man ran!!

zeestone99:
The way y'all are talking it's like there's no life for family without cars cos how would they save themselves. What if they didn't have the car, the children and wife will not live good life?

Hmmmm...have we said so?
So because he or she had lived without a car in the past, he or she should also not drive the car regularly? Then they should continue to just live without the car! What's the point buying one when you will then resort to using your feet or okada!!

Zonefree:
Let's be frank, for the man not to travel with the car means he's trying to save cost or the car is not in good shape at that moment.


It's easier for a woman to carry camera and make video to post online because no be she dey pay mechanic for car repairs.

Na mostly poor girls from broke home dey behave this way. Person wey dey trek over 15 kilometres during her primary school days is same person complaining about her children going to school with bike and taxi.



May we not get entangled with broke girls!

Give her a break, for me I see two things here, the man no matter the circumstances should leave the keys behind just in case. There may be a fire, or situation that warrant the car being moved to avoid loss. Warn the woman to make sure only moved in cases that's emergency. He may think he's saving cost but i don't know how much he will save if something happens while kids are riding on okada to school...safer in the car being driven by their mum if she's able to drive. Why risk your family on careless okada.
My first car was for wife to drive kids to school while I hustled to obtain mine.
For the woman, it's just embarrassing that she can post this about her husband. Even if she's from a broke background and never owned a car, levels have changed and she is posing and posting, unfortunately not in positive light if I may say.
So it's all about them, but to me, the man should leave keys behind anytime he's travelling, one day he might bite his tongue in regret.

mascot87:
I am happy Trump says if Hamas reject this deal, he would join Isreal to pound Gaza well. So Hamas should choose life or death. It's left to them now

The best part of the plan....those hamas guys are really something else!!!

cooltola:
What are the Arab Nations saying about the peace plan?

Only Turkish president made any significant speech...other Arab nations are under the pillow waiting for results! Timid bunch!!

Efuaye:
This was expected considering his unpopular war against Hamas in Gaza!
I wasn't expecting him to attend the UNGA this year.

For him to have attended is a brave act in the face of recent happenings! Besides, truth doesn't need followers as such...don't follow multitude...

SmartPolician:
Kanu didn't vanish. Some zealot soldiers visited his hometown and nearly killed him. He ran for his dear life. Some of us aren't as dumb as the vast majority of Nigerians.

"Majority of nigerians"?? Wow!! Well, some believed him when he called PMB a Sudanese clone, some even went ahead to destroy lives and property, called Nigeria a zoo etc...who were those guys?? The Majority of Nigerians?

Juliearth:
I think it's time for you to move out. This shouldn't be because you are scared, but for your safety. It is only a matter of time before your compound is raided by EFCC. The unfortunate thing is that you may be arrested alongside them and even though you may later be able to vindicate yourself, you will suffer trauma and would also lose money.

Very good advice!

yarimo:
International business man exporter and importer, Developer well done oo 🤣

Naaaaa...he went on a medical visa, so probably it's the "drugs" prescribed for him he was trying to sell!

jojothaiv:
I'm not even a fan of those imperialist and I'm glad some African leaders are standing tall against them, we need more of them for Africa to get it right and we will surely get it right.

As you will notice, the imperialist guys now look more confused than ever even in their own territory! Therefore we know they're blind, Africa needs its own form of leadership and governance

No event, no history to tell in the future...i vividly remember this story, and I'm very happy the outcome is good and gladdens my heart.
Best wishes for the future!

Kushites:
YOU ARE WRONG.

Africa has ALL IT TAKES to ''stand on its own''.

Africa ''STOOD ON ITS OWN'' and was PROSPEROUS before the colonial invasion.

We have NEVER needed ''white people'' to survive and thrive in Africa.

UNDERSTOOD?

It is the OTHER WAY ROUND.

It is the WEST that needs AFRICA to survive. It's why they built guns and firearms, and came here looking for people to enslave, to build their countries, and later came again to colonise, to loot our natural resources to build their industries, while selling you a fake white 'lord and saviour' to make you worship them as they rob you.

In fact, if CONGO ALONE decides to HALT exports of Cobalt, the ENTIRE world economy would crash the same week.

DRC is the ONLY COUNTRY ON EARTH with cobalt, an essential mineral used to build computer chips and conductors in every single computer.

Or should we talk about LITHIUM?

Do you know the world is relying on AFRICAN LITHIUM to power the new technological age?

Do you know that LITHIUM valued at over $12 TRILLION was discovered in just Nigeria alone?

Do you know that Elon Musk's TESLA came to NIGERIA begging to be sold raw lithium and Nigeria said NO?

That if you want Nigerian lithium you must build the Lithium battery factories IN NIGERIA?

This world is INTERRELATED.

Africa today is no more isolated. It has powerful allies like China, Russia, India, and Brazil.

Look, you Nigerian youths need to get rid of this idea that the west is the be-all-and-end-all of this world.

You are living in the past, and it's an embarrassment.

If tiny Burkina Faso can tell the west to get lost, AND NOTHING HAPPENS, and in fact their country is now developing faster, what are YOU afraid of as NIGERIA?

You have said it all....nothing more to add...it's time for Africa to rise once again...but definitely not with the kind of leaders currently ruling so many subsaharan nations!!

jojothaiv:
As it should be.

Africa should look within and leave those so called international bodies.

My thoughts as well...when push cones to shove, necessity becomes mother of invention! Those white supremacists with greed for other nation's properties never have good intentions...

zuby4real10:
The girl is heartless nd never loved him. In this economy she want him to buy expensive eatery food for 18 of them. He should quit that useless relationship ASAP.

She saw him like a trophy to be held up for her friends to see and be envious!! Oh, what a life!
More sensibly, the guy should have spoken out BEFORE they ordered the food...

grandstar:
All she needed to do was to beg the bobo that he shouldn't be angry.

Though I felt he should have knelt down for her, but considering all he has done for her, she should have been matured enough to accept the proposal anyway it went.

I mean, the car he gave her is grander than his own. That shop will also be bringing in some good kishi for her.

He should let her go. She is bad market.

You know poverty mentality, maybe it got into her head, no one in her family has "made" it like her or just trying to outdo a friend or family member cos she's fallen into some cool resources!
It happens...
Anyway, followup videos by the lady shows she's quite the vengeful type!!
Guy truly dodged a bullet

grandstar:
The girl is overdranatic.

Making a mountain out of a molehill.

Kaaaiiii....the guy dodged a bullet! Imagine this girl as wife and you're suddenly in a bad position...her mouth go drive man to depression!

madridguy:
I still don't get, fire alarm no dey the building? No emergency exits for the building? Are the security officers at the building no get small training on how to tackle fire outbreak before the arrival of the fire service....

Our problem in Nigeria is that we don't investigate incident like this properly and hold the culprits responsible for their negligence.

R. I. P to them all.

In fact complete negligence for simple safety rules and regulations is our normal. The result is what you see as the case of that outbreak with loss of life and property.
Prayers and claims of being children of God and use of charms, amulets and other religious memorabilia is what we trust to save us in situation of danger.
This careless attitude is in our homes, roads, waterways and Airways!
We have to change...

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rn6DO5vxqCs?si=jRtus9haNEBpEUfP

In an unusual twist, a man who could not be physically present due to distance reportedly sent his brother to propose to his girlfriend on his behalf.

The story has stirred conversations online about love, commitment, and unconventional relationships.

I suppose the guy himself lives on the moon!! What in heaven's name is this?? Smiles woll become grimaces soon going by today's trends!

Kalatium:
Thank you for your comment.

Yes, wives fight silent battles… but let’s not water down the storm husbands face.

I agree — women bleed silently too. But here’s the reality: while wives often carry invisible loads, husbands carry invisible loads with consequences that are far more brutal if they fail.

Why? Because society judges men not by their effort but by their results.
A struggling wife will often find sympathy, empathy, and help. A struggling husband? He’s ridiculed, shamed, or abandoned.

Let’s go point by point :

1️⃣ Pressure to Hold Everything Together
Yes, women juggle kids, meals, and home which is tough. But if a man fails to provide, the entire family’s survival is at stake. His “failure” becomes headlines in his home, community, and extended family.

2️⃣ Fear of Not Being Enough
Women fear desirability. Men fear uselessness. If his wallet dries up or his strength fades, society (and often his spouse) treats him as disposable.

3️⃣ Loneliness
Women crave affection and talks. Men crave respect. A wife can still be loved despite distance, but a husband stripped of respect feels like half a man.

4️⃣ Silent Exhaustion
Wives get exhausted. Husbands get exhausted too—but cannot stop. If a man “rests too much,” he’s branded lazy.

5️⃣ Emotional Starvation
Women long for appreciation. Men long for validation of their worth. That’s why losing a job or income drives so many men into depression or suicide.

6️⃣ Comparison Pressure
Yes, women compare themselves online. But men compare paychecks, careers, and property. And unlike women, their peers rarely comfort them—competition rules their world.

7️⃣ Invisible Sacrifices
True. But men also give up hobbies, passions, and even health chasing provision. He cannot boast of these sacrifices because “that’s what a man should do.”

8️⃣ Fear of Growing Apart
Wives fear fading romance. Husbands fear becoming irrelevant in their own homes—when kids, bills, and survival push them to the background.

9️⃣ Spiritual Weight
Women may feel they pray more. But men often feel guilty that even their prayers “don’t matter” because they lack results.

🔟 Silent Cries for Partnership
Women want partnership. Men want loyalty—even when they’re weak. A wife may carry extra weight for a season and still be celebrated. A husband who falters for a season risks being replaced.

The truth?
Both husbands and wives bleed silently. But the man’s bleeding is lonelier, less understood, and more fatal if ignored.

That’s why when men say they’re “rock solid,” they don’t mean they don’t suffer. They mean:
They must suffer in silence—because society has little patience for a “broken man.”

And that’s exactly why men’s battles deserve spotlight. Not to downplay women’s struggles, but to finally admit: husbands are bleeding, too—and often, they bleed to death.

Very balanced response...i like the fact that you agreed wives also have battles too....

Caaz:
Cheating men just got more than a trillion excuses to cheat.



Point one....pressure to provide,bills do not entirely falls on the men,most their wives support them financially by chesting some of the bills.
Women always bring something to the table,i m not Talking of Kids,but monetary assistance.

Reasons why men are always advised to marry women who have something doing.



I kinda disagree with number 3....A woman cannot take care of the home,house chores, the Kids,herself, businesses and the rest,yet the man still expect her to take care of him 100%.....

Haba is the woman a robot?
This here are the reason why women age quickly and looks older than their age.

Some men citing that as excuses to cheat.

Maybe you could read again and have better understanding, cos you just went off tangent!! Talk about the pressure a husband, father faces at home and offer support not flying off handle and talking about cheating! Pressure like these keeps you on your toes rather than thinking about cheating! Had OP said the kind of troubles that makes a man stay away from home it would have been a different perspective...please read again...thank you

PastorKosi:
It's also a good time to be aware not to use that word ''God said you are my wife''
Never lie in the name of God.
Come out plain if you want to ask that girl out more importantly, if you think she fits in as your wife. Blessings.

Thank you. God says HE WHO FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GOOD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOUR FROM THE LORD
So, it's up to men to find. No one should believe otherwise....never lie in the name of God

dollypi:
The parents had a dysfunctional marriage and the kids are replicating it unconsciously...those old marriages did not take the "till death do us part" section of their vows lightly...longevity in such a case is not a measure of quality.

You're absolutely right!!

RevenuesBoost:
It's really not cool that your sister had to go through this. I know you had the best intentions for her and easily trusted your friend to make a great husband.

It's a year already,
From the looks of things, there's already another lady in the picture.
Maybe the one the sisters recommend.

Hmmmm...it's his cuppa, he'll lay on the bed he made...

RevenuesBoost:
You're welcome 🤗

Why will a married man be seeking for his older sisters' consent before doing anything in his own marriage?

Who gave him this advice?

He is supposed to be seeking his wife's consent, not his sisters'

I still remember the advice my mother-in-law gave us, "there should be no third party in your marriage"
She said, we shouldn't involve her or any other person in our marital decisions.

Honestly the man's character beat me hollow! Very distressing. He was all lovey dovey before the marriage, immediately after he never discussed again, in her pregnant stage , no care, resorted to insult, always complaining she's not contributing to the house, meanwhile she set up a POS business yet he ran it aground. We later got to understand he wasn't receiving much from his workplace, this he never disclosed to the wife, so much of the time the sisters were giving him cash once a while so he loved to patronise them by being on their side...the situation is hell.
I can tell you the wife has moved to her parents for a year now and the young man hasn't made a move to go there to even plead a case or seek their return...

Angelfrost:
Chai... Na grown ass man dem tie like Okporoko fish for ground?!!

Even most lunatics never experience this kind treatment.


No wonder the Bible said "A good name is more valuable than rubies ".



This disgrace is eternal!

No girl in that town would want to marry him. He can't walk through the town and look straight up, can't enter any shop without being suspected...the list is endless...

LagosOrigin:
Na human being dem tie like goat dey wan roast

What a country

Come make him bend like banana...it's a serious matter!!

Kobojunkie:
So, you took a severally flawed guy expecting that by giving him your sister, somehow her presence would magically change him into a better individual?

Nothing changed him...no effort, no trying to muster even the slightest...just pride and extreme foolishness...honestly
I'd known him over 8 years before this and no indication of the characters he displayed. As the saying goes, unless you live with someone before u know who they really are