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Denique:


99thenemy, jawalis, ezzycarter...thank you guys for your frantic efforts in seeking to know my whereabout.
It's such an emotional feeling seeing all the love and concerns you guys have for me. It's indeed a community outchea
Well..my phone dropped and I couldn't access my account as a result, but I realized I was able to get by, and so I said to myself, "maybe this is the best time to take the social media break".

I did that for self reevaluation and mental checks too.

Sometimes, the drags can be tiring. A lot of people here take people's opinions too seriously and it can be exhausting having to explain things over and over again.

Anyways, I have decided to partially go the Nwa..amaikpe way.
I choose what to respond to. If they don't gerrit, let them forget abourit.

I also think it's about time the founder of this platform created a medium for top users to earn money. Don't get me wrong, it's so much fun being here as there's a whole lot to learn from like-minds and people above your intellect as well, but that does not negate the importance of users earning on here. It will in fact create competition that would result in educative contents and not booobs boooobs booooobs.

An OP would want to attract more readers to his thread to earn more thus leading to great contents. Users can also get paid by further promoting products on the platform just like Google AdSense.

In summary, I thank una for una care. Ya geh is baeck

Bottles on me, yo'







Empty bottles o

Wow. That was since 14th February. I wanted to celebrate Val then on nairaland with denique but it happened she wasn’t active and since then, hmmm. I’m glad to hear from you. You made me smile today since few days. Thanks for been here again as I sincerely missed your good contents. Your brilliant comments and opinions are top notch complemented with a good sense of humor.
Lots of nairaland known members went off without anyone hearing from them anymore and I think it calls for attention and that’s the little way we can be a brother’s keeper since it’s a faceless forum here. Like you said, Nairaland needs some serious improvement and not just this old face of many years. I wish the owner can do something and not just focus on the money, this place can be made active and more fun for users. People like Amakavula, Torie8, baddiefreak, sweetbuns, vanida, that book writer, I think his name is iClef and one other username he uses to do giveaway here. But it’s sad nobody is asking about the guy. He used to be a very active member who impact people with his token and fun. That Airforce man too has been offline, hoojay, there’s one lady that used to upload beauty peageant stuff, I forgot her name, she won a beauty parade contest probably in her state and that’s her profile picture here. Lots of users like that. But that for another day, My dear Denique, today is for you. I think I saw your Instagram (not too sure) cos I was lookin for you on Instagram and I saw that same picture on your nairaland page then on an account but I had to respect myself and my boundary. I really missed you denique. It’s been almost 9 months away. Welcome back.

More bottle for my queen, pls bar man.


My nairaland will be fun now.

Minime10:
Pls what is the meaning of buhari

FAILURE.

You confused me already. To me, you are not a orderly individual judging base on your write up. I really do not have an advice for you and I wish you the best in whatever you decide. I miss candidlady though.

I just miss vanilla4

wumi2017:
My baby, longtime,,,miss you

I miss you too my love. How’s everything going there

I’m still waiting on Wumi2017.

still waiting on candidlady. I’m hoping

Marpol2021:
you are not a football fan, then stop commenting on round leather game topic. Un grade to ps4 you will enjoy it

Thanks for the advice. I’d love to upgrade but my pocket is not bouyant

Godsage:
Just end it at "not really a football fan"

Offloading deadwoods is a proper manager move

Oh. I understand you now

gurunlocker:
You should have stopped at the first line

Stop what.

Not really a football fan, I only know Barcelona and other team’s player when I play my PS3. But however it is, putting up 3 players for sale at a time is a red flag. What’s really going in Barca.

santakris:
Still available?

Not anymore.

Candidlady:
if you had said a pet/book/massage/evap/snickers/guitar i wuda agreed with you. But getting a bf? Nah!! Time neva reach

You must really love legs. I just checked your profile and I like those snickers. But why don’t you want a boyfriend? C’mon na. Should I apply? What are the criteria’s?

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Ogbeni that Nd result nor go get you job of above 20 thousand naira salary....hotel receptionist, sale representative

Just drop that nd.......grab your phone......huzzle and keyboard

Bomb Brazil, Bomb singerpore.... or if you know say your mind nor dey keyboarding

Then take a loan buy corolla take dey do uber and car drop for a city where things for dey happen

I get a sure Brazilian woman. Any update boss? Cos dem no dey ever get raba.

Bruno3000:
You better wake up from thy slumber. You know nothing.

I thought I’m the only that sees his f**lishness so I just ignored. He never know anything. 80% of people on nairaland claiming money ritual ritual is nothing or like this one saying soap is nothing are ignorant. They know nothing about the hustle. I just pray niggas with correct soap no jam their local bank account. E go clear for their eyes in a second

Relocation sale.
Make me an offer for this single chair.
Location is Ilorin.

Lostchild:
I understand your good will for him.

From my life experiences, will tell you to let him continue in his greed.

If you continue yo try to help him, he will surely violate your good heart towards him.

Be wise when it comes to friendship.


I learnt this the hard way.

Wow. Thanks so much

mariahAngel:
That is some harsh truth.

I admitted it. But I don’t just want to leave him to himself. I feel for him

mariahAngel:
I believe one of the ways you can help him is to do better for yourself and become successful.
When he sees you've gone ahead to become successful, he'll have no choice but to question the decisions he's made and how far behind they've kept him.

Hmmm. Thanks for your inputs.

Kobojunkie:
There is nothing mean about any of what I stated there as it is reality that many self-appointed "saviours" fail to realize.
No matter how bad a shape it is in, it is his life, not yours and you have to continue to respect that boundary until he calls on you to intrude.

The best help I believe you can give him is to stop enabling him and remind him often that you are available to help him out when he is ready to let go of the delusion. Also, get his folks education on why they worsen the situation by turning a blind eye to his truth.

Thank you

Kobojunkie:
He is a complete individual like you and so he is not a toy for you to manipulate according to your own will. You need to learn and accept that as even in the state which he currently exists, you are meant to respect his rights an individual to make choices of his own for his own life, choices you obviously may not like.

The best you can do is wait for your friend to be ready for the help you feel he needs. When he is ready, please be sure to offer it to him. Else, back up and let him fall as long and as low as it will take for him to wake up from that delusion he currently riding.

This is mean but there is the truth in there. I know fully well that he has his life to live but I just feel for him. You need to see his life now, that’s why I’m wishing I can help him in anyway.

Lostchild:
jawalis

Have you ever ask why God always save some people and allow some to die and be lost?

You cannot help a person who don't need help

You cannot change a person who does not want changes.

Leave him alone and let him continue to destroy himself.

Focus on your life and future.

Thanks. But I’m wishing I can help him

wumi2017:
Hahahaha I'm here for you honey
I miss you too baby

Good morning my Angel

Maghan37:
Clown

No be my fault

Shellsploit:
Report him to the rehabilitation centre... Otherwise report him to SARs!

Sarz can’t help. And betting is legal.

sisisioge:
Hian! You are a gambler o. You dropped 2k into the account of person wey finish 20k overnight. Na wa for you o.

As for your friend, biko tell his folks so they would stop enabling him by not sending him money. May God help him.

Just in few minutes. I entered bathroom and came back to see 2k remaining 500

greenie77:
You need to start by informing his family about his addiction as you enable an addict when you cover up for him/her.

Not really covering up for him. But we don’t stay together. We lives in different street. I may not always be there with him

mariahAngel:
This isn't always easy.
If you leave them by themselves until they want to change, it might be too late by then.
Sometimes, you have to help them(addicts) see reason(s) to want to change.

Op, you have to find a way to get through to him.
Try not to leave him or give up on him.
He needs a friend now more than ever.


What causes addiction in gambling most times is the strong need to get back what one has lost. The strong need to get it right each time.

Tell him to forget about all he has lost.
He needs to let go to be free. Spiritually and mentally free.
Tell him every time he stakes, it is not just money he stakes, his future too.

I told him. Almost everything I see here. I’ve tried on him. I once reported to his elder bro. But he’ll tell his brother that he needs money for one important thing or the other. Like Material in school or something

Let’s assume my friend’s name to be T. I’ve noticed this in him since 2019 but I thought he was doing it then due to circumstances our location (where there are lots of students). I visited him on Monday till today and this guy does not even have a sofa in his room, no TV, his laptop is gone, I’m not really happy with the situation I met him and I’m very sure he got money from his parents often as last born even from his elders. While I was with him, his bro sent him 20k which we were both happy money don land. But just the next morning, my friend account was empty. I couldn’t believe my eyes until I checked his betting profile and I saw his stakes. He has used all the money to book odds, virtual games and he lost all. I couldn’t control my annoyance and we fought over it. Yesterday morning when we got up, I dropped 2k in his account so we can get some veggies and cook, while I was in the bathroom, he’d already placed 1,250 virtual game thinking he’ll recover it before I’m out of the bathroom. He lost the money and we were left with 500. These amongst other were my encounter with him and I’ll be leaving tomorrow evening. Pls what can I do to help him. I feel bad seeing him addicted to this and he wouldn’t listen. Those who were able to overcome the betting addiction should pls help.

Before you continue reading my comment. Just have it in mind that I have nothing to contribute to this topic.

So you’d better stop reading from here.


Fine, if you insist on reading, I just want to check Where’s wumi2017. I miss my baby today. I read where Charles was destroying his friend’s car cos of his daughter. Damn. No one has ever challenged me since I’ve been going out with my sweetheart. Pls come home soon o. Missing you here and it’s getting boring

wumi2017:
am here for you baby

Love of my life. How’s your day. I missed you so much

Waiting for wumi2017