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this woman fine oooooo

Ojuchwu was I am sorry to say an idyot Never I mean Never fight a war you cannot win...He should have used the threat of war to improve the lot of his people but not war itself.

HABA MY BEAUTIFUL TOWN

debayun:
lmao lwkmd FP tins abeg

cc seun
obinoscopy
i no sabi any mod again.

I know but they wont

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LAlrmCfY2Zw

mstik:
Oga, in all honesty, I think you're making a mountain out of a mole hill
just because team Lai skinned people seem to be more preferred, it doesn't mean that in the future, all elites who wield...
How many light skinned politicians can you Count?..

very few but i can think of quite a number of politicians who are married to mixed women or very light skin women.. and in future I say 30 years you will start seeing what I mean.

mstik:
Which means that these 'male celebs' have a preference for light skint babes and nothing can be done bout that

So I am asking do you think in the future the elites who will wield all of the power in Nigeria will be almost a separate race from the rest of the population.

mstik:
Don't get it twisted..
I'm very positive that the posts made on NL in general do not hit front page because of skin color or what not...
Lai skinned people seem to be preferred or more favored in general..
that's why there's a prevalence of white washed hoes these days
#okbye#

I never said that NL post lighskin people on front page, what I said was that Nl post photos of couples on the front page and I happen to notice that alot of the black male celebs were in toe with women of a lighter complexion which got me pondering.

bogzyboy:
How will this change the fact that blacks cant govern themselves? Always making up excuses!. So because Haiti's best leaders were killed 2 centuries ago, That is why the country is a basket case after over 200 years of independence? White liberal scholars are the greatest problem of black people. They always write nonsense to make it look as if things were bad because they are imperialist! (white guilt) Does this epistle change the fact that few Haiti's officials have millions of loot dollars abroad? Isnt that the same case for every shitty black country?

Spare us the rubbish please!

Are you saying that there was no economic plans to keep Africa, South East Asia and South America economically repressed? My friend please go and do your research look up the Kissenger economic plan. I don't think you understand the people that effect the flow of capital around the world.

20% of the worlds population uses up to 80% of the available resources in the world, imagine if half the 3rd world population was suddenly transposed into the 1st world. It would be an economic disaster, prices would climb exponentially, rioting for food clothing oil and water would crumble the established European states.

Africa need to be poor for the west to be rich. No one is absolving Africans of their share of the blame, it was our leaders that sold us for 30 pieces of silver but to call western interference in black nations as rubbish shows a profound feat of ignorance.

This may sound crazy and ridiculous but with the NLand mods incessant posting of Famous/Rich couples on the front page I have notice that a lot of these famous men have either white, mixed or extremely light skin as partners, wives and gfs. And it got me wondering will a new lighter pigmented elite be created in the very near future? Surely the lighskin progeny of these relationship will seek wealthy and socially acceptable partners who will more than likely be paupau in complexion.

As it says in the book of Ecclesiastes "There is nothing new under the sun." This is hardly the first time in history that such a phenomenon will be occurring. Through out the vast histories of China and India the same sequence of wealth, power and complexion has been repeated so many times that it is now an intrinsic part of their modern society. In Europe it was very prevalent, lighter skin was seen as a sign of wealth and prestige while darker tones were associated with labour and peasantry.

So is Nigeria in the future going to be economically divided along pigment lines, like the inhabitants of the island of Hispaniola? I think so but only time will tell.

Nimblemind:
Interestingly the north that has almost always been tagged as backwards shows how much the political atmosphere is developing.... Now its left to her to set a good standard so other women can carry on!

Taraba is not Core North though

mikolo80:
AHH WHEN IT BREAKS DOW
N WE WILLTHINK OF SOMETHING IS NOT A NIGERIAN THING TO SAY
IT'S A HUMAN THING

WE WILL FIX IT WHEN IT BREAKS DOWN IS ALSO NOT EXCLUSIVE TO NIGERIA(LACK OF MAINTENANCE CULTURE)
IT'S WHAT YOU SAY WHEN YOU BELIEVE THAT THE SOLUTION IS BEYOND YOU(EARTHQUAKE,VOLCANO ETC)

LLIKE LACK OF MAINTENANCE CULTURE WORLD PROBLEMS(UNEMPLOYMENT,POLLUTION,ALLEGED GLOBAL WARMING ET AL) ARE PUBLIC BADS
NOT NIGERIAN BADS AND SO NOBODY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM EVEN THOUGH WE ARE ALL RESPONSIBLE FOR THEM
SO NO SOLUTIONS WILL EVER COME FORTH UNTIL THEY ARE EITHER PROFITABLE OR COLLECTIVELY COSTLY(WHEN THE WORLD CATCH FIRE )
SO STOP THE SANCTIMONIOUSITY,IT DOESN'T WORK AND IT DOESN'T SUIT YOU EITHER. MAN UP AND EMBRACE THE SUCK AND STOP WHININIG LIKE A LITTLE GIRL

First I was Ranting now I am Whining like a Little Girl

I rarely say this to people but you are an I.diot. What are you trying to prove? I raise a relevant global issue, you give a frivolous comment and then I am being sanctimonious Haba. There is no need to be a rebel without a cause if you have nothing to contribute to discussion dont comment.

shevi4mb:
And some silly people will believe and post in on nairaland to add what to their life huh?
If do not understand other people's doctrine, u dnt make a fun out of it. When it cums to faith, people are ready to die for it, especially wen dat faith talks about the hereafter. Contrary to the islamic doctrine, the christian talk more about prosperity than the life after.
Do me a favour and read the English transliteration of Surat an-nisa (surat 4 woman) and see how diciplined islam is when it comes to women and sexuality. These extrimist, or let me call them lost souls, quoting quran stupidly aren't in anyway following the doctrines of islam. So, wot some set of stupid idiota claim to blieve in, and you then posted to nairaland to form wotever i dnt undrstnd. Everyone have the right for one faith or the other....so pls, for the fact that they claim a misinterpreted verse to support their nonsense doesn't mean every muslim is like dat.
NB : pls read the history of slavery and how the prophet systematically tried to eradicate it. The holier wotever u say isn't my problem, jst because u'r in saudi arabia doesn't mean u'r holy. We all have prostitute everywhere and some hypocrites get involved in this shits....its
EVERYWHERE

I never said any where that mainstream muslims believe in what these lost sould believe. I even expressly differentiated but you are just looking for fight. Its a forum to educate people and I am educating people who may sympathize with ISIS and Boko Haram the absurdity of these organizations views.

My dear please stop peddling this non-sense if our women were meant to have indian hair it would be growing out of their head.

[size=25pt]WOMEN YOU ARE SEXY AS YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/size]

shevi4mb:
First confirm what that silly op wrote before wasting your time to comment.....even the worst pagan can never have this as a sexual blieve.

why am I stupid? Because what I have written is true? Some silly pagans might have these sexual beliefs just like some silly muslims do too. If you don't know black people are still being enslaved by your Arab holier than thou heroes for sexual gratification and they use the Koran to justify it.

mikolo80:
YOUR WHOLE 'WOE IS ME' rant(albeit copy and pasted) and attacking my nigeriansess instead of suggesting...scratch that(SINCE YOU HAve already)...instead of implementing said solutions. ANYWAY SIMPLY EMPOWERING PPL TO IMPROVE THEir productivity will lead to drops in birth rates while recycling will handle most of the rest. The earth has quite a bit more carrying capacity than we give it credit for.

What can be described as ranting in anything I have posted? I read an interesting pictorial on what I think is an important issue and decided to share it on a forum. What is bad here? and your first suggestion (I dont know whether you were joking) was a typical Nigerian thing to say. Thats the attitude we have to maintenance of infrastructure as well "AHH We Will Fix It When It Breaks Down" Am I lying?? Look where that has gotten us.

misspatsy:
My hair is becomes dry 2 months after I relax it so I will only b sentencing myself 2 death by hair combing if I go natural.I don't have time to comb and style everyday of my life.OP leave we women to our problem,its our headache so I don't think we need the advice or are you the stingy type?

Why Relax it in the first place

Stingy How??

We all know that conventional Islam states that a man can have up to 4 wives, BOKO HARAM having pledged to ISIS have taken it a step further here are some of their beliefs on sexual matters.

1) Captive Women (Non Muslim)

Can be raped and or married on a permanent or temporary bases, if temporary after sexual exploitation can be sold to another only if not pregnant by the first lover.

Justified by by quoting Quran 23:5-6 : It is permissible to have sexual intercourse with the female captive. Allah the almighty said: '[Successful are the believers] who guard their chastity, except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, for then they are free from blame. Thus enslaving the families of the kuffar and taking their women as concubines is a firmly established aspect of the Sharia's that if one were to deny or mock, he would be denying or mocking the verses of the Qur'an and the narration of the Prophet ... and thereby apostatizing from Islam.

2) Sexual Jihad

Sexual jihad (jihad al-nikah) is a controversial practice of women within some Wahhabist groups allegedly offering themselves in sexual comfort roles to fighters for the establishment of Islamic rule.

In April 2013, the Grand Mufti of Tunisia, Othman Battikh, alleged that Tunisian girls were visiting Syria to take part in a sexual jihad. The Tunisian Jihadist Abu Qusay who was interviewed by Tunisian TV after his return from Syria confirmed that stories about "Jihad al-Nikah" or what is also referred to as "sexual Jihad" are not just a rumors but are real, as he himself had experienced it firsthand.

In December 2014 the Iraqi Ministry of Human Rights announced that ISIS had killed over 150 women and girls in Fallujah who refused to participate in sexual jihad.

3) Anal Jihad (omo why you the ginja)

Anal jihad is a nickname for male-male anal sex in the context of armed jihad. It refers to a rumour – originating from an article by Islamic scholar Amar Ali Hassan and echoed by Egyptian activist preacher Mazhar Shahin – that Muslim Brotherhood mullahs have explicitly allowed jihadis to engage in male homosexual intercourse when they are away from home and cannot have sex with their wives.

The phrase has also been used to designate the alleged practice of anal intercourse by suicide bombers in order to widen the anal opening to make room for explosives.

sinizia:
I think I get your point now. The craze for it and looking down on their natural hair is what makes you angry. Yeah, I feel it's bad. That woman has succeeded in making those children hate their natural hair for life. That's bad. That act is reprehensible. I don't support it. Children of that age should be allowed to enjoy their natural hair and love it too.

Thank you...this is not about me dumping on black women but I just want to get this non-sense out of our collective mentality that our hair is not good enough. Like anything trending it should start with Nollywood, Magazines Fashion shows and Beauty pageants. I want to see more actresses rocking their natural shi.t, I want to see a Miss Nigeria with braid, twist or any other indigenous hairstyle we have in this country.

Sorry if I insulted you in the course of this discourse, it is just something that annoys me wholeheartedly, if the balance could be shifted to 60% natuaral hair and 40% weave you would not hear pimm from me but now its 90 % weave all the time for those that can afford it.

Spread the Good news

sinizia:
Jbenue, you gave your reasons why humans put on artificial clothes on their natural body, but refuse to buy the reasons why women put on artificial hair on their natural hair. Nice judgment right there.

Grow your hair like a woman for 8 years on just shear butter and come back here to give testimony how EASY it was.

What Reason Do they have OK Its Easier! can be conceded but thats not the main reason when I talk to black girls 99% their first reaction is it looks better then I point out how s.tupid and idiotic that sounds and they change to its easier to manage. FACT

Go out and try it and see for yourself and watch how they treat girls that have natural hair. It didnt used to bother me that they wore weave before, honestly I found it a turn-off but it didn't bother me until I saw how girls who had their natural hair were being treated by guys and girls. Then in African shops hear in Europe I paid more Attention to what Mothers wear telling their children as young as 5.

One black woman came in as I was getting my hair cut with 2 mixed children one was a girls and she came to get her and her daughters no more than 5 weave fixed because she wanted her to look more beautiful, thats her words. The Husband came in he was white and the look of disgust on his face was plain, the thing on the womans head was faker than monopoly money and was so shinny. Disgusting and the Husband was like I dont want my daughter to be walking around town with something that looks that fake, he almost refused to pay for it.
I was just their shaking my head and saying BLACK PEOPLE.

sinizia:
@ embolden, who are you to reject what the women feel? Are you their parents or what? And if a lady's hair feels bad and she decides to go for weave, who are you to tell her what to do? Is it not her choice? Doesn't she feel good with it? That you don't buy the crap, doesn't make your opinion the law. That's for you. You ain't a woman. And you can't tell another woman what to do with her hair.

sinizia post=32488881:
Secondly, I never said weave are favorable to a Black woman's hair. Can you point it out because I hate lies. The reasons I gave for Black women wearing weaves and their natural hair is what other people echoed and I'll quote my post and that of others and pray that you don't twist my words as usual.
Unfortunately, you don't buy the reasons we gave, neither do I buy your reasons too. Let's leave it at that.

Who am I? I am a person with a Opinion, just like you, People go about bleaching their skin to make themselves feel better, is it wrong for me to speak against that as well. You are getting very agitated I never said my word was Law. Point remains to go an shun your own Natural hair for something that is of Another race is ludicrous, no matter how you package it. In homes all over Nigeria Mothers are reinforcing a message to their children that weave is better than their own hair.

And I think you did allude to weave being more favorable I quote "You can't choose the Western acts that favours you, and condemn the acts that favours the women."

Stand by your word sir don't run away from them

vivaciousvivi:
Bravo!
Very well argued. Thank you for sticking up for some of us.
Not every black woman who wears a weave suffers from the almighty general disease called "inferiority complex"

Why would you say that with a head full of weave, the truth hurts but you are beautiful with your natural hair babe, I can just imagine you now hmmmmmmmmmmmmm nice.

ireneidiva:
Is that the point? The point is white people wear weaves! They wear afro and we know afro is of african origin. So what more do you want to hear

Show me where you will see 10 white women and 8 of them will wear and afro wig please post it and give me the link. You will never see that non sense because they are proud of their natural God given hair. One thing they are not proud of is their skin for some reason they can spend $$$ on fake tan sun beds and all sorts of nonsense.

sinizia:
When you answer my own questions correctly up there, and start practicing what you preach, then I'll answer you.

Clothes as far as I can tell came about from a need for shelter from the harsh weather conditions i.e. thick fur in cold climes and loose garbs in hot dry climes. Humans have not fur so in most cases we must covers ourselves from the external weather. Weave wearing for the most part is borne out of a deep sense of my hair looks bad like you have alluded to throughout your comments. And I don't buy that its difficult to maintain crap it takes 15 mins in the morning max and 15 mins at night max. People can spend 30 mins on applying make up and shit but can't do that?

Now answer my question No dodging!

Why do you feel a weave is favorable to a black woman natural hair? cause thats what you have been alluding to so far in this thread.

mikolo80:
AND WHAT IS YOUR SOLUTION MR ATYPICAL NIGERIAN.BURYING YOUR HEAD IN THE SAND IN HIGH SOUNDING HYSTERIA?

In Nigeria My advice would be for Goverment to put in place a program that encourages smaller families, we are reproducing too quickly which is not sustainable for our economy or environment. And also we need to promote engineering and sciences in our schools to develop clear and more sustainable forms of energy and agriculture ( This one will be difficult due to a lack of capital) but as an alternative develop mass transit and discourage private car ownership. lastly we need to get into the habit of recycling both organic and in-organic waste.

Please elaborate how I am burying my head in the sand.....

ireneidiva:
Bro, white people wear weaves. Does it mean they feel inferior? Blacks wear weaves, braids, natural hair etc. It doesn't make anyone inferior. Its just about choice. We wear weaves and braids most times as protective styling to prevent our hair from breaking. So get your facts rights before coming here to rant. How does wearing a weave make someone feel better about herself especially when it is obvious that it is a weave? Sometimes, I don't know how people think. This your 'beautiful' chimamanda doesn't move around with her natural hair all the time you know? She installs braids to look different most times. Its so irritating to hear that I feel inferior because I'm wearing brazillian hair. *hiss

Show me those white people wearing Nigerian hair or African Hair and I'll take that point into consideration.

sinizia:
You came into this world nàked, right? So I'm asking you to practice what you preach and start walking around nàked with no clothes on (non-natural material that didn't accompany your skin), before we can debate.

Keep dodging...... Answer simply question haba

mikolo80:
SO DO WE GO BACK TO CAVE DWELLING
DON'T WORRY WHEN IT GETS AWRY WE'LL THINK OF SOMETHING

Typical Nigerian Response we are already there in Nigeria look at your streets and mangroves and you haven't been able to think of anything.

Acheme86:
Educative & informing...

Im glad you think so

@ sinizia

Just answer me this question from your earlier assertion I think I know the answer but want to see it clearly.

Why do you feel a weave is favorable to a black woman natural hair?

sinizia:
Yeah, your fore-fathers around 500BC adorned themselves with Armani jeans, right?

The shea butter you are ranting about, who made it? Is it not processed by humans from God's created raw materials? The weave-on you are yapping about, is it not made by man from God's created materials? Are you this dumb? Did God create a car? Didn't he create the raw materials through which man created a car? Is a car now bad? From your logic, a car is fake, so you are a hypocrite for riding it. Damn!! Your stupidity is alarming!!

Chimamanda the most beautiful woman in Nigeria? I can confirm you're inherently blind. And who the fúck made Chimamanda the spokeswoman of all the humans in the world? Why should her opinion determine how I live my life? Is she God? GTFOH!!

They say when a foool is ranting don't rant along with them lest passersby take you for brothers.

1) Yes my forefathers wore dolce and gabana as well
2) Again you are comparing something from your body to something material. But in your head you have made a valid point- this your logic "Illness is from your body so if you treat it with medicine which is man made, you are a hypocrite" if you can't comprehend they point I am trying to convey I can't help you.
3) I said she is one of the most beautiful women in Nigeria and if you cant see that then again no point ranting and I never made her spokeswoman for humanity. But some people like to argue for argument sake especially when they see that the person they are Ranting at is making good points somewhat like Orubebe.

If you like go tell you daughter to go put on a plastic wig on her head because it makes her "beautiful" and that her natural hair is something that has to be improved upon, give her an inferiority complex and tell her she is not good enough as she is.

sinizia:
Can you compare your afro with Chimamanda's hair? You think Chimamanda doesn't apply relaxer but coconut oil in her hair? And she told you this? You'd consider comedy as a career. By the way, why are you still wearing Western-sewn clothes on your body? Why not stick to the leaves our forefathers wore and showcase your natural beauty?

Maybe your fore-fathers wore leaves but mine certainly did not again you sound stupyd comparing something material man made things to intrinsic God made attributes.

And no I didn't go to college to be comedian but I do consider myself humorous . Here is a candid interview given by one of the most beautiful women in Nigeria on the subject.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zS5VEZCpyqc

sassychic:
This topic is baseless.
There is nothing I hate hearing more than 'Weaves symbolise inferiority complex'
It doesn't.
I'm personally not a huge fan of weaves, as I love my hair, but there are times when taking care of your hair everyday becomes stressful both to you and your hair.
Its not about wanting to look like others (what?!) It's about doing what you want and what you feel like doing without listening to critics like you.
If I feel like I'll rock my natural hair and if I don't, you can't force you opinion on me

I'm just trying to correct the mentality that weaves are wrong.

If it were only that I don't think I would have a Problem with it. But don't lie there is a wide spread perception in the black population that weave is classier a sign of affluence and beauty. I remember watching on CNN a discussion on weave-on in Nigeria and they interviewed several women one was a lawyers and she said as a professional wearing your natural hair is a no no as you look unkept, dirty and poor and weave was a sign of upwards mobility. I was so embarrassed to hear such non sense being broadcast to the world. In no other race do people wear the hair or imitation of another races hair and feel proud of it.