₦airaland Forum

Lexusgs430:
So we return back full circle.........

goodmorning40:
When you get to that point of spending that kind of money on a phone you won't remember rational justification before buying it. You will just buy it wait until you get there

IamaNigerianGuy:
I'm single so I can speak to this.

I think the situation is more complex than you give credit. There are few opportunities to meet people nowadays. Especially if you have an occupation. In addition, meeting them is one thing; matching for shared interest, religion, age, socioeconomic class, intelligence and god-knows-what-other factors is another.

One other related point : by the time a Nigerian guy is ready to marry he is in his 30s or 40s and most find that younger women (mid 20s) are inconsistent, childish and time wasters.

We need to embrace singles clubs and bars in Nigeria or some such arrangement.

Duggedised12:
alright

Blackmiserable:
There's no means for anonymous folks who have never seen you to size you up - I mean, on the INTERNET, maybe, just maybe, you want to write a very vivid description with a link to one of your social media account (after all, many people dey see your face since 1900 so wtf), if you're really serious. If you can't do both, do one. I have actually wooed a woman I stumbled on Reddit just because she admitted to being a virgin, so you never know, people are just different.

Even though females should be the object of desire, there's certainly and absolutely nothing wrong in pursuing men for marriage. God made marriage for you so if the mountain wouldn't come to Muhammad; Muhammad can go to the mountain. If I have wares like Chicken for sale, it is in my best interest to put out "Chicken is sold here" signpost.

You want a husband and he's not forthcoming; you can make that clear especially through means like the web and this Nigerian forum where we have Nigerians from all nooks and cranny, without sounding weird. Believe me dear sister even if you're as ugly as shit, there's a man for you. You may want to say: "If you want sex or any type of intimacy (before the relationship gains any momentum) before we get married then I am not for you; I am not going to give my body until we're married."

Men want to be attracted to their spouse and beauty, as you know, is relative. Let's see your pics and share your email address, too, your husband is around the corner. But on a serious note, why are you still unmarried? Are you that ugly? Aren't there unmarried bachelors in your church? Do you go to church? Are you hot tempered or... because there's hardly any woman who doesn't get wooed on a regular basis. Even if it's so bad, at least once a month or two. Are you saying all your suitors just want your body and aren't really interested in marriage? Maybe you want to change location or city.

If you are beautiful, I CAN GET YOU A SPOUSE ON REDDIT WHO WOULD FLY ALL THE WAY FROM OBODO OYIBO FOR MARRIAGE. WHY? THE DATING SUBREDDITS THERE ARE HEAVILY SKEWED, ALTHOUGH MANY JUST WANT A FLING, YOU'D STILL SEE THAT MANY WHITE GUYS THERE THAT WOULD RUSH YOU LIKE INDOMIE.

Remember your servant! God don butter your bread I swear!

Duggedised12:
says me, i have given my reasons and i don't owe you or any one else an explanation for it. to each his own, if you don't like it,scroll and pass. Like you rightly said,no one owes me or you anything.

And thanks for the advice ,i have set things in motion.happy Sunday.

Duggedised12:
First , thank you nairaland for providing an avenue for me to bare my mind.

I wish I could write a sign board in from of my house that says "husband wanted apply within" without getting judged since the pressure of marriage has become too much to bear.

I wish those who see me and make remarks like "when is she settling down sef?" Will not lump me among the "choosy spinster" not knowing I wasted a good number of my years in a long term relationship with promise of marriage only to be disappointed at the end.

I wish I could put "single and searching " on social media and not have married men looking for free cookie wanting to cash in assuming I am desperate and play boys playing the part of serious bachelor just to get free cookie.

Maybe its a curse cos I heard late marriage runs in some families, maybe I am just unlucky ,maybe its something I am not doing right ,maybe just maybe .

I wish I could ask a guy out and he will take me serious and not think I brought him my cookie for free.

Dem say boyfriend full everywhere na husband scarce ,but thats because one guy can be dating 5 ladies with all the ladies thinking they have a boyfriend until he decides to settle down.

Duggedised12:
The family budget of any marriage should be based on the income of the husband ,what a woman brings to the table should be to support.That is why women are called "helpers".

Osagyefo98:
This Governor matawalle will end badly

firfinch:
You need to start watching Investigative Discovery Channel ID. It will open your eyes to things that seemed unexplainable.

NB: Please be warned that you may experience sleepless nights or become fearful when watching this channel, however you may start watching during daytime. It will help you to be humble as you live trouble free life.

goat22:
Hello sir you're wrong, it isn't 32, it's actually 32.3 as the enamel ratio is implemented in kasios teeth hypothetical submission.

stella1997:
It's a gate so probably someone inside the house snapped him from the inside

DivineKayy:
If you are in for Access bank graduate trainee programme... Go for it. The UBA job should be 80k job.

FOWOSHERE01:
How you take know?

pocohantas:
People are calling them "legend" kwa.

Baba Fryo, Jazzman Olofin, Azadus and the likes are all legend (not the stout) niyen.

Daddy Shokey is lucky he started licking asses of new generation artist and peeps like E-money. Music wasn't profitable in their time.

RIP to him once again.

ednut1:
nope. The idea is to use the money for those affected. If no accidents u don't get anything. I claimed in 2015 and 2017. 2016 and last year i no claim. Even if my car catch fire or is totalled my mind is at rest. We are just a stupid set of people. Abroad its compulsory

stella1997:
What will they tell God?

ednut1:
yearly payment. I paid 45k last year on a car of about 1.5m. Total claims was 85k to fix and paint the side and bumper

ednut1:
yearly payment. I paid 45k last year on a car of about 1.5m. Total claims was 85k to fix and paint the side and bumper

ednut1:
You dey abuse engineers as half backed. But how can a graduate not insure a vehicle he took with loan. Insurance for no pass 50k . Sad one.

otipoju:
Tacha needs help. But she is will be the last one to admit. Let her buy and constantly use deodorising soap.

If she was amiable and not boastful, dem for no use her liability to abuse am.

Life has a way of humbling proud people.

emkz:
I recall six years ago, a short stocky woman with essential curves took me out and invited me to her house after lunch. I waived it off.

The next day, she wore a transparent dress to our shared office and I could see how her ass covered her red pant. My blood ran cold and I started speaking in tongues. I lost self control momentarily. I like women, but it's not fun when it's too easy.

Wickedfacts:
Osita Chidoka is not in a position to comment.

He is a political nonentity whose highest achievement is being Kanu's driver.

He only became FRSC Corps Marshall because he married Ojo Madueke's daughter. Ojo Madueke was the Minister of Transport at that time. Subsequently, he was Minister of Aviation where he showed how utterly useless he is.

Since Ojo Madueke died, Chidoka has been a political nonentity and orphan. He's usually engaged by politicians to do the dirtiest jobs they don't want their children or maids to do.

He is a nepotistic supporter of treason and a man whose only achievement in life is being an houseboy to his father in law.

oxypress:
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Nlanders should do their normal fundraising.
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