₦airaland Forum

kulyie: [b]jesus christ! How vindictive and judgemental can you get,did you read the thread properly at all.nawa for you o.so assuming your wife's brother was a junky and on weeds you will leave with him peacefully,no put yourself in the situation.if at all i am to blame the woman,i will blame her for not doing her homework well by making proper investigation of the type of home she is coming into and the kind of characters her husbands siblings have so that she can be ready for the best and worst of it.anyway poster what you did wasnt wrong but if i were in your shoes,ill do it tactically knowing inlaws craps can be a very dicey issue.

you know what i will do,i will form fake friendship with him even though i hate him and cant stand him.i will smile just to get him to be relaxed and friendly, once i achieve that,i will either build a small bungalow for him if i can afford it or rent a house for him and furnish it and stylishly give him as a present telling him how happy you are to have him as a bro inlaw and the way to thank him or show your love to him was by getting this house for him.you will stroke his stupid ego wel and prepare food for him if possible and that way you have stylishly chased him out of your house so that he will have his space and privacy to smoke himself to death,whats my buisness if he does anyway,as long as my things are safe,my baby does not get potentially abused by a crazy bro inlaw and i have my space.

babes,i will do and employ any type of scheme to protect my boundary.infact i will get that house in an area that is so far from my house that he will think twice before comming to our house.abi if i stay in aba and i rent a house for him somewhere in nasarawa and be sending money for house rent for him,will he be intrested in coming to constitute himself as a nuisance in my house.that is waht is called the guise and schemes of a woman,use them! Issh[/b]

Sugarbear007: Which kind link u de find:/

jumman: My husband insists that his cousins must live with us permanently in our matrimonial home and i do not want themm to live with us. How do u i convince him to change his mind. We are newly weds and i dont think we need them to live with us, besides i hvae seen cases where they cause problems in the family. Ur comments are welcome.

jumman: I [size=20pt]recently[/size] told my husband's cousin to leave my matrimonial home and my husband went to report me to my mum and sister. Did i do wrong? This cousin of his smokes weed , steals and has other bad characters you can think of, even my father in law tolds us not to leave our 13 months old baby girl with him, he usually comes to our house weekends which am okay with only for him to come this time around saying he will be staying for a long while. I just couldnt stand him staying with us, i told my husband but he refused to do anything, so i went ahead to tell the boy to leave. I just want to knw if i did the right thing . Make una no yab me oooooooooo.

jumman: My husband insists that his cousins must live with us permanently in our matrimonial home and i do not want themm to live with us. How do u i convince him to change his mind. We are newly weds and i dont think we need them to live with us, besides i hvae seen cases where they cause problems in the family. Ur comments are welcome.

jumman: I [size=20pt]recently[/size] told my husband's cousin to leave my matrimonial home and my husband went to report me to my mum and sister. Did i do wrong? This cousin of his smokes weed , steals and has other bad characters you can think of, even my father in law tolds us not to leave our 13 months old baby girl with him, he usually comes to our house weekends which am okay with only for him to come this time around saying he will be staying for a long while. I just couldnt stand him staying with us, i told my husband but he refused to do anything, so i went ahead to tell the boy to leave. I just want to knw if i did the right thing . Make una no yab me oooooooooo.

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wonlasewonimi: Jellitah jellitah... how much you dey sell one round...I dey stop by Georgia next week we can collabo. Do you accept GT card?

rafhell: YOU WILL BE BANNED. TRUST ME

[b][size=20pt]Between half and two thirds of Nigerian women are subject to domestic violence in their homes. Domestic violence affects all social groups and can consist of physical, sexual and psychological abuse. Although men can also be affected by domestic violence, women suffer disproportionately.
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This trend occurs across much of the world, but Nigeria’s discriminatory laws and dismissive police compound its particularly high rates of domestic violence. Most potently, its prevalent culture of silence and stigma for the victims of domestic violence hinders public acknowledgement of the problem. There exists an urgent need to challenge the social prejudices and institutional structures in order to protect its women, not just from danger, but also from ridicule, fear and isolation.

Stephane Mikala, Deputy Director of Amnesty International’s Africa program, said:

[size=20pt]"On a daily basis, Nigerian women are beaten, raped and even murdered by members of their family for supposed transgressions, which can range from not having meals ready on time to visiting family members without their husband’s permission," adding that "husbands, partners and fathers are responsible for most of the violence".
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Although more widespread in South Asia, acid attacks on women which cause extreme pain, disfigurement and can be fatal, have also been on the rise in Nigeria, and have failed to be taken seriously as an offence by the Nigerian authorities.
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eddy1977: Simply because some low life loosers acted foolishly,doesn't mean that the entire black race is evil. just a few years ago in Austria didnt they arraign a man for fathering 8 babies with his daughter and locking them up for many years in his basement? How is that better or less evil than the bulawayo case?

You don't know where bulawayo,one of the most beautiful cities in southern africa is?
I am glad you said that you don't wanna go there,because maybe you will pollute them with your bigotry.

Crimes and scandalous stories are everywhere in this world. In your country,in your village and even in your family.
Just grow up and learn to live with it.

Jellitah: What part of da world is BULAWAYO?
I hope I never visit there. I thought only White peeps were PSYCHOS?

[size=20pt]Trust black man to take FIRST PRIZE FOR THE WORST OF ALL DYSFUNCTIONAL DOMESTIC TABOOS.[/size]