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I hope you really marry her. I hope the relationship between you too doesn't end before you get a ring on her, because then, your case would be proving street girls' right on their opinions

Please, sir.
I'm dropping my account, not because of cruise, but because I'm in a state where I need anything.
I have to pay dues, and I have to take care of my siblings. I'm trying for them, but I have no one looking out for me.
I'd really appreciate if I'm among the ones you choose. It might feel like a small move, but to me and my siblings, it would be nothing less than a miracle from you.
Kuda.
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This life no balance normally.
Another angle is, most young men that got to encounter young virgins who happened to fall in love with them, and after series of persuasion, gave their virginities to them: did they stick to the girls for marriage? Did they keep them as their targets for marriage?
No.
Every man I know who disvirgined a young lady in love with him still left her for useless reasons, camouflaging the fact that he didn't see her as special anymore.
Men, I'm not saying virginity is overrated, but that aspect will never be seen as important to the upcoming girls anymore.
Why, it's not like the ones that kept theirs saw men who treasured them for it.
Las las, men everywhere still end up with women who can f*ck the soul out of a man.
Na why runs girls dey marry the best men.
So...

I dey look Premiumwriter and Goodharddick exchanges, and really...to me, Jack was far from being a simp. He came across Rose, a woman, rich, affluent and top-class, betrothed to a rich man, who when fallen in love with him, left all she had, all her class and followed him everywhere. He found a special woman. Many honourable men would never think of allowing her to die after the ship sank.
But this life, ehn...this modern times, life is actually black and white.
An average Nigerian man will watch her breathe and drink water till she's below the ocean.
Nothing good is worth honour anymore. This is not about simping, or redpill.
Given the choice... God knows what I'll pick, but I know I'd live.

Ximenez:
Una no go rest with this simp stuff?
Everyone na simp to una, like say life na black and white.

According to the movie, jack was a nobody, a poor artist who only got a ticket in the last minute by gambling.

Rose was from a family of affluent, she went against her family and turned away from the arranged marriage with the rich suitor they brought for her and was just following Jack all around the ship.
Rose could have even left him behind when they were putting women and children on boats but still stayed.

As for me, I'm struggling, yes. But when I get rich and comfortable, there won't be any "special" woman for me, because they'd all be the same in my mind.
I'll only make a queen out of the woman who treated me like her king even with my struggles.
But since that's close to impossible in modern times, I'll stick to catching cruises, fun and vibes, while keeping things casual.

As in, ehn. Me sef just dey observe.

posty56:
then struggling women should do what, sit down and enjoy what they did not labour for

Please I'm interested.
07065809167.
Or you can drop your WhatsApp number.
Let me be part of your people.

I just went through your past posts. You have my respect, boss.
But see it this way: the world we live in now, it's "Eat, or be eaten" or "Depredate, or be preyed on". There's no rewards, no rating for goodness, and morality anymore. Politicians and wicked leaders are walking away, scot free, while innocent people suffer in their place. Graduates finishing with first class after toiling night and day to be on top, now hunt for jobs, and ride keke like illiterates, while undeserved people are fixed into the best positions, just because they "know somebody"
I'm not in support of wickedness, but sometimes we have to look at it from all sides. The reason why some fraudsters are in it is because there's nothing better enough to guarantee their looking forward in life. Nobody wants to wait for 60k per month jobs anymore, because believe it, or not, that will not be enough to get you anywhere, as this country is.
Most of those clients swindled by yahoo can still recover in no time. 50k$ is something most use for upkeep in a week.
Do you know what an average Nigerian man can do with 50k$? Their government has made sure lifestyle there is like heaven.
As for me? Any way I see, where I fit do, I go do, legit, or not...as far say no be ritual.
I'm the first son of my family, my siblings already look up to me.
I won't hold up on finding better money wey I go use Behind my blood and I, and move forward, just because of "I don't want to be wicked"

iLegendd:
Show you? You think I haven't shown? You probably haven't read my old posts.

He went abroad with money he stole? Wow! Now, put yourself in the shoe of the person he scammed to enrich himself. If that was your life saving, how will you feel? Great? No. You see, we Nigerians are naturally wicked.

We are too selfish. We don't have a single emotion or empathy towards innocent people, but we want people to show us love or the way.

Egbon, abeg rest! Maybe you get legit ways you dey use, make big money. Good.
But as far say job opportunities still no dey, economies still dey decline, business still dey fail anyhow, yahoo go last for here.
You know how many times boys don use cash out change the lives of their families? Some I know use that money take go abroad, go school better university course for UK.
Which legit way wonh help you with that one? Or shey na the job we neva still see?
Boss, follow your way, may boys follow their way.
If you wonh preach, first show us how you dey make your own money legit.
Real man, ko? Who real man help?

iLegendd:
Mehn, speaking against fraud or laziness in Nigeria will make you an enemy of the youths. It's sad. Criminals want to silence everyone.

Please I'm interested in this.
Alphamale, have you withdraw from this before?
And how does having a Skrill account affect it?

All the gentlemen where you don see no be your friendzone dem dey?
OP, do all that shit and watch as she gives her heart to another guy man.
First thing wey I just learn foh streets,: no matter how much you want her, do not give her half, or more of your attention. Be busy doing better things instead.
And have abundance mentality. It helps.

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Sex is the only thing a little special they can offer.
90% of the time all the above things there are gotten more from good friends and close family, while the girl of your life is just looking to "relax and be taken care of".
Though, being with some women brings these kind of "motivation", to try to improve yourself, especially in the financial aspect, at least so another man no go carry her comot just like that.
But that, to me, sounds misplaced.
So overall...free sex from them is the only thing you gain... which you can also gain, if you're good in keeping well emotionally-connected FWBs, BTW.

Must you treat woman like gold?
Na your type small girls go dey use dey catch cruise.

TkhGuy:
If i can treat a girl i am obsess with like trash, whom will i treat like gold?

Please tell me how you expect him to fight for his family, or her?
The other guy has taken over.
That's how it is for women normally, though.

Candidlady:



He wouldn't even fight for his family... Dude just gave up like that .. So sad

You actually collected that card, after the way the guy savaged you?
Have some dignity, man.

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She's gone, bro. No just reason her matter again. Focus on those other gainful things you were focusing on before.

hotwax:
We are (or say 'were') in love until 2 weeks ago. She always tell me about a guy begging her with engagement ring. This guy even gave her count down till December 24th, that if she does not accept it, he will take the offer off the table forever.

I checked the guy's profile, I sensed he is a player who uses marriage proposal to fvck vulnerable girls. I suspect this guy because he is so bold. He does not talk about love or affection. He always talk about marriage. He even told her that he will face another babe if my girl waste time in making decision. And i sense my babe have soft spot for marriage proposal. Every time I am with her, she always talk about the guy, showing me his chats. And its getting on my nerve.

But I didnt want to tell my babe who this guy is (let me not lie. I am not 100% sure if he is playing my babe).

So yesterday we had a frank discussion and came out blunt to her.

I told her she should consider him, because marriage proposal is a lifetime opportunity she may not get again. I am not ready for marriage now because I have other stuff I am working on now. I said "The way you always bring up his matter shows you are in love with him". He is better seated now than I do, so grab the opportunity.

She got moody and told me she thought I love her. I told her yes I love her but I won't allow my love to hinder her progress. We are created to love many people till we die. And the truth is, I dated a lady who always tell me a guy is disturbing her on chat. And I later found out that they were fvcking. Ladies will tell you about another guy disturbing them and still go behind your back and fvck that guy.

I considered all this reason and freed her to go do whatever she wants. Ever since then she has been snubbing me, abusing and giving me attitudes.

I am confused i must have wronged her, but i am not sure. Do you think I am wrong?

You don't dump a rich dude who can probably replace you with four more beautiful women than you in a heart beat. Wealth brings options, and when there are options, no option is special, so that'll be a dumb move.
Besides, woke men know "dating for the money "is how you girls are wired anyway.

Hayee:
Kai let me catch you first

I go just chop your money and clean mouth, dump you if money do mistake and finish

Shebi the only thing you will do is come to Nairaland create thread and wail
Lol as far as money is made
Men are addicted to heartless gold diggers

What's her IG handle?

Infolenka:
This is the kind of female body most Nigerian guys want.

I've been carrying out a long term research on Nairaland for over a year. I've posted different pictures of different types of women and read multiple responses from different men. I've come to realize that on the average there is a type of female body majority of men want and I scoured Instagram and found a girl that fits this description.

The key word that suits this girl is Moderate, but on the plus side of moderate

Ass is big but not too big
Boobs is big but not too big.
She's has curves but they aren't too much
She's average height
No fat arms
Thighs are thick but not too thick
Flat tummy.

StacyO:
You might be wrong.

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virginprincess:
Since it will be difficult for boys to stop doing yahoo, it will also be difficult for girls to stop asking, simple.

Even if yahoo boys stop totally and finally, it won't change anything. Girls might just move their lights to foreign guys and politicians.
Don't you know, that yahoo has changed lives financially than professional jobs in Nigeria can ever do?

From my experience, women take those so called 'real' men for granted, it's those ones who don't make their women their priority that women fall hard for.

[b][/b]... I've read a lot of threads on this forum, and noticed how much attention and vigor men put into talking about female virgins, and how "virtuous" they're supposed to be. I've also noticed male virgins getting the opposite of it, being mocked, pitied on, and are clearly not wanted by Nigerian women...
So...why is virginity more worshipped in women, and scorned in men? What's so special about virginity in females? Why's virginity in males disliked and not wanted?