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Didi2d:
We have been together for over 16 years, with four kids. but little things always cause quarrel between us like we just started dating some months back.

Like I stated on several post and thread here on nairaland. The red flag has always been there when we started dating, but I was doing lover boy and nice guy.

I don't even know where to start from, but I will just type.
Just last week Friday, I got home and my daughter told me that she wants to go give my wife her phone that my in-law ( my sisters husband) was calling her. So I waited for her to tell me the reason for the call, but she didn't.

The next day I decided to ask her during a normal discussion, only for her to reply by asking me "why are my asking her? Then I told her it's just a simple question na

In her words, she replied again 'as in why you dey ask me that kind question' at that point I paused and walked away just to avoid escalation. And since that day we haven't talk to each other. I got home today only for her to be talking to herself saying different things just to piss me off, at that point I felt like picking up Cain and flog her.

Note: she's in the habit of answering question by asking you silly question in return. And she's ready to keep malice with me for as long as possible.

*If I tell the kids to do something she will in some cases tell them to do otherwise.

*there was a day she went to the market to buy goods for her, I got to the shop and ask her what and what did she buy only for her to tell me if I don't have eyes to see

* whenever I buy something for her, as soon as I give her that thng, she will tell me to drop it on the table.

*since I opened that shop for her, she has become bossy. Yes I remember I told her one day when she was disturbing me, begging me to talk to my family to help raise more money for the shop.
I told her not that when the shop picks up I won't be able to talk to you again, I said that cause I know the kind of person she is.

Not to talk of the kind of conversion I have seen several times she has with other men.

I have tried my possible best to make her happy, I needed to. But it obvious I can never satisfy her.

I cannot count how many people that has settle several quarrel between us, at times I will just sit down and wonder what's really going on
I didn't want to say somethings here, cause
Some people will doubt if a normal human being can just act like that.

At this point, am fed up. And I have decided to move out, cause I know she will do more, worse than all this. Once am boxed up am out!

Rtk5:
Few years back i was a member of a particular church/ministry which is a prophetic ministry. I usually support with the little i could because i was doing very well financially, down the line i mistakenly impregnated my girlfriend, so i had to bring her to stay with me because the family insisted that i marry her or I should take her to my place and when she gives birth we could then marry, they don't want the pregnancy to get obvious due to shame of what people will say. Two months before she gave birth things became so bad for me that even feeding was a problem, God bless my wife's family who supported us so very well and wholeheartedly, infact i can do anything for my mother-in-law to make her happy, she is really a mother to me. Even my family that I normally assist when I was in position abandoned me. Back to the issue;

When she gave birth, the prophet could not even call to know how the new baby was doing not to talk of assisting or buying a gift of a single pampers(Lols) because the prophet said he does not support all that happened due to that fact that we didn't officially marry with the Lady. To my shock what I was even hearing from the church, especially the prophet's brother was that i now very broke, that i don't have money for bleaching anymore and i have become so black and lots more. So I left the church and started attending another church which a friend introduced me to. In just a week of attending the church i was really helped financially even without asking, just because they were told my wife just gave birth.

I didn't know how they got to know that i started attending another church and the even know my new church very well. Later, i started hearing that i've started attending the church of a fake prophet and that i went there just because of what i was getting from the church(financially).

This was a church that when I was doing well, I was supporting and partnering with then so much. I've learnt alot, which means they've judged and condemned me even before the Almighty God.


I am glad that God have restored me financially. Glory be to His Name. But I don't go to church again, I worship God at home and listen to messages alot, that's all.

CeazerMafia22:
Zinoleesky was clearly robbed.

Ejima1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTNeJg9wW9M
Gospel artiste Mercy Chinwo's husband, Pastor Blessed gifts her an SUV as she turned 31 today September 5

Helpout12345:
Legal redress It's like he doesn't want to graduate in the next 10 years until the case is concluded in court. And he will still lose the case.

The lecturer told him to stop and he continued. That's sexual harassment!

If the lecturer has accepted his offer, the ethical process still means he should be assigned to another supervisor because the lady supervisor will be compromised in delivering adequate project supervision based on their love affairs.

In other words, any angle you look at it. He is destined for another year the moment he went beyond his boundaries.

Cypress042:
Tinubu might not be as old as Nigerians are thinking though.

Is just that hard drugs have really dealt with him, and it's nothing much

Emyzoloye5:
Not really...maybe we were just teenagers who doesn't know wat we wanted

Willyjane2000:
Hausa girls for meetups
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Zahniggacold:
You come nairaland they ask whether u give permission for insult u no no say nairaland na house of insult

Chris2863:
you need to pray for senses ooo

Grandmeister:
That’s a big IF. Even as guys at 22 years we never sabi wetin we truly want out of life, we might think we did but time and age has shown us we know much. Now think about a 22 years old girl. Probably still battling departmental courses and all. I will not advice a man on who to marry but I know from my 30 something years experience that settling down with a 22 years old girl na bet9ja odds

Nicepoker:
Can I insult you first before I advise you on what to do?

Antimarraige:
She's stylishly asking for hookup and her price is 3k no dull yourself

Emyzoloye5:
Lies! The only girl I ever disvirgined doesn't give a shit about me now ...I no send her too!

paulolee:
The man dt always deliver wt funds wen she need urgent 2k

BadGenius:
Oya slap me with money na, instead of u to waste it on a hoe.

Rosaline5000:
Jesus, Old man why are you derailing the thread with your usual trash.
I wish nairaland have a block button so I wont be seeing all your trash , I mean if what you are saying is sensible you dont have to keep repeating it na.
Ejoo abeg get sense small na

BadGenius:
They've really left this one behind.

advanceDNA:
U deserve the insults so that your sense can come back....a woman is exploiting you...and u automatically assume she wants to sleep with you....how naa??

Vinnie2000:
Nothing wrong in it, Bro.

As far as she is Fine, simple, down to heart, respectful and have some Maturity...

because most 22yr old Babes in Naija, na Iphone, Instragram, Tiktok, Asoebi and Sharwarma full dier heads...

Vinnie2000:
Hahaha...Dat hw it should be.

Meaning u agree dat its wrong for a Man to marry a 30± lady..

Wallade:
Please consider a more matured lady in age and orientation. Marriage to an 18 - 25 years old can be very challenging. I hope you survive it, if you do.

ogakamwu:
Please kindly advise me if it is okay.

I am a guy of 35 years considering a lady for marriage who is 22 years.

Please is it okay.

You are free to criticize.

I just want to get it right.

onlinestaff2020:
If her burutashi boyfriend that washes his dicck with pure water satchet and head slammer catches you, I bet u are gonna die before sunset because that bf will use his dagger to remove your intestines and run to Niger where he can never be seen anymore.

Thread with caution as a word is enough for the wise.

Toto no get meter and it's not an achievement.