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It's not difficult. You lack the competence to prepare a good proposal that's all.

ibinaboonline:
I don't have to answer that question. Also, I don't accept your counsel.

Ok ooo.
Trust me on this. You will try your best to make this marriage work. You will sacrifice a lot. You will give your all in all. But in the end, you will be deeply hurt, you will cry and you will soil yourself in despondency.
I give you two years mate. Just two years! You will wish you didn't.

You want to marry a woman with an ugly pvssy?
You have signed a death sentence?

Don't do it. You will regret it.
Your best bet is to impregnate and keep her at home; this way, she won't misbehave.
Quick question, is she a virgin?

Thonia69:
This is too much. You're toxic and frustrated. I can sense it in your words.

I'm a just man!
I believe in cause and effect.
Do you think the brother don't have sperm that can make baby too? But he decided to keep himself from marrying because he knows he is not there yet.
But the stupid girl ...oh so so stupid, went to enjoy sex because she knew she has a dump and idiotic brother who will clean up her mess.

Serious minded women avoid guys who look fair and cute like a woman.
Most of these so-called cute guys are pvssies.
I'm not a cute guy and I don't want to be; man should be manly and women should be girly. Simple!

siofra:
As a virgin, I'm not getting married to a non-virgin. I don talk my own

Sweetheart, "sexually damaged " only applies to women.
Men are like fine wine; the older, the better.

Zonefree:
An experienced man is an asset in relationship or marriage but an experienced woman is a baggage.

The word "Virginity" was not created for men. A man's gbola got no mileage, that can't be said about kpekus and the carriers.

The painful truth is, in the sexual world, Man is at advantage.

Brother! I need to know where you live man. You deserve a hug.
If one-third of the world's men's Population can reason like you, women will respect themselves and have sense. They will never ever cheat and they will worship their husbands

Sucre6:
Don't be insensitive dude, did you not see the part op said he's the one carrying the family on his back and this will kill him financially, op is 34 and not married, don't u think he will want to marry one day and take care of his own family, Most times before u dish in any advice, try putting the person in your shoes

Op just take heart, in this situation, there is little or nothing u can do, dont go and kill yourself, you self have got ur own life to live. Do your best and demm the consequences, you no be job that suppose to suffer until u die.

Problem no dey finish op, try not to think about it much. She has decided to be mumu, there is nothing u could have done about it, she's a adult let her handle her sh!t.

This is the only part I read. Makes sense.
If the Op continued to help this his sister, then he is a grown fool at 34.

Persephone1:
This is one of the reasons i will always tell women to choose the best only.

A pregnant lady was dumped by an irresponsible waste of space called a man but somehow in your confused mind, shes the one with small brain.

Interesting....

Ladies be like Regina biko, at least she dey enjoy her small sense

Shut up jorrrr. You hear say them rape her ni?
Don't make me slap you ooo

Persephone1:
This is one of the reasons i will always tell women to choose the best only.

A pregnant lady was dumped by an irresponsible waste of space call a man but somehow in your confused mind, shes the one with small brain.

Interesting....

Of course, she's the stupid girl.
At her age I am sure responsible men would have approached her but she turned them away because they don't live a flashy lifestyle.
She foolishly opened her legs for a man who's aim is to deceive women by buying flashy wrist watches, decorating rented apartment, borrowing cars, and using Iphone when in actual sense, he doesn't have a stable income (no future plan).
I pray she commits suicide due to excessive depression and regrets.

On a second thought, tell your family to not accept her. Let her pay the price for her action. She opened her legs for an irresponsible man to fvck her and she secretly carry the baby for 9 fvcking months!
She beat the drum, let her dance to the music. She's not a child.
If you try to help her then you are a foolish man!
If your family tries to help her, you have a foolish family ( no wonder they have such daughter).
Let her go...

Congratulations!
Why are you devastated? She gave your family a gift!
Be happy man.

Orgasmgiver123:
I prefer breess

Your own no get level sef.
Dem say ass or face, you carry the matter go bruwess. Chayi !
As for me, moderacy is key!

ashawopikin:
Just stay clear, any false accusation from her, your own don finish be dat o, I know wetin I dey talk

They usually want to conceal their feelings not knowing that it only makes them obvious.

Announce to the class that your wedding is coming up in December.

Lilydore:
Maybe you're abusing her. Keep on pleading with her, One day she will change. Just be a Gentleman dear.

I totally agree with this. Op, listen to this if you have nothing else to live for.

Zonefree:


SIMP.

You cried with a manipulator


Once a woman starts crying, be on guard, she's on a manipulating mood.

If you're accusing your girlfriend or wife of something and she started crying, she's guilty. No woman will cry for something she didn't do.

Lastly, never take marriage or relationship advice from a woman.

The Op is even an insult to SIMPS. He's worst than simp.

Marry a virgin and have peace.
You carried this problem with your two hands so I pray she kills you.
This idiot Even dated a hoe for 3 months and married her when somebody fvcked her for 4 years and didn't put any ring on her.

Op, what you're going through is the aftermath of your foolishness. Live with it.

Savageman:
Hi everyone, after wasting 5 years of my life in benin doing Yahoo yahoo, gambling and wasting all the money i made on clubing, women, drugs and police case.. I came back to my parents house in Abuja to start a new legit life.

I'm 24 years old, a phone technician. When i came back to my parents house, i use the little money with me to open a phone repair shop in my area and some making little money. After couple of months working i meet this beautiful girl, who came to my shop to repair her phone. We got talking, exchange movies and contact and we became very close. She always come to my shop almost everyday and anytime she comes she will ask me of money (sometimes 1k or 2k) for something.. We would talk and watch movies together(she loves movies)..

Story short after about a month, i invited over to my house(parents house, but my room is not joined with the house) we were together and watching movies, well we had s*x. That's how it started.

Well the thing is she always bill me 2k, 1k, 5k. And am trying to arrange my life with the little money I'm making from my phone repair business. I'm saving up to buy a laptop to learn programming. and this girl always bill me anytime she comes to my shop. and anytime she come over to my place we always have s*x.. I want to stop all this, we are not in any relationship, she told me she doesn't have a boyfriend. I'm tired and i want to save up for my future. Im just confuse, How can i tell this girl i don't want this kinda friendship/relationship?

Please help me move to fp

Let me not lie to you , you can not amount to anything in this life. You will consider suicide very soon.
One day, she will get pregnant and that's the day your death clock starts ticking.
That sex has damped your destiny! You will struggle till the day you die!
If you steal, they will catch you.
If you borrow money, you won't be able to pay.
If you start any project (housing) you won't complete it.
Soon, your parents will pass away and you will somehow leave that your family house. You will cry and cry but God will not answer you.
You would have been a great person but you threw all that away for sex. Shame!

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.

So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.

So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.

But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.

There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.

So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.

Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

You're a fool for forgiving her after the first time.
You're a fool for considering marrying this prostitute.
You're a fool for not knowing what to do in this obvious case.
You're a fool for bringing this issue here and you're a fool for being such a man.
I curse the day you're born.

T0BY:
The message is particularly for simps.

Yes o.
Those ones that will sell land to impress a girl and those ones that will go to a girl Facebook timeline and type "thanks for accepting".

Ekejoestar:
The only women that falls into your category are those without the knowledge of her self worth.

Then many Nigerian girls have little or no knowledge of their self worth.

*Do you know that couples will never breakup if they have a great sex life?
*Do you know that the root of most marital problems is the woman who is not properly sexed?
*Do you know that if a girl clocks 25 without being fvcked she will be depressed and attempt suicide?
*Do you also know that a woman who is sex starved is frustrated and can commit homicide
*Do you know that you're doing a woman a favor by marrying her? (You fvck her, you take care of her and still take care of the baby)
*Do you know that no woman is happy being single ( dem just dey pretend. Deep down, even the feminist wish they have a man to call their own).
* Do you know that a girl wants you to approach her because that's the only validation she needs to know that she's alive. If you don't give her the attention, she thinks she's dead. Their lives is centered on a man.
*Finally, do you know that a woman's vagina melts and rottens if d!ck stops working on it and the woman will lose her self esteem.
If you doubt me, check the life of a girl who is not approached by men and see how depressed and mentally unstable she would be.
From today, guys, know that you're the trophy. You're the whole package. You're what women need to live a fulfilled life.
So NEVER beg a woman for relationship.
IF YOU ASK HER OUT ONCE and she refuses for whatever reason, WALK AWAY permanently.
The woman who loves you will not stress you.

If all men were gays who will dig their pvssy?
Do you think the pvssy is good for anything without the d!cks?
Do you know that if a girl clocks 25 without being fvcked she will be depressed and attempt suicide?
Do you also know that a woman who is sex starved is frustrated and can commit homicide?
Finally, do you know that a woman's vagina melts and rottens if d!ck stops working on it and the woman will lose her self esteem.
If you doubt me, check the life of a girl who is not approached by men and see how depressed and mentally unstable she would be.

This car shouldn't be more than 800k to 1.2m

We will not click that stupid link.

Waec?
Do Nigerian students read anymore?

[quote author=HDoc post=115512755][/quote]Thanks man