| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by 3rdavefarms(m): 2:26pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
I get one I Dey chop codedly the husband like me so much but the woman no gree leave me alone , I Dey enjoy the P level 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by CSTRR: 2:26pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
I don't like advising people like this.
They are too stubborn.
The first thing a man should look for in a partner is fidelity.
Fidelity, fidelity, fidelity.
It comes before food and good sex.
Fidelity is important to ensure the genetic accuracy of your offspring.
You don't want to start running dna test on which and which are your kids. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Aroyjunior(m): 2:26pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Well I can't tell you to let her go or stay.....but starting all over again with a totally different specie is another worry for me.cos it takes the only perfect grace of God to find a real woman outside there.but sir if you feel you can manage the situation you can still forgive.but if you feel you can't manage her and you see her matter is 'beyound redemption' let her go |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by lexy2014: 2:26pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
KingofTheStreet:
i have so many ladies both married and singles that do love to sex chat me cux i am good with that- Bros, are you romantic? check yourself well first- Even good girls have weakness See who de tell person make him check himself |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Toktee(m): 2:27pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
pedrilo:
u r 33, wat r u doing with 22 yr old?
she is immature
What do you mean? Did you want him to marry his age mate? |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by afbstrategies: 2:28pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. It's either she lack maturity, or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advice cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. Bros. I think this girl know how to get you tamed and hooked, since you checked her phone. There's something that's making her to flirt with other men but want to keep you at the same time. She may be too young for you to settle down with, considering the age difference. So, I think both of you are confused and may not be ready for marriage or settling down. Try to loosen up, have fun and communicate a little more. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Icecream4U(m): 2:28pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Never forgive a cheating wife, else you will father another man's child. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by 40fy: 2:29pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Anuoluwa12345:
When you get to a certain age, you will understand... Don't worry, by 50 yrs or 60 when you are ageing and no one is there to take care of you .. and you begin to feel the hit of loneliness, then you will understand better!.
**Hahaha!! How did you know that??
**Are you a 50 years old woman??
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| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by DevilSignature: 2:30pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. guy continue with her The truth is that you can never see a girl who is 100% pure. We random guys wey dey street we have seen it all no Nigeria is holy. Just cold down and talk sense into her she will change. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Sajanis: 2:30pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Yusufisraelj:
Mehn this your case hard oooo.
The dilemma of choosing a good, homely girl with shitty tendencies. Phewww
Guy nobody perfect, everyone has short comings but for me I take cheating or revealing private parts seriously.
It's clear you don't want a cheating wife, but her tendencies is giving her away. if you can't live with her short comings, why stay? Just end the whole thing, it going to be painful, yeah I know that feeling, and it's going to be difficult in all fairness, but make no mistakes if you make an emotional decision out of this, you'll live to regret it, the signs are there and you can't live with it. mater tire me my brother 1 Like |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by zakkxx: 2:30pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
If I slap you! God has shown u the type of lady she is! Run ooooooo! Don’t allow any body to monkey u!!! Don’t give her a chance! If u where married to her, I will ask u to forgive her because any divorce is a first class ticket to Hell! But thank God u are not married to her! Show no mercy!! Don’t pity or marry a 304 aka a LovePeddler! You are not Christ only Jesus can change a man! You are not a rehabilitating Centre! Forgive her but don’t accept! Let her repent first and give her life to Christ! And for you, you have been fornicating with her and this is against the Bible! Don’t normalize fornication! If you cannot do without sex get married or STDs and hiv will kiss u! Be warn! God bless u! |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by martinm45: 2:31pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Best of luck |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Emmanuel30a: 2:31pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. So, marriage is what would help you settle down? You can never be settled down... Until you battle down and battle up... You are in a serious battle... That has no title and subtitles, if you think marriage would help you settle down... You are so little and so belittle with battle or by battle... You don't have a title and you are not entitled... Settle and dismantle your battle or the battle... Settle and dismantle the cattle and rattle in battle... You are so little and belittled, you can't win the battle if you don't dismantle the cattle and rattle or if you don't dismantle the battle. You can't have a title or you are not entitled to a title in GODS castle, if you don't win the battle or if you don't dismantle the cattle and rattle in the battle... |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by LEGALSER: 2:32pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. 22 years? She never pass her ashawo stage yet. Just break up and move one. You are 33 still dey jonz like this? |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by bobseto: 2:35pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
in situations like this, you have the final decision to make . while making that decision just consider the following
1. have you ever cheated on her before?
2. what if she bluntly told those guys that she had no boyfriend?
3. what do you really need in a woman?
4. can you manage this action when you eventually marry her?
people can change if you talk to them about your likes and dsilikes and if they do it again you then know that they wont change |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by kkinternet: 2:37pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Red flags everywhere....
Oga move on.
Once trust is broken it can never be repaired. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by Curious346: 2:38pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. To slarp you just dey hungry me .... |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by herbert2017: 2:38pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Any lady who has lot of guys as friends, showing off her body, her integrity, the pride of womanhood is a big disgrace.
I want to advise you as a Gospel minister. This is a red flag, that she can not be treated, even when u marry her, ur mind will not be at peace.
It may also lead to ur early death, and she will continue. My brother, don't marry her, because I see a bigger problem in ur marriage.
If u want to die b4 ur time, marry her, marriage till death.
What you can not manage in relationship, u can not endure in marriage. Marriage is made to be enjoyed and not to endured.
Pls let her go, pray and God will give to u, a lady who will protect ur integrity and ur joy.
U can call me let's talk better 08038033055, I have been married for 12 years, I have never doubted my wife's integrity.
Evangelist Uzo Herbert Ekene |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by YBoyka: 2:38pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Know ur worth. U must find the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer served. Remain calm, stay strong and walk away. cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by ikevictor: 2:39pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
First...slow down.
Never be in haste to settle down.
Second...
Any warning signs you see in a woman is REAL!
There's nothing like a one-off situation when it has to do with human tendencies.
Third...
Examine yourself...if you know that these images will always be in your head then do not proceed with the marriage....for your own good.
Finally...
Never ever let your emotions rule you as a man. Look at the cold hard facts...ALWAYS!
Do not let emotions becloud your sense of judgement when you deal with marital situations....
When a woman shows her vagina to a man with the intent to show that she squirts very well, what is she trying to prove? That she's virtuous?
If your unborn daughter shows her pussy to a boy to show that she squirts well, will that feel good to you? A woman cannot train a daughter with a decency she does not possess, period!
And when a woman mistakenly sleeps with a married man, you can forgive her. But when she is smart enough to modify his name to a female name with the intent to continue engagements with him under your nose - then that is a sign of a manipulative and debased mind which is detrimental to the body of marriage.
If you really want the truth, read above texts again. Bye. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by jamesversion: 2:40pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. Run oh. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by UptownVibes(m): 2:41pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
All these simp matter don tire me. Marry her and die by infection. Period! |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by AsawanaDgreat: 2:42pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
My brother leopard � can't change his spot overnight |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by cocolacec(m): 2:42pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
I never considered her a public hole. We are talking about a woman I was considering setting down wit. Try to find out, if your girl is not on the internet selling her nudes to strange men.She is surely a coded prostitute and can never be trusted.If you end up marrying her do not come here to lament about marital woes. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by KingofTheStreet: 2:42pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
lexy2014:
See who de tell person make him check himself you know me? or your mama follow people wey i dey sex chat |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by LOVEGINO(m): 2:43pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
40fy:
Why is marriage so important?? ask google |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by andray12(m): 2:44pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
YOU EYES GO CLEAR VERY SOON...OKPONU! cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by kiddkash(m): 2:45pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Persephone1:
Rule 1: Never personalize a public hole or pole
Rule2: Never be serious with anyone at his or her whoring stage
Rule 3: Forgive a cheat at your peril! Falseproph.is that you?? |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by babyfaceafrica: 2:45pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
Persephone1:
Rule 1: Never personalize a public hole or pole
Rule2: Never be serious with anyone at his or her whoring stage
Rule 3: Forgive a cheat at your peril! What age would you consider a whoring age? Because even 30s, dey do hookup o |
| Re: She Cheated With A Married Man Now This. Please Advice. by jeromestarks: 2:45pm On Aug 09, 2022 |
cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. You're a fool for forgiving her after the first time. You're a fool for considering marrying this prostitute. You're a fool for not knowing what to do in this obvious case. You're a fool for bringing this issue here and you're a fool for being such a man. I curse the day you're born. |
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cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.
Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.
So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.
So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.
But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.
There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.
So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.
Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP. Personal opinion... I know to cheat on someone hurts, but what do you expect from a girl of 22years of age. It's hard to see a matured lady at that age this days. Don't rush into marrying her, work first on her cheating habits if you truly love her. Accept your woman, and try as hard as you can to change her cheating behaviour. You can only disengage yourself if she's unrepentant about it. |
