Penisinpenisout:
Our bill is always 15k. It's set at default. Whether we travel or stay at home, it's always 15k. It went from 3-5k a month to 15k. We've accepted the new change.

You shouldn't accept it, write a letter to the area manager of your distribution company, wait for their response, if after 15days nothing has been done then write to the NERC Forum in your state. They will call you for a meeting with the area aedc and resolve your issue.

Emotions getting the better of Bambam. Its alright

@Genea, Try and blur out the phone numbers of your friends on the original picture.

Genea:
Dats bad, if a man is allowed to cheat, I guess a woman should also, what is good for the gander is also good for the geese

Make she move nah, Is it by force

wokomabest:
That guy need to satisfy her.or might be pushing that girl to be bleeping somewhere else

I like the way your brain works especially with the analogy.

chinae:
Degree is ur first moment of truth nd experience is the second moment of truth.

Just lik when u see a girl, her beauty will attract u to chicke her (1st moment of truth) then her character will conclude ur intention to marry, dump or flirt. (2nd moment of truth)

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Awolowo died peacefully at his Ikenne home, the Efunyela Hall (so named after his mother), on 9 May 1987, at the age of 78, amid tributes across political and ethno-religious divides.---http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obafemi_Awolowo

gratieao:
Buhari will give Tinubu Awolowo treatment.

Awo betrayed the Igbos to please his slave masters, who later turned the heat on him. Northerner leaders’ve given prominent Yoruba men an overdose of humiliation that will last them a life time despite using them to fight the civil war.


Did Awo die a fulfilled man? NO ……the Hausa Fulani whose interest he severed during the civil war sent him to grave. Jakande was used by IBB to rope Awo into treasonable felony …Awo later committed suicide.

I agree that some girls ain't trained properly and have the wrong idea that they can hit/provoke a guy without any repercussion. I have no business judging the specific incident you mention here, all I can say is we all (Male/Female) should try not to react by striking out when we have been wronged. I totally agree with your other points about being firm and getting respect from the female folks(previous post). I just hope you see reasons from where I am coming from as in striking out, because once it starts it might not end. PS you know how some people(especially women) like wahala na.

cutietokunbo:


Not in real world @Op.

Go and ask your uncles, grandfathers and brothers who have done most of these things for women and got bleeped up for life by d same women you are giving all this attention.

Pay attention to yourself, be successful in your chosen fields, cut your coat according to your materials, be happy independently(very important), build relationships with your immediate family (mum,dad, siblings) and wait for a well brought up lady to support you. Life is pretty simple; it all depend on how you organise yourself.

I hate it when lazy, unsuccessful, no-future, hopeless and poverty stricken guys come online or offline to say "A guy shouldn't beat a woman regardless (regardless is what I found offensive and stupid)".

I have seen it all buddy and I can boldly tell you that there are ladies out there who were born and raised by devils. They would condemn and bring down every living hope in you with their mouth and slap you at every available opportunity. What would you do? Kiss their ass

I dated a lady(one of Senator's daughter @4th assembly) who has been suspecting my moves and all that prior to this fateful day. We were both gisting and laughing on my bed when a call came through but d caller wasn't someone she knew. I tried not to pick it cos she was already all over me. She started nagging abt the missed calls but d other lady at the other end didn't stop calling. However, I decided to pick the call and the first thing I said was Hello, Hello, I can't hear you but guess what, she slapped me across my face. Do you expect me to walk away as a supposed gentleman or stupid matured guy? No way. I beat and brutalised her face in return.

I warned her not come back to my house again but few friends intervened and everything was resolved. The first day she came to see me after d incident, I asked her what came over her that very day and guess what she said, she said that slapping his friends or ex had become part of her. She slapped ex at every slightest provocation and none of these stupid ex/friends have ever raised their hands against her except me. And i said really, those guys and friends must be stupid to have allowed you to get away with all these atrocities. She is married today but never forget to say thanks for stopping her from that bad habit.

Perfect relationship or marriage depends on individual(s) who are involved in a relationship.

Na lie oh, if she like make im fine pass miss world, if E nor get better character na long thing oh. Beauty without a good character is very annoying

folabayo1:
But most naija guys of nowadays na fine face with curvy shape dem want other qualities no mata

lol

iamrealdeji:
Twaci,you should be a politician,Twaci here,Twaci there,have you been paying guys to campaign for you? Cos I didn't know you before this,not until this Miss Nl thing

God loves us all but He still requires that we ask Him, besides how does a man know when his women needs something if she doesn't ask? A man should provide for his woman and not spoil her,why? because it is difficult for anyone that has been spoilt to act responsibly. Are you sure you are talking about[b] Love/[/b] when you refer to how a man should slave himself for his wife? Well I thank God that you have been attracting these kind of men because it is a great thing to have someone who is willing to sacrifice because of Love. Please Love goes both ways, when necessary you should also be ready to make sacrifice for your man.

If a man does not take care of you when you are dating how will he take care if you if you marry him? On this you are right.

Ladylaura93:
To the girl who said I have fowl reasoning, lol , your boyfriend was earning 600k and you were not seeing it. How unfortunate. Where is he now? Are you married to him? A man puts his money where his happiness is. Do you think a girl has to ask a guy for anything if he reall loves her and values her and can afford it? That is what responsibility is, spoil your girl and still invest. I was raised to believe a man will build a house, make money, spoil his wife and take a taxi if his wife needs to use the car to get to work. I thank God i have only attracted men who share same ideology.
If a man does not take care of you when you are dating how will he take care if you if you marry him?

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Sorry, your logic ain't correct, marriage is supposed to be for life right? God willing that's about 50+ year of constant practise. Both of you will learn as you grow. even experienced people have to try out new things as they go on else they become boring.

Eliba:
No, i can't, that will be so boring, i wish to marry a man with experience so that atleast what i dont know, he teach me rather than two inexperience being together, that will be so boring.

Don't be confused nor discouraged, there are about 150mil people in Nigeria, so don't base your decision on the few answers you get on Nairaland.

AmarachiOnuoha:
This question is now givig me concern, due to some reply given by ladies here. Am still a virgin and intend keeping it till my wedding night. But am so much confuse on some of the reply gotten so far from most ladies here.

Na wah oh, because say im never start dey run things nor mean say im fit nor get prick na? Well e nor dey easy to stay without sex nor mean say people when dey do am nor get fully functional equipment.

yollychika:
Paul fit nor get prick oooo....a man nor fit stay widout sex ooooo....

Feelings are relative, we feel good and bad at different times. One can feel lonely around a lot of people. My point is that as much as it depends on how you feel, you also need to be ready to compromise as the feeling has to be mutual and not dependent on one person alone. #AlwaysLookAtTheBiggerPicture.

babyosisi:


The list of what one would expect is endless so for that reason,I disagree with almost everything you wrote as being tests of a healthy relationship even though I agree they are all good in themselves and expected.
The only singular test IMHO is to ask yourself
" How does he/ she make me feel"?
Not what he/she thinks or feels or does but how does it feel to me,the recipient.
No matter what the intentions of the other person is, if I am not getting it, it is worthless to me.

Bros please check out the songs of solomon, e dey bible.

Alphafrank:

My xact thoughts,i thought romance was all about showing care in an innovative way that wows ur spouse ?,moreover bro i dn't tnk i ever saw romance in my bible,IT WAS NEVER RECORDED THAT JESUS ROMANCED,WILL ROMANCE OR IS PRESENTLY ROMANCING HIS CHURCH,
i stand however to be corrected...

Sure, "practice makes perfect", so when they eventually get married and start practising, they will definitely get perfect. Every one was a novice at a certain time so I would advise that "Never say Never".

garriboy:

They are never romantic o, even wen they try to be u will notice dat they are trying so hard and it doesn't eva sound real. This is not becos being romantic is sinful but becos they reserve romance for only their husband, hence they don't get to date till their ready for marriage, therefore no prior romatic experience. And u knw wat they say abt practice makes perfect right?

Cohabitation will not reveal how a marriage will be, it can give you some practise but it's never the same thing. There is a difference between owning an item and renting an item. Ever heard of not starting what you cannot finish? How do you then stop a prolonged cohabiting when its already like a habit? I know that every situation is different but lets all try to do what is right.

2scorehigh:
I don't think cohabitation is entirely a bad idea. I'd say it depends on the individuals cohabitating and their reason/s for doing so.

I mean, c'mon, is marriage itself not a form of cohabitation too? If I can't live with my would-be spouse for two months, how are we going to live together for the next two decades?

The way I see it, cohabitation only starts becoming a problem when it starts becoming prolonged.

And that's where I start to advise our girls to watch it.

itops:


I NO FIGHT.O, it just got to me that most of you men jump at topics like this to give selfish reasons why you should remain eternal cheats.

now my point is, our forefathers as you stated out and have been congratulated with 2 bottles of orijin are definately not older than GOD our creator who from creation , created just EVE FOR ADAM..if God sactions our forefathers attitude of subjecting women to household appliances by marrying as many wives as they like, why did he not add MARY AND ELIZABETH TO ADAM at creation when he (GOD) gave EVE TO ADAM.

i hate it when men thinks they are wiser than GOD.

Owliver:
is it the same God worshiped by king solomon?

Solomon destroyed his destiny because of the number of women he married.

Keep the Baby.

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uyosolo:


True talk bro,it takes experience to agree wit d OP nd see his point of view...i ws a vry strict person b4 i met my delilah nd she enjoyd my demise nd made me hate myslf d more...cos even me did nt knw whr i ws headin to...i ws knwn as unpleasable,nd didnt send any lady or cudnt imagine behavin lik some foolish guys,bt wasnt my folly more,i cud imagine her nd her frnds sittin 2geda nd laughin at my demise...dey say a word is enouf 4d wise...esp 2 doz dats its stil early nd doz dat hv a 2nd chance...its ova a yr,nd i stil languishin in pains,hv seen all my joy nd hapines turn 2 a dead ocean...yet d feelins r stil had 2let go...i dnt even pray 4 my enemies 2be in my shoes...one day i wud tel d ful story *wipes tears frm eyes,puts up a fake smile nd continues work*

Bros abeg tell us your story na? I don dey follow your comments since and im be like say them do you strong thing. Help the younger generation by sharing your full story.

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Na wah for you oh NAIJA get 150 plus million people at least 80million girls na you go marry all of them?

Afrok:
They'll simply say "there is no place like home, home sweet home. Forgetting that people wey dey home dey get hope to marry people wey dey home too wey we dey see, they'll come back and use the "wayo" of am a returnee to deceive the single ones wey we dey keep tab on .

I feel with enough practice and preparation one can overcome fear in an interview situation. It is not easy but with the experience gotten from past failures you should grow some thick skin and learn from your past mistakes.

victorVIC1:

hmmm...plz, any1 wit suggestions on how to overcome fear?

I dont know about china but in the Uk there is no charge for using another banks atm, in such there are no bank charges for normal customers.

lincolnj88: All of you should stop being childish.....I visited china , xiuan....I was charged 180 naira for using other atms , I was charged 50 naira for using my own atms...in Uk 250naira is charged for using other atms while 100naira is charged for using ya atm.....

This is a source of revenue to banks, and as of 2009 commercial banks raised 17% of thier revenue from atm charges....this is what gives job securities to our dear brothers nd sisters working in the banks......
when sls removed it, after some while, spring bank now enterprise,keystone, access, eco, Uba droped abt 10,000 plus staffs combined.......and they hardly employs new staff except for industrial attachments....
Though it might pains me...I fully endores it...........
What I expect sls to do back then is to stop interswitch, quickteller for collecting 1000 naira as bank charges especially from us student ,which they illegally share among themselves nd d school.....

A customer is not always right it just depends on the terms and conditions of a business, so if they abide by the terms of the business then they are alright.

prettythicksme: chaiii imagine guys giving 300 to a Lady for what abeg

Wetin you mean by what abeg, if man nor get bar how im want take give wetin im nor get. We all aspire to greatness until then please lets all be patient.