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Most men would loose in the sexual market place and settle down with hoes

Remember, majority of men are still at a disadvantage economically, in fact, powerful and rich men will sample different women and choose the most fertile among them e.g Ned Nwoko, Oba of Benin etc. H0es and damaged women will become leftovers for the majority of men at the bottom and they will be happy about it thinking that at last they've won the hearts of their best friends. How many h0es these days even settle down for broke men?
When it comes to the sexual game women have the upperhand because both rich simps, poor simps, rich alphas, broke alphas, the law and society are at their disposal.

The truth of the matter is that romance is for men, specifically lower status men who historically have found it difficult to compete with higher status men for the most desirable women.

If women are given men bodies today and men are given female bodies today, men will see serious red pill, brutal game and selfishness in action. Gynocentrism, romantic love and equal right nonsense will crumble because women know it's all bullcrap even if they champion it. If such exchange can happen, many men will sit up. Good night.

That girl you think is your friend is most likely your worst enemy. Why? She is only there for you because of what she can get Same old Nigerian guy Nagging
Yes we Guys keep complaining about this day in day out but we never seem to learn. When the money comes, we share the money. We spend on people who won't add any value to our lives and impress people who are just there to ruin us.

MY EXPERIENCE
There is the girl I was dating when I was I secondary school some 10years ago. I really loved this girl with all my heart (she is a nairalander and I know she would know herself once she reads this story, I don't mind). After leaving school and gaining admission into the university, we lost the vibe and only stayed casual friends. I got admission 2 years before she got admission into her own university (lautech).
Fast forward to her year of service and coincidentally she was posted to the state where I worked. Coincidentally, I got a multi-million naira contract. Life was good!
We started our relationship over again. I made sure she enjoyed my little money. We were even talking about marriage and life after her service. Then disaster struck. I entered a business agreement with a collegue and contributed all my savings into the deal. The new contract we were pursuing never come through. This girl's warm reduced immediately. Within a month she came up with the excuse of having a boy friend she was engaged to. Later learnt the guy had just gotten a good job.
Interestingly, I had a Neighbour, also a single lady who sold shoes and stuff. She was all nice to me when the money was flowing. All of a sudden she stopped asking after me.

Now I got my juice back and she is all nice again.

It is a FACT, women are calculating, they look for the greenest pasture. You got money? You got their heart.

Spend your money on your family and close guy friends, they will be there for you in your down time.

To the women, you may think you are smart, but you lose in the end. I have at least 4 ladies who think they are my girlfriends. They all abandoned their poor boyfriends to be in relationship with me. Guess what. I only use them. Can't count how many I have had in the last one year. You won't command any respect from a rich guy once he knows why you are in relationship with him. It's amazing how easily ladies with boyfriends abandon their guys for richer ones.

To my guys, you don't even have to spend. Just show you got money. They will do anything and cry at the end that you are stingy. Laugh and move on to the next gold digger

They keep seeing topics like this and forming voltron, all na wash, they will never change. Forget all the feminist comments you see here, in real life they cry and beg rich dudes to keep their relationship, all because of money

When it comes to committed relationships, particularly courtship and marriage, a woman will choose the best financial option available to her. It doesn't matter if he is a beta, alpha, redpillers or simp. All that matters is financial stability, her comfort and survival, which all boils down to your resources. You ability to satisfy her lust doesn't count as it cannot buy bread. If you are a redpiller with a great sexual appeal and a masculine frame made of adamatium or vibranium, the woman you are discussing marriage with will overlook you and pick the man that has more resources than you even if he the most pathetic simp and he is so unattractive and disgusting. She will pick him even if she has to share him with other women.

When it comes to lust, a female will choose the guy that turns her on and gets her in the mood regardless of his social class. That's why a rich woman will fùck a hot gym rat that turns her on even though he is barely struggling to pay his rent and isn't fit to tie the shoe lace of her beta husband financially. Lust is a short term thing and what matters at that moment is the satisfaction of that lust, not your ability to pay the bills and give her expensive gifts. Such a guy can be above or below her in social status, rich or poor.

If you think I have been foolish with all my posts, then I dare you to do the following:
(1) Never get a DNA test on your kids because you trust your wife/babymama since you love her. grin
(2) Don't ever check her phone and social media accounts when you have the chance because you trust her since you love her. grin
(3) If you have money, take her overseas, marry her there with a marriage license, live there, and expect her not to torment you and use the misandric system and family courts against you. Do all these because you trust her since you love her. Mteww. grin
(4) If she says she is a virgin, keep spending on her and don't verify her claims until on the wedding night (that's if she lets a silly beta cùck like you service her promise land) because you trust her since you love her.
(5) Grant your wife/ babymama/gf unsupervised and unrestricted access to your bank accounts and property documents, and even buy (or change) all your properties in her name and except not to be screwed over in future because you trust her since you love her. Some of you can't even trust your kids with your bank accounts yet you think love and trust must go together. grin

Don't be among the men who think past is irrelevant. Don't be among the men who choose a certain kind of women when it comes to your standard. Don't buy into the social engineering that posits that past doesn't matter; don't run along with it. It is the same way many beta men now allow their wives to wear cropped gym wears that only hookup girls and sex workers should wear, and they then defend this norm with silly nonsense

A lot of women want to be with rich men because they give them a comfortable lifestyle (money, gifts, vacations, housing, etc.)

but that does not mean that these women are sexually attracted to them for their money.

There are tons of beta males with shitty looks and personalities who end up getting married to a decent looking woman because they have a nice career.

I know tons of my ex-girlfriends and fuckbuddies who married some dork with a job and degree later.

Women can and do make calculated decisions to date/marry men who have money and career success, but it is almost like a business decision. There is no sexual attraction involved.

This is why guys who lead with their wallets end up having to climb through endless hoops (X number of dates, diamond size, expensive dinner dates, etc.) and are subjected to endless rules (“I don’t do anal”, “we must split the housework”, “you must do X to get a Mouth Gig”, etc.).

There is no genuine sexual desire so the women want to maximize the monetary and emotional elements they get out of the relationship while doing the minimum they can do for the man sexually (because having sex with someone you are unattracted to is a chore).

From observation, the modern-day woman isn't interested in dating or marriage.

Just casual sex here and there. Play. Fun. Party. Travel. Freedom. Money. Frolicking. Gallivanting from one Alhaji to the other Yahoo boy.

Relationship with them is premium tears

The economic situation of most nations these days has disabled men from being a complete provider for the family, wives this times must truly express their helpmeet characteristics. On the otherhand, leaving your wife or spouse to the full hands of a boss is more disastrous to the existence of your relationship.

This is why the red pill is very important. It's a cold world out there, even religious institutions don't have your back as a man in the intersexual dynamics

It's time we think for what's best for us as men. Why must we always be the ones to do the responsible thing? The right thing? It's about time men do what's best for them. As women have been taught all their life.

Just take a look above men's sexual interest, you'll find out polygamy is a bad option for him. Reproductive wise, it is a good option. But on a mental, social, economic, emotional, psychological, physical scale, he just set himself up. Humans are thinking humans you know, though sex is already a basic need, but sex is not what's running in hearts or will continue to run in our hearts 24/7

Majority of women are after employed men or men with a good amount of cash.

Sex seems cheap today because we are living in a sexual world. Hook-up culture has blown away the roof. But is sex cheap? The price of reproduction has never been cheap if we are to look at the essence of sex which is reproduction

Self-control is only important if sex will be an albatross to his destination. The man with a large ambition doesn't need a harem of women orbiting him 24/7. Else, he'll quickly lose focus.

a rich man would rather have a harem of broken beautiful women (which most women prefer to be in a relationship with instead of a broke poor man) than be in a relationship with the daughter of the richest man in the world. Both strategies have their pros and cons.

Being married to a harem of broke (beautiful) women grants him the ability to live as freely as he desires. No woman can limit his urge except he chooses to.

But some rich men who are blinded by romance allow their "idol woman" to restrict them. She becomes his god and he, her follower.

Being married to a rich woman limits his authority in the home. And even proves difficult when said woman is from a wealthy home.

In the real sense, it's women who see romance as business. Men see romance as romance accompanied by plethoras of sacrifices.

Sex to women is more of security than pleasure. Sex for men is more of pleasures and ego - the boast of a harem.

women fvck men better than them in one area or the other. And men respect other men better than them in one area or the other.

As far as she is sexually active, there is a particular guy she fvcks without thinking of his resources. Only what she takes from this guy is the time he uses to romance her and fvck her. Or, the reward(s) he solely decides for her.

Concurrently, she might be fvcking other men in her orbit, but these men pay heavily with their resources: money, gifts, vacations, favours, promotions and with time inclusive.

With the former her desire is genuine and void of materialism, and sex is spontaneous. While with the later, desire is as a result of gold, and sex only comes from series of persuasions rather than free will.

Marriage is usually all about financial security and safety for women. It has nothing to do with sexual attraction or your red pill knowledge. It is nothing to do with love. You can be a pathetic simp and a woman will still pick you for marriage as long as you are her best financial option. You can be sexually unattractive (you could even look deformed or be a monkey), poor in bed or whatever and she will still pick you for marriage as long as you are her best financial deal. Being picked as a lottery ticket or retirement plan doesn't mean you will be spared the games and wiles of female nature.

It is only you that is discussing marriage, not her. You want to privatise a girl that don’t give a sheet about you.

Also, she likes to kiss, but she don’t want to kiss you.

No dey deceive yourself. Remove yourself from the cast, make she be with who she cherish.

If you want to live a peaceful life, marry or have affair with many women or marry none.

If you have a wife who is a determined go-getter in a corporate environment, rest assured that the chances that the top heads and executive of that company have either banged or currently bang your woman.

Also don't be fooled if she tells you she was raped orthey forced their way on her. It is your woman that will give all the green light and invitation for her to be lashed. It's a thing of bragging right for her to be seen having a close relationship with those who call the shots.

I have seen this unfold at my current place of work. You wouldnt believe the husband of this woman drops her to work unfailingly everyday!

Painful -- yes. Reality, sure.

As a man, you need to experience genuine desire from a woman.

You need to see a woman do anything for you. Not because of your wealth or status. But for your personality and whole being

There can be sex without genuine desire.

But there's no genuine desire without sex.

However, there's a difference between winning women with baits and giving a woman who has already won your heart baits (presents).

Trying to buy a woman's love with materials and luxury will always get you exploited

Marriage preserves the sanctity of sex. Because a society without tough rails on sex will turn into a cesspool.

A functional society is built on a sound micro system - a family. A system of similar people and cultures. And family is constructed with the bricks and fabrics of marriage.

Why sex? Without sex, the human population comes to an abrupt end

Women are a reflection of what men permit in society. And men become what women reward.
And don't forget this - SEX IS THE ULTIMATE RULER OF THE UNIVERSE.