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Marriage is usually all about financial security and safety for women. It has nothing to do with sexual attraction or your red pill knowledge. It is nothing to do with love. You can be a pathetic simp and a woman will still pick you for marriage as long as you are her best financial option. You can be sexually unattractive (you could even look deformed or be a monkey), poor in bed or whatever and she will still pick you for marriage as long as you are her best financial deal. Being picked as a lottery ticket or retirement plan doesn't mean you will be spared the games and wiles of female nature.

It is only you that is discussing marriage, not her. You want to privatise a girl that don’t give a sheet about you.

Also, she likes to kiss, but she don’t want to kiss you.

No dey deceive yourself. Remove yourself from the cast, make she be with who she cherish.

If you want to live a peaceful life, marry or have affair with many women or marry none.

If you have a wife who is a determined go-getter in a corporate environment, rest assured that the chances that the top heads and executive of that company have either banged or currently bang your woman.

Also don't be fooled if she tells you she was raped orthey forced their way on her. It is your woman that will give all the green light and invitation for her to be lashed. It's a thing of bragging right for her to be seen having a close relationship with those who call the shots.

I have seen this unfold at my current place of work. You wouldnt believe the husband of this woman drops her to work unfailingly everyday!

Painful -- yes. Reality, sure.

As a man, you need to experience genuine desire from a woman.

You need to see a woman do anything for you. Not because of your wealth or status. But for your personality and whole being

There can be sex without genuine desire.

But there's no genuine desire without sex.

However, there's a difference between winning women with baits and giving a woman who has already won your heart baits (presents).

Trying to buy a woman's love with materials and luxury will always get you exploited

Marriage preserves the sanctity of sex. Because a society without tough rails on sex will turn into a cesspool.

A functional society is built on a sound micro system - a family. A system of similar people and cultures. And family is constructed with the bricks and fabrics of marriage.

Why sex? Without sex, the human population comes to an abrupt end

Women are a reflection of what men permit in society. And men become what women reward.
And don't forget this - SEX IS THE ULTIMATE RULER OF THE UNIVERSE.

Your work as an inventor, scientist, innovator, engineer, thinker, writer, philosopher, etc will only be valued by a human population who can only come into existence through SEX.

Many great men in history never got married. But it took the population of men who got married to birth offsprings that made these men who would have been lost in the archives of history to remain known to the world and their works accessible by the sons of men on earth.

Women are who they are. They will not change. It's simply their evolutionary and biological makeup. Instead of hating or avoiding them, you learn how to deal with them, hence, GAME

Again, the reason young men still find women difficult is because they expect women to be who they are not.

That's where the Redpill comes in. However, most men these days are trying to use it as an avenue to hate women or abstain from romance entirely.

There can be sex without marriage. But there will be no society without marriage. Every society that seems to be collapsing today is because of the rampancy of sex. Where sex is not sacred under a notable institution, civilization declines gradually.

The importance of marriage is to make sex sacred. If sex becomes rampant and cheap with every cent and kobo, that society will end up down the drain.

So, marriage is not as useless as you think

Let me state this clearly: the number 1 motivating force and power on earth is SEX - which is further substantiated on the foundation of relationships, love, romance, and marriage.

Marriage is not by force. Neither is it compulsory. Every man must choose which cross he wants to carry.

The essence of the Redpill is to understand female psychology and nature and learn to work with it as a man.

To make it clear, dating or relationship is not compulsory

You can't be lying down inside your bedroom and expecting a good woman to walk up to you. Rather, you put yourself in a position and location where it becomes possible for good women to access you. Or, to access the kind of women you want.

Many women are unfit for dating and relationships. A man interested in a romantic relationship must:

A. Know the redpill.
B. Become the best version of himself.
C. Traverse his territory or geography to get the best of women where they are located

Sex is the first thing on the list of the male species across the animal kingdom. That's why you see male animal species doing the most for female animal species. Because sex is an opportunity to sustain his genes for aeons in the genetic pool.

Every other things after sex is secondary

The nice guy opens his heart to genuinely love a woman but is ignorant that the woman is a manipulator who wants to lure him with the promise of affection and companionship to siphon his time and money

Number 1 rule for men: never in any condition sacrifice your dreams and ambitions on the altar of love because of any woman.

Because once a woman senses that her level is now above yours, she will treat you with contempt and dislike

The rule for every successful relationship: the woman must choose you. She must have a genuine desire for you.

It doesn't matter whether you are poor or rich, ugly or handsome, short or tall.

If a woman likes you, she likes you and will do anything to make that relationship work. She will be the one to give herself advice and behave in the best manners to get you attached.

If she doesn't care about your feelings, won't listen to your serial complaints and warnings, just forget about her

There are 2 sides of a relationship - Love and Business.
Most women consider the 2 ruthlessly. You can be handsome, caring and good on bed (the Love/Attraction side) but how financially buoyant are you to sustain a family (the Business side)? She may date you for sometime but will drop the relationship at the shortest moment when a better option shows up.

most Nigerian girls have multiple partners.
Always use protection else few moments can change the rest of your life.

Women are joining the work force to be like men and that is more effective than contraception. Deceive her with the career, tell her she can store her eggs, tell her there is IVF, waste her best years of fertility and when there is a crisis, sell medical solutions to them.

Once you are able to convince women that they don't need to carry a baby, the deal is done. Now they want us to be using science to have babies, sleeping with dolls and selling us all kind of solutions when God gave us free.
Don't take everything from the West, you're just a commodity to them.

a woman is not traditional, then yes, she benefits from marriage more. It's like buying a man's husband's duties and lifestyle with fake currency. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

If her traditionalism is based on subscription, when it only applies when you have money, are loyal to her emotions, and are a repentant street girl, then you should marry a man because at least both of you will pay during the date.

Otherwise, men and women benefit from marriage, if done rightly.

pansophist:
President Xi earned his rightful place as the number one. Very accurate.

But I do not think that businessmen can be tagged “powerful”, because with a stroke of pen from politicians, all their wealth and influence can turn to zero instantly.

Just look at the multibillionaires that President Putin turned to almajiri when they crossed the line (e.g, Mikhail Khodorkovsky), and many fled Russia to go seek asylum elsewhere.

To be powerful, you need to have absolute control over a totality of institutions, and business men do not have such power. Only politicians does, such as Xi and Putin.

Billionaires are like children in their father’s mansion. They may be richer than other kids, but their father can strip them off their toy instantly.

This is why you never see Nigerian billionaires from pastors to businessmen go against politicians or criticise what’s happening. They understand that their wealth will seize and their dirty can opened, with lawsuit from everywhere that will end their empire.

Celebrities also fall inside this boat. See what they did to Michael Jackson, now it’s Pdiddy and Rkelly.

Money is not power. Money is money, and power is power.

The Rothschilds are more powerful than any politicians, bankers control the world, governments are puppets, who ever controls money in circulation control the world

It is better a man goes into a relationship with a mindset of knowing he can lose his girl anytime, that way he will invest with caution and only do what he can afford to lose, hence no need for over banging or pressuring yourself to make her happy

Quote From Emmaodet

It's not the african idea of marriage. It's the toxic nature the women over there have built where they rather walk out instead of figuring things out when issues comes up.

I say this because, the white people over there are facing the same high divorce rate.

So much so that they are 1. Leaving their women behind and going to Asia as passport bros to get married

2. There are numerous podcasts blowing up encouraging the men not to get married.

So, your theory of African men mentality causing the problem does not hold water.

The problem is uncontrolled freedom one partner has over the other. And that uncontrolled partner is the female.

Hence they end up filing for divorce at any slightest provocation.

They know they will always win.

When you know you'll alway win in a game regardless of how you play, you stop working on yourself. You ignore redflags. You don't care about the algorithm no more.

This is the problem.

Someone quoted "marriage is a lottery you're most likely guaranteed to lose".

Those attributes that protected the proper functioning of marriage are non-extinct now

Marriage/long-term relationship is a loss for the modern man because the law and society are not rewarding his efforts, hence, it is better to abstain from the game (if he is not interested in having children) or gamble wisely(if he is interested in having children).

Let him continue donating to the girl.
We have seen how this plays out.
'what have you even done for me'
'did I ask or beg you to do that for me'
'didnt we have sex'
'just that little favour you did and you are making noise'
That day his eyes will clear

A lady who insists on a no sex before marriage most likely has other options, certainly doesn't desire you sexually, and definitely cannot attach to you emotionally.

A man who has to win a woman's affection, is already playing a lost game, and he'll pay dearly for it, when whatever won and sustained the woman's affection is no more.