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Dealing with hoes is not wrong but committing to hoes is wrong. You can't be paying top dollar for something trashy jerks have been getting for free for a decade.If only the average man can see the shenanigans the average girl gets up to between the ages of 17 and 27ish, guys wouldn't be too quick to dismiss our message of being selective.
Anyone who has gone to college or university knows what girls get up to while their male coursemates are struggling to get even a proper GF.

The ONLY single reason women sleep around, club, bang and chase the top 20% guys is because deep deep deep down, they know the remaining 80% will be stranded and really thirsty. So no matter what, worst case scenario, they will get a beta to settle down with at the end of the day even if they actually don't like him. They will grudgingly settle down with him.

Most guys are not intelligent to determine whether a girl rates them or not, they don't understand they are being used, may be they are aware consciously or subconsciously but because they are investing to get sex they wait it out, at least I would hit that pussy they tell themselves, some can see it claringly that this girl doesn't like them even as they spend money but because she's beautiful and they are in love they become irrational and stupid

Women are always having sex, if you vibe with her and gauge for desire and she's not interested

That means she doesn't want to fucck you

Most girls love when guys begs them...like it's gives them an ego boost or something

In fact, I hope that a lot of men like you don't understand the deep, dark secrets of female nature because you will never trust them and when you can't trust them, you can't be manipulated easily. Also, you'll make less effort in contributing to the blue pilled system that makes men highly ignorant so that they can slave for the society and women. Anything against this, society will collapse. The illusion of happiness in the typical blue pilled modern monogamous marriages is encouraged for this reason.

LIKE I TELL MY GUYS. UNLESS SHE'S A VIRGIN, THERE'S AN ENDLESS LIST OF POSSIBILITIES FROM HER PAST, THE PRESENT, AND IN THE future. MARRYING THESE LAZY GOOD-FOR-NO-USE GĮRLS THAT YOU AND I SEE TODAY ENLISTS YOU FOR A LIFE OF ENDLESS SUFFERING AND MAKES YOU ELIGIBLE FOR DAILY DRAMA, INFIDELITY, PATERNITY FRAUD, NON-STOP NAGGING, BANKRUPTCY, AND ULTIMATELY, UNTIMELY DEATH.

MANY MEN ARE DESTINED FOR THIS FATE, BUT IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE FOR YOU AND I.

An average girl starts having sex from 16 yr old. If she is single at the age of 30, that is 14 years of "Ruminige". Don't settle for less. The generation X will probably have the record of most single mothers. Don't date broken women. Keep popping those bitter pills. Gracias Amigos.

The only validating and more convincing reason for a long term, conservative, traditional, monogamous marriage/ relationship: to raise healthy kids, especially healthy boys that will mature into quality kings! This fact science proves daily. Other reasons like companionship, assistant, 24/7 fvck mate, blah blah are important but secondary.

Children raised in a poor but stable family (2 parent household) do better than the ones that grew in a 1 parent household, or with foster, step or grand parent(s) regardless of their socioeconomic status!

It has been from the time we settled into societies till today. The only difference is that the bar in standards of performance kept going high for men, with women's own (bar of performance) set low or almost nonexistent. Recent comments here (and the subsequent agreement in likes, it got) of guys (after hustling hard to make money and create value) settling for spent, overfûcked hoes is a witness to how messy the dating market has become and how men have been tricked into accepting less than they deserve. Men who voluntarily choose not to participate in the mess by staying off marriage are equally shamed by their fellow men in an institution where he has to play the slave just for her to be happy, when it should be the opposite, because a man is putting his entire life (body, resources, sanity, peace) at stake.

For men considering marriage, it's almost depressing when you see all of these grim facts in theory and reality, but with the knowledge here, one can minimize the risks of getting fûcked by worthless women and the state.

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Well I just asked my guys if they'd place their girlfriends on salaries when they get rich. Don't be surprised their answers were a resounding "Yes".

Guy 1: It's something I've always planned on doing when I get rich, it's normal.
Guy 2: Yes, but wait o girlfriend not wife. No o, I can but that means for every 20k my gf gets, my mum gets 200k while my guys get 100k

Guy 1: Alters mind slightly, yes I will if the girl is a good girl.

Me: How many good girls do you think are left?

Lessons:

1. The current society has conditioned the average young man to believe that you must have money to get into relationships hence the high fraud rate by young men (if you know what I mean).

2. Young ladies have learnt to weaponise sex, attention and their feminity. Now you have to pay in one way or another to get any of the above. No money no honey.

3. Will this end any time soon? Lol, looking at the direction of things, it'll only get worse. The rate boys are dropping money will make you wonder, the simps outnumber the men as the wights outnumbered the living in game of thrones. Honestly the knowledge of the redpill is so rare you shouldn't speak about it to anyone. Let people learn about it without coercion.
The best we can do is arm ourselves against the oncoming onslaught.

4. A significant lot of people are just ₦10 000 away from being a simp. With great amount of money comes a great amount of stupidity. A lot of people will deny TRP when money comes, Peter will be like "omo thank God sey my own na only 3 times, see this guy o". Ask yourself: Am I redpilled just because I don't have enough money?

5. Learn game and TRP. It'll help you navigate life when you get the money.

Assignment: Ask your friends if they can put their girlfriends on salaries, you'll know how majority of our guys will still be served.

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pocohantas:
It is not fine.🙂

My side chick should love like these very fuccable for my pleasure, but my wife must look plain for house chores and my comfort

Shikena

ReacherSaidNoth:
So many Horsebands here proudly carrying all the weight. Both funny and sad.

Share bills with your wife and see as she disrespects you

Banhammy717:
As a responsible husband, who's in his right sesnse, don't even think of it, or mention it that your wife should pay part of bill with you.
It's a foolish idea, it's total nonsense, even disgusting.
It's a responsibility of a man to cater for the entire family 100%, even if your wife earns higher than you.
It's only left to her, if she wills, to support you.
On your question that if the wife contributes financially how does it affect the decision making in the family? You definitely loose your respect and you becomes her subject.

God bless you sir

Hismajesty44:
I share bill with my wife and she isn't complaining, even the house we live in here in lag she bought the land in my name and our relationship is blessed with four children. Remember, just because of sharing that's why's called marriage!

Such women rarely submit and give the authority to their husbands

Hismajesty44:
I share bill with my wife and she isn't complaining, even the house we live in here in lag she bought the land in my name and our relationship is blessed with four children. Remember, just because of sharing that's why's called marriage!

Sir you are one in a million, most women would disrespect their husbands if they share the bills

pocohantas:
He is not yet ready.
He is looking for the good wife that will do chores and childminding alone while sharing bills with him. Married single mother.

She must do all the chore even if she's sharing the bills, am I not her husband, did I not marry her and bring her under my roof, does she not bear my surname ,let her misbehave she would be sent packing to her father's house bringing shame and reproach unto her family

What nonsense
Rubbish

Adesina18111:
Been married for over 4 years now with a child... My wife and I have never sat down for once to share how we pay bills but to be honest, she is so supportive even right from boyfriend and girlfriend days... I wouldn't have gone ahead to marry her if she is the type of ladies that only bring sex to the table...we don't share bills but we both pay bills...the scope is, we both have a joint account apart from our individual acct (business and savings)... And that's for running our home... What we do is we both transfer money to the joint account from the profit we make every month.. we only spend based on the profit made and not to satisfy our needs... Our child comes first, then foodstuffs, house maintenance bills (electricity, Dstv payment and other miscellaneous), car maintenance and fuel, followed by individual REASONABLE needs...we hardly send money to extended family members except it is MOST IMPORTANT... even if my mother in law ask money from my wife, she would tell her to wait until month end and see what she can do... She will discuss it with me and we both make decisions...it's been God anyways

You are lucky

ogbe88:
Oga submission comes naturally, whether u have money or u don't have enough,

It's this mindset that put a lot of men in pressure.

She would never submit to your authority if she's sharing bills with you and you stomach the insult and shame

Cocolatti:
It's not as easy as you are saying it. Whether we like it or not, there will always be couples where the wife earns more than the husband, and in such situations the wife will have to cover more of the expenses, otherwise some problems would be left unsolved.

Such marriages are miserable and usually end up in divorce

ednut1:
shame dey catch me for my gender sometimes. In the abroad this is what many Nigerian couples are going through. As there is no house maid like they had in Nigeria. Many of the men are not doing house chores and taking care of the kids. Meanwhile the wife is contributing 30-50% of the bills. Resentment builds up then boom divorce

Stop lying, resentment build in because they are exposed to a new feminist culture that believes woman deserves better than settling down in marriage even if the man is doing the chores, the same divorce happens, western men that have been sharing the bills and doing chores with their wives are experiencing 50% divorce rate, women are emboldened in such culture to shun family values and go after individual inclination, coupled with the biased family court laws, divorce laws

pansophist:
………….

One of the advantages of getting married is that If you intend to raise Godly children, then marriage is the best system to achieve that.

I’ll give you more advantages.

Another one is companionship. The older you become, the more you realise that this life is truly a lonely place. Hedonism and money will not fill that void.

If you marry a good person, then that automatically makes life enjoyable.

If you intend to be wealthy, then being married helps you achieve that. With a partner holding it down for you in different areas while you pursue something else.

Please don’t underscore marriage, it’s bad.

Underscoring the importance of marriage only means one thing, and it’s that the underscorer didn’t come from a healthy home:


Where the work is, is to marry a genuinely good person. This is where most people make mistake hence they hate marriage.

With the global agenda of global elites to masculinize women and feminized men via ideological social reengineering through the media and academia, hijacking religion as we now have post modernist gay clerics, with women becoming the most hyper sexualized generation in world history, social media play a role to these, men and women no longer understand traditional gender roles, masculinity is demonized and unrewarded especially in the global north, alimony, child support, gynocentic laws, feministic women and culture

Is marriage still worth especially for someone that wants to settle down abroad

emmaodet:
Well, there is no need to rebel.
The system always have a loophole to take advantage of.
While the man who has hustled is left with a semi-damaged woman, he has the option and power to explore as far as his financials can take him aside his wife.
It is not a crime. Don't let anyone gaslight you or demonize you for having a side chick outside marriage.
Don't let them tell you, you have a wife and stick to her. Why did you marry when you know you won't be faithful to one woman blah blah blah.
Bro, enjoy your life. So many pussies to conquer out there if you want and like

These slutz were disvirgined very early and by by natural default abundance were more likely to have fuckedd like mad from the period they lost their virginity even till their post decline years, and they have the nerve to lecture about morality and spirituality about Chasity and purity, non virgins for that matter

It's well

emmaodet:
Well, there is no need to rebel.
The system always have a loophole to take advantage of.
While the man who has hustled is left with a semi-damaged woman, he has the option and power to explore as far as his financials can take him aside his wife.
It is not a crime. Don't let anyone gaslight you or demonize you for having a side chick outside marriage.
Don't let them tell you, you have a wife and stick to her. Why did you marry when you know you won't be faithful to one woman blah blah blah.
Bro, enjoy your life. So many pussies to conquer out there if you want and like

I swear you are correct some would say as a man in a relationship you have no business pursuing women for sexual purpose aren't you a Christian aren't you moral aren't you bound by masculine honor code of loyalty and fidelity, why can't you control your libido, why do you lack self discipline as a man, why aren't you behaving like a virtuous Christian and many other religious shaming like you are not depicting righteous living and godliness, some would shame you that you would get STD like HIV as if we are stupid enough not to use contraceptives, what annoys me is that the women telling you all these nonsense were fucking like mad having unlimited raw sex, fornicating heavily in their prime years as if there was no tomorrow, but to guilt trip and shame you not to pursue pleasure at all and rather manage the boredom of one single pussy

Western men are fûcked deeply.

Africa, certain parts of Asia and the Middle east are the last bastions of decent masculinity and patriarchy.

Sadly, the simping culture is creeping up on our young men. I've seen university boys sacrifice their tuition fees for birthdays of women, do other stupid things as vagina worshippers etc.

One of the reasons why it hasn't gain much strong footing here is that men, on a general aren't earning much (weak economy), so women on average (who earn much lower than their men who also earn poorly) have to show traits of submission.

In the first world economies, high earning for men also improved the status for women and the men goofed by failing the biggest shit test, Feminism

MGTOW is the shît.

The modernism of marriage these days and its accompanying elements is what has made men to start going their own way. Fûck dating and marriage!

The church, which is part of society also tows the the society's aim of making men simp and blue-pilled.

To be fair, society will collapse when all men get red-pilled because all men would be alpha and selfish to watch out for only themselves. With a lot of blue-pilled SIMPs, there are a lot of fools to be exploited, carrying everyone else

Baronthecelebri:
Bros you lie, they're responsible for their failure, I have a single mother of 4 girls in my church, she's beautiful but have bad character and I'm planning to Bleep her.
Women love bad guys because I've walked up to many girls in my age bracket they insulted because I don't have a car,dress like yahoo boy.

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Lolz

chariisGRACE:
While it is true that some '30+' ladies are single because of their promiscuity, we should look at a reason that is not much talked about.

The truth is, some of these women are victims of the 'wickedness' of a man whom they invested all their love and affection into.

What do I mean?

A man would approach a lady in her mid 20s, ignite a relationship. Not only igniting a relationship but, giving the said lady an "I will marry you" vibe, and because women are very emotional, they'll stick with this said man and before you know it... Boom!! 💥 The lady has clocked 30+.

Oga no like her again. There is this fresh 20+ lady that oga is laying ambush for. The 20+ lady has a firmer skin, perky breasts, outward innocence etc but to get this new girl, oga has to get rid of the already 30+ lady.

Once the now 30+ lady has been evicted from oga's heart, with her hope of oga marrying her smashed to the ground. Already devastated and sad, not knowing that , there is more devastation and sadness lurking around the corner.

Time passes, oga is now with a 20+ lady, and 30+ is now on her own.

She grabs her phone and opens an Internet app only to see that, she and her ilks are now labelled as Evening Newspaper (ENP), wh*re, h0e, etc by men. That is a severe case of devastation.

She was only a victim of a man's bosheit. A victim of hit and run by a man's vehicle.

You all need to stop generalizing. Not every 30+ was promiscuous.

Chairman those ladies during that time period had plenty of options even when they were still in committed relationship, there is no excuse except she's dumb and didn't want to notice the signs and leave, women by default always have an abundance of options

basically being a "Nice Guy" is using kindness to "buy" sex. Like "I'm sweet and caring so I deserve your puccy". It's lame and it won't work.

A nice guy wants to be agreeable, sweet and kind in hopes of being rewarded with sex for said qualities. They are the biggest manipulators. And rarely get the puccy. Cause women see through that bull.

If you like a girl be upfront with her. Dont do good and pleasant things for her to win her friendship while quietly waiting for her weakest point to "attack" and try to fucc her. Cause you're only wasting your time, energy and resources and you'll be angry when the woman calls you out for it.

when you're strong, women WANT and are WILLING to hand over control and rest in their femininity with the full confidence that they're safe with you, that you know what you're doing and you're able to lead, protect etc (women break rules for alphas).