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I have had some crazy sexual encounters with some of the most innocent looking women in today's society that I am 100% sure both their boyfriends and eventual husbands will never get to experience Such with same women.

As I Rule I don't do married women.
Suprisenly, the number of Green lights, Sexual fantasie chats And Nude pictures that comes my way on a daily basis from married women (in most cases they usually hide their marital status) has inforced my beliefs that Most married men know absolutely nothing about the sexual nature of their supposed Good wifes and it also validates my suspicion that most married women are using marriage to cover up their whoring enterprise....

Back in the days women used virginity, fidelity and feminine characteristics to bargain for a man's commitment.

But this day's, it is we the men that are willingly offering our commitments (some even their birth right) to women for something as pathetic as validation from a woman even when sex ( not to talk of virginity ) is not guaranteed.

We sold our rights, dignity And Authority in the name of being civilized and Woke.

emmaodet:
EXACTLY...Exactly bro.
I don't know why many Nigerians always equate financial stability to Richness.
Financial stability is just the basic financial level expected of a human/man. It is a minimum requirement.
A decent life.
I don't think this is a crime to expect or require for God sake. It is the basic

Financial stability/ comfort is hard as it means being average, with the current economy and inflation, it's tough for people hence it seems like it's equated to being wealthy, in these generation it's either you are rich or you are poor, middle class is dead, we are in the rentier economy, home ownership is dead

@emmaodet, times have changed,

Savingz:
Truth be told .....these pill 💊 💊 has civilized my tummy
Stop Personalizing Women Too Much , She’s not your property even if she’s your girlfriend, You didn’t birth her , you don’t own her, You didn’t buy her at any Set price from Any Vendor she’s only with you as long as The Situation Favors Her. she could be gone in a heartbeat

Facts
Don't get too emotionally attached, but scarcity and onetititis makes men clingy to women even if she's showing multiple red flags, they are poor, they have no option, again some are in love

" no matter how pretty a woman is... A guy somewhere is tired of slamming that p*ssy"

Martin Corridon, 467 BC

Redpill is life

A time will come when you realise that women can never cure your loneliness.

@ emmaodet, saw your diary on that married woman cheating on her husband, Jesus, sir, will you advice one to marry like these, let's remember these our generation women are not like the 90's and early 2000's women, even these so-called women are promiscuous, tiktok women are going to skyrocket cheating and divorce, it's sad, i would always say these if you didn't meet your wife as a virgin and she's used to sex before she married you, that spirit of fvcking can't leave her it will enter marriage

Martinez39s:
I have read skepticus's analyses so far up till this point. All I can is that when people refuse to learn or listen, just let them do what they please; if they learn the hard way, let them bear the burn and don't stress yourself comforting them. All we will give them is a sarcastic "sorry." That's my principle.

Some red-pill men think they are so special that they can find "quality women" (translation: a woman who is a nawalt as long as they play the alpha and hold frame). They think they are invincible or different or that what happened to others won't happen to them. I have seen one on this thread that believes no woman will cheat on redpiller; who knows how many more delusions are out there among our redpillers? Or how many believe these delusions? Some married men in gynocentric societies who have read the Rational Male wrongly think that they can put themselves in a marriage situation, where the wife has all the power, and still command her submission and flex their authority just because they are maintaining frame. Though we call women "fish brain", but they are not that stupid when they are manipulating and working in their best interest. Who are you that female nature should make an exception of you? There are territories and situations that even core redpillers avoid because they know female nature won't spare them.

Those that will learn will learn. I am sure that during Casillas's career, a lot of people would have pointed to his marriage and the kissing scene on TV as signs and evidence of good relationship with a good woman. They didn't know that things change with time and intentions usually reveal themselves with time. "Be a HVM and everything will workout with women" they say.... that's why £16,000-per-week Lovren's wife was cheating on him with a £200-per-month forestry worker.

Those that will learn will learn; those that stubborn, filled with hubris, and delusional are playing with fire. Except they become victims of blissful ignorance till death, they are in for a big shock and regret. Notice that Casillas's wife was intentional in her ways and started divorce proceedings after Casillas passed his earning peaks so that she could cash out; the fact that a woman is stroking your ego by giving the illusion that are you in control and you are an alpha doesn't mean she is not planning the divorce and doing her calculations.

Refreshing reminder, women are way ahead in terms of calculation no matter how redpilled you are and the society you find yourself

To be clear, engaging with women in permanent living arrangement would involve some level of "simping" as you'll be expected to provide as a man to get sex, companionship and your bloodline passed on. Realistically, you can't always hold frame 100% of the time but at least, be smart enough to recover when you seem to be losing

emmaodet:
Na wa oooooooo

Women are very very brutal ooo with their reply when a man is down or poor

I'm telling you
They have all the advantage
All manner of men are chasing them
Abundance of options
Broke or poor or struggling men are going to suffer a lot, most are starved of sex and romance, the girl that just mistakenly gives them greenlight they would cherish and develop onetititis straight, no money is a curse, poverty would make you tolerate shit, settle down for crumbs, endure the worst of the worst

It's well

CaveAdullam:
I agree. You are totally on point.

However, do you think nature gives a Bleep about your poverty?

Who do you think cares about your troubles and challenges? Nobody.

I'd espoused everything on that tweet as far as my knowledge carried me.

Taking yourself out of the gene peel is nature using poverty as natural selection process. There will always be genes for every next generation, and it's bad if yours is not included.

Many men and women lower than us are propagating the earth with both good and bad offsprings. They're nature's channel for multiplying the earth and keep it moving.

There's no guarantee you will become as rich as you desired. You can make wealth today and lose it tomorrow. Nothing is guaranteed. So, rather than leave your life to chances while not take advantage of every opportunity right now?

This is one problem with intelligent or enlightened people: always rationalising instead of taking the shots. Meanwhile, time waits for no one.

We don't have power to change our current situation individually except as a community. But as we await the hands of the community, we won't allow opportunities pass us.

If it's impossible to combine your modest income + that of your spouse to run a family, it's fine. You can ignore it. Those that can do it will do it and replenish the earth.

The fact that you are disadvantaged doesn't mean others can't leverage their current predicament.

Remember: nature doesn't care about your riches or poverty. Only genes for the next generation.

Thanks.

I understand your point about genes not material wealth per say is what nature cares about but we are intelligent beings that's why I love western and Asian societies who are smart, their economy is a thousand times better than Africa but yet because it's not conducive enough as even joint income with both contributing to set up family they choose not to because with every passing generation raising children becomes more and more expensive, the ones that have kids are subsidised educationally via student loans, what am I trying to say, what you would be remembered for is your legacy like an invention, religion, technology, philosophy, that you leave behind, high IQ societies are delaying or not giving into marriage and child birth, raising kids is not child's play, consider their health, educational wellbeing, esteem issue, we are in internet age they would compare themselves with fraudsters and children of elites, again if they are contended and happy with what their parents provide for them they would most likely serve as cheap labour to be further exploited by elites in their company and that thought makes me angry, I slave hard, my son's slave hard, it's not good, that's why white people would kill their genes rather than making their children slave for Elon Musk and Bezos

@CaveAdullam, I saw your tweet which I totally disagree with, about starting a family with managable wages even if it's joint account with the salary of your wife and building life from there, it's wrong, it's why many youthful men are in trouble today, remember we aren't religious fanatics like our parents generation who left everything to God's hands and thought they were convenantly exempted from the hard times, we have Google, Ai, social media, books, the internet that we can get quality information and research with it, based on our current reality with our existing means we can project into the future and plan with the data, life is tough for a young bachelor managing in these economy staying alone, adding family when one has not attained comfort is going to bring a life of misery and struggling to your family, even in advanced societies they are not marrying and borning again, some fertility rate have declined drastically, we are living in modern times coupled with the fact of the Caliber of women we have to pick as wife's as quality women are scarce that's if we have the means and want to settle down, the data shows inflation would lead to hyperinflation which would lead to revolution or civil war possibly or intense inequality which would skyrocket homicide rates which would worsen the quality of life, that's the projection, as nothing is new under the sun even big nations like US are going to face their own calamity how much more Africa, we are not relying on religion as coping and escapism, remember 2yrs, 5yrs, 7yrs, 10yrs Nigeria and global economy would worsen


I would love you shed more light on these

@martinez39s these is my issue with bluepilled folks and individuals that haven't internalised the redpill, they are lucky they are in conservative Africa that the laws and institutions aren't gynocentric, again the redpill is not about gender war or blaming women for things that nature imbibed them with, it's a practical praxeology describing the reality of the dating market place in these modern era, our ancestors didn't even need the redpill because they had the common sense to understand that female hypergamy has to be checkmated like ensuring women married as virgins to ensure paternity of children to the husband and prevent cuckoldry, Africa men have the luxury of being ignorant of female nature but if they migrate abroad they are in for a rude awakening

Fiscus105:
So, the way the girl behaving is the way all girls behaving? You never see lady in which men usually take advantage of her? Not only her body even her money?

You also want to tell me, some guys that are brutal in relationship just like that lady? is that how all guys behaving?

You people must learn how to reasoning broadly and diffuse yourself from gender bias, if indeed you want better society.

It's not gender bias it's an overwhelming reality, women have the upper hand in the sexual market place, an overwhelming 70% of divorce is initiated by women in countries that keep record, women initiate most breakups, I'm not saying men can't be the source of issue in dating, relationship and marriage, but in most cases it's women , remember they by default for existing have an abundance of hornny men who want sex or relationship with them, they have the advantage

emmaodet:
There is a lady i met who was very very desperate to marry but just meeting hit and run guys.
After so many back and fort, we became close and she loosened up. I started learning cold hard bitter lessons from her.
She changes men like a diaper. She hardly run a relationship for 3 month without either party breaking up. A highly damaged lady.
She usuallly call me Bestie - always telling me about the guys she just meet, our Ex, the past and present, blah blah blahs
The guys that bang her like mad, the ones that just spend but can't bang etc Some of the things i learnt from her are but not limited to -
1. Poor/struggling guys are invicible to her - whille she complains alot about not getting a guy for commitment , i noticed poor guys approaching her regularly are invicible to her. She will only tell me about guys doing fine disturbing her though she told me a handsome but struggling far distant bf, begging her daily to move in with her is being ignored. The guy is teaching in a private schoool in calabar struggling financially while her pussy is bastardily decimated in lagos.She is holding out, bidding her time to see if she can still get a rich simp to marry. The poor boy is the last option.
2. Of recent she met an old NNPC manager (a money bag), within 2 weeks she has billed and milked the man 60k (though chicken change to him) and telling me she wants to use getting a house format to milk him another 250k (Jesssss) despite telling her to slow down and take it slowly, she didn't answer me.
3. Occassionally, she will ask me of format to use in milking guys for money. One time, she acted very very very sick to the old man. He called for like 3 days without she picking, maybe receiving another dick somewhere. After the 3rd day, she picked and was talking in a very sick way, that she is sick because she is missing him. The old simp quickly sent money for treatment while taking a flight from abuja to lag by the weekend to come see her why she laughs and make mockery of the man with her format.
I saw a first hand way how women coldheartedly milk men.
4. She is a nairalander

Thank you

Sir, reading these again, women are these cold, selfish and ruthless in putting their agenda first, men have to wise up

The brutal reality is that there is virtually nothing you can do to make a woman attracted to you. If a woman categorized you as a sexually unattractive man after meeting you, no amount of game, Redpill sense, or masculine frame is going to change it. The best thing to do is to forget about her and keep it moving. Trying to win her over with "dating drills" and Redpill game is a waste of time, or worse, a self-inflicted humiliation

Martinez39s:
It was inevitable. All redpillers won't be here forever. Despite the stubborn infestation of odious trolls and bad, anatogonist elements that somewhat deteriorated this thread, redpillers have left a lot of gems for those coming after the OGs of this thread. That's if they find this thread.

Shout out to Ubunja, CaveAdullam, NeroStealth01, Skepticus, HedgeFunds, BLOODYSPERM, GLYCOLYSISS (I have still not forgiven you for deactivating the way you did), SaviolaMemphix, Smartb0y, Jeshal007, luminouz, Emmynator, Junnior, Heartofcity12, RillyCool, Aaron12, LordAaron, COOL10, dontai, Emmaodet, sajmark, orchin, SOZINN, Ayoll, Zabiboy, TheGidRedpiller, CrystalTiger, dontai, ichidodo , Palazee, Dierich5, ProphetJeroboam, machote, iamphenomenal, Kalifate, posty56, SkyFlint, angelfallz, Regex, pansophist, MJBOLT, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Epostive, Mgtowmonk, and many more (I still remember a lot who I can't mention because of time). I hope you all are doing well.

Finally, Seun Osewa, I know you've been taking the pills lowkey. More success to you. Thanks for giving us this amazing platform.

Big man
You are welcome
Had to take a break from social media

Never commit to an alpha widow or single mother

The only privileges you have as an alpha redpiller are the following:
1) she breaks her rules for you, but she makes rules for simps.
2) she will be your sex freak and do stuffs with you in the bedroom that she wouldn't do with a beta simp.
3) she won't mistreat or disrespect you like she does to simps, and she will be the one chasing you around.
4) you make her wet, simps don't.

Outside these, the pùssy is not yours. Other men will have their share. I am saying this not to cause an argument but for your own safety as a fellow "brethren" in the red pill.

Happy new year guys

Growing up, I overheard my mum and other women saying that if a man can be sexually disciplined and master himself in that aspect, majority of his troubles with women have been solved. Thinking about this myself, I can tell you that sexual discipline will help you a lot, especially in your red pill journey and overcoming many female manipulations; it becomes obvious when you realise that the strongest weapon women have in breaking down your defences and controlling you is their sexuality and many men, great and ordinary, have fallen to this.

Forget what anyone might say, mastering yourself sexually is very possible. It doesn't mean you won't feel the urges, but such mastery simply consists in knowing that you are always in full control of your decisions despite the urges you feel.

Bad economy, poverty, rising cost of living and maintaining a family is a major reason in Africa. Another reason (for those who have the money) is the need for freedom. Some guys don't want to be tied down all in the name of marriage. They just want to make money and enjoy thier lives. Some guys that get married did so due to pressure from family and society.

One thing guys should know now is, no lady f..ucks just one guy! Redpilled O, Pink pilled O, it doesn't matter now!

emmaodet:
Don't use the word "Win'' - it shows you are putting yourself under pressure to act rather just be yourself and approach relationship on a relax mode.
If it works, fine.
If not, just fine.
About your question - the answer is personal because as our faces, names, date of birth and death differs, so is our decision making.
For me, i prefer monogamous with prostitute. Different people with different decisions based on their taste, circumstance or situation.
While monogamous with a side chick looks okay, the down side is that your chances of casting is very very high.
She will always call you when you don't want or like - i just call to hear your voice or i missed you.
She may likely send a nude pix and the phone may be with your wife or kid then.
You will likely be passwording your phone or literarily walking with it around the house not wanting to keep your sight away from it.
All these will be causing frictions in the house, occasional quarrels or your wife being unsecured.

Thank you sir

JESHAL007:
Please sir how can we win with regards to women as we pursue our ambition of wealth accumulation, should we be monogamous, monogamous with side chicks, monogamous with prostitutes, patronise only prostitutes, watch porn and masturbate only, be polygamous, cut off totally from women sexually and romantically, everything has its pros and cons, I need matured advice for young ambitious men who don't have enough experience in the game as they are still in their 20's

@CaveAdullam, Martinez39s, Skepticus or ubunja and other knowledgeable redpillers, I want you guys to construct an essay on these because it has life and death implications for young men in their 20's and 30's, it can be a long essay or it can be in parts,please we all are affected by women to certain degree interacting with them or not, please help us dissect the pros and cons of the following above based on you guys understanding, it would contribute immensely to these thread and help we frequent readers,

A man is always truly alone, no one is coming to save or help you, everyone seeks to exploit you because your masculinity is at stake and you don't want to be ostracised in society, society uses you, government uses you, corporations use you, women uses you

As a man ruthlessly guard your heart, in fact tell yourself to your core, I'm worthless without resources accumulation, that should be the centre of your heart, not women, not romance, not sex but money, your dignity Is tied to it, your survival is tied to it, your health in case of emergency is tied to it, that's your only true love asides a believe in God

God and Money that's all a man has, that's his true best friend

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

I have been giving optimistic advice for men who are favoured by time and chance to be the lucky 20% what If you end up at best average after all your efforts, how can you find happiness and cope with loneliness, rich or poor we are always alone as men, how can one learn to live with it and accept these painful reality whether we choose to engage with women and possibly start a family but we will always interact with our extended family especially our siblings and parents, what can we do to find joy with ourselves and I'm not talking about getting romance and sex from women, a man living life on his own terms regardless of life outcome, a truly satisfied man regardless of his status, let's have these deep discussion

Wealth accumulation and expansion is the only source of comfort for a man in these uncaring world

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

Please sir how can we win with regards to women as we pursue our ambition of wealth accumulation, should we be monogamous, monogamous with side chicks, monogamous with prostitutes, patronise only prostitutes, watch porn and masturbate only, be polygamous, cut off totally from women sexually and romantically, everything has its pros and cons, I need matured advice for young ambitious men who don't have enough experience in the game as they are still in their 20's

emmaodet:
To me, i think the general rule of thumb is to always live atleast 50% your annual income since ost men won't be billionaires anyway.
You earn 12m per year? then all your expenses for the year shouldn't be more than 6m max.

This way, you will always have a disposable income to invest and grow slowl year-on-year which allows you to increase your standard of living

Women would always cost us something, side chicks , wives, girlfriends, but we should stop seeing them from an emotional lense, lovey Dovey, we should be very cold in our core and remember that intrinsically no matter the sweetness of the romance, if unexpected misfortune and uncertainty befalls us it would turn sour even if you married a good woman, see job in the Bible, then what do men have for themselves genuinely that can give them ultimate joy, resources accumulation, money, try to maximise it to infinity capacity if you are chanced to be a millionaire or multimillionaire, scale it, money is our only true love in these cold and uncaring world especially as a man, you aren't respected without it and treated like dung, hedge yourself, hedge yourself,hedge yourself, accumulate, accumulate, accumulate