₦airaland Forum

Ronaldo723:
Why do you say so I wanna know
What makes you think she loves the other guy more than me? Please tell me

Does she school in port Harcourt? Where do you both stay?

She dey use your head. Reverse psychology here.. Dump her fast bfore she comes out plain and dump you

IyaebeTheGreat:
This man is short ooo. Short people and their wahala, I hope this will not be another bad omen for Abians because short people can be very wicked ehn.

Something is definitely wrong with you. Are you the God who created him? Let us see the picture of your parents or even you. You spend all your day on a faceless forum typing nonsense.

KnowledgePower7:
Na small PIKIN dey tell like this naaa

ok

KnowledgePower7:
Kpekus wey dey cry water like flood
Come tight join
U no go understand. U still be small pikin

Lol..una go just dey insult people online. Because I follow you banter, you dey call me small Pikin,u no know my age or level oh weda I senior you wella or not. Na faceless forum wahala shaa

KnowledgePower7:
All kpekus are not equal

When you open the kpekus now, u go see say nothing come out. E fit wide like olosho.. No dey use facial or dressing judge kpekus

Truer words. My guy chuks suppose see this.

KnowledgePower7:
Na kpekus cause am

kpekus plenty na

How do guys chase a girl for months? If I fix a date with you once and you refuse to make it,i am done with you.. For my money I go spend too.. Most guys just dey fall hand walahi

I'm not surprised at all, considering the attitude of the partisan police during the last general elections.

thesicilian:
They should all calm down. Typical of Nigerians, when something goes wrong instead of conducting a detailed investigation, they are calling for scraping of INEC, some are even blaming democracy. No system is perfect, what needs to be done is find out what went wrong and fix it asap

Shut the fuvk up!

In as much I want a first female governor, it should not come from Apc

I don't even read her post. She argues too much

Wealthier:
I reside in Lagos

Oh,thats too far for me.. All the best dear.

Wealthier:
Hi Nairalanders,

Permit me go straight to the point. So I've been praying to God earnestly, with tears since I was 25. Up till now that I'm clocking 30 years this month. It seems God doesn't want to answer my prayers to bless me with my husband.

I have fasted, prayed, cried, sowed seeds, join others to celebrate, sow seed in theirs and yet I'm still not taken seriously.

Honestly, I've begin to lose faith many times and already planning to be a baby mama as soon as I earn more money.

Before the age of 24, I wasn't thinking about marriage. I majorly wanted to be done with school and get a job because I do not want to be a liability to my husband. The whole thing though, there were no serious suitors , but I wasn't worried. I had a boyfriend then of 3 years but I knew we wouldn't end up together because he was too focused on being an Activist, his communication became poor. No matter how I complained about it.

I started to become afraid when I clocked 25 and saw that most of my friends were engaged. It dawned on me that no serious man is seeing me. I believe I am pretty , doesn't dress extravagantly and not materialistic. Infact the other guy I was hoping we would be serious together told me he doesn't have money for marriage, I told him money will come but he insisted he couldn't start a relationship with me. This was when I was 25. At 26 , 27 up till 28, the same reasons I heard.

What exactly is wrong with me?

Finally at 28, I met my current bf. He seemed very serious and into me until I started to dream about marriage and started to talk to him about it. Today we had serious quarrels, he broke up with me just because I wasn't happy with him that he didn't try to greet my mum on her birthday. I thought he was taking things serious after telling me at the beginning of this year that we would have our court wedding this year. He told me he's not ready for any marriage anytime soon, that he can link me with his friend if i still want to marry this year. We have resolved the issue , but I'm not sure I love him anymore. I'm just rolling with it.


I'm clocking 30 years this month and feeling so much like an evening newspaper.

I'm just here feeling bad and dejected. Why does it take so long for God to show me mercy?

I'm somehow regretting not joining my female friends in double dating and then go with who's more serious.

Not one, not two or 3 of my friends did this same thing and they are now all married.

Honestly, I feel so much like a loser. I guess I may eventually just try to get kids of my own once I earn more money.

I feel depressed whenever I see couples together. I've had to rub away from my sanitation group in church because of a particular young couple in my department that I'm beginning to get jealous of. Like , will this ever be me?

I've been attending couples seminar since 2021 and northing yet. Is this how another 5 more years will add to my life and everyone will officially be calling me evening newspaper.

I've told my family to not judge me when I find a way to have my own children cos I'm tired of crying to them and they shouldn't ask me where is my man.

If there's any prophet amongst you. I'd really appreciate a word of prayer. Seems God doesn't care of my feelings.

Please ignore my typo error. I typed from too much pain

lets meet,i stay in port Harcourt. Where do you stay?

Mrnairalandd:
See Igbos roasted… The wicked shall die like this

Seun,mynd44,lalasticlacla.This person is towing the line of bigotry and hatred for a particular tribe.

LeoDeKing:
Enugu again?

Seun Mynd44,Lalasticlacla, this tribalist has brought tribe Into this tragic thread. Does accident not happen anywhere in the world? What a question by saying "Enugu again?

Nonsense!!

Long over due

REDshouse:
Why in a hurry, wait for May 29 where he will appear an be sworn in as President of Federal Republic of Nigeria while another president will also be sworn in as president of social media/Biafra/Obi.diots

Cc Seun

ozalogbo:
I am the first child of my mother, and I have two younger male siblings. I am doing well financially. My wife is the last of four children in her family. My dad died when I was still in the university, and this affected my mum.

However, as she aged, her health waned. She was a retired teacher. My brothers are not in the country. Both of them are in Europe. I wanted to have my mother stay with me in her later years because of her health and loneliness but my wife did not want it.

Whenever she was ill and I brought her home to be with us, my wife was usually hostile, especially if my mum had stayed beyond a week. She did not hid her disapproval, and this caused problems in the marriage. People advised that I should send my mum away and pay someone to live with her and take care of her. They said that marriage was between a man and his wife, not between a man, his wife, and his mother. I did and peace returned. Eventually my mum passed on after a few years.

Along the line, my father in law also died. And down the line, my mother in law's health began to deteriorate. We live in the same town. Among my wife's siblings she is the only one doing quite well. Now there are suggestions that the mother should come and live with us so that my wife can give her proper care. I believe that her living with us and seeing her grandchildren will help her. And indeed i have no problem accepting her, but when i remember the treatment my wife gave to my mum, there is a strong revulsion, in fact, anger in me. I shared with a friend, and he advised i forgive my wife, but the revulsion is so strong that i would feel cheated if i agreed.

What do you guys think. She reminded me then that marriage was between a man and his wife only. Shouldn't this also apply to my wife now?

You are a foolish weak man to even have such a thought of bringing in your mother in-law after what your wife has done to your mum. More so, that your friend who advised you is even more foolish. I don't know why we have so many weak men these days, it's a shame!!

Pojomojo:
Check the first page and see how you can join

The what's app group I saw there is not opening. Do your have another?

Pojomojo:
Anyone can get it. Hope you have joined the WhatsApp group

How do I join it?

Nawaoh for some people oh. Did musa invite himself to the national team?

Rigged Election. From 133k adding 16k gives you 160k? No wonder the collation was delayed. Lp will retrieve the mandate in court.

Acquiredollars:
B.A. English is recognized as a teaching qualification in the UK. The challenge is that you won't be allowed to write the PQE without a certificate in Education in Nigeria. Invariably, you can't apply!

I have a degree in Engineering bro, can I also apply since I do not have a degree in education. If I can apply, how do I go about it without the TCRN?

IyaTola:
Chap Shap!!! Time no dey again o! With wetin I see for last weekend elections, do everything to leave this country.

Thats my motivation Iyatola, honestly no hope for we Naija.

IyaTola:
=N= 85K

I guess your sister is in lag. I am in port Harcourt, I will visit their office before the month runs out. What course did your sister study in the university?

IyaTola:
=N= 85K

Thanks

IyaTola:
Money speaks a lot in this country, my younger sister has TRCN she just a flight ticket away to UK

How much did she use in acquiring it? You care to send me a mail?

IyaTola:
This is Nigeria, Did you see what happened across the country on Saturday, everything and anything can happen

Lol,you are right though.