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We can now see that it is not only those who uses guns are armed robbers. We also have those who uses pen as well.

If we are opportune to see this people who have committed dis fraudulent act.. we will discover that majority of them fellowship in our churches and mosque everyday.

Some may even be title holders in this religious places and yet they see how people are suffering and they will pretend as if nothing is going on and keep doing what they are doing. They we also partake in saying d government is corrupt but deep down in their heart they know they're the one's causing hardship to the masses.

After collecting dis money, this same set of people we come out to give testimonies of how God have blessed them, pay tithe and send thier wards to the best schools. The will also use this same stolen money to oppress the poor people around them.

This government should do more by exposing these people, we want to see faces of these criminals. We want to know those that are keeping us in the dark. This people live among us and they are not ghost. They should be accord the same treatment like those who carry arms to steal.

MAY GOD HELP THIS NATION

If this story is real then.. Upon the saying that there is so many fishes in the ocean.. Some guys will still act stupid all because of one bit*ch..

Make you try get small sense abeg..

No you nor do bad... Guys, alwyz thinking with dier cork instead of dier head. You don see free meat abi.. rember say God go dey watch u for 3D


Smh... as sons of Adam will never leave sin alone.

Your story is a bit touchy and in reality you are not asking for too much. If from what u stated, it obvious u didn't marry an understanding and a compassionate man so to say. Don't no how long u guys courted but that is were u would ave study him at least.

As 4d house chores you can make do with d services of a house help or a cleaner.. dat 4sure will reduce ur work abit.. and

Even though you ave made effort in trying to talk with him both direct and indirectly (dat is talking to his church leader) and there is still no change. It time you go on ur kneels to God and ask him to intervene. Only him has d power to change us.

Keep doing your best and live 4ur kids.. May God be your strenght.

Don't really think it has to do with the kittycat been wide. It about the string dat will still be attach to d baby daddy per-say. Sometimes it's just dat fear of raising a child dat is not yours..

Most times if the child is a male.. guys alwayz ave a rethink.

As the saying goes.. there is no such thing as a free launch. Simply put "You Scratch My Back and I Scratch Yours".. shekina

Let no one pretend about this, there is always a rethink for those who try to venture into it.

No sane person will open his or her eyes to put is hands on fire..(apology to those affected).

If one is not aware it is different but for those who are.. it is seen as a divine intervention by God.

Majority of people will venture into it the moment permanent cure is discovered.

This write up reminds me of a friend who did faced the challenge of choosing between setting up his business or taking a job he was offered.

Fast forward his bae made him take d job offer and that made him abandon the business he started. He did tried to manage both but he couldn't as d job took more of is time. The bae who later became his wife couldn't maintain the business after he placed it under her care.

Pal later suspended the business and stated he was gonna work for few more years before starting the business again.

Now as someone who was so brilliant and business oriented.. if he had stayed with his business he would have been bigger and more successful than what he is today.

Women should learn to encourage and support their men who has vision (especially entrepreneur) or in any career choosing.. they should stop looking at the now but rather focus on the future..

So much agree with the Op as this is d fate of most men in our society today.. Kudos

Won't spill much but got this to say..

If you're certain she is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.. then while not allow her meet ur people. That for sure will show a commitment from ur end to her.

The fact that u ain't ready for marriage is something you can still talk to her about. Outlined your reasons to her provided they genuine and then work with her on the suggestion she made.

Since u didn't mention both ur age.. it will be fine if u guys stick together and develop urselves more.. gudluck.

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Lol in other words we can say okpolo eye e no b open eyes


Sure..

@prettythicksme u like d guy but unfortunately he did not make a move!

One cup of zobo for you as your brain dey dere..

The mumu for just alite follow her the moment he see say she pay na dia gbese go start and number must exchange hand..

What else can one say order than a wonderful point.

Well done Op it is a beautiful colabo and it is nice..

Dude your eyes are open but you can't see.. it is better you close it to enable you see clearly.. that's ma advice.

Just another MAGA on her list..

Seems this is going to be a new trend of business for most ladies in 2016.. though it cool but it will be good if anyone venturing into it will carry their own first before carrying for others and this exclude ladies who knows they can't be able to bear children at all.

This really remind me of a story in Europe where a woman help her daughter to carry her pregnancy after so many miscarriage. She was indeed grateful to her mum at the end of the day.

In a way dis may just put an end to thebaby factory syndrome because it is legit.

Your opinion op is well in line with today's relationship saga.. nice observation.

Female folks who won't agree should take a Cold shower..

On this issue, only men with no good intention make such request and a lady who knows her worth and dignity should decline such request.

Of course there are exceptional cases won't rule that out.

Won't say much but the Op is totally off point.

It very glaring that the male and female folks are both enemies of themselves.. point blank.

3 guys in your coffers and you still don't know what you want.

You need to get your priority right before you come asking for advice. If you can do that then you're good to go.

Dont be confused

I think the best bet for you is to come out open with your current relatnship and see how your parent would react.. uno you can't hide it forever..

Their reaction will determined your decision.. it your life and happiness that's involve not theirs.. unless they tell you their parents did same to them too.

But even at that everyone has got liberty to choose what's best for them. Your parents may mean well for you but the final decision is still yours and at 21 u've the liberty to do so. But u will have to be prudent and thread carefully about it.

When the time arise be diplomatic and not rebellious when talking to your parents.. so you can earn their blessing at the end of the day.. Goodluck

It's obvious all the witches in your village prepared soup with your picture.


Just can't imagine what you will have to say your family..

Really don't no why people will not cherish and value what they have until they lose it. If only you know what you're doing to yourself. You're gradually opening the door for Satan to creep into your matrimonial home by breaking the trust your man have for you.

Remember.. it is difficult to retrieve broken trust when it is gone. Grow up and act wise.. you owe your man a sincere apology.


Moreover, who says love does not grow when given time. Please learn to love your man. God help you!

Good enough he told you he has a child.. but for him to start lying about issues relating to the child and the mother shows there is more to it. Do your homework by doing a research on him to avoid stories. But what really do you expect from a guy you met on the net..