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Romance / Re: Pls! What Will U Do? by jhasper(m): 10:55pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
I no my crunch oyin won't do that!!!! |
Romance / Re: Why Women Can't Resist Bad Boys by jhasper(m): 10:52pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
am a bad guy ...no bae keep coming 3 Likes |
Crime / Re: International Footballers Brother Involved In Fracas With FUTO Man O War by jhasper(m): 10:51pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Crime / International Footballers Brother Involved In Fracas With FUTO Man O War by jhasper(m): 10:35pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Last night was a dramatic one. Reports reaching
us suggests that lots of students were assaulted
and robbed off their belongings around the road
close to the school park. Shops were looted and
pandemonium broke out.
Contrary to the rumours spreading around school,
an eyewitness we spoke with this morning
reported that he couldn't see much but took to
his heels when a vehicle carrying a large number
of suspected hoodlums suddenly stopped by.
"Everyone at the park ran like hell. Most of us
ran towards the hostel. I didn't know why they
were chasing us but they chased us at full
speed."
A Man O' War representative informed us that
they were on their normal patrol that night
around CCE building when a car at full speed
knocked down a motorbike conveying their
Commander in Chief(C in C). This info as
reported by the command was corroborated by
other eye witnesses present at the scene in real
time. The C in C was reported to have angrily
queried the rationale of the said car driver's
recklessness. According to reports reaching us,
the drivers reply was rude and he showed no
sign of remorse for his action. Some men
stepped out of the vehicle and a scuffle between
both parties ensued. Fortunately Chidebere
Nwakali the brother of Kelechi Nwakali, a new
signing for Arsenal football club left the vehicle
unscathed. However, The Man O' War C in C was
left heavily bruised from a matchet cut. The
matter was later settled between both parties
thanks to the timely intervention of a 3rd party
(name withheld).
When everything seemed to be finally settled, a
vehicle coming from Ihiagwa suddenly swooped
in, parked at the road around the school park,
and out came about 6 hefty men who
immediately began an unsolicited assault on any
student at sight. Soon, they advanced to the
hostels. Some Man O' War had to follow them up
to keep the hostels safe. According to
eyewitnesses at the hostels, the armed
hoodlums were able to steal from a number of
students before the Man O' War intervened.
Chidebere Nwakali's vehicle was heavily
vandalised. Eziobodo indegenes (Nwakali's
people) are said to be pointing accusing fingers
at the school's Man O' War Command with
respect to the vandalised vehicle. In defence, the
Man O' War Command denied any involvement in
the vandalism. They claimed that it was a set up
by the hoodlums who also vandalised another
car. The Man O War also denied claims that
Nwakali was ever harassed.
Currently, the Dean, Students Affairs Unit has
said he would be coming out with an open
statement. Nwakali's people are displeased at
the climax of the incidence.
Updates will be coming soon...
FUTO SIREN REPORTING...
www.facebook.com/futosiren |
Family / Re: Being Married To Someone Who Hates You by jhasper(m): 9:08pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Varagous:. . . iyaf Finnish |
Family / Re: Being Married To Someone Who Hates You by jhasper(m): 8:45pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
CHAPTER 4: ANOTHER ENDING
A Beginning
Recently I was in Greenwich at a store where
pianos are rebuilt, repaired and sold. I was
looking for something to replace my old Hardman
Peck baby grand now that I’m playing again.
While talking with the owner I mentioned the
name of the man who had rebuilt my piano years
before, without mentioning the personal details.
The store owner knew the man and his wife,
Anne. He told me, “They visit the store a lot. Too
bad about his Alzheimers. She has it rough. Good
people.” I nodded. |
Family / Re: Being Married To Someone Who Hates You by jhasper(m): 8:44pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
CHAPTER 3: THE MIDDLE
Our Marriage
Before the love affair with her piano teacher
converted our marriage from a source of pride to
an embarrassment for me, Anne and I were an
ordinary suburban couple. Her friends became
mine and mine became hers. We walked our
dogs together each morning and evening from
our house to a beach on the Long Island Sound
owned by our homeowners association. We took
vacations in winter to the warm islands in the
Caribbean and in summer to Europe. We had
friends to dinner and she became a favorite with
my law partners. Our intimate life was normal
except that her English cocker spaniel slept with
us. He was protective and had to be banished
from the bedroom when I wanted to touch her
without being attacked
The pride I felt in being her husband was
magnified by an interesting change in my social
status as soon as we were married. Our house,
which had been my home for twenty years, is
“the least expensive house in a most expensive
neighborhood.” That’s how it was marketed when
I bought it. I was nothing special to my neighbors
until Anne arrived with her beauty, her elegance,
her English cocker spaniel and her BMW (the
only thing she kept from her prior marriage other
than some jewelry). I sailed a 23’ sloop and soon
became Commodore of our yacht club. Then I
was elected president of the homeowners
association. When we were divorced under
circumstances that must have been known to
many, I fell from that artificial grace. |
Family / Re: Being Married To Someone Who Hates You by jhasper(m): 8:44pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
CHAPTER 2: THE BEGINNING
Meeting Someone Who Needs You As Much As
You Need Her
The beginning was filled with wonderful days
when we admired each other’s wit and good
looks. We were anxious to be married. I had just
lost my young son, Alex, to cancer and was living
alone in a house that had once been our home. I
called her a few days after the funeral. We were
married three months later. Her reasons for
marrying me after so brief a courtship were
never clear. She said that she fell in love with
me at the funeral—something about my dignity in
that tragic moment touched her deeply. The
wedding was performed by a judge who had
been my law partner in his brownstone office.
She said “I do” even before the question was
finished, eliciting smiles from the few close
friends who were our witnesses. |
Family / Being Married To Someone Who Hates You by jhasper(m): 8:42pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
CHAPTER 1: THE END
Living With Someone Who Hates You
Anne and I were divorced after five years of
marriage, when she admitted to having an affair.
I later learned it was with her piano teacher.
After our divorce, and his, she married him.
While giving her lessons on my old piano, he told
me that the sounding board was cracked and the
instrument needed to be rebuilt. I paid him $
3,000 for the job.
I didn’t suspect that there was another man until
Anne’s behavior became peculiar; muffled
telephone conversations, evasive answers about
who was on the phone, hours away from home in
the evenings and on weekends. When suspicions
of infidelity overwhelmed my trust, I began
asking pointed questions. Her denials were
hollow and eventually led to an admission that
she was in love with another man, but she didn’t
tell me who it was. In fact, she said that I didn’t
know him. Much later I learned that it was her
piano teacher. Then I remembered the night that
I came home and saw his cigarette butts
crushed in a saucer on our kitchen table beside
two used wine glasses. She hadn’t bothered to
clean up the revealing mess.
I wonder how many men have experienced living
with a wife who has lost respect for them. You
don’t know why you disgust her or when esteem
became revulsion. You start to question things
about yourself; do you chew with your mouth
open, do you snore, do you wear ugly shoes, are
you too fat, is it because you lost your hair?
These are not basic qualities like kindness and
generosity; but when your wife is treating you
with contempt, then how you eat, what you wear
and how you look become critical. She makes
you feel repulsive. You become less of a man.
You want to change to please her, but you can’t.
Maybe it’s too late; or maybe you can’t change.
I remember one humiliating lunch when our
marriage was unraveling and I still thought there
was something I could do to keep her. We were
in a restaurant and I had no appetite so I ordered
a salad. The lettuce leaves were larger than bite-
sized and I wanted to eat with quiet dignity; not
like a man born in the Bronx whose parents were
children of Jewish immigrants, but like the men
she dated in her Grosse Pointe Country Club
past. I cut the salad into small pieces, carefully
putting each one in my mouth individually and
chewing quietly. It didn’t help.
The separation agreement was written and
converted to a divorce in less than a month;
even faster than our courtship had become a
marriage. |
Family / Re: My Wife Hates Me. I Feel Hopeless And Depressed. I Don't Know What To Do... by jhasper(m): 8:36pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
njiasi30:. . lol |
Family / Re: My Wife Hates Me. I Feel Hopeless And Depressed. I Don't Know What To Do... by jhasper(m): 8:00am On Jul 08, 2016 |
HateU2:. . nothing ooooo |
Family / Re: My Wife Hates Me. I Feel Hopeless And Depressed. I Don't Know What To Do... by jhasper(m): 7:59am On Jul 08, 2016 |
donseeker8:. . if its money... it not a problem I perform every rite to her and my in laws( her parents) |
Family / Re: My Wife Hates Me. I Feel Hopeless And Depressed. I Don't Know What To Do... by jhasper(m): 7:57am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Merlissa:. thats if she agrees |
Family / Re: My Wife Hates Me. I Feel Hopeless And Depressed. I Don't Know What To Do... by jhasper(m): 7:56am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Dotwillis1:. . several times ..... she don't even follow me to my church |
Family / My Wife Hates Me. I Feel Hopeless And Depressed. I Don't Know What To Do... by jhasper(m): 7:29am On Jul 08, 2016 |
any thing I do she complains.. she feel dejected at my present, am always truth full, humble and honest to her. but what my be the cause? . . . . . . . all she wants is divorce |
Romance / Re: U're 35, Single, Fat, Ugly, Poor & U're Still Playin Hard To Get!? by jhasper(m): 7:05am On Jul 08, 2016 |
small tin |
Romance / Re: U're 35, Single, Fat, Ugly, Poor & U're Still Playin Hard To Get!? by jhasper(m): 12:15am On Jul 08, 2016 |
2BB4CB3E:. u too like yanch ooo |
Romance / Re: U're 35, Single, Fat, Ugly, Poor & U're Still Playin Hard To Get!? by jhasper(m): 12:07am On Jul 08, 2016 |
[quote author=superfelix post=47314282]Lol... well packaged Juju... [/quote.
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bro u dae there....
confirm juju. |
Romance / Re: I Want A Lady Who Doesn't Apply #make-up For A Serious Relationship. by jhasper(m): 12:06am On Jul 08, 2016 |
1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Want A Lady Who Doesn't Apply #make-up For A Serious Relationship. by jhasper(m): 11:54pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Romance / Re: Wickedness by jhasper(m): 11:45pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
I would wake up from my sleep 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Want A Lady Who Doesn't Apply #make-up For A Serious Relationship. by jhasper(m): 11:44pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Romance / Re: The Lady He Deflowered Wants To Kill Him With Sex by jhasper(m): 11:40pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Jesus save your people |
Romance / I Want A Lady Who Doesn't Apply #make-up For A Serious Relationship. by jhasper(m): 11:39pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
first come first serve.
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oooh do they really exist?
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#see what foundation av cause!!! |
Romance / Re: This Long Distance Is Killing Me by jhasper(m): 11:21pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
keke no dae ur area |
Romance / Re: Help!,my Relationship Is About Hitting The Rocks by jhasper(m): 11:16pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
hitting the rock, how?
Oga u better block the storm |
Romance / Re: U're 35, Single, Fat, Ugly, Poor & U're Still Playin Hard To Get!? by jhasper(m): 11:14pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
vicstar:. . for ma cabarn |
Romance / Re: U're 35, Single, Fat, Ugly, Poor & U're Still Playin Hard To Get!? by jhasper(m): 11:13pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
STFUareyouG0d:. oga mi, make im no tire u oooo, u fit experience such . |
Romance / Re: U're 35, Single, Fat, Ugly, Poor & U're Still Playin Hard To Get!? by jhasper(m): 11:10pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Romance / Re: U're 35, Single, Fat, Ugly, Poor & U're Still Playin Hard To Get!? by jhasper(m): 11:08pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
vicstar:. na sis chioma |
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