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Juliusmalema:
Why do I suspect this OP is a liar

he just framed this story.

He might be lying but what he just described is happening everyday in Nigeria. Fake miracles and fake churches/pastors.

loveformercy:
U want to bring curse to your generation

Curse like those that steal from the treasury? Or those fraudsters? Or those who inflate cost of an item just to make some extra cash? Abegeee! Then almost everyone in Naija go dey under curse na.
Just tell him not to do it because it's morally wrong and stop this talk of "curse". In case u don't know, these fake miracle churches and pastors are abound in Nigeria.

UrVillagePelsin:
The questions your asking sounds like you know the right thing to do but still don't want to do it....
Just know that the love of money has taken away many. Let your heart be guided. Believe in God, believe also in the son of God.

Go home, get more foams and sell them... Money made through out sweat availeth much.

He knows the right thing to do quite alright, however, he said he needs the money and he has never held that kind of money in his entire life.
Right now it is the money that is deciding for him.
For all those saying its rituals, it is not. For your information this is the new norm, many churches these days have perfected the act of fake miracles. I saw it live in 2015 somewhere in Abuja.

Grayxme:
This NASS people are representing their pocket, i see no reason why they will reduce the cost of major project and inject projects meant to be done by the state.[color=#006600][/color]

Try to read sometimes, it helps in curing your ignorance.

angelboy01:
I Am not really good at writing a composition but the whole thing started around last year November when I lost my job at a reputable company, things became really hard that my ex wife started with her attitude, someone I helped through her schooling, even opened a shop for her after our wedding.

She started losing interest in me because I was broke and there was no more love because I couldn't meet up to her demands. She became the bread winner around that time, things didn't go as expected for me, I needed to do a lot of things even pay for the rented apartment we were in and the landlord came with the eviction letter.

Things became really tough that she wasn't sleeping at home anymore, she would leave home for days and come back home and give me some little change and leave again, she started to live with her aunt and I became so lonely and useless in her eyes.

Eventually when I came up with the apartment money and we paid I decided I wasn't going to stay with her for a while and go out and look for a job, so as to avoid fight and arguments. She later called me that her boss from the USA was back and she was to go and meet him because they had a meeting to do so I said OK since I usually speak and text with his boss so I allowed her to go. So after I left home I got a job and I frequented coming home to see her and my baby. I later found out she began to lock her phone and I asked her for the password she wouldn't give it to me so I began to suspect her.

One day I eventually found the password and I unlocked it while she was asleep. I found out through a chat she had with her friend that she had sex with her said boss and she even bought a land without telling me all through the years we were together. I felt so betrayed and angry. I woke her up and asked her about it and she started crying and begging me.

I left home angrily and jilted. I was so devastated that I smoked a lot of weed that day and drank so much beer. I called my mom explained to her and later told her mom too. The next day her mom called me that she wanted to poison herself because of what she did. I sent her boss a message on WhatsApp and that one didn't even answer me because he knew what he did with my ex wife.

It's been months now since this happened and her mom calls me almost everyday begging me to forgive and forget but how do I forget, it's not easy for me because I can be having sex with her and be seeing her boss face.

I blocked her on Facebook and whatsapp but didn't block her calls or text message because of my baby when I need to send upkeep money. She calls me but I don't pick up. I know that I can't be with her anymore but she has the wedding certificate we got at the court wedding. I told her to give the photocopy of the certificate to my mom but she wouldn't do it.

Guys the reason why I wrote this is who has an idea on how to go about a divorce without the certificate because someone told me the certificate is important for the divorce. I don't know anything about it and my uncle even said the divorce will cost me a lot of money about 650k. I don't know it that's true too. Lol.

Please guys help out here. I have the proof of the chat and the audio conversation of the sex escapade with her boss so that will help in the court. My lovely daughter is 2 years now. How do I even collect my daughter from her. I have left all my property's for her because of my daughter and am starting my life afresh. Will the court be able to grant me my daughters custody although am not ready to train her myself but I have my mom who can do that for me.

In addition to all of this guy's if your girl or woman passwords her phone and doesn't show you her password be very careful she might be cheating because not only did I find out she had sex with her boss I also found out she was also on some random social media nonsense talking to some random guys and all that and that she also bought a land without telling me for 3 years we were together.

Thanks for learning from my story and God bless you guys.

U don't need to physically have the certificate to start a divorce proceedings. When the time comes if needed she will be made to produce it.
Get a lawyer and do what u have to do. Stop wasting time looking for a certificate.

Somtitous:
Three days ago (9th of June 2018), at the annual law dinner of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, Mr. Donald Duke made known his much awaited declaration that he would run for the office of the President of Nigeria! Naturally, the reception to such was welcoming, loud and positive. One of such public person to openly declare his support for Mr. Duke is Popular Nigeria artist and Gongo aso crooner Mr. Abolore Adegbola Akande popularly known as "9ice".

Truthfully, the reception could have been louder! The declaration, perhaps bolder such that it would have been reechoed by the help of happy passionate Nigerians clamouring for a well refined and astute man of his calibre. One who signifies a breath of fresh air and a representative of the new order that has come to take Nigeria to the next level.

Hope

You see for many of us, Donald Duke represents (better still, represented) that hope and aspiration of a new Nigeria by a Nigerian. He was one of the golden generation governors of the class 1999-2007. Aside from his charming looks (considered by many to be the most handsome governor of that class) and calm demeanour, he was modern and dynamic. At least, judging by some of his huge and bold ambitous projects. Some of which are a success (e.g. The cable train car at Obudu, beautification of Calabar and the Calabar Carnival) and have been kept by his predecessor; others have been disastrous (and still continues to bleed the state government e.g. Tinapa). At this juncture, let it be noted that Obudu cattle ranch was never Mr. Duke's idea nor project he initiated (then, i thought it was). Obudu was first explored in 1949 by a Scot and developed further in the 50's and was handed over to the Federal Government of Nigeria when the British left. However, Mr. Duke did a lot in restoring and promoting it.

Ever since his tenure as governor ended in 2007, Duke's name for presidency has always been on the lips of young progressive Nigerians eager to see a western, progressive leadership style of governance that gets things done and finally can place Nigeria on the map for all the good things. Suffice to say that Mr. Duke did attempt to run for office in 2007 but was told to step down for the anointed Late Mr. Musa Yar'dua and Dr. G. E. Jonathan. My hope, like many Nigerians at the time was short lived.

The Revelation

"...Time and Chance happeneth to them all..." Ecc 9:11

In my short 30 years plus leaving on God's earth, i have come to learn that making the right decision is as important as doing it at the right time. This applies to Mr. Duke's declaration. If Mr. Duke had declared earlier by taking advantage PMB's weak and purposeless governance (the worst in our Nation's annals and history will judge it so and even harsly), he would have no doubt been the darling on everyone's lips and next in line to the seat of the president.

As far as i am concerned and there are stats to prove it, the North has ruled Nigeria more than the south but has brought the least developmental stride; and such only a southerner is deserving of that Presidency seat fairly (except there's a capable Northerner with proven track record). For me, the Southerners that seem to stand out and fit to run a complex, diverse and plural society like ours were Mr. Donald Duke and Mr. Peter Obi. Need i to say that i was inclined to take side with Mr. Duke until this revelation was made...

If only Duke had declared his intention to run way ahead of time before Dr. N. O. Iweala published her memoirs (‘Fighting Corruption is Dangerous: The Story Behind the Headlines) of her second stint as a serving minister in which she sadly but truly described Duke for the man he truly is, Duke may have had a chance to weather it. Below is a shocking and troubling excerpt from the book about Mr. Duke after she had been contacted by for Dr. G. E. Jonathan's government to come and serve for a second stint

"...by now, it was mid-day and i was mulling over these issues when i got a call from another old friend, Governor Donald Duke, former governor of Cross River state. An enlightened governor of the "cleanest state in Nigeria" who had tried to build a tourism service base for his state, he told me in was in Washington, DC and would like to see me. I invited him to my office. Governor Duke told me there were rumours that i was being asked to return as Finance Minister. He asked me if there were any truth in these rumours, I confirmed that i have been asked and was reflecting on it. He then told me that he brought a message from a group of "concerned" whose advice was that i should turn down the offer. I asked him who the concerned people were and what would be their reason for the advice. He would not give me their names but mentioned i would know some of them and even said they were my friends. As to the reasons, he said that these people felt that my acceptance "would give Jonathan and his government credibility" and he did not deserve that. If i turned down the offer, the administration would be weak and would likely not succeed." - ‘Fighting Corruption is Dangerous: The Story Behind the Headlines,’

I could not believe my eyes as i read that page from the book. My heart shrank and i felt beclouded by darkness and grief for Nigeria.

Note: Before a mischievous element tries to dispel or discredit Dr. NOI assertion, be aware that in former president OBJ latest book "Under my watch", one condition OBJ gave for supporting this treacherous government of PMB was that PMB must pick Dr. NOI as his running mate cos she was was to be the VP as well as run the economy. El-rufai told PMB of OBJ proposal to which PMB agreed to it. When OBJ told Dr. NOI, she refused to work with PMB. Talk of a woman with standard and integrity!

Faded Hope

Those words about Mr. Duke's perfidious acts went running through my mind wildly for days. I went into great grief for my dear country. i remember saying these words "...is there no one faithful even from the elect?...". From Comrade Oshiomole to Mr. Rochas and Now Duke Bunch of disappointments despite having a promising start!

Every stunt Mr. Duke tried to pull after such revelation e.g. when he claimed his wife sent him "on an errand" made me disdain him even the more! I was a bit lighthearted when people also shared the same feeling about him. I was lighthearted because there are still sincere Nigeria loving patriots.

I wish i could as Mr. Duke certain personal questions like who are those concerned people he represented? Declaring for President, does it mean he would be doing to the bidding of these powerful group or to the masses that voted him in? Why would anyone try to sabotage Nigeria greater glory for a few men good? Is OBJ among these concerned group (cos i feel that old man is)? IS trying to destroy a man work and image not likened to an act of witchcraft?...i could go on and on!

In the aftermath of such revelation, a friend of mine said that i should neither blame them nor feel disappointed in them because power corrupts and that if i ever got the chance to hold power, i might do the same or even worse. Respectfully, I do not agree and certainly hope in God's grace.

In Michelle Obama words about her husband remaining grounded and unchanged at the Dem convention in 2012 "...being President doesn't change who you are, it reveals who you are"

To Donald Duke and his constitutional guaranteed right to run for the office of the President, i wish him all the best!

I can only say Alas, another faded hope of Nigeria future.

Let me add by saying given an option between PMB and Donald Duke, clearly i will vote for Duke. In fact, 2019 is [b]ABB (Anything But Buhari)[/b]

Since Mr. Duke has been eliminated as one of the two candidate from Southern Nigeria and barring any other more capable and qualified candidate that may seek to run for the office of the President from Southern Nigeria, my clear choice right now is solely for Mr, Peter Obi that is [i][/i]if he agrees to run.

I desire this write up sparks up honest opinion that is deeply rooted in patriotism for Nigeria. I would love to know what they are! Do so maturely, please!

Blessings,
Somtitous!

Nothing to add... You have said it all. I am happy someone is thinking along the same line with me.

08036474009 add me

madridguy:
Useless senators acting as if they care about their people. Mtchew

If they don't condemn the minister, u will talk. Now that they have done u still condemn them.
Use your sense for ones.

papascode:
Good day all,

I have been confused on what to do with the money I have saved. I am a contract staff in one of the banks and I have saved considerable amount of money over the years I have been working there. But I am tired of my job, as same as many of my colleagues who wish they had one quarter of the money I had saved to quit the job.

I am not a lazy man I am very hardworking as adhuged by my supervisors but the issue is I have stayed on one spot for too long and no promotion. My greatest joy is that I was able to achieve a masters degree in a federal university in nigeria while working but my job doesn't give me time to even look out for other jobs.
So please guys I am throwing this up here because I know on this thread there are people who have been in my situation before that made the better choice and are happy for it.
I have two very important decisions to make either to use the money I have saved to travel abroad for school for masters and hopfully settle down there or to stay here in Nigeria to start up a pure water production factory but Nigeria and it's uncertainties keeps discouraging me. kindly note that I have saved up to 9million naira to take up any of these ventures and I am 35 years not yet married.
Please I need honest advice to a brother there are some persons like me who will benefit from this advice we render.
Thank you

My friend, run to Canada and settle there after your studies... Why are u even thinking of the other option.
#enoughsaid

Donald95:
Ademola again Nna eeh . By there name you shall know them

Away with your bigotry. Shame on you.

buhariguy:
From the stable of the jobless lazy idiotic pigs of Biafra.

As if the court of appeal will refund us the 2.6b naira stolen by this criminal

What has the news report got to do with Biafra? This bigotry has to stop.
Shame on you and your kind.

[quote author= post=67952188]This woman is just provoking and heating up the polity. She should go to her village and rest.[/quote]The reason why advanced countries develop is because they learn from history.
How can u say the woman is heating the polity just because she is reliving history so we don't fall a second time.
If the present govt is sensible they should be taking advice from her.
As for u, I don't know what to say. We still have a long way to go.

Morwendy:
Hi. New here but have read threads for years til now and I just have a simple question to ask . Ok, I know how dim I sound but I married my Nigerian husband 8 years ago. Next week, we apply for his permanent leave to remain here. We've been happy enough since we got married, the usual ups and downs but nothing too serious. Anyway, I found that he has a website advertising a business in Nigeria. Asked him about it and he says yes its his but its not up and running yet (like thats why I was mad at him rather than because he set ghis up without even telling me). I was looking at some photos on his site and I came across a poster laying out the days events for his fathers funeral. At the foot of the poster it says 'by [his name but different surname] on behalf of the family. Now, this new surname is the same as his fathers so I believe it to be his true name. Asked him about it and he says that his surname is different to the rest of his family because he chose to take his paternal grandfathers name. I assume his father should also bear the grandfathers name? He just keeps telling me that I don't understand Nigerian customs/traditions but now the word 'scammed' keeps popping into my head. A simple yes or no would be enough - is it usual for a man to NOT take his fathers name? Thanks in advance.

Hello, I don't know what is going on with his specific case, but what I want u to know is that it is very normal.

There is no scam here. Many people choose to near their father's name instead of their grandfather's name.

Grandfather bears his own father's name. Father bears grandfather's name.

Your husband bears his father's name.

Your children bear your husband's name.

It is very common in Nigeria .

However, like I said earlier, I don't know anything about his specific case (UK border and all), but for the name issue it is not anything new or a scam.

Purewatermeji:
Rubbish. Is English their language? How many British can speak Hausa language? Their religion encourages teachings in Arabic.This is why we condemn the removal of the Islamic inscriptions on the centenary notes. It's a symbol of Arabic pride and a motivation for northern Muslims who doesn't like to speak English

I am thoroughly ashamed of u. English may not be their mother tongue but English in case u are not aware is our Lingua Franca. If they don't want to learn the language they should simply quit school. In one breath u are condemning English and in the same breath u are praising the Arabic language. Pray tell, is the Arabic language their mother tongue? Like someone said, semi literacy is very dangerous and that is what u are exhibiting.

wirinet:
The more I read excerpts from madam world Bank the more disappointed I become. She thinks Nigerians are fools, but it is she that is making a fool of herself.
I wish I could copy and paste some of the ridiculous statements she made in this page.

First the Excess Crude Account is illegal and foreign to the constitution, there are no laws governing it's creation and operation. So anything done in that regard is illegal.

The money in the Excess Crude Account does not belong to the FG, but to all three tiers of government, so even if it was illegally created and managed by the FG, monies cannot be spent from the account without the accent of the three tiers. Okonjo-Iweala is talking like the money is the FGs, to spend or save as she likes.

The book says "He was strongly supported by Governor Adams Oshiomole of Edo state, who was very vocal in his disapproval and suspicions of the Federal Government’s management of the Excess Crude account"
The main problem was the Governors did not trust Okonjo-Iweala and her principal with their money.

Finally, the governors were not after FG's money, they wanted their own money, is it by force to help them save their money for them. What happens to the share of the money controlled by Okonjo-Iweala? Why did she not save the share of the Excess Crude Account under her control?

Stop talking like somebody without sense. Everyone knows the ECA was not constitutional. She was only saying the country should save, what crime is that? However they went ahead to share it, what came out of it from the various states? Nothing.
U should be thanking God Nigeria have a woman like this. If all u see is a bad person then perhaps u are part of Nigeria's problem.
I am thoroughly ashamed of u.

Wealthandjobs:
You really don't know much about politics. He just played politics with them. In fact,it will be very difficult to suspend any legislator henceforth. The courts are different from the legislature. They are all wrong,senate and the alleged Senator

It's quite unfortunate for our generation. If he feels so aggrieved he should head to the courts. He has diminished himself greatly by this act of treason. The Senate followed it's own rules in suspending him... Perhaps u don't know, courts don't adjudicate on the affairs of the legislature... Only way a court can interfere is to interpret the rules of the Senate which in this case has not been breached. Oga go siddon.

Wealthandjobs:
The Court has pronounced that you can't suspend a representative elected by his constituents for more than 2weeks,only God knows where the Senate derived it's authority to suspend a fellow Senator for 6 months.
The Senate acted illegally and Omo Agege preyed on their mistake

How come his case did not fare well in court?
Must he take the laws into his hands...
Don't come here to display your ignorance.

crownedprinz:
Am i the only one that don't understand the whole story?

Simple explanation: Bezos is just like Dangote here feeding fat on undercutting competition with their vast resources and creating a monopoly sort of.
Small time biz people have gone out of biz because of the practices of Amazon.
Trump is right, wants to redistribute the wealth instead of one man grabbing everything.

paroh137:
Megabet.ng Merrybet sometimees, Bet9ja no no

Thanks bro.

Pls guys, which bookie is best for in play betting. I mean local bookies.

jjmk:
My people make una help look this thing. I am confused.
What is the meaning of payment system account...is it my account number? I funded my 1xbet account with my bank app...I Am hoping to make a withdrawal soon.

Thanks

Somebody Pls help.

My people make una help look this thing. I am confused.
What is the meaning of payment system account...is it my account number? I funded my 1xbet account with my bank app...I Am hoping to make a withdrawal soon.

Thanks

OhGeeBee:
The game is lost bro.

The third set is yet to finish by that time that's why it displayed 2:3. It'll probably end with maybe 2:6.

As the game entered 7:6, 7:6 that's 26 points already. only a straight win like 6:0 or 0:6 can save your game. the game don spoil

Thanks.

Hello guys, pls help me check this out. I played Tennis under 32.5. The game ended at 31. I lost the bet... Am i missing something? Perhaps i am wrong in my judgement.

topcube:
The match should not end 2-2 and above. 0-0, 0-1, 1-1, 2-1, 1-2 (Both teams to score and under 3.5 goals - No) you are good to go.

Thanks.

Hello guys. Pls someone explain this to me.
Both teams to score and under 3.5 goals - No.

Must the it be only one team to score and under 3.5 or even if both teams score and it is u 3.5 do i still win? Thanks.

Richdee1:
Bro i Know u hv a 'Drum of Sense'.....How will what he says here affect his 100k as week Income or His Golden Puegoet Car Or will it stop him From Carrying 'queen Of the Nights'........But Bro if we have people like u in this country...its Going Nowhere,u will definetly die one day with all ur Ideas and secrets inside yhu....Its better u share

Wow, 100k per week. This is after taking out fuel money? Or all inclusive?

Serious buyer here. What is the mileage? Can pay today if car is in good condition. Reply Pls. Thanks.

austino677:
you'll need them when u have problem with the account especially verification issues... but its necessary to have one

Sorry I meant I have a valid drivers licence. Will that be OK? Can I go ahead and type my drivers licence number in the box? The box only states national id card.