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CelebritiesRe: Tacha Tells Angela Okorie To Pay Her If She Wants Her Attention by Jm879316:
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RomanceRe: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Jm879316: 7:01pm On Dec 09, 2019
Lol you’re very funny bro
fykes:
Did u hear him say "we got down"?
Oga sex messes up things... If my assumptions are right BTW.
Op u can go ahead, it's that feeling u get when u feel u have arrived and have it all covered with a damn beautiful lady to warm ur bed and u tryna be the man for her and do the right thing after having sex just to prove that u are different from other guys, or to urself, that u are better.
Either way, it seems to me that u are sort of overcompensating for something somehow... Prolly things in ur past u ain't dealt with.
The good thing is, it's never easy having someone else in ur space and in a short while, d feeling and all d sex tips will be exhausted and u will realise that love is not a feeling...
Then u will create another thread and ask us how to get her to leave ur house "without " hurting her.
Ciao!!
SportsRe: Anthony Joshua Vs Andy Ruiz Jr. II - Rematch (Live Updates) by Jm879316: 8:49pm On Dec 07, 2019
Pls I need live stream link
PoliticsRe: Nigerians To Aisha Buhari: China Hangs Corrupt Politicians by Jm879316: 8:42am On Dec 02, 2019
Many lives will be lost if we do that
HealthRe: Living With A Disability: How To Build Better Relationships With People by Jm879316(op): 1:41pm On Dec 01, 2019
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HealthLiving With A Disability: How To Build Better Relationships With People by Jm879316(op): 11:22am On Dec 01, 2019
Living With A Disability: How To Build Better Relationships With People

Are you living with a disability of any Kind? Here’s how to build better relationship with people. The ideas you will gain from reading this article, will open. The ideas you will gain from reading this article, will open up a new phase of your life. Stick with me.

Life as a person living with a disability can be very tough. Especially when it comes to building healthy relationships with people. Most people struggle to see the real you, beyond your disabilities. And the few who do, have a hard time understanding that what you need from them is not just their pity. You don’t want them around for the “help” they can offer you alone. You want to be loved, respected and adored for who you really are in spite of your physical challenges.

Apart from the challenge of how people sees and relates with you, you also have a hard time relating with others. Right within your heart, there’s this constant battle. A struggle, to let go of the tight grip you have on your heart. To pull down the strong walls you have built around it and set it free. Free to fall in love with people. Free to trust people who say they care about you. Free to experience better relationships with family, friends etc. Free to be who you are always meant to be - You!

Are you struggling in your relationships? Have you been finding it difficult going after what your heart truly wants?

Here are some powerful keys you need to build better and lasting relationships with people. Keep reading!


•Accept Yourself Fully For Who You Are
Most disabled persons I have come across spend almost all day being bitter about themselves. Wishing they were someone else or born differently.

As long as you hold tight to such emotions, they will not only affect your joy and happiness, they will block you from receiving love and care from others.

You need to first of all accept that this is who you are now. This is you. This is your life. This is how you are and will always be.

Just because someone is walking on his two legs and you are not, doesn’t mean everything is perfect with them. Just because a fellow has his or her two hands fully working, doesn’t mean they have got every bit of their life in control.

Being disabled doesn’t make you inferior to nobody. It simply means you are differently-abled. It means you’ve got different abilities. Don’t let anything make you believe otherwise.

Accept and start seeing your disabilities as the “different abilities” they really are. That’s the only way you can start experiencing true happiness with yourself.

Come to think of it, if you don’t love and accept yourself for who you really are, how do you expect others to?

You’ve got to look at yourself straight in the mirror and tell yourself “you are beautiful/handsome. You’ve got a lovely smile. You are someone’s dream. You are differently-abled. You have different-abilities, not limitations” and so many other beautiful things you can say to yourself. It’s not a denial of your challenges, it’s accepting them in a different light. It is redefining what you call realities.

•Let Go Of Your Insecurities
When people say they love and care about you as a disabled person , the first thing that comes to your mind is, do they mean it? Are they for real? How can they truly love me with my disability?

You start seeing not just one or two but over a 100 reasons they can’t possible love you. You start seeing how everyone else is better than you. How you don’t measure up to every other girl or boy out there.

You need to let that feeling go. Completely. Let it go and set your heart free to receive love.

•Let Go Of Past Experiences

Too many times we set our eyes on the challenges of the past, how we were treated and hurt by those we love, that we miss out on the present. Just because someone claim to love you and took advantage of you, doesn’t mean everyone else will.

People take advantage of people at all times. Almost everyday. It’s just a part and parcel of the world we live in. You can’t let that pull you down and keep you on the ground forever.

You can’t let those past hurts and mistakes keep you in one spot for life. Someone may have taken advantage of your physical challenges to molest, abuse or hurt you in ways you never thought they could. But if you hold on to that and hate every other person for it, you will never know what true love and happiness is all about.


•Be Willing To Try New Things
Being willing to try stuffs you have never done before or have abandoned for sometimes, is one sure way to build relationships with people. Things like sports for the handicapped, going back to school to get a degree, learning a vocation etc.

You can meet a whole lot of people there. People who are like you. People who are different but will appreciate your uniqueness.

A few of those people may stay in your life for a while. Others may stay permanently, if you let them. A few may care about you as long as they need you. Others may sincerely care about you, even if you don’t contribute a thing in their lives. Sitting back and brooding all day will add nothing meaningful to your life, go out there and have as much fun as you can, with people.

•Never Hide Your Disabilities Or Pretend To Be Someone You Are not
The people that truly love you will stay in your life. With or without your disabilities. So why hide them? Why pretend to be someone you are not?

If you must enjoy lasting relationships with people, you must build it with completes openness. Let people see you for who you are (including your disabilities) and decide for themselves if they need to be in your life or not.

Whether on social media or in the real life, do not present to the world a picture that is not actually you. Be very real to yourself and everyone else. That way, you will not only attract the right persons in your life, you will actually keep them for long.

•Smile Often - It Doesn’t Cost A Dime
A smile is worth more than a million dollar. Yet it doesn’t cost a thing. Of all the beautiful clothes in the world, none is as attractive as a smile. Yet, very few people know how to use it to win hearts.

Wearing a smile on your face often will make people feel at ease with you. It will give them the impression that you are friendly and worth being around.

Do not just wait until people smile at you before you return it. Initiate it by wearing one on your face.

•Set Goals For Yourself
Set some goals for yourself and stick to them. Being disabled doesn’t mean you should have no goals for your life.

You have a powerful mind, a very powerful mind that can see far ahead of you into your tomorrow and prepare for it.

Start now to set goals for yourself. Relationships goals, academic goals, business goals, marital goals etc. Do not just overlook these things believing that what will be will be. The only way what will be, will be, is if we plan and prepare adequately for them. Part of how we prepare for them includes setting small and big goals for them.

How many new friends do you want to make before the year is over ? What new thing do you want to achieve before the year is over?

Those are questions you should ask yourself and write down their answers. Those are the kind of achievements you should set as your goals and pursue after them.

•Visit Interesting Places
One beautiful thing about visiting interesting places like the museum, cinema houses, amusement parks etc, is that you get to meet new people there.

If you want to build better relationships with people you must be willing to visit such interesting places. At least once in a while.

Those are the kind of places to meet people who are like you. People who are also out to make friends with others.

People who will love you for you. People who will see all your physical challenges and still care about you, not out of pity but sincere love.

You can visit such places with friends and family members, and have fun as much as you want. It will help strengthen your relationship with them. You can also choose to go alone and spend some time with yourself. Either way, you just need to visit such places once in a while.

In Conclusion

Are you living with a disability? We have In this article revealed how you can build a better relationship with people.

In this guide, you will find a collection of practical things you need to do to find and enjoy true happiness with the people you love and care about.

No matter what happens, always remember that your being differently-abled does not make you inferior to anyone. It simply means you have different abilities. Different strengths etc. Don’t let anything make you believe less.

Source: HEALTH BODY WISE
TravelRe: Deplorable State Of Enugu-Aba-Port Harcourt Expressway (photos) by Jm879316: 2:05pm On Nov 23, 2019
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Fashola na scammer, I stay in Festac 21 Road A close, they should come and arrest me.
okay I’m coming with DSS
PoliticsRe: BREAKING: Sowore files fundamental rights enforcement application, demands N500m by Jm879316: 12:47pm On Nov 22, 2019
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PoliticsRe: Breaking: Sowore Sues DSS Over Continued Detention, Demands N500m by Jm879316: 12:41pm On Nov 22, 2019
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TravelRe: Canadian Student Visa Thread Part 16 by Jm879316: 6:57pm On Nov 20, 2019
Pls is there any school in Canada that doesn’t accept IELTS or any English exam.
HealthRe: He Noticed Some Changes In His Body System (pics). by Jm879316: 10:08pm On Nov 18, 2019
mascot87:
Bros, I can bet with my life that you hardly take your bath
lol you’re a salvage bro
HealthRe: World Diabetes Day: Patients Groan Over High Cost Of Medication In Nigeria by Jm879316: 8:49am On Nov 14, 2019
Donpuffy:
Why dnt you use supplements that will completely cure your diabetes sir. I feel for you. You will cry no more
it doesn’t have a cure. Tried different remedies already
HealthRe: World Diabetes Day: Patients Groan Over High Cost Of Medication In Nigeria by Jm879316:
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HealthWhat Is Anabolic Fasting? by Jm879316(op): 6:48am On Oct 26, 2019
Have you also heard of one trending activity called “Anabolic Fasting”?

That trend is a breakthrough secret that’s currently making several people appear sexier, healthier and fitting. Anabolic fasting is a method of reducing your food intake by specific intervals daily or weekly.

No more disgusting body shape!

No more pot belly!

In fact, Anabolic fasting is the easiest, and zero-cost tactic that’ll shape you perfectly as you dream of. And you wouldn’t even believe it only demands a reset on your eating pattern. Very simple.

My research shows, that Anabolic fasting can perform wonders on your body system, such that you’d live much more longer. Surprisingly, there ain’t really rules that specify delicacies to eat, but rather a change on when you eat your normal meals.

In other words, Anabolic fasting doesn’t specify which foods you should eat, but rather a significant change on when you should eat them.

The most common mode of anabolic fasting involve daily 16-hour fasts or fasting for 24 hours, done twice per week.

Fasting as you know is a practice that has been since evolution. Ancient human beings, as far back as millions of years ago wasn’t as sophisticated with cooking tools as of today. Thus, many times, what they’ll eat might not be provided, and they’d result into fasting.

Fasting isn’t uncommon within religions. Most religions enact it, believing that it’s spiritually sacred. But, Anabolic Fasting is different due to its purpose and style.

Techniques to Appropriately Observe Anabolic Fasting

You can start right away with various ways. Whichever of the methods still involve splitting the week or day into fasting and eating periods. At the fasting time, you eat nothing at all or very little.

Below are the popular methods of anabolic fasting, which you too can try:

•The 16:8 Technique

Some papers refer to this method as ‘Leangains protocol’. When you follow this technique, you’ll have to skip your breakfast and then reduce how you eat daily to just 8 hours. For example, you’ll restrict the moments at which you eat everyday to just between 1.00pm and 9. 00p.m. You’ll eat nothing for the remaining 16 hours every day.

•Eat-Stop-Eat Technique

This actually involves not eating for a whole day. But this long term fast should be once or at most, twice a week. For instance, you may not eat after the dinner you’d have today, until tomorrow’s dinner. It’s a 24-hour straight fast, once per week. It’s easy when you paint your heart with the beautiful results this will bring to you.

•The 5:2 diet Technique

With this method, you should eat only 500–600 calories on two days of the week, but eat normally the other 5 days. Ensure that these two days are non-consecutive. For example, you may chose Tuesday and Friday as the days you’d take between 500 and 600 calories.

By reducing your calories, these methods would result you weight loss since you don’t fill up the gaps by consuming much more during the eating periods.

By the way, depending on how you choose any of the above techniques, several people find the 16/8 method to be the easiest, most sustainable and simplest to stick with.

Why You Should Observe Anabolic Fasting, and What Happens to You When You Do

Whenever you fast, certain changes take place in your body system on the molecular and cellular levels. For instance, your body system adjusts hormone levels to get stored body fat more accessible.

Your cells as well initiate necessary fix changes to the manifestation of genes and processes. Below are some changes that happen in a body system when someone fasts:

•Human Growth Hormone (HGH) Grows: The rate of how hormones grow shoots up, and increases as much as 5 times. This is attached with benefits for the loss of fat and muscle gain.

•Insulins are Affected: The sensitivity rate of insulin improves by getting the insulins in your body reduce drastically. Benefitially, the lower the insulin level, the more accessible the stored body fat.

•Cellular Repair: While fasting, your cells go through cellular repair processes. One of these amazing processes include autophagy. Autophagy is a process where cells digest and eliminate old and malfunctioning proteins that are built inside the cells.

•Gene’s Enhancements: Developmental changes happen in the gene, and they are connected with longevity in lifespan of such body system, as well as immunity against any kind of illness or disease.

As you can see, the above improvements in hormonal levels, usefulness of cells and gene enhancements are worthy of concern as because of their health benefits. Anabolic fasting is indeed a gem.

Exceptions: When Anabolic Fasting Can be Poisonous for You

In case you have a health issue, you should ask your doctor before trying Anabolic fasting at all. Because our bodies are different. If you are diabetic; with blood sugar level instability; with low blood pressure; with history of eating disorders; a woman who is trying to conceive; a woman with a history of amenorrhea; pregnant or breastfeeding, kindly see your doctor first and ask.

Conclusion

Anabolic fasting wouldn’t be a necessary decision if you are actually underweight. In fact, I wouldn’t recommend this for anyone who is underweight.

Finally, we both know that the only side effect of this Anabolic fasting is hunger. And I don’t see anything dangerous by not eating for a while if you’re actually healthy.

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HealthRe: Pls I Need An Advice I Dont Last Long In Sex Why by Jm879316: 3:59am On Oct 07, 2019
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you’re not serious
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Are you aware that practice is blaaaaaaaaaack hat?

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you seem to be a pro
CrimeRe: Mob Attacks 3 Robbery Suspects In Benue (Graphic Photos) by Jm879316: 7:29pm On Sep 29, 2019
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What is your niche?
I’m into health
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$3k?? This is just too bad.
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HealthRe: Stomach Ulcers: Causes, Symptoms And Prevention by Jm879316(op): 10:42am On Sep 27, 2019
Admin pls move this to front page
HealthStomach Ulcers: Causes, Symptoms And Prevention by Jm879316(op): 5:57am On Sep 27, 2019
Stomach Ulcers: Causes, Symptoms And Prevention

Stomach ulcers are one of the most commonly reported medical conditions in our world today. They are sometimes called names such as: duodenal ulcers, gastric ulcers or peptic ulcers. These sores or rather open wounds, commonly occur either on the stomach lining or anywhere on the intestines, beyond the stomach.

For many years, people harbored lots of beliefs concerning the causes of this medical condition that were simply just myths. They had no scientific backing at all.

For instance the belief that these stomach ulcers often occur as a result of poor diet (skipping meals due to one reason or the other) or as a result of too much stress and habits like smoking.

However, further studies have shown that these long held opinions around the illness has very little or nothing to do with it.

Would you like to know the real causes of stomach ulcers? Discover that in the next section below.

Causes Of Stomach Ulcer

“What truly causes stomach ulcers?” People have wondered for many years.

According to several scientific studies, this medical condition is not directly caused by much stress, too much smoking or poor diet as popularly believed.

As a matter of fact, researchers have discovered that stomach ulcers are caused by the 3 major things below:

Cancer: As shown by previous studies, the presence of stomach cancer may be seen as an ulcer in that region. This is mostly true especially for elderly persons.

NSAIDs Medications: Certain types of medications have been linked to about two fifths of this medical condition known as stomach ulcers. Some of those medications include: drugs taken in order to protect the body against stroke, heart attack or to cure arthritis.

About two-fifth of all the cases of stomach ulcers reported, have been traced to these NSAIDs like Aspirin, Ibuprofen etc.

The Bacteria Helicopter Pylori: More than 90% of all cases of duodenal ulcers and about 60% of stomach ulcers, have been traced to the bacteria known as Helicobacter Pylori.

The micro organism produces chemicals in the stomach lining where it lives. According to researches, these chemical productions usually irritate the lining of the stomach and as well cause inflammations there.

The germs have also been discovered to play a major role in causing gastritis and indigestion as a result of their activities in the stomach.

The discovery of these organisms in the stomach lining in 1983 finally put to rest so many assumptions and myths surrounding stomach ulcers. It also marked the beginning of the success witnessed so far in the treatment of the medical condition.

Signs You May Be Having A Stomach Ulcer

How do I know if I am having an ulcer in my stomach? What are the signs or symptoms to watch out for?

For one reason or the other, some of the symptoms/signs of these stomach ulcers are not always noticeable in the early stages of the illness. That is one reason you should seek for help the moment you start noticing any of the signs or symptoms listed below:

•Severe pains around the abdomen

•Constant indigestion, nausea and vomiting.

•The presence of blood in vomit or excreta

•Inability to eat properly due to lack of appetite

•Unexplainable weight loss and light-headedness.

Helpful Tips For The Prevention Of Stomach Ulcers

Though scientists have been able to identify Helicobacter Pylori as the major cause of stomach ulcers, no one has been able to come up with a strong evidence of how it is passed from one person to the other.

This is the major reason no one can say for sure this is how to prevent stomach ulcers. However, the following practices have been helpful both in the prevention and also the treatment.

•Eat early and avoid going to bed immediately after a meal.

•If you discover that a meal regularly irritates your stomach. The best thing to do for yourself is to start avoiding it.

•Moderate your consumption of alcohol and caffeinated products

•Always take ibuprofen, aspirin and other NSAIDS drugs with enough food. That will help reduce the risk of the drugs affecting your stomach lining by irritating it.

•Start eating only fruits and foods that help reduce the acidity of your stomach.

Final Words

Unlike what is popularly believed out there, gastric/peptic ulcers are not primarily caused by a person not eating constantly or stress alone. Researchers have through rigorous studies discovered that H. Pylori actually is the root cause of over 90 percent of the cases of the medical condition reported.

In this article we have discussed nearly everything you need to know concerning stomach ulcers, including their signs/symptoms, causes and preventive measures.

I hope you find this useful.

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