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Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by luminouz(m): 6:46pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
samtol4: Which kain unreadable English be this? |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Nobody: 6:46pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Accompanied not escorted |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by safarigirl(f): 6:47pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:you did not see a man to pick interest in as a random friend, it was a woman? If you have free accommodation in PH, you should have come to Nairaland NYSC Section and advertised free space for those posted to PH, as the good and helpful guy you are. You no see man to help, you no see one random woman that you are not attracted to, it is the one that you flow with and 'reminds you of your sister' that you decided to be Father Theresa with My friend will you geddifok.... 10 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by luminouz(m): 6:47pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Lol... Fear all girls more like. How PH? You fattening up yet? |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by GoodFaith: 6:48pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:Follow your heart Life is luck and prayers So pray 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by semuni: 6:49pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Very very bad? Why are you so much in a haste? You would have allow her to serve in Abj why you continue with your relationship. Things will take its shape naturally. But you have bend everything to your favour which I'm 100 percent sure you will regret. Bros you will regret, slow down. My one pence piece. quote author=Richnerd69 post=84750241]So I met this youth corper lady in abuja when I escorted my friend Whose babe pushed buttons for an appointment for him to meet with a dignitary in brit high Commissions, in order to secure visa to Europe and job connections on arrival to the UK. Who recalled I created a thread about my friend who was about to leave everything he worked for, to travel along with his rich babe? Well, dude just left days go. Well, that aside. Prior to meeting this pretty corper who just came back from camp, I just came out of a messy break up which left a vacuum in me... We got talking and loved up in 2days cuz she also lodged in the same guest house as we did, and at night she would come downstairs to relax, as even i too would. We got down, We became so close in a short space of time as we exchanged pleasantries, thoughts and ideas and we laughed about the funniest things together. Told her about the opportunities in Port Harcourt and how I would love her to come serve in PH, and that she could live with me. She's 23 and she has a very humble spirit and a good vision. On my proposal, she declined and her reasons were the security threats and rumors about evil practices and she hasn't been to PH before . I tried to assure her to keep her safe if she would allow me work her transfer to PH. Guys she agreed, and that evening I put a call across an uncle who's a Brig.General who pushed buttons the following day... And by January she is to be in PH for service . My friend left for Lagos on the 5th to meet with his babe so they would catch their flight and I couldn't follow him because I had to stay back to make preparations for her to come stay with me in PH. Beforehand, I had introduce her to my guy and he told me to be careful with this one but he liked her vibe and everything about her. She then took me to see her elder sister who is married in Niger state before we would both be leaving for PH. Her sister was mean and harsh at first, but I spoke with her husband who was from my home town and he talked to his wife so I could take her sister with me. We would be leaving on Wednesday as my 2weeks work leave expires this Tuesday. Now guys, I don't know why I feel like I've started stepping out of my boundaries, like I'm moving too fast and doing too much, just too early... Now that she's coming over to PH, I don't know what the future holds tho but I really like this lady and I want to build her up...But do you think moving in together in a short time of knowing each other is bad for us? Any suggestion whatsoever ?? Do I get her a place so she could have a roommate so we could at least keep space ? [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Zeinymira(f): 6:50pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
fykes:You nailed it 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
luminouz:No, don't be afraid of girls like me. We have a conscience. I arrived two days ago. Have a job to deliver but tired. I feel like being lazy and na movies get me now. |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by luminouz(m): 6:52pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Lol@your first statement. I believe you. Sure,watch movies for this week at least. Deliver the job ASAP na...make we chop Xmas rice na |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by HowDareU: 6:53pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
[quote author=safarigirl post=84772769]you're her best shot because you convinced her to come and live with you in a place you knew you would be her best shot. You Sound like a manipulative guy. She will be at your mercy for the duration of her stay in PH. You must be obsessed with the idea of being someone's lord and personal savior, preferably a woman you can be having free sex with, while blackmailing her with threats of eviction if she ever challenges your authority. For a woman to even agree to leave Abuja that she worked and had plans to stay with an aunt, to go to PH, where she only knows you, a man she has known for how long? You should be very afraid, because it speaks poorly of her. She must have ulterior motives just like you, because no good, decent girl would put herself in such a dicey situation I hope this decision bites you in the ass and you receive a year of fire and brimstone on your head he inviting a stranger into your space for one year. Safarigirl is on fire today oh! 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Duru009(m): 6:54pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
You would have allowed her to serve in her original state. Then later, she can visit you once in a while....... You will certainly regret this because you acted too fast my brother ! 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by iamademola(m): 6:55pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Bro.. I don't know u , but what so ever, you just took a wrong step , why control a babe u know nothing about to come stay permanently in your house. Ah. You don't even know anything about her health status yet u wanna put her home in few weeks of dating , think over this again bruh. If u can still terminate this mission please do Asap. You can always get her laid anytime on a casual basis. Even if u move this babe in she won't give u breathing space , and in due time you will get tired of her vise versa. My point , Study her from afar first. , then if she's Worth it after a long while you can shoot your shot.Good Luck 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Nobody: 6:56pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
luminouz:Unfortunately, my client called and I promised to deliver on 18th. She even made payment while I was in school and I don chop the money. Now to do work come dey hard. I am getting started tomorrow so I don't disappoint her. |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Jaqenhghar: 6:57pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
frubben:LMAO |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Jaqenhghar: 7:00pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Gaggi:Hahahahhaha. Him no know. The best part is if she is unhappy there or decides to cheat on him she can easily tell him thay coming over was his idea 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Enter another vacuum sharp sharp na |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Jm879316: 7:01pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Lol you’re very funny bro fykes: |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Dannieln1: 7:01pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Mcslize:it seems like you're talking to muah 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Suremikky(m): 7:02pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69: Bros, it’s one of two things, either God has blessed you with a wife or the devil wants to play ludo with you small...no fear, all Na still experience 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by chopmymoney(f): 7:14pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Bros you are a kidnapper oooo cos you are not supposed to be living with her in the first instance....or as what we both of you be living?Husband and Wife?Boyfriend and Girlfriend? Anyway,cohabiting with each other is a bad start and it's very unlikely for your relationship to end on a good note because both of you will soon be tired and finding faults in eachother.... Retrace your steps guy,pay her brideprice if you truly wanted her.... Goodluck 3 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Suremikky(m): 7:16pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
These kind of mistakes is mostly common among guys that didn’t flex while in school..u see girl wey set small, u trip u kon allow ur dick control ur decision making..now u wan come disturb us for here..U better Abort this ur mission ASAP if u don’t wanna come back here in the next three weeks with a 20 page essay. 11 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by airminem(f): 7:16pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
I hope you can see heaven from that distance... Do not try to over flow nairaland with tears soon. Remember she has a BRAIN!:: 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by luminouz(m): 7:17pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Good one. 18th? Well,better late then never. Wire me my own share o...I dont believe the 'chop the money' part |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by heendrix(m): 7:18pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69: and what the hell do you need our suggestions for? help you send her back? undone the service posting? or help cure ur future mistakes . 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Slynation(m): 7:18pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Richnerd69:Why bother asking for our opinions when u have already made a choice.... 1 Like |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by rayobaba(m): 7:21pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
U might be lucky everything works out fine wt her as a wife. But l think u moving so fast. Remember u are in d window period where both of u are so into each other and all wl seem perfect now. I think u shd not think of seeing her as wife now until u sure u are on d right track. Don't let love becloud ur reasoning and judgement. There is ds saying dt a foolish man wl do last wat a wise man do first. Just take it easy and slow. Easy does it. |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by smsreseller: 7:24pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
OP, make below a rule of thumb: No matter how much you've got, don't think through money, particularly when making relationship/marital decisions. Why? Because money mostly create that false impression that one is in control over everything. But in reality, the person with wisdom is the one truly in control. You are asking a question you should have asked people very close to you, ever before making those moves. Now, you seem to be having cold feet on your decision and would love strangers like us to counsel you. Well, let's hope you get a good one from matured minds. 6 Likes |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Donbosco46: 7:24pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Alawaxbimbex:This is not advice what do you think the girl can do? |
Re: Do I Go Ahead With My Plans for Her? by Darammliveth(m): 7:26pm On Dec 09, 2019 |
Like how can you take such a terrible step with a girl you barely know.. Moreover, you can always get to see her even if she make her own decision. In all honesty i think you are too fast with the whole secenerio and it can bound out bad for you. It really funny how some guys think like a sissy. You just about to cause a whole problem for yourself all because of gra gra love. However, i wish you goodluck in your bizzary journey. I drop my pen ✒ |
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