1. Your ex boyfriend needs some space and time to remove all the negative associations from the breakup and start missing you. People have a common misconception that if you don’t contact your ex, they will forget about you. But in reality, if you don’t contact your ex boyfriend, you will give them time to miss you more and they will be wondering all the time why you are not contacting them. Remember all the mistakes in Part #1 of this guide. Every one of them made your ex think of you as a needy person. By not contacting them, you immediately become not needy in their mind.

2. You also need some space and time. You need to get a hold of yourself and gain some perspective. The fact is, you are a mess after the breakup. And you need to calm down and analyze your relationship thoroughly to realize whether or not being with your ex boyfriend is in your best interest. It could be that you are just missing your ex boyfriend. You need to learn to enjoy your life without your ex boyfriend. You need to prove to yourself that you can be happy without your ex boyfriend. You will eventually realize that you DON’T NEED YOUR EX to be happy. Maybe you’ll still WANT them, but there is a big difference between needing something and wanting something.

3. You must become an attractive happy person during this time. You need to take a step back and reevaluate your life. You should make a lot of positive changes in your life. When you meet your ex boyfriend after the no contact period, you want them to be attracted to you. And the best way to do it is to start enjoying life and being an overall happy person. Don’t take this point lightly. This could be the difference between getting your ex boyfriend back or losing them forever.

Contacting Your Ex Boyfriend aka Re-attraction

Remember when your ex boyfriend left you? They thought of you as a needy, clingy and desperate person with little to no self-respect. After not being in contact with you for a while, they must be wondering what the heck happened to you. They will slowly start to forget that image of yours (the needy desperate one) and start remembering the things they liked about you. They will start remembering the things that they found attractive in you.

And that’s when you contact them, you talk to them and then meet them. Just as they lay eyes on you, BOOM. That’s the new and improved you. YOUR version 2.0. They can’t help but wonder what brought so much positive change in you.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APK8LlgpzGM
For that to happen, you need two things.

1. You should actually bring a positive change in your life and become a confident, happy and attractive person.
2. You should contact your ex and meet them somewhere.

If you have been following this guide till now, then you know how to go about the first point. So, let’s get straight to the second point.

1. Your ex boyfriend needs some space and time to remove all the negative associations from the breakup and start missing you. People have a common misconception that if you don’t contact your ex, they will forget about you. But in reality, if you don’t contact your ex boyfriend, you will give them time to miss you more and they will be wondering all the time why you are not contacting them. Remember all the mistakes in Part #1 of this guide. Every one of them made your ex think of you as a needy person. By not contacting them, you immediately become not needy in their mind.

2. You also need some space and time. You need to get a hold of yourself and gain some perspective. The fact is, you are a mess after the breakup. And you need to calm down and analyze your relationship thoroughly to realize whether or not being with your ex boyfriend is in your best interest. It could be that you are just missing your ex boyfriend. You need to learn to enjoy your life without your ex boyfriend. You need to prove to yourself that you can be happy without your ex boyfriend. You will eventually realize that you DON’T NEED YOUR EX to be happy. Maybe you’ll still WANT them, but there is a big difference between needing something and wanting something.

3. You must become an attractive happy person during this time. You need to take a step back and reevaluate your life. You should make a lot of positive changes in your life. When you meet your ex boyfriend after the no contact period, you want them to be attracted to you. And the best way to do it is to start enjoying life and being an overall happy person. Don’t take this point lightly. This could be the difference between getting your ex boyfriend back or losing them forever.

Contacting Your Ex Boyfriend aka Re-attraction

Remember when your ex boyfriend left you? They thought of you as a needy, clingy and desperate person with little to no self-respect. After not being in contact with you for a while, they must be wondering what the heck happened to you. They will slowly start to forget that image of yours (the needy desperate one) and start remembering the things they liked about you. They will start remembering the things that they found attractive in you.

And that’s when you contact them, you talk to them and then meet them. Just as they lay eyes on you, BOOM. That’s the new and improved you. YOUR version 2.0. They can’t help but wonder what brought so much positive change in you.

For that to happen, you need two things.

1. You should actually bring a positive change in your life and become a confident, happy and attractive person.
2. You should contact your ex and meet them somewhere.

If you have been following this guide till now, then you know how to go about the first point. So, let’s get straight to the second point.

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

I know this topic is on ex girlfriend but about my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

About my ex boyfriend; I can see that you’ve been dealing with some pretty crazy relationship experiences, and unfortunately I think I have another one for your scrutiny.
my ex (Johnny) and I met about six months ago online and immediately hit it off and messaged back and forth every day. because of our equal honesty and compatible personalities, we both started developing feelings for each other. during this time, we were both in troubled relationships, my boyfriend was cheating on me incessantly (no matter the second and third chance) and his girlfriend was not around very much, and was awfully jealous. I finally got away from my ex, and soon after Johnny broke it off with his girlfriend. he told me it was because of his feelings for me, partly. of course, our relationship was on a track towards serious relationship, and I couldn’t have been happier.

sadly, I had made a huge mistake.

my previous boyfriend and I had a very serious and deep relationship, and when he came crawling back to me, even though I was trying to move on with Johnny, I ruined everything when I decided to leave Johnny for him. this broke aarons heart, and at first he responded with anger. it didn’t take long for my boyfriend to cheat on me again, and Johnny was there for me as a friend. It was then that I realized I had made a huge mistake. I begged and begged Johnny for a second chance and after a while he succumbed.
our relationship went back to how it was before, but I ruined it yet again.

I felt that our relationship was boring, and he didn’t seem to be showing much emotion or effort, and so like an idiot, I started playing games. I became very stoic and blank, and he finally asked what was going on. well, not really asked. it was more like a statement. “so are we not going to try anymore?” is what he said. pride filled my mind, and I wanted him to fight for me. can you believe my nerve? after I had pleaded for a second chance, and now I wanted HIM to fight for ME? of course, he saw how screwed up that was and I decided to leave, because I obviously hadn’t put my foot far enough down my throat.

the problem is, now I want him back. desperately. I’ve learned from my mistakes, apologized and tried to fix them. but he will not budge. he said he can’t take us seriously because he thinks that I will just leave again.
plus there's some other girl he met, and he doesn’t want to ruin it before it begins.

at this point, you’re probably wondering what on earth my question is. I just want to know what I can do to fix what I’ve done and get him back. right now I’m doing the No-Contact rule, I told him I needed time to get over him.
but I’m afraid if I stick with that rule and don’t do anything else he will move on with that girl he met.

thanks for your time and your insightful articles

Is My Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Still Interested - How To Make Them Interested - New Ideas. Asking yourself "is my Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend still interested"? If so, you are confused right now and don't really know where you stand with your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend. This is normal as emotions can get out of control after a break up. Your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend could be playing their cards very close to their chest because they don't want to get hurt again. They could even be pretending that they hate you or that you don't matter to them at all.

Don't take this behaviour at face value because it rarely means that your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend has moved on. Remember that their egos and self protection are at play here. They are not likely to admit that they still like you or that they are interested, are they?

Instead your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend will be exhibiting certain signs that they are still interested in you. Take a look at some of the key signs below and ask yourself if your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is doing any of these things. If they are then you have a good chance of getting back together if you take the right path and respond in an effective way.

They Contact You Regularly
If your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is still interested in you then they will likely be calling or texting you. In the most simplistic terms, your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend wouldn't bother contacting you if they had moved on would they? Maybe you are thinking that they feel sorry for you and are worried about how you are. That could well be the case too, but take a look at how regular the contact is. If your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend was texting you out of a sense of duty then they would be sparse at best because they would not want to get your hopes up for a reunion.

Also look at the content of their texts, phone calls and messages. Are they asking lots of questions about what you are up to? This is a clear sign your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is interested. They are basically testing the waters to see where you stand and how far along you are in the 'getting over your ex' phase. Any kind of contact with you is what they are looking for after the break up. They are not ready to let go of you completely just yet and are therefore hanging onto anything that they can get.

They Drop Hints That They Are Still Single
Why would your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend do this unless they wanted to either provoke a reaction from you, or let you know that they are open for getting back together? It would be a very awkward thing for your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend to talk about with you so them bringing up their single life can only mean something positive for you.

Here, your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend will be testing the waters again to ascertain what you are doing in your free time and if you are seeing anyone. By offering up this information they will be expecting you to be more forthright on your dating status too.

Your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend could also be trying to see how you will react to the news that they are still single. This will let them know if there are any feelings left for them. Let's face it, it isn't a normal thing to talk about with your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend, so if they do mention it then you can be assured that your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is still interested.

They Show Up Where They Know You'll Be
Your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend knows your schedule and knows where you like to hang out. You spent many hours together in favourite haunts. When you seem to bump into your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend a lot then it is a huge sign your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is still interested. Think about this for a minute. Why would your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend go anywhere near your favourite places? Why would they want to torture themselves with happy memories?

This is a sign that your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is reminiscing about the good old days and wants to be close to you again. They are also banking on the fact that you will turn up in one of these places so that they can get a glimpse of you. If your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend really was over you and wanted to move on with their life, they would avoid all of the places that they know you will be completely. Why would they want to risk an awkward moment with you?

If your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend shows up at work or near where you live, this is an even bigger sign that they are still interested in you on some level. Your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is using any opportunity to communicate with you that they can. They probably think that it is a better option than calling you because it is less obvious and seems like fate. Don't fall for this, if your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend didn't want to see you they would stay away.

How To Make Your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Interested In You Again
If your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is showing none of the signs above then it is time for you to step in and do something about it before they move on completely. Luckily there are loads of psychological techniques that you can use on your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend to find out how they really feel about you. You can also make your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend sit up and take notice of you again and start to see you in a romantic light again. It is all about how you behave after the break up and making your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend see you as attractive and making them regret the break up.

You have to start looking at things from your ex's perspective and how they could view you after the break up. This is where most people go wrong because they concentrate on how they are feeling and how the break up has affected them. Instead you have to be objective and start monitoring your behaviour and interactions with your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend.

Remember that emotions are running high after a break up, so everything that you say and do will be remembered by your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend. If you act emotionally then there is a real danger that your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend will see you as unhinged and want to avoid you entirely. Overly emotional or angry people are not attractive, so make sure that your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend does not see you in this way or you will not win them back.

Your Next Steps
You now know some of the signs that your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend is still interested in you, there are many more though. Have a look at signs Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend still likes you to be 100% sure first. To encourage your ex's interest in you there are a few things that you can do. Firstly, there are techniques to make your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend want you again. If you implement these correctly your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend will show more and more signs that they are interested.

How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Back - New Ideas. When someone breaks up with you there are a lot of feelings of anger and resentment, especially if it was messy and mean things were said and done. A lot of people then start thinking - how to get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend. It is a natural and understandable reaction to heartbreak and no one could blame you for wanting some kind of revenge. Making your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend feel as bad as you do may seem like an appealing option right now, but you have to stop and think about how your actions will reflect on you, how you will feel about what you did later on down the line and if it will ultimately ruin any friendship that you can have with your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend in the future.

That being said, there are certain things that you can do to get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend, but they are not the usual actions that people take. These actions are a lot more effective and subtle. This is a better option for two reasons. Your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend won't ever know that you are trying to get revenge on them (it is that subtle), and your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend will end up regretting the break up, try to get you back and apologise for their behaviour. Doesn't that sound like a much better outcome?

The last thing that you want to be doing is to rile your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend, reinforce their decision to break up with you, make yourself look like a crazy psychopath and destroy anything that you have with your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend. These techniques work because your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend will NOT be expecting them, they also work because they are based on psychological principles that push your ex's emotional hot buttons and make them react in a positive way.

Don't Act Rashly
You may be thinking that the last thing that you want to do is to maintain any kind of relationship with your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend, but right now your are thinking emotionally, you are hurt and you want to lash out. You have every right to do this, but your feelings will change in the coming weeks and months. Now is the time to bide your time and stay cool, if not in private then in public and around your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend.
Doing anything that seems out of character or spiteful will only reflect badly on you. This is why you have to stand back and wait a while. Planning out your revenge is the safest thing that you can do right now. Once a little time has passed you will be much more stable, be able to think clearly and might even change your mind about getting back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend. You may have heard of the saying, 'revenge is a dish best served cold' and that certainly applies here, so take a deep breath, remove yourself from the situation and come up with a plan.
Ways To Get Back At Your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend - Not What You Think
You have probably heard people saying misguided things about spreading rumors about your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend to make them look foolish. Friends or family could even have suggested that you damage their property or even hurt them physically in some way. This is NOT the way to go and will only get you into a lot of trouble and the situation could quickly spiral out of control. Your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend may have hurt and damaged you beyond belief and it is therefore natural that you want them to feel just like you are, but believe me, this doesn't work. The following ways to get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend are a little controversial and unorthodox, but they work and they work well.

1 - Act Like You Don't Care About Your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend, The Break Up Or What They Did
Sounds crazy right? How on earth could acting like it doesn't matter get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend? Well if you understand a little about human psychology you will soon see how powerful it can be. Your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend will be expecting you to act in a certain way after the break up, they have almost counted on it. They will be looking out for you to slip up emotionally, see you crying and shouting at them. They will expect you to plead for them to take you back, look for answers and stalk you.

When you don't give your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend any of these things you are dramatically taking the power back and putting it in your own hands. You see, your ex's ego will secretly want you to do these foolish things because it makes them feel good about themselves, makes them think that you still have feelings for them and that they have a certain amount of control over you and can affect your emotions.

When you don't show any emotion or act in an expected way, your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend will suddenly sit up and take notice of you and be confused. This will be a huge knock to their ego and make them think that you didn't really care about them at all. This is one of the most effective ways to get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend because it challenges their views of the relationship that you had and makes them feel vulnerable. The best thing about this technique is that you haven't done anything at all except for exerting a little self control.

2 - Talk About A New Love Interest Or Start Dating Again After The Break Up
Nothing will get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend better than them seeing you with someone else. Of course you don't want to be using anyone just for this purpose. You could just go on a few casual dates or arrange for a friend of the opposite sex to spend time with you. This is completely innocent but your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend doesn't need to know this. As far as they are concerned you have moved on from them really quickly and seem to be happy again. How do you think this will make them feel? Pretty crap.

Even if you think that your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend doesn't care about you or has no feelings left, seeing their Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend with someone else will be a huge shock and make them second guess the break up and how they treated you. They don't want to see anyone else moving in on their territory, no matter how the relationship ended. This will also be a big knock to their ego and ignite feelings of jealousy. They will feel utterly helpless and start displaying signs that they are not happy with it. Watch out for these signs from your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend and you will know that it is working.

If you don't want to date someone else again so soon, all you have to do is start dropping hints that you are interested in someone else. Tell your friends and family that you like someone, flirt with people and look happy. It will soon get back to your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend that you are moving on and that you are not interested in them anymore. You will subsequently look more appealing and attractive to your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend but this time they will know that they can't have you. This is the best kind of revenge there is because you are seen in a positive light and not a vindictive one. No one likes to see their Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend moving on in front of them, it makes them feel depressed and bad about themselves.

Your Next Steps
These are only two techniques to get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend. They may be unconventional, but they are proven to work. Do not let your anger or emotions run away with you as you will only end up feeling even worse about your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend and the break up.

There are other things that you can be doing to get back at your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend and this is to make them pine for you. When you make your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend miss you it will give you the upper hand and you will see a change in the way that your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend treats you and they will soon be showing signs of regret. There are also techniques to make your Ex boyfriend or Ex girlfriend want you and these are also very powerful.

Discussing with your boyfriend after your break up can be quite uncomforting. But if you know what to do then the task becomes easy and you can be a smooth operator. Here is what you need to do when you want to talk to your ex boyfriend.

I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back So Badly - Don't Be Unreceptive
Being angry or hostile is not going to help you in any way. If you feel that by giving your ex a piece of your mind will make you look like the stronger person then you are wrong. Being hostile just makes you seem bitter, jealous and petty.

Do Not Push Him
Don't push him to talk to you soon after a break up. Take a little bit of time so that he can cool off and be able to talk to you. Making a move too soon will only result in him rejection so give him some time alone for your sake. And in this time do not make any attempt to even be seen by him.

Resolve Any Issues
Take some time out for yourself and resolve the conflict and hurt that you are feeling inside. If you harbor the dreams of getting back with your ex you need to know why you did things that you did and what you need to change. You also have to let go of your anger before you talk to your ex as if you go with unresolved issues, all might seem great initially but soon the differences and anger will begin to show.

Establish Conversation By Saying Hello
After some time has passed you will need to make the first move. So, start by working on your body language and making it more confident. Once you have your confidence in place then the next time you see him look into him eyes and smile and say hello.

Do Not Use Any Cocky Moves
Not saying anything is much better than using some cheesy or corny introductory line. Remember that you are not trying to pick him up. He was you boyfriend and you are trying to be friends again. So a bit of humility is what is going to come in handy.

Keep The Conversation Broad
Try to keep the conversation generic in the beginning. Don't pry into him relationship status. Talk about how things have been so that he doesn't get uncomfortable with you.

Sign Off Quickly
Do not talk to him for a long time. Keep the conversation short and impersonal yet warm. Tell him you'll call him sometime and that you should hang out sometime. That should do the trick for you.

Things To Say To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend Back. Just after your breakup, if you are missing your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend so much that you want him/her back, then you must decide with care on what to say to get your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend back. It is ultimately words that make or break a relationship. What you say to your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend after your breakup is most important and it is highly recommended to choose the right words that can win their hearts back.

Here are a few phrases, if uttered at the right time in the right manner, can actually get your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend consider getting back to you.

Of course, at this moment, the best thing to do is to break up - You must be wondering why on earth would we say that? In the heat of the moment, when both of you have decided to break up, saying this right after the breakup will shake your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend up and will also help you gain control of the relationship.

You move on with your life and I will go my way - This may actually sound like it is going too far. However, this is another powerful phrase that will jolt your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend into reality and contemplate a future without you. This will get your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend thinking and may even get him/her jealous enough not to leave you.

I am really sorry for what I have done - There is no better way to touch your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend 's heart than to sincerely apologize, especially if you are in the wrong. In fact, this is probably the only thing your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend has been waiting for you to do after you broke up.

Let us try and work this out - Utter these words in a calm manner after your emotions have settled down. The way you say this will surely have a deep impact on your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend and he or she will certainly consider your suggestion, especially if they are still in love with you.

Let us forget the past and start a fresh new relationship - These words are sure to induce faith and hope in your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend who has been shattered by the happenings. It is however really important to keep up your words and actually forget what happened and see your relationship from a new perspective.

I take my words back, I did not actually mean them - In the heat of the moment, if you have hurled abuses you now regret, you can tell your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend how you are willing to take your words back. This can reduce the hurt and grief to a great extent and calm down emotions.

I think we should forget what happened and get along with life - Saying this will give an impression to your Ex Boyfriend Or Ex Girlfriend that you have forgotten everything, willing to forgive and move on with the relationship.


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It is always what you say that decides the fate of your relationship. While saying the wrong things will end your relationship, saying the right words can help you salvage it. Here is what you should avoid saying and what you need to say to your boyfriend to get him back.
Wait it out before you do anything
The thing is if you say anything too soon then it's most likely to backfire badly. Before you make a move and attempt to say anything to your boyfriend you must make sure that you have let a bit of time pass. Make sure that your boyfriend doesn't hate you and is willing to at least hear you out.

Admit your mistake
The first thing that you must do is to admit your mistake. The fact that you are taking ownership of your actions and are willing to go beyond and even take ownership of what was beyond your control is something that won't go unnoticed. This is bound to make your boyfriend feel a lot better.

Apologize
Just admitting your mistake isn't enough. You have to follow it up with an apology. Tell your boyfriend that you are very sorry for what you have done. Tell your ex boyfriend that you really feel bad for hurting him and it was never intentional. Don't validate what you did or try to justify your actions unless he asks you to. Just make the apology heartfelt.

Say you were lucky
Make your ex boyfriend feel a little better by telling him that you feel that you were really lucky to have him in your life. All you need to tell him is how enriched your life felt because of him and how much you have grown as an individual because of his presence.

Keep the spite and negativity out
When you are talking to him he might say some things that you feel are unfair. It's in your best interests to just swallow your pride and hear him out. Trashing out negative things about him now is only going to make things worse.

Hear him out
Listen to what he is saying. Sometimes listening is as important as saying things. When you give him a patient hearing you get to understand his side of the story and figure out your next move.

Wish him well
Once your conversation is over, all you need to do is wish him well like you mean it. Tell him that all you want is for him to be happy even if it means that you have to be sad. He will see your good side and will soon be back with you.

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