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RomanceRe: What Friends Can Do- Stay Away From Unfriendly Friends by joceey(m): 12:43pm On Apr 17, 2020
Mr writer you better stop been too emotionally carried away, you didn't do wrong except smashing of the phone. Pls just try to avoid that guy he might later set you up with police or backstab you badly, just avoid him.
RomanceRe: Please I Need Advise On A Girl I Met On Strictlyhookup.com by joceey(m): 9:22pm On Apr 16, 2020
akpunda86:
Hey like we in same shoes.i met a chic on a dating site dont know how it happened she invited me and next .....iv never been long on it but lasted for an hour.was an hour of tense passion.
Iv never seen ny thing as sweet as hers been long.
Was supposed to see her again next lock down and just last week told me she is pregnant. I told her to confirm came out positive.
Then said she is removing it i told her no if she is preg is a good thing can take care of u.i transferred 200k to her.on easter sunday she called said have removed the baby i cut the line told her im not part to it.i cut. Her off.
Just yesterday she called was sending messages and calling which i told my cousin to pick and tell her im late.that i just passed on she shouted.

Today again called was reauesting for any of my brodas number and i gave her one of my new numbers.she called and i used magic voice to answer and she said i was her friend bf i died that she is carrying my baby.

Issuee now im confused dont know if saying the truth or not.

Calling her im not.i know where she stays but she not mine.i have her facebook id but she has my fake fb id.

Im not scared but need be sure cos she called me telling me baby aborted but once i confirm noting to fear.

Guy sorry gonna post this on your post. I dont wanna change my id.
MY GUY I WENT THROUGH YOUR STORY DONT BE CONFUSED ABOUT ANYTHING WHAT I WILL ADVICE YHOU TO DO IS TO SEND A FRIEND OR RELATION OF YOURS TO MEET WITH HER ,SINCE YOU SAID THAT YOU GAVE HER ANOTHER LINE USING MAGIC VOICE TO TALK TO HER ,THAT PERSON WILL JUST ACT AS IF HE OR SHE IS THE ONE SHE SPOKE TOO OR I ADVICE YOU TO SEND A FEMALE THAT IS AN EXPERT IN KNOWING IF A LADY IS PREGNANT OR NOT GOOD LUCK BRO
RomanceRe: Nairaland Gurus Pls Help Me Explain Paradise, Heaven And Kingdom Of God by joceey(m): 3:58pm On Apr 12, 2020
PARADISE AND THE KINGDOM OF GOD
And Jesus said unto him, Verily I say unto thee, To day shalt thou be with me in paradise. (Luke 23:43)
A dramatic change has occurred in the preaching of the Gospel. What began in the first century as a call to repentance in light of the soon coming of the Kingdom of God to the earth has been altered to a flight of the believers to Heaven.

This alteration has serious consequences. The most serious consequence is that most of what Paul commanded has become irrelevant. Paul taught that we have to be changed so we can be part of the Kingdom of God, that those who sin cannot inherit the Kingdom.

The Christians today do not understand the difference between Paradise (Heaven) and the Kingdom of God. They view salvation as a movement from earth to Paradise rather than what it is, the forming of Christ (who is the Kingdom) in the believer.

Satan would love it if all the believers would go to Heaven and stay there in mansions doing nothing of significance. But the thought of Christ being formed in a believer sends the demons scurrying for cover.

Yesterday, Sunday morning, a young lady accosted me after the service and said, “Pastor, you mentioned that Paradise is a place and the Kingdom of God is some kind of abstraction. I’ve been here seventeen years and I don’t understand the Kingdom of God.”

This started me thinking and so last night during the service we talked some about Paradise and the Kingdom of God.

I have now (Monday morning—supposed to be my day off) taken computer in hand to reward you with a continuation of the discussion of Paradise and the Kingdom of God. MacDonald said in Phantastes something to the effect that he had started to write and didn’t know where it was going. This is the condition I am in now because the Kingdom of God is a tremendous subject. I trust the Holy Spirit to give understanding at this point.

First of all, it is interesting that John the Baptist, Jesus, and the Apostle Paul preached the Kingdom of God. This was the original Gospel message. “Repent for the Kingdom of God is at hand,” as though the Kingdom is coming to the earth.

In the early history of the Church the message changed to “Repent so you can go to Heaven.” How this happened I do not know. It probably had something to do with the philosophy of Gnosticism and the influx of pagan religions as Gentiles brought into the originally Jewish assemblies their beliefs concerning life after death, fertility symbols, and other ideas that have become part of the Christian tradition.

I do not wish to make a cause célèbre of Christmas trees and Easter eggs, but the issue of Paradise versus the Kingdom of God has direct practical bearing on the way we Christians work out our salvation.

I looked at the statement of faith of our denomination (which is as good as any denomination!) and do you know what? The Kingdom of God is not mentioned. Since we are fundamental believers, how can this be? Check out the statement of faith of your denomination and see if you can find any statement about the Kingdom of God. You probably won’t because the Christians think the Kingdom has something to do with Jehovah’s Witnesses (bless them).

How could it be that a Bible-believing denomination does not mention the Kingdom of God in its statement of faith?

How did we get off the track? We still pray the Lord’s prayer, most of us, about the Kingdom of God coming to the earth. But we are looking forward to getting out of here, and you can’t blame us for that these days.

In any case we are mixed up and it is time now for the Lord to get us back on the track concerning the Kingdom of God.

There is Paradise and then there is the Kingdom of God. By the way, the manner in which we currently use the term Heaven makes it synonymous with “Paradise,” at least for our purposes here. So when we say “Paradise” we think of Heaven.

How that he was caught up into paradise, and heard unspeakable words, which it is not lawful for a man to utter. (II Corinthians 12:4)
Paradise is a place. If you were wandering around the Persian Gulf a while back you would have seen a sign that said “You are now entering the country of Eden. Get your passport ready.”

After you entered Eden and traveled east for a while you would come to another sign, “Paradise City Limits.”

Paradise is a place. In Paradise was everything we could ever want in Heaven, including the Presence of God. There were no mansions because the weather was nice, like in Heaven.

Because we sinned God drove us from the garden and lifted Paradise out of Iraq up to the third heaven where it is to this day.

From some of the statements of the Prophet Isaiah it appears that Paradise will be restored to the earth when the Lord returns. The children will love this because then the earth will be such a splendid place in which to play.

There was a man hanging on a cross next to Jesus. We know nothing of the history of this individual. But we know he was a true man because he didn’t blame other people for his misbehavior.

But the other answering rebuked him, saying, Dost not thou fear God, seeing thou art in the same condemnation? And we indeed justly; for we receive the due reward of our deeds: but this man hath done nothing amiss. And he said unto Jesus, Lord, remember me when thou comest into thy kingdom. And Jesus said unto him, Verily I say unto thee, To day shalt thou be with me in paradise. (Luke 23:40-43)
“Today you will be with Me in Paradise.”

The criminal said, “Lord, remember me when You come into your kingdom.”

Your kingdom! He recognized Jesus as a king.

Then note Jesus’ answer: “Today you will be with Me in Paradise”; not in the Kingdom but in Paradise.

Why? Because Paradise is a place. Soon after this statement the man and Jesus were walking in the garden of God.

Why not the Kingdom of God? Because the Kingdom of God is not a place where you can take somebody, at least not in the present hour. You can bring someone under the rule of the Kingdom but not into the Kingdom itself. Let us go on to explain.

The Kingdom of God is God in Christ in the saints governing and blessing the creation of God. The Kingdom of God came into existence when the Lord Jesus rose from the dead.

The Kingdom of God is being created in response to the rebellion of the angels. The purpose of the Kingdom of God is to get the snakes out of Paradise. Sin is not only possible in Paradise, sin began in Paradise!

At some point in an era so far back in time as to be incomprehensible to us, Satan was one of two cherubim who overshadowed the Throne of God with their wings. While in the holiest area of all of the Paradise of God it came into Satan’s heart to rebel against God and to set himself above the other creatures of God.

How art thou fallen from heaven, O Lucifer, son of the morning! how art thou cut down to the ground, which didst weaken the nations! For thou hast said in thine heart, I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God: I will sit also upon the mount of the congregation, in the sides of the north: I will ascend above the heights of the clouds; I will be like the most High. (Isaiah 14:12-14)
Do you get the point? Going to Paradise does not solve the problem of sin. Sin began in Paradise. Going to Heaven will not solve the problem of sin for you. Sin began in Heaven around the Throne of God.

All that people could ever desire was to be found in the garden in Eden, including the Presence of the Lord as we said. There was also a snake from Heaven there. Think of it! A snake from Heaven! One thing was missing. Can you guess?

The Kingdom of God.

If the Kingdom of God had been formed in Eve she would have said, “Get behind me, heavenly snake!”

If the Kingdom of God had been formed in Adam he would have said, “For crying out loud, Eve, why did you do that?” They both would have spoken in Hebrew, of course.

You want to remember Eve was a sanguine creature, impulsive, whimsical, very dramatic, flitting from one interesting object to another, always pirouetting around and chattering merrily. Adam was a choleric personality but he loved his butterfly and indulged her. Eve was just what Adam needed to keep him from getting careless. However she had just made a serious move.

Had Christ been formed in him Adam would have brought Eve immediately before the Lord, asked forgiveness, got some clothes from the Lord, and promised that neither of them would eat any more apples. Something like this.

Are you beginning to get the picture? Paradise is a place. The Kingdom of God is the rule of God. If Adam or Eve or both of them had had the Kingdom of God in them they would not have sinned.

We teach that you have to be born again to be saved. What do we mean by saved? Do we mean we go to Paradise when we die? Or do we mean we are saved from sin so if we are tempted we do not eat apples when we have been told not to? Obviously going to a peaceful garden, and being immunized against, sin are not at all the same thing. Do you agree?

By now you probably are wondering whether or not you are saved.

The Bible does not say we have to be born again to be saved. It says we have to believe and be baptized to be saved. Right?

Aren’t being born again and believing and being baptized the same thing? Hardly.

Let me ask you. Is to believe something and to be immersed in water the same thing as being born?

To believe is one matter. To be baptized in water is something else again.

To be born of God, to actually be born of God, is different yet. Belief, water baptism, and being born again may take place at the same time but they are not the same thing, obviously.

Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. (John 1:13)
In America we use the term born-again Christian. We don’t know what we are talking about. We are referring to a religious conversion of some kind.

The Apostles, as recorded in the Book of Acts, never preached being born again.

To be born again is not referring to religious conversion. It is speaking of the Divine Substance of God being planted in our personality, like in the parable of the sower.

The parable of the sower is the main parable of the Kingdom of God. The seed that is sown is the Word of God, or Christ. In one instance the seed is snatched away before it germinates. In another it is crowded out by the cares of life and dies. In another it is in rocky soil (a hard heart) and does not send down roots. In time of severe trouble it withers and dies.

In a fourth instance the seed falls on an honest and good heart and brings forth eternal fruit. The amount of fruit varies from one person to another.

It is the Kingdom that is born in us (Paradise is not born in us!), and this is why we must be born again to see or enter the Kingdom.

The Kingdom of God is Christ, the Word of God, born in us. As Christ then is formed in us through all the graces God provides, we become increasingly righteous, holy, and obedient to God.

The only valid proof that Christ is being formed in you is that you are growing increasingly capable of recognizing good and evil (the tree of the knowledge of good and evil for which Adam and Eve were not sufficiently prepared) and increasingly willing and strong enough to reject the evil and choose the good.

Can you see that this is God’s response to the original rebellion?

If Adam and Eve had been able to discern between good and evil, and willing and strong enough to reject the evil and choose the good, they still would be with us. (Talk about a population explosion!)

Can you see now why Satan has diverted Christian thinking from the Kingdom to going to Paradise to live forever in a mansion? Satan desires that every believer go to Heaven to live in a mansion and do nothing so Satan can be free to enjoy himself. What Satan wants is for sin to continue in the earth.

The Kingdom of God is the Word of God formed in us a line at a time. It requires patient endurance if we are to be able to stand up under the dealings of God.

What is the big picture? The big picture is that of God creating people forever. Of the increase of Christ’s Kingdom and of peace there shall be no end.

What is going on now? Now there is being formed a governing priesthood. The priesthood is being prepared to govern God’s children forever. We are, as James says, a firstfruits of mankind.

Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of firstfruits of his creatures. (James 1:18)
RomanceRe: Please What Should I Do? by joceey(m): 1:07pm On Apr 12, 2020
so abeg free her and ignore her side for now ................such lady no see you has a man that has future.
RomanceRe: A Married Woman With 2 Kids Pesters Another Married Woman Into Lesbianism. Video by joceey(m): 6:55pm On Apr 09, 2020
Na wa o
RomanceRe: Lust City by joceey(m): 6:16pm On Apr 06, 2020
Sola you re a great writer but the problem is how to buy your stories this okada of a things the process is not well organise.Pls try to open a WhatsApp for it ,put your WhatsApp number strictly for those that want to buy your stories if its through recharge card or bank transfer after confirming that the recharge card or transfer is valid with proof of payment , the person will send you is email address and you send it has PDF to the person.
I tried buying one of your stories( fear no more )till date when it was difficult on okada i didn't finish. Save people the stress of registration on a site before getting the story only advising you from observation thank you.
RomanceRe: Does This Situation Have Any Spiritual Meaning by joceey(m):
Guy what you had was a vision of things that will take place between you and the girl you saw in your vision.Pls don't be scared of anything this happen to me where a girl i know wanted me to date her but i was not answering giving her face. I had a vision that morning where by she held me tight and wanted to make love to me something just came in to my mind in that vision i asked her to stop it and promise to buy her ice cream in the vision she now accepted.Funny enough when i woke up that morning took my shower and was about going out ,it was the girl I first meet outside the gate she greeted me and told ask me not to forget the ice cream i promise her my people fear catch me physically that day i avoided her she is married now.
RomanceRe: So I Braced Up And Stepped Out Today!!!!! Photos! by joceey(m): 8:23pm On Mar 30, 2020
Jewessgratitudd:
Yeah.. So After 8 days of being indoors, I summoned courage to step out to the nearest super mart to get a few toiletries. But that was after I took my time to matt down my nappy hair. Hope i tried. Then I tamed my eges that is always making me look bushy on the forehead he he... Do I headed to the mart.

Im out of stock of toiletries and since the fg has declared another two weeks of strict lockdown, I don't want to be stranded.

So that's me at the mart.
The other pics is what the road looks like. Skeletal movement, so it was cool.

At the mart, people were trying to crowd the place, I had to call the securitys attention to which he held the door against them. Phew! Felt like disappearing.

So I quickly got my stuff and left in a hurry.


Ready for the lockdown. hopefully.
You naturally beautiful nice hair
RomanceRe: Share Your Weird Or Strange Experience With A Girl by joceey(m): 8:39pm On Mar 17, 2020
id911:
Don't pity me because I'm not possessed. The reason I never wanted to come on in here to share this experience of mine is because of responses like yours and other similar ones.

Let me tell you something, after my experience, I decided to go deeper in finding some certain things about fine girls, most extremely beautiful ladies you see around have one issue or the other. But you know what, not every guy they come across can share in their 'negative' issues. Some people tend to have unexplained natural defensive mechanism that wade off bad energy from having negative effects on them even without their knowledge.


Even HIV/Aids, no be everybody fit catch that disease, go make your findings
Na true you talk but some people go find it hard to believe you
BusinessThere Is Probability Of Tough One To Two Months by joceey(op): 9:20pm On Mar 16, 2020
Dear All,

There is probability of tough one to two months ahead for Nigeria and Nigerians. The rest of the world are not left out.

China is shut down, Europe is shutting down, US is shutting her borders before shutting down and others. Africa is safe but without selling our crude oil we are economically enslaved.

Simple advices are:

1) Keep faith, don't rush to spend

2) Don't go into any investments now

3) Let this CoronaVirus plague pass.

4) Naira is 420 to a $ today, it may probably sink further.

5) Crude price has collapsed, because our buyers are in quarantine.

6) Government may not be able to pay for its financial obligations

7) Delay in salary may be inevitable

cool Government officials will be hard on citizens in order to realize money

9) Solution is spend less and make plans for tomorrow

I pray God ease our affairs and never put us into a trial we can not bear. Amen!
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: LASK Vs Manchester United: UCL (0 - 5) On 12th March 2020 by joceey(m): 8:33pm On Mar 12, 2020
Cherrybae:
I will deactivate my account if man utd won this match. Man utd must lost tonight.

Useless club full with illitatrates
Angry babe spotted grin
RomanceRe: I’m Fed Up Already Please Help! by joceey(m): 8:19pm On Mar 09, 2020
if you are my younger brother i know no weything i go do you seriously angry you re ill and sahe asked you to go and fetch water no human sympathy such girl can poison your food and leave you to die she go join people cry also .........you better run away fromm such woman my brother.
RomanceRe: Is It Okay For Siblings Of Opposite Sex To Live Together Off Campus by joceey(m): 8:07pm On Mar 06, 2020
Lamanii22:
Stranger things keep happening these days... Where sister with the Innocent eyes would lust after her brother... I can live with my brother though... We are disciplined, plus my brother don't find chubby girls attractive and I'm chubby...
you kind of funny babe lol grin lwkm funny u
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Everton Vs Manchester United (1 - 1 ) On 1st March 2020 by joceey(m): 4:33pm On Mar 01, 2020
ighalo will soon score
RomanceRe: Am So Confused Right Now, Need Serious Advice. by joceey(m): 1:12pm On Mar 01, 2020
A SERIAL CHEATER SAYING HE CANNOT STAND A CHEATING WOMAN .........YOU BETTER MARRY THE GIRL AFTER YOU DEFLOWER HER YOU ARE NOW HAVING SECOND THOUGHT YOU ARE NOT SERIOUS AT ALL CHEATER.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Club Brugge :Europa League (5 - 0) On 27th Feb 2020 by joceey(m): 9:06am On Feb 28, 2020
Emmanuel226:
ur celebrations will soon be short-lived sad
BAD MIND PEOPLE grin grin grin grin
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Club Brugge :Europa League (5 - 0) On 27th Feb 2020 by joceey(m): 9:37pm On Feb 27, 2020
thank GOD ighalo don score
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Club Brugge Vs Manchester United: Europa League (1 - 1) Live by joceey(m): 7:18pm On Feb 20, 2020
SportsRe: Ramos Tips Samuel Chukwueze To Make A Move To Barcelona by joceey(m): 11:05am On Feb 20, 2020
kk let wait and see grin
SportsRe: Manchester United Banned Odion Ighalo From Training Base Due To Coronavirus Fear by joceey(m): 7:34am On Feb 13, 2020
grin
FamilyRe: Mother And Daughter Who Looks So Much Alike Goes Nude (see Photos by joceey(m): 8:23am On Feb 12, 2020
Kudos
Christianity EtcRe: Share Your Experience With Fetish Friends, Neighbor, Landlord, Co-worker Etc by joceey(m): 11:35am On Feb 09, 2020
Asquare84:
My people I wish I can relate my story here may be someone can offer a constructive advice and solution, when I was in SS2 in secondary school I had a dream in the dream there was an owl bird in the sky so people were trying to kill the bird with stone, so I joined in stoning the bird too in the dream the bird only circle my stone and the stone started following the bird, I only woke up to discard the dream as a mere dream since I have never been involve in fetish things before, since that dream my life become a vegetable as I am not living my life to full potential as something keep holding me back in life. Secondly I do dream of being surrounded by barking dogs each time I try to break free from the dogs it always been difficult till I wake up from my sleep. Any idea on how I can get my life is welcome
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If u are truly ready to be set free send me a message I will give u psalms that you will use fr three days morning and night prayers after that you will be totally free by the blood of Jesus Christ and JESUS MIGHTY NAME
Christianity EtcRe: Why Did God Send Evil Spirit To Torment King Saul? by joceey(m): 10:34am On Feb 09, 2020
First and foremost, we must begin with the context. We have to look at Saul (first king of Israel) and his situation as well as Ahab (later king of Israel) and his brother-in-law Jehoshaphat (later king of Judah). Saul started off great but finished ignominiously in defeat and death. Saul had lived a life of chronic disobedience to God, and therefore had opened himself up to demonic oppression.”

In the latter case, King Ahab of Israel (the northern kingdom after the split) wanted his brother-in-law King Jehoshaphat of Judah (the southern kingdom) to join him in a war against an enemy; however, Jehoshaphat wanted to know that God blessed this campaign. Ahab called on his 600 pagan prophets who assured him of victory, while the one godly prophet Micaiah answered the king with “two parabolic visions.” The latter vision deals with the lying spirit speaking through false prophets that Ahab wanted to believe. Since Micaiah refused to cooperate with Ahab he was imprisoned while Ahab went off to defeat and death.

When Saul shut God out of his life through his own prideful and willful disobedience, we can well understand why the Spirit of God had no place in Saul’s heart, soul, mind, and body. However, it is not so easy to understand an evil spirit not only entering him but coming from God.Bible’s teachings about God. Scripture affirms that God is completely righteous, hates evil, and never does anything unjust.”

The writer also reminds us that we must factor in that God allows certain things to happen that are warnings and lessons. Also, the evil spirit was used by God as were pagan rulers as instruments of justice and judgment. Of course, there was the element of being instruments of redemption. We read “in light of Saul’s disregard for God’s moral order, it (the evil spirit) was also intended to drive him to repent and turn back to the Lord God, who is Master of all the created order, will use even demons, against their will, for redemptive purposes.” “God may and does occasionally impel sinners to reveal the wickedness of their hearts in deed” – as was most clearly seen in the case of Ahab who so wanted to believe lies so he could do as he pleased.
I Kings, describe how God knew that “false prophets, possessed by a lying spirit, would feed Ahab’s ego by assuring him of victory in the projected battle.” In conclusion Kaiser is most helpful when he writes: “God used the false declarations of the false prophets (with lying spirits) that Ahab was so enamored with as his instruments of judgment the same way he might use a heathen nation to chastise Israel (that is to say, his use of Assyria in punishing Israel, Is. 10:5; or his use of Babylon for similar reasons, Hab. 1:2-11).

We can affirm without hesitation or qualification that both the willful Saul and wicked Ahab had opened themselves up to evil spirits which God allowed in order to bring an end to their evil reigns either by repentance or judgment. In hindsight, this was their time of judgment – that only came after a time of grace and pleadings from godly prophets to repent of their sins and return to God.
SportsRe: If You Can Predict At Least One Game On Weekends,pls Come In!! by joceey(m): 10:07am On Jan 18, 2020
08029220674 add me
Nairaland GeneralRe: Africa Asia Pacific Economic Conference 2020 Sydney Australia by joceey(m): 8:55pm On Jan 15, 2020
How do one join for the conference?
HealthRe: What's The Name & Medical Uses Of This Flower? by joceey(m): 3:33pm On Jan 13, 2020
AbiBuruji722:
It's used for baby rashes
Dont mind them its use for baby rashes just like she said
RomanceRe: Please Help A Brother by joceey(m): 2:27pm On Jan 13, 2020
depumpin:
sometimes seeing her trying to disturb my peace with people or seeing having sex wit other guys......and de worst one sef today early in de morning i went to my frd house and before we greet finish de first question he ask me was did my ex call me that he dream she calld me
How long have you two been separated? The dreams that's been revealed to you is what is about to happen or has happened.Its likely you two reconcile back.
RomanceRe: Please Help A Brother by joceey(m): 12:15pm On Jan 13, 2020
What re the dreams like?dont mind to share
RomanceRe: Married Women Storms Comment Section Of Guy That Promised To Take Them To Venice by joceey(m): 10:08pm On Jan 06, 2020
Abeg na only me notice say all those women wey reply that man na igbo women grin chai
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Single Mother And How Do You Always Feel About It? by joceey(m): 10:20pm On Jan 05, 2020
Bekeey:
She has not o, kept saying she had terrible and heartbroken experience.
In a relationship been open and sincere matters alot ,she ought to have told you right from the beginning.Let us see how time unravels what is ahead.
RomanceRe: Can You Marry A Single Mother And How Do You Always Feel About It? by joceey(m): 8:54pm On Jan 05, 2020
Bekeey:
Please pardon my grammatical errors.

All started June last year, I mate this girl online, Facebook precisely. We started chatting and talking, video calls each other. I spents 1hour on calls with her.
I stays in Abuja whilst she stays in Nsukka where she schools. For all this while, distance couldn't allow us to meet one on one. We so much fell in love with each other, I mean deep one. We must hear each others voice at least twice a day.

I am graduate, still single and searching managing my self, can afford 3² mills a day, for those that can understand. And by 6th of this January 2020, she will be in her final year at University of Nigeria Nsukka.

She is a pretty girl and my speck in a woman, fair in complexion, average height

To cut the story short, I returned for Christmas, we are both Anambrans. I bought her a gown worth of 7k, heigh hill shoes 7k and 5k handbag making it total of 19k.

When I called her that I am back, she was very excited on phone and I told her that I am coming to see her the next day she fell more deep excited. To cut it short like I said, we finally met and both happy to see each othe.

So, we fixed a date she will visit me, that's three days after. She came and I gave her the goodies I bought for her, behold much excitement from her. She paused and said I should excuse her to test it. I was like, excuse you? She pecked me and said sorry yes. I excused her and later came in, I was happy as if I took her measurement before getting all those stuffs for her. Behold she still ask me out from the room when she wanted to remove it.

Cutting the story short, after all the excitement, I started giving her the sines of wonders, if you know you know. We kissed romanced deeply, I can testify, she is very good in that, I mean very good, I said to my self """this one Ochanja Market is like this, na only God knows how the Main Market will look like""" at last she declined me not to touch both up and down points.

My point now is, I found out via her stomach that she is a single mother probably a nursing mother. I was pressurising to see if she will tell me and asking her how her past relationship was like but she kept telling me it was a terrible one, heartbroken this and that. As I am writing this, she have not told me something related having a child outside marriage, I love her so much planning to have future with her but each time I remembers that, it always weakens me emotionally.

Please what do I do as I can't imagining my self getting married to a single mother, and am just 34 whilst she is 26. And she has that wife qualities and pretty.

Please advise!!!
Biko nwame .....I read everybody post here but there's something I like to ask you ,has she informed you herself that she has a child or not ...answer me biko

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