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IN A POST LAST YEAR, I EQUATED THEM TO CHILDREN WHO WISH FOR NOTHING OTHER THAN AFFECTION AND ATTENTION GOING THEIR WAY WHILE THEY DO NOTHING TO EARN IT.
I HAVE NO REGRETS STILL.

Jodha:


[s]Fun Fact : women are more responsible than men in marriages...they carter tirelessly for the needs of their children... They work endlessly..[/s]

[s]Oh God bless Women......
. women are mostly faithful in marriages...hence look for fun ...[/s]

[s]Men are often cheaters...thus have enough fun going on..[/s]

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IN A POST LAST YEAR, I EQUATED THEM TO CHILDREN WHO WISH FOR NOTHING OTHER THAN AFFECTION AND ATTENTION GOING THEIR WAY WHILE THEY DO NOTHING TO EARN IT.
I HAVE NO REGRETS STILL.

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DONT BLAME THEM. IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT.
IF ONLY THEY HADN'T MARRIED SCUM MEN WHO ARE CARRIED AWAY WITH WORK TRYING TO PROVIDE FOR THEIR FAMILIES, THESE WOMEN WOULDN'T BE BORED.

Jodha:


One doesn't have to do anything to earn attention....yhu notice who yhu wanna notice...the person doesn't have to struggle for it...

Jodha:

Y'all forming "alpha males" in this nairaland...when y'all know the truth that..."nothing come out"

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IF YOU'RE NOT 14, STOP TYPING YOU AS YHU. OR DON'T MENTION ME NEXT TIME.

ALSO YOU EARN ATTENTION AND CARE BY GIVING ATTENTION AND CARE. IT BECOMES EMPTY WHEN YOU ONLY WANT TO TAKE, BUT NEVER GIVE.
I DON'T EXPECT YOU TO UNDERSTAND.



NAIRALAND ALPHA MALE IS THE NEW SLANG TO SHUSH ANYONE, OF ANY GENDER WHO CRITICIZES AN ACTION OR OPINION OF ANY FEMALE ON THIS FORUM.
IT DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT. YOUR THREAD IS ASS, AND YOU'RE A DISGRACE.

Michelle55:

Still not enough reason to dive into the guy's timeline like that.. Whatever happens to having a heart to heart conversation with your partner?

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YOU'RE EMBARRASSING THE CREATOR OF THIS THREAD WHO HAPPENS TO BE THE CHIEF SCOUT OF "MEN ARE BORING" FC.

THERE'S NO NEED FOR ANY HEART TO HEART CONVERSATIONS. MARRIED WOMEN (ONLY, NO MEN ALLOWED) SHOULD STRICTLY LOOK FOR FUN BY JUMPING FROM MEN TO MEN WITH THE CLAIM OF BEING BORED IN THEIR MARRIAGES.

Michellekabod2:
do men slut-sham ladies?yes or no?
Do you see everything wrong in females slut-shaming themselves in a feud but nothing wrong when men slut sham ladies? Yes or no? (From your comments whenever a man wrongs or bully a lady you let it pass and create of strawman with the women-are-their-own-worst-enemies mantra).
Is the ultimate goal of trying to be chaste to impress a man or a woman?yes or no?
No need for strawmaning

Jodha:

I'm not looking for a rich man to fund a life of adventure...
A relationship is like a partnership between two people...we can do it together...
I don't just want to spend the rest of my life subjected to a series of events...
Tufiakwa...life is supposed to be spontaneous..

Omar09:


This point right here contradicts every other point you made here.

Relationship being like a partnership suggests that when one is not spicing it up the other helps out.
That you are using what you posted as a yardstick to show how boring men are shows your IQ is of decimal not up to zero.
No matter how boring marriage is, does it require that low key whoring?
Whatever happened to "till death do us part".
Well marriage isn't about bed of roses or fun or not boring sweetheart you are on a long thing. If your input doesn't equal that of your intending spouse, the end result will be boring.

Sometimes try to hide the level of your IQ. Because if this is the way you rant offline I'm afraid you've chased that knight in shining amour husband of yours and you would have to forever to get married if it's your goal.

Hey don't bother replying this cause I won't reply you. I can't stoop to your level.

Cheers mate!

Michelle55:

Still not enough reason to dive into the guy's timeline like that.. Whatever happens to having a heart to heart conversation with your partner?

ubunja:
I get you. You need excitement and Unpredictability. But you have to understand "being predictable" is the very definition of being a man since men are logical.

Men thrive on predictability. And what you call boring is not the dictionary meaning of boring but being predictable. Men are predictable that's what makes them dependable. If men were Unpredictable then they would build nothing and they would achieve nothing. You guys need to stop searching for fun as if you're little kids.

Jodha:


God created women as lively beings...we bring life to everything .....we complete everything...

Too bad we cannot be stuck up in yhur "predictable" lifestyle ....all in the name of marriage...

I will personally not do that...

ubunja:
they must entertain themselves. Most guys are not even remotely interested in traveling to Venice or wherever.

You want excitement? How about you invite your best friend for a 3sum. That's many times better than a trip to Paris for any guy.

Michelle55:

Lol . ain't embarrassing anyone,just stating the obvious. Afterall the said husbands are busy doing their possible best just so their families can have a comfortable life without hitches.
It's expected of the woman to be supportive and if she feels the marriage is getting boring then its her duty to challenge the Man and spice up their marriage.
In marriage,there's no reverse nor U-turn except there's physical abuse!!

loveyou123:
if i be any of dos women husband, na to DIVORCE her sharply no time

Jodha:


Nigerian men are mostly boring in marriages....they know nothing else apart from going to work, coming back, eating , having sex , sleeping and the cycle repeats itself again and again and again....till infinity. ...

Women are bored and tired of that shit...a woman will work...still cook...still wash clothes..plates ..take care of the house...clean...still muster the strength to engage in sex...for as many rounds as a husband pleases...

Women are tired of that shit.... that's the result yhure seeing up there and nothing else..

Jodha:


God created women as lively beings...we bring life to everything .....we complete everything...

Too bad we cannot be stuck up in yhur "predictable" lifestyle ....all in the name of marriage...

I will personally not do that...

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IN A POST LAST YEAR, I EQUATED THEM TO CHILDREN WHO WISH FOR NOTHING OTHER THAN AFFECTION AND ATTENTION GOING THEIR WAY WHILE THEY DO NOTHING TO EARN IT.
I HAVE NO REGRETS STILL.

Jodha:
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Some of the women clearly stated that they took permission from their husband...and they agreed...

Yhu think say marriage nah where yhu fit ... shout DIVORCE anytime yhu feel like it..

Lonelypacifist6:
Even the one's you fund their trips would still find you boring, satisfying them is a no contest don't bother trying to.

emmaodet:


I don't know why these modern women are always quick to Scream House Chores.
House chores as reduced Drastically for God sake.
Instead of washing physically, we now have washing machine, sweeper, advance mopping stick, women don't give birth to much kids unlike our grandmothers.
Now mostly 2/3 kids max on average and a sizeable family now used house girls or poor family relative kid who they send to cheap school.
So my question still remains - with all the time that as been created for modern women, why are they still screaming house chores? And why are they not productive and be supporting the man financially with the Time they now have which they mostly waste on social media like fb, Instagram, snapchat etc and watching dstv programs like zeeworld.
I don't even remember when i ate my mum food last because we always have house help at home. Mum and dad are both civil servants and not rich so the excuse shouldn't be that they are rich.
Also, instead of a woman to be hiding under house chores, why not make the woman go work and employ house help of 120k per year why your woman brings in atleast 360k per year to the family which can easily pay the house help or a poor relative.

Michelle55:

Lol . ain't embarrassing anyone,just stating the obvious. Afterall the said husbands are busy doing their possible best just so their families can have a comfortable life without hitches.
It's expected of the woman to be supportive and if she feels the marriage is getting boring then its her duty to challenge the Man and spice up their marriage.
In marriage,there's no reverse nor U-turn except there's physical abuse!!