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Wickedness at it's peak..

Barbaric hooligans.. The perpetrators of this act should be appropriately brought to book..

Martin124:
hmmmm jodha

Why hmm?.. Shey yhu support me?

TheSlyone2:
Oh, good lord..

Good thing you accept looking at this from a general point of view. You don't judge every situation with a general perspective. Every situation has got it own uniqueness...

Like I did said, we don't know what transpired between them two. So judging base on what you think could have happened is totally borne out of sentiment..

Let me rephrase the question again... In an event, where a guy spend a whooping N700K on you, can you leave such a man?

Second question, can you accept a gift from someone you don't love?

Hell no.. I didn't judge from what I think... I drew conclusions from the signs given by the guy in question.. It was plain... He's reaction sold him off..

So because of 700k I should coman die for the man ehn?.. Yes I would be totally grateful.. But it doesn't mean if he tramples on me.. Or try to do anything funny I won't leave... My dear I'd run without looking back.. With my heels touching the back of my head

As for the second question.. I'll plainly tell yhu.. Brother the feeling is not mutual.. I see yhu as a brother and friend.. And all that shii..
After that if he still insists on giving me.. As a friend... (as in just friends) why not aww collect..


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Martin124:
hahahaha abeg make una nor kill me with laugh,,,,how u dae na?hapy new month

My dear.. I just dey like dele... Hope yhu kpompii?

Same to yhu my guy.. Wishing yhu eer'thing yhu wish yhurself..

TheSlyone2:
The manner with which you talk baffles me. You seem to know exactly what went down between them two...

You know guys of his calibre? Have you met him before? Were you there when they were dating?

See, my judgment is based solely on what is made open... That is the writeup. Yours isn't. That's why I said you are sentimental..

We don't even know if this gurl in question is a user. Of course, there are users. They use you to get to where they want. The fact that we must blame the guy for been frivolous doesn't make the gurl a saint...

Yet you talked about emotions. Doesn't it appears to you that this lady through her scheming may have put the guy in an emotional trauma. Or do you think it only men who break heart?

For once, I want you to look beyond what you have read or experienced in your day to day life.. Read this article and pass your judgment according without prejudice



You seem to have evaded my question..

Given this precarious scenario, would you have done same?

I type from experience... I don't have to be there when they were dating to know.. What went wrong.. His tone.. And what he typed gave him away..

Before a guy would spend 700k worth of gift for a girl's birthday.. It means they've dated for long.. They've gone a long way.. And something like this happen... Instead of him to tell us what really went down.. His talking of his 700k..

I'm not saying the lass is totally right for running the way she did... But it obvious she went to a far place... Where he can't reach her for her own safety

The guy does not sound like a person in an emotional trauma.. He only wants his money back (he doesn't seem to care about the wench..)..

I'm passing my judgement with every atom of sincerity.. If the guy was broken I'd know.. He doesn't care about her.. He cares about his money alone.. Hence she found someone better and left him.. I'm sure she didn't tell him because she's scared of him(hence why I concluded he might be assaulting her too)

Yhu mean me in the ladies shoes or the guy's shoes?..

TheSlyone2:
The fact that everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion doesn't warrant sentiment. If you must pass judgment, see to it that it's fair to be both end...

Secondly, you claim the nigga behaved like a child. Are you by any means rooting your support for the lady? If that's so, then you can also behave in like manner if given the opportunity...

Again, why should she accept a gift from someone you totally don't love. Does that sound right with you?

Why would she have to rip where she did not showed? At least, courtesy demands that if someone is generous to you, all you could do is return the favor...

You defending this argument means you can and you will do same if such opportunity present itself

I'm very objective with my judgment.. You're the one just with sentiments (just because yhu pity the guy and yhu feel he lost 700k)...

I know guys of his calibre very well.. I'm sure he's been oppressing the lady in every way.. Maybe assaulting her.. That's why she ran for her dear life!..

Would yhu prefer a sister of yhurs suffers.. And cover eer'thing up because the guy gave her 700k?

Whether I'd do such.. If the opportunity is given to me.. Is totally my biz..

Whatever rocks yhur boat man.. I only gave out my candid opinion!..

My own bone of contention is the poor child... I don't really fancy.. A child growing from a broken home and all...

Before yhu think of doing anything with the mother.. Bond very well with that boy... He should see yhu as his.. On no account should yhu think he's not yhur son.. Treat him as yhu would treat your son.. Accept full responsibility for that boy..

Do some research about the boy's father.. In a case where he's dead.. Or refuses to take responsibility of his son.. I'd advice yhu to adopt the child as yhurs..

After doing all that then yhu can talk of any serious relationship with his mother..

Martin124:
eee story full ground na,,,,anyway I nor lev u if u nor tell me today ooo

If yhu like hold my skirt.. I nogo tell yhu anything

TheSlyone2:
do you always read an article from the last chapter?

Why do you have to let your prejudice out in this manner?

Why cast a total and unverified blame on the guy without knowing what she's made him go through??


Given this same scenario, can you treat your boyfriend like that??

My dear.. That's why people are different.. Yhu don't obviously expect me to see things the way yhu.. That's why it's my [/b]opinion[b]..
Do yhu expect me to applaud the niggur.. For behaving so childishly?... Awk yhur gf left yhu.. Damn it's nothing new.. Instead of saying how he misses her.. And telling us where he went wrong.. What he actually did to make her take such a drastic step..

He's lamenting like a child.. Over a gift..

Immaturity at it's peak..

SmellingAnus:
maybe you are from Kalabari .. lol... I am from Bayelsa... You?

Nah not kalabari... Dude you're my bro oo ..

Martin124:
I think it my fault see reason!!!

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We were friends for about,,,infact from JSS1 till when we gratuated into the senior secondry either SS2 or SS1,,,from den till to that level she was already inlove with me,,,!but I never knew to be serious I never knew she has somthing for me!!! We leter got into a relationship but,,u know that friendship bond did not allow me to love her,,,I was still seeing her as friends,,,supposing I knew earlier my dear eh d love for grow,,,,d tin eh infact she can't thank God she got an addmision seeker!!!and know dey living happily with a kid now from what I heard,,,all I know iz she's married,,,,!!!so basicaly na marriage na settle everything,,,

Eyah.. Yhur... Own wife will come... Don't worry..

Martin124:
me personaly am intresting in ya contribution....I wan hear ya own

Too bad.. Ion have anything to contribute...

Sha gist me yhur own

abimic:
Happy new month to:
yemsai1. . ore mi atata
Jodha1.. ... The goddess
Esty201.. . The barrister that hardly comments

Didn't even know... It was March already.. Same to yhu dearie..

the guy in question is totally foolish.. Did she ask him for a birthday gift... Did she force him?..

After him don dry the girl emotionally, sexually and other wise.. He's lamenting because of gift.. (typical igbo man)..

He doesn't truly love her.. I'm glad she noticed early and literally ran for her life...

Nonsense..

You'll be glad yhu did.. Trust me..

Plus I didn't add.. Boy is the phone light..

SmellingAnus:
yea.... Where are you from and how come you know about egberi fah ?

Yhu nkor. . how did yhu know.. What I was typing about

Aww answer after yhu..

Max 3pro or plus.. They're all good.. About the ba3 it's superb.. Only if the charge it long enough.. Immed

neighy:
nice... How goood is the ba3 and is it the 3 or the 3Pro

iately yhu buy it..

Guy chop knuckle jhoor.. Yhu too much..

SmellingAnus:
are you from Nembe/Brass?

No not really.. Is it because of the egberifa?

neighy:
current user of max 3??

My brother is.. The phone is amazing..

Look somewhere else bro... Things are not the way the seem..

Why didn't she put on bra before taking the selfies..

Chai.. Wrong advice..

Injoo max 3 is Bae.. In terms of camera quality and everything...

Infinix hot 4 nah nonsense.. I prefer hot 3 to dah shii..

Eyah.. Too bad I have nothing to contribute..

A gunner was gunned... Rip bro..


I hate to see things like this...

My candid opinion (no bias reasoning).. Is that.. She's telling yhu the truth.. But honestly she's not doing it the right way..

If she's a true Christian.. She should talk to yhu about Jesus.. And make yhu see reasons why giving yhur life to Christ is the best thing that can ever happen to yhu..

After that if yhu refuse.. She should leave yhu and find her man.. Cause obviously you're not the one..
The Bible does not permit a Christian to marry an unbeliever..

(all those pokenosers that would want to mention me.. Should take note)..

This is totally my opinion..

Totally bad decision..

Naija which way... Sometimes I weep for this country..

He even took pictures of him giving her the money..

Igbo men ehn..

Sha.. The thing is that he saved dying children in need.. He should be applauded for allowing himself to be used by God to save the lives of that family..

Martin124:
what if na d girl seduce d guy,,,,me nor know how guy go take seduce girl ooo

Woh you're really innocent.. Mah guy..

Guys nai seduce pass sef(to a reasonable extent)
They do it a lot of... Especially cute guys.. Even average ones sef..

Meet those advanced nairaland guys... Dem go tell yhu how..