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Rooneyx:
Omo me I never date any girl when cheat on me cos I dey always stay with all my women even till now sef. My woman and I dey together so no way to even think of cheating sef. When we dey smash on a regular and all. But cheating woman na issue good you find your own that way. Frequently contacts and blocked list can expose some hidden things wey peons suppose know with time. Woman and man no dey do bestie o. That na red flag

TemmyT002:
Asking is a waste of time.
Be quiet and investigate quietly.

Giddy44324:
there are two things you must do to find out

1) Chrome her whatsapp unknown to her, to see if she is chatting with any man. if she is cheating on you it will be in her chats. check her archived chats as well, dont forget her text messages and recent call logs. none of these should be ignored.

2) Take her to a pregnancy test. some women can become pregnant when their husband is away and when you come back they will try to pin it down on you after sex so you will not know. A lot of men have fallen for this. dont bother if she gets upset by the pregnancy test because if she does, then she has a skeleton in her cupboard. if she comes out negative simply apologize to her and life goes on.

if she passes these two tests, there is a 60% possibility that she didn't cheat while you were away

Rooneyx:
Bro trust me. No matter how she try to hide some details go still play out. Only if her guy is smart and vigilant. Check her blocked contacts and confirm too. Bro I smart for anyone to deceive me wit deleted messages. I go still fish am out there’re ways through this things before she go spill scatter start to confess

santaclaws:
If I may ask you, what are the specific signs you've seen in your woman that made you suspicious? 🤔

Definitely there's something you know about her before suspecting her of cheating, so tell me so I can give u a valuable insight.

Topsido:
Find a relevant film about adultery. Watch it together. Study her mood. Start a discussion. Trust me you will get your answers.

jaxxy:
Asking her out of the blues without any initial hints or reasons might be super awkward and a mood/vibe killer so in order to ask her these seemingly necessary questions u have to follow certain steps.

1, get home greet as normal while observing for any changes in her attitude or conversation.

2. when settled in don't be in a hurry to have anything with her. Start by checking her fones and observe her response to it.

3. if nothing suspicious us found, act like u worried about something and keep to urself abit like u need space.

4. She should get worried and be thevone to ask u if anything is wrong. Then u can state ur worries or suspicions. Then hear her out. Still keep to urself until u get a convincing answer.

abbey621:
Got to believe this is for cruise and nothing else because it seems men of nowadays are no longer men but boys in disguise! As a man you've got to be 2 to 3 steps ahead of your woman. It's either you live in delulu and trust her completely or you do what most of us do which is TRUST BUT VERIFY!

Simple software on her phone allows you to monitor conversations!
Tiny recording device exists that allows you to hear everything.

If you're not into technology but still paranoid, go the traditional route, no need to explain that one too much but Yoruba people are experts!

All in all, the ball is in your court! Above all before you sleep with her make sure you and her get tested, since maritial trust is already compromised.....Ire oooo!

Bluntemperor:
You questioning is suspicious!
Marriage is based on Trust,so if and since you don't Trust her,she should just moved away from you!

Omoawoke:
And you think she way say yes if she did

If a woman cheat on you, she will hold that secret even at point of death. She rather die and go to hell than confess.
Unless you catch her with all evidences, otherwise she will never agree she did

Rooneyx:
Her mobile phone will expose all you need to know. Simple and short

JovialJune:
Lol these generation of men are nothing to write home about at all, especially the ones getting married, very immature, clueless, senseless lmao 🤣

If these are the majority male breeds available for marriage, I pity females, because what the hell, lmao 🤣 😂 😆

pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Lopon1:
Wizkid and Ronaldo are my two favourite stars in the world

pointblank247:
Sometimes I tend to ask my self what is wrong with the white people. You see something serious happening around them and they refuse to accord it any importance and now your husband voted for his choice candidate without stopping you from voting yours and you want to divorce him. What other name do you call "controlling" wife.
That's why I love my African brothers in Africa. I mean especially my Nigerian people.
Wetin you go tell your parents say na the reason for the divorce you seek ? The whole village will swear Amadioha and Sango for you , Na your mama go rush you go white garment church make Dem take flogging and beating reset your brain. Inukwa akuko

Olokolobo:
lier, pictures don't lie. She's looking straight at the camera.

Negroid001:
Dated someone for 4 years.
You knew he was married with kids.
Video shows you moaning and enjoying it.

You were misled indeed.

spiSeyi:
Lies from the pit of hell you wey dey smile and mourn for camera anyways only SIMPs fall for women victim card . Ebanger is a super intelligent man for recording the action just imagine that he never recorded those stuff he would have been tagged serious rapist by 98% of those women. And has for this 🕳️ Ebanger nor even need any lawyer the video is enough for evidence
PS: I am in support of Ebangers disgraceful and ungodly acts but in whatever you do with women try get correct evidence oo

Jcash90:
Thank God for ur life, is a lesson to all those comedians that are insulting people just to full their pocket.

MrRhymes101:
I think he should have forgiven her if she did missionary. But no pastor fit forgive wife wey do this kind style

BItt:
Christ has paid all my debt

Hellisreal70:
This is 100 / cent miracle of God. I don't know why some people are always struggling and trying to explain away the miracle of God as if it is a natural or normal occurrence.
Wether you like it or not God created you and every thing both living and nonliving, spiritual and physical.
The enemy is trying so hard to divert the heart of men from the reality of God, occupy the heart of men with worldly and carnal things so that he can drag them to hell 🔥
GOD EXISTS AND HE DOES MIRACLE.

Kinzo0000:
Maybe he is an Atheist

He does not believe in the existence of God miracle

On his day of judgment, he will know if God exist or not

But I know my redeemer liveth and He lives forever

djon78:
You guys should just go and thank God

A childhood friend was killed with several other girls in a university female hostel

She was First class Brain

May Ada's soul continue rest in peace 🙏 Amen 💖

TOPCRUISE:
Relocate immediately.
Why fix gas on burner when fire is still on.
They will repeat it again because they are women

Owaincouncil:
I don laf taya. You ran out on boxer killed it.
But thank God for you guys.
Only God can do this my brain can't reason deeply.

naijapikin2:
I wasn't the one who put you in hell, you were already there before you logged in. It's your natural habitat. The only way out of your predicament is jesus. Hasn't your mother said that to you several times

And yes I can tell you all I want because in scheme of spiritually you are my slave.

So bloody atheist: remain in that cocoon of unbelief which you have spurned yourself in.

It's called HELL FAYA😎

So....

GET BEHIND ME SATAN.

Oh... YOU'RE ALREADY THERE 😃😃😃