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beau49:
First it was 'sir' now its 'auntie' . Make una continue.....

Alright will send to you.

Dear pretty darling beautiful pls do send to me too o. Okeniyisheyi228@gmail.com
At least me no call u sir or auntie.

Ask him to define the relationship so he won't end up wasting your time.

blesie:
I just wish to share my honeymoon bitter and sweet experience for you and also get inspiration.

A little Intro to how it all started: So i met this guy during the course of work in my former office and he started chasing me, my colleagues then ask me not to agree that he looks like a player. He looks like one that never get a No for an answer, so me and my colleagues use him to have a good lunch, dinner or whenever we just feel like going to that cinema, he won't ever dissapoint, he'll take us there, a year after i left the company but he kept on chasing, so one day i was passing through some difficult times in my career, i felt like resigning but he came to me and advise me wisely, he told me how to tackle the challenges and when i did, it works perfectly so i started liking him, so i called him that we can date if only he will adhere to my conditions, he asked me to list the conditions and i did as stated below:
1) No Sex
2) No romance
3) No Kissing
Infact no touches.

He agreed with so much pains in his eyes, but after 6 months of dating, we begin to hug anyway and light kisses.

But through out the relationship, i was always walking with shoulders held very high up there, thinking that shebi he's the one begging me, i will scream and always want things done my way.

For a year, i misbehave alot but after i begin to be the girl he would want me to be, i wasnt really shouting or screaming anymore but i was still so full of pride, but i started loving him very well.

On the first week of August he proposed, and we got married over 2 weeks ago, the wedding went well everyone was happy but after all the happiness, dancing, eating and greetings by friends and family, i found out later i was left with him in the car and the driver.

We went into the hotel room that evening and he started answering calls, so i use that opportunity to rush to the bathroom and took my bath, after i finish bathing, lying down on the bed and thinking of how sex will look like, he tapped my leg and said i should come and bath him, i was like, bath you? how na, he said i should not waste his time, i wanted to say something again and he opened his eyes, the way he has not opened it before so i was scared, i jump off bed to the bathroom and started pouring water on him, he ask if i was in my right senses in a very fierce way, i shake my head saying yes, he said he doesnt think so that if i was i will be unclad by now, so i told him i wasnt going to bath him anymore, i left, went to the bed and lie, he completed the bath and came to meet me in the room.

He held me and said, yes i married you, he didnt say anything again he just stared at me, then dragged me closer and started kissing me, then he said i should UnCloth him, what was surprising to me though was that his stuff was now 300% bigger than what i saw while i try to bath him, i thought maybe he had used something on it so i started to shift back, he pulled me back and i never knew how powerful he was until that evening, cos his hands just seem to be pulling me like im an ant, at that point i tried to fight him but he practically raped me, i screamed and shouted my life out but it seems he is enjoying the shout so i started to remain calm and then he said hold me, hold me very tight and i remember my mom telling me, do whatever he says to make him happy, so i grabbed him with two hands very tight to my body and as i did, i also started enjoying the sex so i started calling him baby.

After the first round, it was like i had an accident, i was so tired i couldnt stand up, i couldnt even hold a paper i was breathing fast, it felt like i will die, i ask him to get me lucozade or something to regain my energy, he gave me drink and i just wanted to sleep off, he came waking me up and wanted to start another thing, i screamed at him and he said look at me very well, you see all that up shoulder you use to display while we were dating? you've got to drop it at the wedding reception because if you take it to the wedding, you will just be crying, do you know how many years you make me impotent, should i analyse the insult you gave me and all of that, now respect yourself, stand up and do the needful.

Fear crib me like i have made a mistake, i cried and ran down to the bed to UnCloth he said no way, now i want it standing, i tried to imagine how somebody will stand to have sex but before i could finish thinking, he's dragged me out of bed and there it goes, painful and annoying i was just crying.

After he finished that, i went on my knee to beg him for forgivenness for all the shout and scream i use to shout at him that i was ready to make a new turn, he said fine, that the new turn will mean that i will now respect and do everything he wants me to, i said yes i will do.

Then he said, come on suck this, you won't imagine what he ask me to suck , how in the world can a husband be so wicked

I said not this, he said ok, seems you are not ready to comply, he came for me and i bit him, fought him, he allowed me beat him after i finish beating him, he raped me and its really hurting me like i want to die.

Now everyday he made me suck him, all the bad things one could dream of is what he likes, if he ask me to do something and i refuse he wont beat me, instead he will come for me and rape me.

I am so tired, i don't know why one man will want to have sex up to countles times in a day, i was just wondering.

UNTILL HE CAME TO REVEAL TO ME TODAY THAT HE IS PUNISHING ME FOR WHAT I DID TO HIM OVER THE YEARS.

He finds joy in doing it and im so pained, is he going to change, should i report him to our pastor or my parent?

Dear you are paying back in hard currency...
You ladies thinks you know it all.
Anyway my advice is that keep praying for him so that the beast that possessed him will free him.

Liars!!!

Kaduna in trouble...
Demolition on point.

Priceless24:
Na today we start to chop lie? It's better they don't tell us anything sef

Pls tell them jaare...
Gone are those days we eat their crap stories.

Mprex:
lols. What dont you understand? I meant the lady shouldnt be passive during sex. She should be active and involved so that both of them can derive maximum pleasure from it. You get it?

Now u re talking.

major466:
The word marriage strikes fear in guys these days. Am not even sure if...

Lolz.... Eyah!
Life time commitment things.

Mprex:
Erm... One of my NL admirers (clevvermind) created a thread on things husbands should not do to their wives and i think i should produce a counter thread for that.

So these are the 8 things i feel ladies should desist from as married women

1: Dont think you are the Project: its true that he has to woo you, chase you, court you and all that but once you both are married. You become his helper. Dont ever have the mentality that he married you to pet and care for you. Its true he will do that but that is not the main reason for the marriage. You are not his life project rather you are to assist him achieve and attain his life project.

2- Dont Turn Him Against His People: dont turn the mother that bore him for nine months into a witch in his eyes pls. His relatives shouldnt become his enemies because you married him. Dont destroy the family relationship.

3- Dont Try To Change Him: You met him that way. You loved him that way. Why are you trying to change him now?. If you met him drinking alchohol, brace yourself to put up with it. Dont try to change him. You are not the HolySpirit.

4- Dont Be Too Familiar: dont be too familiar with your husband. Queen Vashti lost her crown to Esther because she was too familiar with her husband. Her husband sent for her and she refused to go. Dont get too familiar. Dont forget he is still your head. Still respect him.

5- Dont Stop Looking Good: this one is a major one. He met you looking sexy, fabolous and great. Dont stop looking that way. Even after having kids, hit the gym and still keep fit. Dont forget that he sees fresh babes every day as he goes out. Men are moved by what they see. Dont stop looking good.

6- Help Him On Bed: i wont talk much on this one but please dont make !sex! boring for him.

7- Dont Nag: pls dont nag biko. Instead of nagging, pray to God. God can change his heart, you cant change his heart.

8- Dont Try To Train Your Husband: you are expected to love your husband not to train him. If his mother that has been with him for the first part of his life cant change him on certain things, dont think that you can. Just help him.

Culled and Modified: Pst Mrs Mildred Okonkwo

Talk more about number 6 ooooo..
Cos I don't undersTand o

Lolz... I like e-quarrel ehhhn... It dey swEet me..
Pls u guys should continue. Lolz

SAMBARRY:
hmnmnn while he is not breaking his.so who is the insecure person.so that when problem come she no gp see anybody run to abi?



You men ehennen always giving what you can't accept since 1820

Jesus! Since 18 wetin?

SAMBARRY:
what do you then want me to say. Since she has a controlling and domineering husband

Lolz.... How funny it is but all I believe she should do is just honour his request... And I believe there is somethings she is not telling us.

monemsis:
ode go mop ocean jare

Lolz...

Its vitamin in disguise. Lolz

monemsis:
thank God u know ... Illiteracy is eating u deep

Lolz.... Sule like you..

monemsis:
oga judge who tagged u

Chai! Illiteracy is bad..

obejoseph10:
. Packing my bags tomorrow..........heading to my home town KANO

KANO!!!!
Na there you call home town?
I sorry for your Future...

monemsis:
i see u leaving a wasted life SMH

You get trouble for pocket ooo.
What's wrong with what he just wrote?

Una dey #CrimingWhileWhite abi...
Come try am for Nigeria that's when una go understand what they called #Mopo, #Sojoji and best of them all #BokoBoys

If they try it ; that will be the end....

Try it in Nigeria and see how another Militant group will spring up.

SAMBARRY:
Transfer all the numbers in your sim to your phone book behind his back. Maybe in your office and then when you are back and he still insists on you breaking it.happily break it in his presence. Lobatan and yimu






next

You fit scatter person house ooo.

Famouspecky:
Am having problem with my hubby over my sim card. He's insisting I break my sim card after our wedding but he refuses to break his.
Honestly I don't think this is fair.



What do u think I should do?



N; Matured advice pls

You self get ish ooo. Submit to him and break it na.

TCann:
Did you school in France?

Lolz... I believe its in Gabon.

Aspireahead:
lol...abobi, wetin dey funny u?

Sex is overrated abi?
When you were busy kancking kpa kpa kpa.. Were you not enjoying it?
Seriously you guys are just so funny.
Now its overrated..... Lolz

Balyz:
she should be hung by the next until pronounced dead, anyone who takes another person's life willfully deserves the same treatment. the girl has to die

Illiterate of law!
Keep mute.

xavier047:
You sure say the guy no be gay!!!!!!!!!

You really get IQ.

Olypeppy:
Human beings consoling themselves since ages....

Pls tell them ooooo...

Aspireahead:
i dont know what it is, but i regret losing mine. Sex is so so overrated.

Laughing in swahili...

midetinz:
May Allah's wrath be upon you and your household. Amin

You are a fool.
Watch your words.