Obviously,this lady‘s gone.....She‘s even a very nice lady for asking her fiancee to pay you such amount.Please,collect the money and bless their union.If you play your game well,you will still gain alot from this man.I wish my Ex who left me last year to marry another man did this for me!!

boron10: OP, form alliance with the guy in question na, the best way to stop violence is always by calling a truce. You're dating a gal you love, and her colleague is sabotaging your image thereby attempting to ruin your political career ba? Tell your babe about what the colleague is doing to you, plus tell her you'd love to meet him and discuss with him. I think every sane man would desist for the frivolous act after having a word with him. Your babe is not the cause of the wahala, so a break up isn't an option

Noted!!

Fruitless effort!!!

Your girlfriend is very close to someone who can do anything to bring you down socially and politically.They have been colleaques though even before you came into the picture,and you asked her if they were going out,she said “no“....The thing is that you have limited powers over this lady because you don‘t pay her bills,and there are indications that you won‘t marry her.BUT she loves you so much and if you walk away from her life,she will be heart-broken and can even become harmful.
Matured advice please!!

abdulstech: Can the moderator moves this to the front page. Now that the truth was unveil, dont sneak it behind da scene

What‘s the truth??This article has not been able to tell us why those boys “crucified“ the cat!

Early this week,a picture of Adams Oshiomhole,sorrounded with bottles and cans of alcohol was proudly posted on the internet.While some persons tried so hard to praise and justify this posture,many of us see it as immoral,ignoble and uncivilized.
Adams Oshiomhole is not just a Governor,he‘s possibly a role model to hundreds of people.As a public figure that he is,I personally feel so disappointed in that posture.Early this year,a teeneger cried out that she was carrying Oshiomhole‘s baby,and while that allegation was dying down,his naked picture with a woman in a hotel room hit the internet again.I think this‘s unbecoming and unexpected of a Governor.We all have our “bad side“ but there are levels we attain that we just have to ‘hide‘ that bad side because of the people looking up to us....Adams Oshiomhole has failed me again!!

Tundeiknow: I think her husband can't meet her financial needs and she needs someone to sort it out for her who happened to be you. Dowry paid or not, your relationship with her is wrong and unholy Pro 6:20-7:27. If you love your life, break the relationship ASAP and get a better woman to build your life and spend your resources with. Build your next relstionship on God and let him order your steps. Give your life to Christ for only him can bring Peace to your soul and He loves you dearly. Shalom

You are a very nice person,God bless you!I promise NEVER to sleep with her again!Am sorry for whatever mistakes I have made and ask that God forgives me.
Thanks to all of you!

Tstark: This has to be a joke..@ op im sure the woman is fat and ugly, you probably had to try and justify your actions by telling us that she's bautiful, cos its quite apparent that she has low self esteem issues. By the way, since when did "dowry" become the determining factor of marriage? She's giving you what you want and you should give her what she needs too- shikena!

What do you mean by “fat and ugly“ and “low self esteem“?I won‘t describe her again since that‘s not what we are discussing here!

Aza Montana: She is just trying to get rid of you

How,Aza

vislabraye: Just cut the relationship. You must not give her all the time must you?

No,I ignore her most times!

Adeniyi A.:
vanity upon vanity.
can u tell us d gains in all dis u've got ursef into , now u're spending ur hard earned money, kai, wat a wasted world some men av come.
u beta continue payin or else,if she swear 4 u uncladly,bliv me u're in 4 it
mtscheeew

Are you serious??But why will she swear for me

obowunmi: Your rationale for sleeping with another man's wife is that he hasn't paid "dowry" - were you there when he was asked to pay and he didn't?

She's a prost, itute and you are an idi,oit.

Am not trying to justify my action in any way but I asked her all the necessary questions as regard her marital status before ever touching her and she told me plainly that she‘s only co-habiting with the man that he hasn‘t paid her dowry....My conscience has not,for once pricked me and am not having any problem with that atall.I know someone‘s “wife“ when I see one and I don‘t ever sleep with them!
Am not an “idio*t“ please!

@AYOBASE:I didn‘t say she invited me over for sex oo....She has been visiting me in MY house!

Kenistry: Ppl dnt hv shame anymore, anoda man's wife, too bad! u beta stop nw dogg.

You would have just made your comment without insulting me....Please,am not sleeping with anybody‘s wife,I don‘t do that!

See plenty alcohol....For a Governor,openly oo!!The next thing is to go about molesting young girls.SHAME!!

I met this lady some months back and it was love at first sight.She‘s got good body and facially beautiful;an average man would go for her.We got talking that night and she gave me the sexiest look I had ever seen.We exchanged numbers and started talking.I asked her out and she accepted me immediately but told me that she was living with her husband (or boyfriend) for whom she already had two kids even though her dowry hasn‘t been paid.I was a little confused initially but since her dowry hasn‘t been paid,I won‘t be accused of going out with a “married“ woman.So we continued,and a week later,she visited me and we had s*x (safe s*x).To cut a long story short,we have had s*x three times and possibly having another tomorrow.....Now my problem is this;She‘s bothering me too much for money,even though she isn‘t asking for too much.She works and her “husband“ is also there,why the persistent requests??Just last week here,I gave her some money,a day later she called and “begged“ for her cream,and just now she sent in a message begging for some money again that she‘s very broke.....I like giving alot but not to be put under pressure,and above all,she knows I just did some expenses that I shouldn‘t have any money now.Is she greedy,inconsiderate or wants to take advantage of me??I don‘t have that kind of money to waste abeg!
*Do you know this lady was even begging me the other day to buy her cake for her son‘s birthday;can you imagine!Am I the boy‘s father??*

It must have been technical fault because Atiku is too insignificant to be a threat to anybody or the government.

PDP will even rule more than 60 years with these kind of weak and confused opposition parties.Sanusi is too arrogant,proud and religiously intolerant to be Nigerian President!

Please,is there any lady here who lives around Nyanya,Abuja and is free to hook up with me??Am so lonely and bored!Am on 08176317316.
Please don‘t ask me about my girlfriend,its a long story.
Happy weekend!

Hahahahahahahaha.....The white guys are suprised and happy that a “big boy“ and “celebrity“ like JIM IYK was eating their corn..Lolzzz!

So what do you do for her when you have money??

Wizee: Mr Jay, pls don't think of goin to her house. U cant tel,l she might be up to some mischievious act. Why don't you guys meet in a public place. Mr Jay you have to stand your ground as a man. Don't let her pressure u, how can someone who claims to love you give you conditions. She's married with kids. Just be a friend! Use Your Head...

Thank you!

tpia@:
poster,

move your stuff to sexuality section, since you're obviously headed there.

Headed to where??

Ishilove: In as much as I think that this story is as fake as Karen Igho's boobs,I just have to comment; poster why must s.ex be the first thing that comes to your mind? Didn't you say in that your thread about your 3yr old girlfriend that you have a 'woman'? What happened to her?? Must you sleep with Mrs Separated? Must sex define a relationship? You are meeting her for the first time and it is sex you are worried about

What is this world turning into sef?

Poster, you badly need Jesus in your life

My dear,its not about me,its about her....If I want “s*x“ so badly with her,I would have gone to see her since without your knowledge.And let me shock you....The main reason why she‘s insisting that we meet is TO HAVE S*X WITH HER!I just told you a little of what has already transpired between us,you will be more shocked if I tell you everything.Am an adult so when I open threads like this,I might not necessarily be looking for an advice (because I know what‘s good for me as an adult) but to teach the younger ones some things.It will be unheard of that I travel to Lagos from Abuja to visit a “married woman“!What for??I have already told her my mind,and am so sure that the relationship has hit a brick wall!
Thank you.

cog1: You should not break her heart;
Rather what you should do is to
Get yourself ready to exercise
Full restraint and self-control
When you do meet her finally.
Be firm about it and don't
Double-speak! That is,saying
"No" by your words and saying
"Yes" in your actions!!!!!!!
Better still,arrange the meetings
Out of doors,in public places.
Blessed day.

Kind words there!!

IZUKWU: Make she come visit you jor! , abi you no get house. Or do still de live with your parents.

I suggested that to her and her sister but they declined for the obvious reason that they don‘t know me.

THANKS FOR YOUR TIME!!
My second and more important concern now is the impossiblilty of meeting this woman and not making love to her considering all that have already transpired between us....I have always dreaded making love to a married woman even though I have so many of them as friends!I have expressed this worry to her but she blushed it aside.She has given me up to this weekend to come and see her or else she would tag me “Fake“,and would be heart-broken.What do I do?I believe her that she has never loved any man like she loves me,because I can feel it myself too....BUT I am not comfortable visiting her atall!!!What do I do friends?Should I Break her heart or take all the risks and visit her??The dateline is just this weekend....
Thank you!
THE END!

WELCOME BACK!!
This lady made me fall in love with her,I can feel that in my mind.For the past seven months now,we have talked atleast twice everyday,and each call would last atleast 5 minutes.We have exchanged thousands of messages and made atleast 10 midnight calls.Its been great fun,I must confess.
BUT there‘s a problem...My friend is losing all patience that if I don‘t come to visit her soonest,she would go insane and that she won‘t forgive me.Just a forthnight ago,she was rushed to the hospital after a little misunderstanding ochestrated by this her demand for my visit.I tried to explain to her why my coming over to Lagos would not be too safe for us considering the fact that her enstranged husband lives there too.She flared up and the next thing her BP rose so high.I had to call the hospital to plead with her to forgive me before her BP came down.I have spoken to her older sister about my concern,she too asked me not to worry that the husband doesn‘t know where they reside.I am yet to be convinced.
WATCH OUT FOR THE CONCLUSION!

WELCOME BACK!
We continued to exchange inbox messages afterward untill she confessed her love for me...I was speechless but warned her to be real as I would have nothing to do with fake women.She assured me that she was real,which I later found out to be true.We continued talking and exchanging messages untill the day she told me her story;She was a married woman but separating from her husband!She had been away from the man‘s house for six months,and was ready to pick up her life again and move on,hence her joing FB.
For Seven months now,we have been the best of friends;I have adviced her several times to go back to her husband atleast for the sake of her two sons,but the ugly story she tells me about the man weakens me alot.All she wants from me is to be there for her,talk to her,love her and bring out the woman in her.That I have been doing faithfully!
STORY CONTINUES!

Goodmorning Nairalanders...I opened a thread here some weeks back titled “Is This Little Girl Possessed?“ and some over zealous mothers and sisters insulted and called me names.My consolation and strenght lie in the fact that am not and will never be a peodophile.

This‘s another story of a young woman I met on Facebook this January.It all started during the fuel subsidy debate and she had followed my posts and comments deligently.One day she sent me a message that if the removal of the subsidy was okay by me that she would as well accept it.That singular message swept me off my feet;why would a total stranger,someone I had barely known,believe so much in me!I asked her what she wanted,and she said she just liked the way I approached issues.....That was the beginning of our romance!
STORY CONTINUES...

slimdiggi: Na wa o! Poverty ehn...i cant blame them,they breed like pigs around that area

Shut up my friend.....Have you ever been to that part of the country??