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All these things you people are telling this guy is just a story, if he cannot break out from his circle of friends. I remembered a guy affected like this also, he came and said lots of things. Even at the point of remorse, he was still lying, as soon as opportunity presented itself, he went back to his circle of immoral friends, and they inticed him again, and so his last state presently is metamorphosying into a worse state. I will not be surprised to learn that he is no more. My kindid advice is for him to run to God, and ask him to help, if you try to do it your own way, you can't. Many people don't like it when you mention God into their dilema. But at the end they are the ones running to him for help. Look try as much as possible as you can before it's too late. Am not saying Hippocratically, but guinuely and you'll be help. And stay away from the problem that is eating you up. If it's a best friend, don't think you'll offend them your life is more important, in the next four years you'll start compiring yourself with your colleagues that started with you, and you'll be ashamed even the more, so make it right now. Remove the girls, yahoo, etc, na you know. That's all I have to tell you.

Let me analyze this for you
First she dresses seductively or comfortably around him
Then second a broken condom in the toilet.
The dressing doesn't mean anything, it's just a way of saying we are family.
But a broken condom in toilet, they where too smart, they suspected there may be a spy in the room, so they used the toilet and forgot to remove all the condom. So your spy camera should be around this area, or the bathroom. And if you discover a thing and it affects your relationship, don't come here and start crying. Most girls these days are so promiscuous, always wanting sex and sex all the time. Good luck.

The dream is simple, a dog represent a woman, then she is pregnant, and also when she came in light went off. And you can't find the dog. there would be challenges ahead during the times of pregnancy, and the lady may trouble the family. And I hold my peace

Prevention drugs, has side effects. Maybe you are probably expirencing the after effects. But please stay away from premarital sex, the guy that claims he loves you, would abandon you when a baby arrives.

phemmie06:
Can someone tell me in just one word the important of NIN?
Despite linkage of SIM with NIN we failed to track the kidnappers, terrorists and the likes.
We have NIN, BVN etc, yet when your account is hacked it and money is moved out from your account, it can't be traced.
What is one word for NIN?
To me it is a SCAM

Just a regular I.D with expiry date. Faam

Berrityga:
Your a mumuu man. You have the nerves to come and beg on NL after writing a long cut and join story that's a lie. Use the energy to do something better with your life.

thanks for the insult ,

Berrityga:
Your a mumuu man. You have the nerves to come and beg on NL after writing a long cut and join story that's a lie. Use the energy to do something better with your life.

Thanks for your insult, you are not passing through what others are passing through does not give you the right to type whatever u like behind.

While I stayed , my elder brother came and joined in. he too having nothing, depended on me for the time been. as he just came out from the cell. with Sincere heart, I used my small money judiciously with him. when that one finished, I sold my PS4 "a gaming console" to help us feed . after I sold it, I bought two wheelbarrows for hiring. all these I thought I was doing for family. not knowing the end would not be good. In the process of time, we moved into fishing as it was a common thing. I even brought the money that we used to start up the process, when the business began to excel, my elder brother whom I was busy helping , rose up, took everything from me without considering my effort, interest or contribution, he would rather go about playing his MP3 radio. a way of displaying that he won and he's happy about it. he does this to mock me. knowing fully well that I had no means of survival, I was again forced to move out of his house to a place where my legs would carry me. luckily I go a room free of rent for myself.but it seems now am starting life from the scratch. I would appreciate if kind nairalanders would assist in any way. nothing is too small. I choose to use my real account no need to hide myself.

Please am using a phone bear with me.

she made sure he used up his previous months salaries before paying him. thus he was leaving, to do something of worth with his time. after I reported his plight to different matured minds, because I was afraid the same fate will befall me, I was told to continue, as I had no choice, and then mine could be different. I obliged and stayed. first, she began to do the same to me. no salary untill the previous one was used up. I continued. soon, she started giving me what I call one week one trouble. I was not allowed to go out and do something meaningful with my spare time. socialize, learn a vocation or meet new people. she was always afriad. "na only she know the evil wey she do. " the part I hated the most was that her white garment church was always seeing visions about me. it came to a time that I became a a centre of discussion in the full church even though I was not a member or attend the church. when most of the members who had heard about me came visiting, they were totally perplexed. they could not understand why they kept saying evil things about me at their church. when these one failed, she began deviceing means to coherce me out of the house. being somebody "WEY BODI DEY PEPPER AM SOMETIMES" she one day accused me of stealing her item as she usually does. with rage I stood, rebuked her sternly. when the argument excalated, she went and did only God knows what in her room, and I received a text from her husband to leave the house. While leaving, I left with nothing, no compensation for supervising their building from start to finish, infact I left with nothing. out of confusion, I left to the village again , this time, I only had thirty thousand naira with me. I had no house, with my luggage I moved into a delapitated building, belonging to my aged stepmom

I stayed in the village for about three years, eating from friend's house to family members. then a call came in that a family member was looking for a securityman, as Nigerians would call it gateman. I applied and moved in to the city again. I felt a little relieved as I thought; Finally, I was freed from the struggle, not knowing that it was the beginning of another round of affliction. "MRS FLORENCE MAY GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU DID TO ME I WILL NOT FORGET." when I moved in, the building was still under construction. the guy I met there, who I was going to replace, wasn't kind to me. everything he said to me was in anger. he began telling me detailed explanation of what Mrs Florence had done to him.

After my secondary education, I'd to work to keep myself busy.i taught in various primary schools. it was in the process my pastor connected me to a man who deals on importation of christian books and health related items, my duty was to oversee one of his numerous shops. while I was there, he came one-day and said, he was going to close the shop as the sales of that place was not encouraging. upon hearing this, I was worried, because I slept and cooked in the same shop. left without options, I had to leave and return to my village.

I won't say much, even if all these allegations are true, they've just ruined the whole saga when they sent assassins to exterminate him. so thus many people won't believe them. Why send people to kill him when he is under intense fire. Nevertheless, all rumors have some iota of truth in them.

So what should we be expecting? So he should have been dancing around with the microphone, as if he was some kind of a fiery preacher abi? Una don start again. People are so insatiable. That was how they removed Jonathan with the same accusations. People looking forward to condemn and critise others. Meanwhile if given the chance, they won't do better.

Don't kneel down so that you'll not go down.

The worst thing you can do to yourself as a man, is to tell this kind of problem you are facing to a woman, that would likely reciprocate if given the chance, but hiding under the shadow of false pretense. They would give you an advice that would kill you at the latter end. Warning, only relate to well meaning elders

When you have problems, you bring them on to nairaland how do you think folks would suspect

It's just everywhere some guys would just take advantage of her. They just keep coming around me as well, but I always make them know that it's not possible. Guy nothing dey inside sex, it's just overrated

CaveAdullam:
If you don't have enough peace, still running, young, bright prospect and brilliant, don't piggyback a woman. Save yourself that you may not die untimely with little or no achievement.

A man is defined by his achievements and not women. Women are defined by their ability to hook a man who has achievements.

Learn, create and keep going; one at a time, and you will get there.

Authority: No woman, No cry.

True Brother.
*quotes* Be A Man *source God* The Woman Was Made An Help Meet. Like The Duty Of An Househelp, She Has No Say In The Already Taken Decisions. But Rather To Follow, That's The Function Of An Help. Watch The Movie 'Troy' And See How A Woman Caused Agony. She Has No Place In The Life Of A Man To Accompany Him To Succeed. A Friend Of Mine Who Has Big Aspirations, And Was Already In Law Sch. Left All To Go Get Married To A Girl He Met On A Bus On His Way To Sch. One Monday, When I Asked His Reasons For This Foolish Action, He Said " I Saw Her Steering At Me Then I Exclaimed, This Is The Perfect Time To Act" Now She' S The One Paying House Rent. But Don't Be Suprised That Oneday She'll Throw Him Out. Even To Feed Is A Problem. The Only Money He Could Provide As A Man Is 10k. What Would 10k Do For Two. I Mean His Salary.

This Kidwaya Sef, I Never Read Better News About Am. Na Only Evil E Go There Go Do.

I Know Of A Lady That Buys Data Like 30gig For Her Son, And He Uses It Mostly At Mid-night When His Parents Are All Asleep. And The Boy Is About 14yrs Old. Infact He Even Watches The Show With The Mum.

One Thing Abt A Woman Is Once She Starts Disturbing A Man For Sex, And The Said Man Is Not Reciprocating, Then Be Fully Assured That The Next Approch Would Be Violence. Its So For Every Woman. But If You Had Had Sex With Her, Be Sure To Get It On A Plater Of Gold Everyday. The Reason Why She Keeps Reporting U To Your Brother, Is Because You Won't Do It. So She's Affraid You Will Tell Your Brother Before She Does, Even Though You Have Pleaded That The Matter Should Die. Hence She Does Not Trust You. Now To My Advice, Tell Them To Move Out, Because If You Try It, Be Sure To Be Doing It Every. Thus It Will Make You Have Hatred For Your Brother, Once You See Him Close To Her. Let Your Story Not End Like That Of Cain And Abel, Where Cain Killed His Brother To Get The Honour.

Joeeasy:
I've only seen this in the movies, are you for real bro!

I Was There Live. The Last Time I Saw The Girl, She Was Not Looking Presentable. I Forgot To Mention That The Spirit Threatend To Take Her, As Soon As She Goes Close To River. The Spirit Said, It Would Make Her Varnish Forever. Thats Why Guys Have To Be Careful Of The Type Of Girls They Have Sex With. Some Of Them Have Big Waist, B**bs, Pink Lips, And Sexy Eyes. But They Are A Tool Through Which Men Come To Nothing.

Remembered In Sec Sch. A Classmate Began Singing Worship Songs While We Were All Seating In Class. Then Suddently She Began To Screen; Am Catching Cold Repeatedly.We Never Understood What The Cold Was All About. We'd All Thought May Be The Holy Was On Her. Then Our Mistress Came Around, Because She Hearing The Voice From Her Office. And Deliverance Started. The Evil Spirit Claimed Tht The Parents Of D Girl Owe Him. That They Were Looking For A Child, And They Came To Him To Help And Promised To Renew Their Covenant With Him From Time To Time. As The Spirit Continued Talking, Her mum Who Was Living Very Far, Came Around, With One Subtance In A Foodflask. I Don't Know How She Managed To Know. The Mistress Warned Her That If She Applys That Subtance We Were Going To Stop Praying. But No The Mum Would Not Listen. That Was How She Used It. Whn We Gotho We All Had Strange Experiences After That Encounter Of Strange Beings Moving About Our Hom. After A While The Spirit Came Again, But This Time We All Avoided Her.

That Was How I Served As A Gate Man To A Lady, She Was Too Nice At First, Hardly Would She Go Into The Kitchen Without Calling Me To Come Keep Her Company. Most Times She Would Tell Me To Go Clean Her Room, Not Knowing That She Had Evil Plots For Me. Finally When She Sent Me Away, On The Accusations That I Stole Her Mouthwash. She Still Went About Telling Everyone Cooked Stories To Tarnish My Image. Meanwhile She Has Been The Real Thief Here, She Did Not Tell Them Of How She Extort Money From Her Husband. And How She Locks The Innocent Man Out If He Refuses To Give Her Money. I Just No Wan Write Too Much.