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neyyoh:
Trust me Oprah Winfrey ain't coming to Nigeria to marry a bus conductor no matter how redpilled he is.

You will never be able to date someone like Rihanna or the daughter of the queen of England.

Get it?

Oprah Winfrey sef too far. DJ cuppi here that her father is wealthy won't pick any guy on the street and clean him up no matter the kind of game he got on his sleeve. She'll rather keep chasing the likes of already made men like Anthony Joshua. Nigerian women are hypergamous and I don't see any game stopping that. Games can best work when a man is grinding hard and making good money, you don't even have to spend the money to get them, they only need to know you're well to do. Both broke and rich hot ladies won't follow any broke guy in Nigeria.

neyyoh:
Nothing new here, if you grew up in a Nigerian environment , you'll see these things but it has limits.


In my case just being one of the ajebos in my area was enough to clean out most girls in my vicinity but i couldn't try that in other areas which had better exposure.

Funny thing is those i banged didn't give the fulfillment i craved, it was those i couldn't bang that I wanted more . I wanted to conquer girl's from rich homes not because I was a jigilo but to show off to my friends.

In these instance , I'll call myself an opportunist, had a slight hedge and capitalized on it. Same thing with what you wrote.

Limits! Key take away here.


Listen to your women they keep telling you how much they love gold digging

Apt

If you're a broke guy in Nigeria with games, good look(or bad boy look) and probably 6 packs(or not) and you're getting laid by different hot young girls in their primes(not ugly, not girls that aren't that fine or old girls pls), please feel free to share.

Stillwater10:
Yes most girls prefer the rich guys but then this rich guys are not readily available for all the hot young girls in Nigeria. Who do you think these girls hang out with before they meet their main target?
My experience has shown that a girl can be having sex with you and still refuse commitment with you while that same girl will be selling commitment to another guy without giving sex

Yes I agree that these rich guys may not readily be available for all the hot young girls especially for commitment, but you have to understand that most girls will rather be with a rich guy cheating on them than being with a broke guy. When a girl is hot, it's mostly certain that she'll be approached by rich guys. No one said the rich guys are faithful too, infact some rich guys are just fvcking them. Rich guys enjoy Nigeria when it comes to pussy, rich guys change them like clothes and these girls won't still leave them alone. It is what it is.

neyyoh:
Let them keep deceiving themselves as if we're all mostly here not Nigerian's.

Imaging Nigerian guy's taking advice from a foreigner whose country is full of cheap beautiful whores with a better standard of living, they can afford the luxury of settling with loser's! , a jobless guy who prioritises vagina over their future.

They're using semantics to drive their illogical arguments through.

Where's the statistics that corroborates joblessness with game or sex appeal?

Are bus drivers, builders , security guards getting the best and most pussy in Nigeria? I doubt it.

Women are not that complicated, give a woman two men with similar game , sex appeal , one broke and the other rich, she'll most likely go with the rich fella..

Another person says choose who chooses you, there's wisdom in this, but evidence shows women usually pick men who don't want them, so if you've been picked better be certain you're not getting a bad deal.

It's simple and can be complex.


Bottom line, get your game right, focus on your personal goals , have standards , understand the redpill so you don't get played and the right women will come..

Well said my brother. I don't know the Nigeria some of them are living in, and they should try to read my comments, I never discredit or condemn 'game' in any of it. As we learn game, we should focus on our grind to achieve the best results. We can't compare Nigerian girls with SA or Western countries girls. Saying the realities of things going on around us don't make us bluepilled. You laid out very good points bro, cheers.

Azammmi:
Don’t try to explain you understand him but he won’t understand you . So just leave it . Soon it will be like two girls arguing about which candy is sweeter white or pink

You're right.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] This ish is his reality is founded on a blue pillled state of mind..As far as am concerned he ain't even Redpilled even though he recognized the message and it is guys like these that prevent other minds with their own set of realities to attain the position they're supposed to attain in the redpill because someone still stuck in a bubble wants everyone to be stuck in that same bubble...Bros forget even if you remove that guy from the Nigerian Bubble and place him somewhere in New Zealand...Nigger will find himself another bubble and ensconced himself inside, he won't run out of excuses and term them reality...My own is if you are a Chicken then stay being a Chicken but don't prevent others from spreading their wings and fly..[/color]

OK. I won't argue with you anymore. Enjoy your Nairaland fantasies. The problem about some of you is that you don't like it when we bring the realities of things in the outside world to the discussions here. Thanks.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] All Eagles are Birds but not all Birds CAN FLY Hell Tis even doubly hard or nigh on impossible for an Eagle to teach a Chicken how to fly. We can juxtapose that and say ALL GAMERS are Hard core Redpilled but not all Redpilled are Gamers, you fall into the latter category thus you wouldn't even see a Gaming opportunity even if it smacks you in the face because you're already stuck in your bubble of "Girls, Nigeria and reality".... To folks out there, if you watch the matrix, the latter category are those that live in the real world of Zion, going about their lives simply. They know how sh**t went down but they CAN'T do sh**t to help themselves...GAMERS are those like Neo, Morpheus and co who, after extensive training, are ready to go into the Matrix and battle..[/color]

Is all this necessary? Where did you see me condemning 'games'. All I'm saying is that guys should try to hustle equally as they learn game. Games can only work better in a country like this with money attached to it. I support the idea of game 100 but we should keep grinding hard while we learn it to achieve the best results.
And yes a lot of hot Nigerian girls are money conscious, girls from other climes might be different . I'm still insisting on that.

Sapy442:
You are one of the guys in here who have an open mind to game and life like Ubunja and a very few others

Alot of guys here have a very closed mind about this Red Pill and will argue with anything that contradicts their already made up opinion of things.
Like Rollo Tomassi will always say about INTERNALIZING the red pill, it's like changing a religion. I think if you want to see the closest practice of what Ubunja preaches you'll have to move away a bit from major Nigeria cities. Go to the middle belt and a host of villages. While serving in benue I saw broke dudes with the finest gals. I saw thugs get laid line no tomorrow. It's not all like that here in the South East, where money comes first it exist though but in a different and more polite form.

Thank you. Not that anyone is bluepilled for saying their realities about what they see around them. We can blame the society we find ourselves. Some of us are only talking about the realities of things we see around us. How that has made me bluepilled or being called names is what I'm yet to understand. Ppl need to have an open mind and respect others opinions and realities and not just throw tantrums here and there. Around me, a lot of hot Nigerian girls in their primes don't date or sleep with broke guys, they all run after well to do guys. Ppl should share their own realities like you have shared yours. Thanks.

Azammmi:
I’ve experienced and believe this your reality tho but u have if you’re broke don’t appear broke they will follow you still but d will run after d well to do guy

Thank you

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] ....Again with the GIRLS, GAME 101: All pussy are the same. You must be redpilled but methinks you're one shtick away from relapse with this your woebegone defeatist, low self esteem train of thought...To you, the match is over even before you've played the Game. Have you wondered how 'broke' pastors get followership? You talk as if Nigeria is the worse place on earth....Even in the worse places on earth MAGICAL THINGS do happen..But I must reiterate that your mindset is aligned all wrong, you must work on yourself and your self esteem else you will be like that eagle that doesn't fly but walk.....Which is a blue pillled trait.[/color]

Don't try to shade me or insult me because of my opinion. You're putting it all on me, whereas I don't make this rules, I'm not the one that made all these girls like this. I'm just saying the reality on ground but here you are calling me all sort of names.
I repeat, a lot of hot and young Nigerian girls have nothing to do with broke guys. They rather prefer to sleep with rich guys and get married to rich guys(guys faring well financially). We should get both money and game for the best results. You don't have to talk down on me. I'm saying my own reality, maybe you're from a different Nigeria. Cheers.

Skepticus:
We are saying the same thing.

At the bolded last paragraph, it is not entirely true from my experience (not my reality) with women in my dusty days but I would not argue against yours because it is useless trying to project individual experiences on others because there are tons of nuances/factors that affect how we view and understand things.

So far, the experiences of those who have contributed to the arguments is "educative". In the end, you pick what works for you.

Thank you, I respect your opinion either. You mentioned your dusty days, I had such experiences like a decade ago too. I just want you to know that things have drastically changed over the years and I have accepted the harsh reality.

Skepticus:
Get the money for yourself and use the game for women.

However, broke guys who have game and her street smart (they are not much though) are equally getting their share of pussay (ladies in their youthful prime). If you have lived in the North Central part of Nigeria down to all the regions of the south (South East, South West and the South South), you'll see "average" guys between 15 and 28 (some still leaving with their parents) have baby mamas of girls between ages 16 and 25.

Do these girls like money or are attracted to "signs" of money like all Nigerian women do? - The answer is yes

Your reality about Nigerian women is right and if you throw out the money, they will go for it and see you just for that - An ATM. Always try to look deeper than what you are shown. Only a woman will tell you openly how broke and disgusting a guy is but go and Bleep him right behind you. The same chick is billing you and won't let you get down with her without billing.

Know your "value" to women.

I never said anyone should loose guard when it comes to dealing with women when you're rich. It's why I said this;

Your own duty as a redpiller/gamer is to level up financially and get these chics for free and not spend a dime on them, but let them see signs of wealth in you.(that's only if you want to be having sex with different girls).

Broke guys living with their parents and getting girls could come from well to do homes, this is enough reason for most girls to offer them sex, since they know their parents are well to do and they're visibly seeing that.

Most hot Nigerian girls will not date or have anything to do with broke guys in Nigeria, it's the sad reality.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]The problem with this your train of thought is how you're FOCUSED on GIRLS...With this thinking, you've already shot yourself in the foot? Must I make money to impress girls especially Nigerian Girls? I rather make money to afford my favorite video game console or jam my most favorite tunes or read the most intriguing books hell I rather try to make money to become philanthropic...When Gaming you've got to be rights with yourself and the world...f**k money...f**k impressions...The peace of mind , you exude alone (we haven't talked about the confidence) will churn out a natural human charisma or magnetism that in the right minds amongst some female folk will be like water to a parched throat...they wouldn't have enough of you...But we are all stuck in the blue pill world when focus on MONEY MONEY MONEY[/color]

You're still getting it all wrong again. I'm as redpilled as any of you here, infact I could be more redpilled than most of you here because I practice my own redpill both online and offline yet I can't see the reality of things and not say.
Read what I wrote again and this time very slowly, l said it's advisable you got game and still keep your hustle in check to get the best result in a country like Nigeria.

It's the reality that most young and hot Nigerian girls(both from wealthy homes and poor homes) in their primes won't follow broke guys, I'm not the one that told them to have this mentality. it's just the harsh reality, deal with it bro.

GrammarNazi1:
Thank you.

Was this whole thing all about love in the first place?

I thought it was just about getting the girls, commanding these girls, doing whatever one wanted with them.

Exactly. What's love got to do with it.. Lol

GrammarNazi1:
I never knew this was all about love or enough love.

I thought this was all about just getting the girls.

Lol.

I wonder

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] I have owned cars before and I can you tell the kind pussy or experience I got with women then was sh**t we called FAKE Love...Sex then compared with what I had when Gaming was crap...these days I hide my identity when Gaming so nobody knows what I'm worth to make it all the worthwhile...Gaming is like hunting, you've got to find the right prey,Most Guys aren't only lacking self confidence but are inherently lazy to be bothered so they resort to the make money redpill narrative ..With Bathroom slippers I have cold approached a woman in a Benz Formatic and got away with her number..it is needless to say she's now part of plates I spin though she's married but who gives a f**k..In Nigeria, we worship money too much...But there are folks out there with too much money but not enough love,most of these folks just like true Nigerians will hide there vulnerability or soft spots with extreme prejudice and hostility.You just gotta know what to look for when scouting these folks[/color]

Let's not forget that there nothing like 'love'. No girl can truly love you. You can only get high interest and low interest. We are not saying game is bad or money is everything, we are just saying the reality of things with most Nigerian girls, they're very money conscious and they always put money first. They'll rather fvck the hot rich guy than fvck the hot broke guy. Most times, the hot Nigerian girls don't even let broke guys get close at all. So it's better to get both money and game.

Stillwater10:
A broke guy will get lots of pussy depending on how you play your game with women but don't expect any loyalty or commitment from girls without money.

That thing called " friends with benefits" will teach you a lot about women nature and how they operate differently with different guys.

Really bro? A broke guy will get lots of pussy in which country bro? With which kind of girls?. This is not the reality. Broke guys only get ignored in this part of the world no matter how he plays his game. He may stand a chance with ugly and old women tho, not cute girls in their primes. Let's be real.

GrammarNazi1:
My point exactly.

When I was studying for my Master's degree, I had two girls who were interested in me just because I was a brilliant student; I was broke but brilliant then.

One of them was a classmate who became my best friend while the other wanted us to sleep together just because I helped her solve an academic problem. In fact, there was a day this second one insisted she must go home with me, but I refused because of certain things.

If you check these two cases, you will realize that this academic brilliance of mine then was not loud; it attracted only close girls who knew my academic brilliance.

Since I started working, I have had girls who got close to me and we slept together because they saw the signs of money, I'm not a Dangote though, in me. Yet I did not have to waste my money.

Money is loud and its effects on women outclass the effects of some other stuff.

Nice one, I can relate. Thanks for the input bro.

ubunja:
as many guys have highlighted it just now, No one man can satisfy all of a woman's needs. So don't presume those Kim K girls are getting all their needs met by these men they go to for money. Because, don't forget, money is but ONE need of women. The other is sex. The other friendship etc. Women go to different men for different reasons. CaveAdullam has already explained that to you all.

I'll have you know these girls live double lives man. I promise you. There's stuff and people these girls are doing and getting with that they'll never let it be known or else they kill themselves.

Alright bro. I'll still keep observing to be sure about your assertions. I just hope many broke guys are confident enough to discuss about the girls they've had their ways with, and I'm not referring to ugly or old girls that have limited options. If you're a broke guy in Nigeria and you've had your way with many hot girls in their primes, pls feel free to share. We are all open to learning.

A lot of girls around here are already spoiled, we have a lot of rich simps validating them, it seems unreal for many of them to have anything to do with broke guys anymore. Her friends boyfriends are doing well financially, her exes are all rich and some even lavish money on them, they're used to these lifestyles. Some just prefer to even be seen sitting by your side when you drive your nice car, that's naija girls for you. There are hot guys doing well financially in Nigeria irrespective of how the money is made, girls don't care. They prefer to pick from these kind of guys, it's why guys like this have harem of chics flocking around them. A car with factory fitted AC can easily get you a good head from most Nigerian girls even if you met her the previous day, it doesn't matter if she's a good girl or not, gold digger or not. It only gets hard when you're broke or your money is not long enough. I live by redpill terms but that doesn't stop me from saying the reality. Reality must be said.
Your own duty as a redpiller/gamer is to level up financially and get these chics for free and not spend a dime on them, but let them see signs of wealth in you.(that's only if you want to be having sex with different girls). Cheers.

Jessepaid:
hehehe...


If you no hold the least iphone x...


Some girls no go look your way....


It's truly that bad...

Yes it's that bad. Especially those ones that feel they're hot. They look themselves like mini Kim Kardashians . Will a Kim K have anything to do with a broke guy? Hell no.
That's how mentally warped many naija girls are, even those from well to do homes among them aren't exempted.

MJBOLT:

nobody here is saying use money to get women,the point those guys are trying to pass is that here in Nigeria the rich guys have it easier than the broke guys,Nigerian girls will make it fvcking easy.
Owning a car in Nigeria can get you dozens of pus5y without you trying,even holding the latest iPhone can get you all the sex you want, that's how bad it is.

Thank you bro. Loud it.

aomine:
AOMINE IN DAA HOUSE , DONT TRY TO LOGICALIZE OR BOX IN WOMEN LAS LAS THEY WILL Bleep WHO THEY WANT TO Bleep BE IT BROKE OR RICH THEY HAVE DIFFERENT GUYS FOR DIFFERENT PURPOSES NO MATTER HOW RICH OR GOOD LOOKING YOU THINK YOU ARE THAT BITCH IZZ STILL CHOKING ON SOMEONE ELSES DICK

I agree but I'm speaking about what i see around in the society, I like to infuse realities with whatever we have going on here. Just know that Nigerian girls are money conscious before anything else, I can only say about Naija girls, girls from other climes might be different.

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, I have not come here to glorify money over game. NO!. back then when I was way broker and all I had was game and good looks, I got laid well. I never had a gf of my own or took girls out on dates/spend money on them.
Now I'm not as broke as before and my lay rate has doubled and the highest I spend is just transportation fare back to my not so fancy crib and it's game on!
I shit you not brothers, when you throw a little money into your game, you'll be unstoppable I swear.!

Exactly

ubunja:
dude money doesn't make any pussy wet. You guys are so fixated on money making that you forget the basics of female sexuality.

And it's because of all your unrelenting pursuit of cash while ignoring the mechanics of female sexuality that you ended up winning the award for the Country With The Highest Paternal Fraud In Africa. You're literally seeing all the facts but choosing to cling to your own opinions or what you see with your eyes. But thing is, women are living secret lives right underneath your noses. Lol.

Money is what attracts them in the first place bro. There are rich guys that have 6 packs too, they prefer to pick among guys like this. Without money, they won't even pick your call or respond to your text even if they give you their number. It's gotten that worse around here bruv but I still believe in power of game but it best works when they see you doing well financially, that's why I also support the idea of game.. Peace.

GrammarNazi1:
My own belief is that money attracts these girls but if you've got game you ain't wasting/spending that money!

Thank you. Good point.

MJBOLT:

This is the harsh truth, let's not forget that Nigeria is money conscious society coupled with massive unemployment and poverty rate even your fellow men will treat like a loser if don't have that cash.

Thank you for saying it as it is my brother. I like to infuse realities into whatever I'm learning. Cheers.

Kenogidi:
Don't mind these bloody theorists doing their best to make the redpill sound like a fairytale and out of touch with reality and passively encourage laziness! Mtchewwww!

It's very annoying bro. Like some of them live in a different Nigeria. Like they don't know most girls around here have the gold digging mentality, a country where a lot of girls are into prostitution one way or the other. I deal with realities and I know what my eyes see everyday. Even redpill claim it's in women nature to be hypergamous. Like they don't know a lot of Nigerian girls both from poor homes and rich homes don't do broke guys, they don't care about how hot any broke guy is, most are after well to do guys and it's why many of them get cheated on and claim all men are scums. There are handsome and well built rich guys too, this is where they rather pick from, not struggling guys.

NYCnextStop:
Not true. Stop misleading. There's no reason not to improve your looks.

You mentioned yahoo boys but I can tell you most times it's the prostitutes aka runs girls that run after them. Again the problem with most of you is that you twist the rules to your favour either coz you are too lazy or dumb to put in the work

Similarly, I know many guys that their good looks opened doors for them. Don't go running after these girls and come here to spit trash. Guys who truly understand game, rich and good looking still wait to be chosen but then y'all run after all these ladies like a he-goat on heat. Hit the gym, rich or not too rich, look good and chill to be chosen, and I can tell you the benefits are enormous

Choose a woman who chooses you!

Your money can only attract but won't keep and turn on the deepest desires in these bitches. Hypergamy no send you.. wise up.

Ubunja, my deepest respect for you sir. Keep spitting regardless of what few folks who don't understand game here feel. They are free to believe what they want but las las will face reality. I sha trust our girls

Authority(in cave adullam's voice) : Improve your looks(have game) and hustle o(make money)

I don't understand why you have to sound so pained about my post, don't be silly. Who tell you I'm not working to improve on myself? Y'all are quick to throw tantrums here on nairaland and that's why some ppl don't like to comment about their realities because of online bullies like you.
I don't know if you're living in a different Nigeria but you need to be real with yourself about what is going on right now.
I've seen church girls run after yahoo boys, yahoo boys mostly get the hottest girls and they even get married to this girls weekly. Don't be delusional my friend, wake up! I can say it with my full chest that most Nigerian girls behavioural pattern is like a runs girl's. Not all yahoo boys appear to be one, they have businesses and those will fvck and even marry your gf in a heartbeat, thank God you made mention of rich guys and 'not too rich guys'. You should have said broke guys with 6 packs get all the girls now. Sure, a lot of women will choose you if you're rich, a lot of struggling guys aren't having it easy out there, Nigerian girls of their spec will not choose them if they don't see them winning, sorry. Most of them just want already made guys!!

See, yahoo guys or any form of rich guys(legit or not) get most girls(runs girls or not) in Nigeria. I deal with realities and it's so stupid of you to counter my opinion with insults. I hate deceiving myself. And you failed to read my last sentence where I said that I don't discredit the power of game, but it best work when you have money with it. I'm redpilled and I put in work on myself everyday but I can't see the reality of things around me and not say it. Runs girl or not, gold diggers or not, most Nigerian girls want to see money ooze around you before they can follow you irrespective of how you get it, deal with it. Stop spewing trash. Don't be broke and be claiming you got game, as you learn your game, don't forget to be hustlng for money with it, coz that's how it can work here. A lot of our girls get gold digging mentality and a lot of guys know that here.
Even working class girls(independent) ladies are not exempted here, they'll not just date or roll with any guy, they're all looking for well to do guys doing better than them, hypergamy much.. and that's who most of them sleep with and even sometimes get played. Nigerian girls and broke guys with 6 packs don't flow, sorry. And I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT UGLY GIRLS!!. Don't let us deceive ourselves here biko, let's discuss about realities and not what we just wished in our minds.

@ Ubunja. Do you even know that there are a lot of girls here that don't even roll with guys that don't drive cars at all eventho they themselves don't have a car. No matter how good looking or well built the guy is, they don't see him because he doesn't have a car. All their exes are rich, this is the caliber they roll with, there are handsome and well built rich guys too, remember, this is where they rather pick from.

Some even have the grade of car they follow, they'll not give you attention if they perceive your grade of car isn't up to their expectations no matter how good looking, charming or well built you are, they'll just stop picking your call and that's all. Yes they're so shallow like that honestly, why do you think a lot of guys complain about them a lot?. These are the things I see with my eyes everyday. Nigerian girls got no joy bro. Gold digging and hypergamy is rampant here man, it's their major focus.

ubunja:
all I'm hearing is excuses.

I have always known you gents like to hide behind that "Nigerian girls are different" statement, so as to excuse your own failures with Nigerian women. Hence, if you look closely, I've been posting snapshots MAINLY FROM NIGERIAN GIRLS. To show you that even in Nigeria what I'm talking about applies.

Now,, the reason you're not winning in this game is because you don't want to play the game by the prescribed rules. You want to do things your way. And you'll keep hitting brick walls as long as you don't listen.

It's not even about excuse.
Get all the games, good look and six packs in the world without money and engage with most Nigerian girls(especially the hot and good looking ones), all you'll get is a friendzone or hardcore rejection. I personally know some good looking club bouncers and some other guys, with all their 6 packs, none is really getting girls coz they broke, the likes of the yahoo guys and other rich guys are those fvcking the girls mercilessly. You broke and forming fine boy and six packs with Nigerian girls, lol . They never reject your call or chat before? Lol, most won't even be your friend coz they only prefer to be friends with well to do ppl. Shit is real here brotherman, only money move these girls, u gotta live here to know mehn. Simps have really spoiled things around here. No money, no honey here in most cases, including the religious types. Even if you're not going to spend the money on them as a redpiller, they need to see money oozing around you before you can get them. That's how it goes here. And I'm not talking about ugly girls!

However I'm not discrediting the power of 'game'. I feel every guy should learn it but know it can best work in this society(Nigeria) when you have money with it. Being rich without been redpill/game aware is disastrous.