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emmaodet:
And also if she marry a poor Alpha, she will cheat on him with a rich Simp

Exactly. No doubt .

[quote author=Amarachibaby post=97827916][/quote]Lol. OK o

Amarachibaby:
Nice. as for me i prefer he shows me the way

Which way? U won wrestle? Or you won act without the talent?

waywardpikin:
I dunno why you bother. Sèx and food from an ex? I am disgusted.

Even if it's for worthy connections, who she epp?

You don't go about accepting help from anyone and even if you do you have to gauge and measure if it's worth accepting, it is usually not worth the hassle in the end.

How have you been living your life that it is only your ex that has the key to your destiny in your hands? This level of thinking is absurd.

Sometimes even, it may come to a choice between choosing your ego or accepting her useless help, bearing in mind that any so-called help from a female species come with strings attached. Deny it if you will. For someone like me, I'll choose my ego if necessary. I don't live my life hoping to be at the mercy of anyone for anything.

I had a married ex who came out of the blues trying to rekindle past memories and whatnot. She has always been a boss lady doing well for herself. Back in school, I nearly got married to her due to pressure from her and her family to settle down. Bear in mind that I was a broke aśs final year student. Nevertheless, they assured me that they would sponsor the wedding and set me up for life. However, they refused to get me anything to do while mounting pressure on me to get married to their daughter. Who does that?

I analysed the situation and saw it wasn't good for me and so I jakpaed for my life. This is despite the fact that they rented a two bedroom apartment for I and their daughter, and were even offering me a job in her (single) mother's company. It struck me as a tale similar to the story of Esau who sold his birthright for a pot of porridge.

I broke up, collected all the curses and swears they had to throw at me and kept it moving. Babe resurfaced in 2019 with tales of love and repentance. She's even bigger than she was before financially, running a branch of her mother's outfit in Lagos with two personal cars for her to do as she pleased. At that time I'd bought and sold my first car. Bought from the proceeds of pure hustle and sold in order to meet up with demands from family. If u be first son u go know say e no easy.

I asked about her husband, she told me they were divorced. My birthday came around and I threw a small party at the beach, she saw proceedings on WhatsApp, complained she was bored and I didn't invite her. I told her to come if she wanted to. She came around in record time... from Ikorodu o!

We got wasted, ended up having sèx in the back of her car, she took me home, we had sex the morning after, a leg of my sneakers got missing and I had to go back home with a pair of bathroom slippers. My missing sneaker turned up "miraculously" weeks later which she offered to bring back to my place. She brought it along with my birthday gift. All the while, she was down for whatever, friends with benefits, relationship, friendship. All she wanted was to have me in her life. But ultimately it must have been for a purpose, one which I may not be favorable towards.

We had sèx that final time, and afterwards I ghosted her. She's richer than me and better off. I don't feel like I missed anything ghosting her, because eventually when it becomes clear that I'm not able to give her what she desperately wants, I might not be able to predict what she would do in retaliation. The easiest way to harm a man is either through food and sex. If you go about accepting favours, that would be the quickest way to receiving some disrespect.

I guess I'm in the minority on this, but I don't live my life believing that any one person holds the key to my ultimate breakthrough. Not family, not friends, talk less of an ex. And statistically speaking, the people in the first two categories are more likely to offer life-changing help to you before a useless ex. Let's just be real for a second. Unless your family and friends are nothing to write home about.


Food and sex from an ex? I laugh!


That's how I 'rented' a relationship for a little over a month. It featured intense penising and all the works. When she started showing red and indigo lights, I cut my losses and ran. No stress, no quarrel, nothing. I no get time.

That's how she messaged me out of nowhere that she was around my area and she wanted to see me. See me? Me wey chop you run? What if she wanted to come and pour me battery acid? What if she was on a revenge mission?

You see, where most men would think about sex and food and other fringe benefits, I think about SAFETY FIRST! Women are not so nice and if you give them the chance they will fùck you up totally.

In fact, sometimes it is better to toast a new girl afresh and turn her into what you want her to be (even if it's for a short time), than going back to an EX. An ex ain't no fuçking unicorn. You fùcking left her for a reason!

Most times, you will find that the juice is not worth the squeeze. No one man/woman has the key to your destiny. Copy that!


XOXO.

Well said. You stated how things actually look like in REALITY most times, not what some guys feel it should be. No one is being emotional here but if anyone truly understands the redpill, they'll know how cunning 'the female nature' is and they'll learn how to manage and deal with them at all time. Women(exes) aren't dolls they think they can always play or game like that, they have senses too, in fact they are deeper than many guys.. it is "something for something" in a woman's world except she's the one benefiting. This is related to some of the points I passed across. They keep emphasizing on the 'favors' but not the 'outcome'. That food and sex is even totally out of it.

Everyone should do what suits them.

Ghallant01:
I got you bro

48 law of power : Disdain things you can't have ignoring them is the best revenge

Absolutely.

Ghallant01:
Gone girls that movie taught me never go back to your EX
She's is more brutal than what you think. Move on to the next

Thank you my brother. That's so true, that movie also pointed that out clearly. That's another good example.

LIVINGICON:
All these "X" and "Y" back and forth arguments are taking up unnecessary space in this thread.

Somebody give some RED PILLS.

Redpills on its way . @heartofcity12. Drop some.

When a lady(an ex) exploit us and still use Hypergamy against us by leaving us for men of the upper echelon, we men tend to shrug it off and move on, even the Redpill teaches that you work on being a better man by chasing success and letting them go. Success is the best revenge.

When you game an ex and exploit her of her resources or connects without giving her back what she expects... expect anything my friends. U just created a psychopath and be ready to face her wrath. I think y'all can still remember the movie 'Acrimony', somewhat related to this topic. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Be wise and don't go and play yourself.

ObinnaValentine:
Noticed most of y'all be afraid of about this ex thing. It receiving shii from them is jazz..won't blame y'all the Nigerian system has bleeped our mentality so hard..

It's not about jazz. It's more about 'self respect'. That doesn't mean one is hating an ex. In fact I'd rather prefer to be the one to help an ex if she calls my attention to it with no strings attached, not otherwise. Even most of these foreign actors rarely have anything to do with their exes if we're to go by your ideology. They rarely do any projects together anymore, since that is what will give both parties peace. Everyone just go their own ways and it doesn't affect their productivity. One party can not be getting emotional when we are both supposed to work together. If you ain't getting emotional, she may be getting emotional, no one needs that energy when you've actually moved on and trying to be productive.

mattfeuter:
Are we doing hypotheticals now?

The central bank and 12m analogy isn’t the standard.

How many guys have their exes offered them such ? Lol

Don't mind them. Lame talks. Like she won't expect something in return. Have they thought about what will happen if they don't return what she expects? That's when a woman will show them how far she can go to destroy a man. Let them keep being unrealistic.

softguy1:
Many of you are getting this EX of a thing very wrong. Nobody said u should be friends or bestie with your ex (including me I can't do that shit).

But in a situation where by your EX offers you a Gift or pussi, why won't you take it from her? Try and get this right.

I know that in many situation where by your EX offers you a free gift or pussi, it either she wants to get something in return from you or she wants you both to come back together as before.

As an Alpha or redpiller you don't have to give her that ATTENTION, TIME, MONEY OR EVEN THE NEW RELATIONSHIP SHE IS CRAVING FOR.. if you do give her those things that makes you a beta simp.


ILLUSTRATION: maybe let's take in a situation where by your EX is in a position to give you a job to work in Central Bank of Nigeria, or she wants to offer you 12million naira Gift, then you will simply reject the offers because she is your EX....
Any person that does that is simply a Stupid Beta Simp that wants to remain in abject poverty.

The above is also applicable to her offering you a small gift or pussi, but you falling for her manipulation and giving her that attention, money, or new relationship she is craving for is what makes you a simp.


Get the above right, I am not debating about this again..




Ubunja is very right when he says he will not reject any offer from her ex.

Hear yourself, how will you sleep with someone and not give them some attention or time first? Even if you're redpilled, you still give some attention to a girl that choose you, you just don't give too much of it. You're not being realistic. Moreover redpill made us understand pussy is nothing, it's not a price to be won, you can get sex from different other girls if you truly have an abundance mindset.

When did women start giving such amount of money or connect without an uterior motive?.. failure to comply with what she expects or wants in return can still make you lose the job, she may even set you up on the long run. She gives you money or job in exchange of commitment, you took them and you think you can just run away like that, that's some dirty moves man that can only bring shame upon a man. Leave exes alone, find your own path to success, don't be the laughing stock, that doesn't mean you don't greet when you see yourselves.

Saviolamemphix:
She's an Ex for a reason. Me and my ex can never b friends again. Like what's d friendship for, so u can turn me to ur besty or what lmfao. No room for BS dis year

Loud it.

mattfeuter:
I guess this is the exception but personally, I wouldn’t do it.

Where I come from, when you say goodnight, it’s defo goodnight IRENE.

There are way too many women in the universe.

Abi now. Thank you. Most of these guys shouldn't just have problems with it if their wives/gfs is still keeping in touch with their exes and sleeping with him without them knowing... since it is what they encourage.. let's not be hypocritical, what is wrong is wrong, especially if this ex is with another. Eventho hypergamy is immoral, should we also stoop so low?.. We can defeat the female cruel nature in more classy and sane ways the redpill has addressed.. I'm sure all they're saying concerning sex, food and other favors from exes is not part of the redpill tho. We are preaching 'redpill' here, not 'how to get an ex back or how to sleep with an ex or get favors from an ex'.

Men should rather have good rapports with each other and help lift each other up instead of expecting anything from some exes.

mattfeuter:
I don’t know what Ubunja smoked before passing that comment.

As for me, nothing concerns me and my ex.

Like how do you even have sex with your ex? Fcukk opportunities, when one door closes, another opens.

Abi oh . E weak me too. Sex and food from ex is 'NO'. That doesn't mean one is keeping malice with them. There isn't any reason for a friendship with an ex. So she can tell me the new guys she's sleeping with or what? , that's why men should try to have good rapports with their fellow males, then you may not really need an help from an ex. Bros before Hos. Some ppl never even have good rapports with their fellow redpillers or guys that like their works here finish, na from ex them dey expect help

Eventhough not all breakups lead to heartbreak. Some breakups are mutual, I even intiated most of the breakups with my exes yet that doesn't still mean you have to let them in to your lives like that. There is a limit to everything you do with an ex.

Skyclub14:
Exactly my thought..I for don ask her how much but immidiately she finished dropping the format ..I instantly told her that a female friend of mine told me the same thing this past December ..that was why she was now like but the person I lost my money to is already paying 20% every month ..na wa o..I just catch the format now ...she don draft am down since so she just dey bomb any man wey come her way

Format or not, don't pay that money, she's not your mother, she's not your wife, she's not your daughter, don't be a betasimp. She should ask for money from her parents or uncle or whoever, that's not your concern. If you had gone through this page from page 1 to the current page, you would have easily known the answer to this.

luminouz:
Damn...that's fuqin cold


What perplexed me was that he accepted her after 8 years. Was his suffering not enough or was he under some kind of spell?

She still left him AGAIN.

If you ain't redpilled, women will forcibly make you one, or you die of heartbreak

That was a case of scarcity mindset, if he was redpilled within the 8years, he would have known better.

gold360:
I saw a post here where a guy was being crucified for accepting food from his ex when he lost his job.
Looks like some of you don't understand the red pill.... Aint nothing wrong with accepting food (or even pu ssy)from your ex when you're in dire need of it. SO LONG AS YOU DON'T LET HER TO MANIPULATE YOU WITH IT.
it even increases her respect for you... Seeing that even in your low point, you stood your ground as a man

There is everything wrong in receiving food from an ex, you don't even need sex from them.. what sort of 'scarcity mindset' is that one?..when there are still a lot of women... Common sense can tell everyone that. Be careful of exes as u don't know their intentions, they aren't always back with good intentions.. Don't confidently say things that can really harm u. I guess you are so trusting, you trust ppl so much which is bad for u. That person that said that was right, you are wrong, I believe it's you that don't understand the redpill. Take note.

Money05:
Good evening
Please fellow TRP am new here as they say the red pill dosent find men..men finds the RP
Take me as your junior brother and I want fellow guys to read my story and give me an advice either by insults or scolding it will help me have a change of mindset
My story
I am quite an introvert who has never had a girlfriend I just have crushes and in days it dies
Until in my 300l I had a crush on an ibadan girl who just gained admission then I realized she also had a crush on me
My new roomate pushed me to her and toasted her...that's how I got my first ever girlfriend in the same hostel in the university that's in 2018 February
I loved this girl a lot as a simp but she wasn't exposed like that and was just 17
Then I knew she had two other boyfriend she has never seen b4 after I confronted her she ended up with them
Things went well we had sex in 2018 September for the first time cause she was a virgin I tried building the relationship very well I thought I had a future with her
*The story begins here*
After ASUU strike in 2019 febuary we resumed school continue our love story then a guy who was squating with his friend for the main time was toasting her and she started giving me attitude going to the guys place 24/7
Until one night I caught her kissing the guy she cried and begged and I forgave her
Since then she was a simp to me
I was avoiding her I was tough and watched her well and she showed commitment until we went home for this COVID/ASUU holiday
Then she was still crying sometimes I threaten break up till around July her phone got spoilt and she said her sister husband bought the new iphone XR for her since then attitude upon attitude
Calling me uncle sometimes
Calling me Mr sometimes
She dosent call
She started picking my flaws
She broke up first I begged a lot she accepted back but the attitude continues she stopped sending my love or telling me my bby again or saying I love you in 3 months I complained and she will eye me in video call and all
She broke up again now and the simp in me was still begging(we haven't seen since March cause of the lockdown till now)
Then I logged in her Facebook messenger and saw her begging one guy that why did you unblock me don't you love me again? I promise I will change(girl way day give me attitude day beg guy say e block am [i][/i] )
I showed her the chat and called her sister then cause the sister said I should trust her that she can't do anything bad
She was shocked and said she said she has broken up with me since and she had another person since she noticed and asked her she said she has left me since...she now said she wanted to leave but my begging just let her reconsider me(person way day cry for me if I no pick call around June o)
And she was asking me to pay her 25k for one wedding
I have sent her a lot of money and do sub for her for months during when she was giving character and still borrowed money from me days before that incident(using me as an ATM)
She called me told me to shut up o and she blocked me on WhatsApp and on call ) since last 2 weeks
People telling me she is now uploading her new boyfriend uploading videos of them together
Love na crazy feeling and have been trying to move but brothers e no easy
Let me cut it short
She still ask my cousin how I am doing
Was it the distance that cut our relationship short?
Or it was the guy that bought her a phone?
Or she just loosed the love for me and loved him?
Cause when we resume on January 18 we will see in same hostel not that am not okay I have a gen and TV and live well in school I even connected light to her room
Will the love spark again when we see?
How will I move on?
Advice your new junior fellow brothers

Lmao. I believe you already know what to do, coz if you had really gone through this thread, you would have gotten your answer. Cut her off, delete everything that has to do with her and focus on your studies. You don't beg a girl not to leave you no matter what, you're the prize, she has used all your weaknesses against you. Her hypergamy also played a big factor here, she's chasing someone of higher social status than you, and she's already sleeping with him(or them). You just need to forget about her, that's all I can tell you. If she wants to get back, don't let her in anymore. Focus on your goals now biko, you don't need that little dirty girl, we've all been there. Forget her and get rid of anything that reminds you of her, she's gone with 2020.. Start the new year with positive ppl and things that can add to your life positively, and don't look back.

Bankalert:
God bless the first person who brought about the TRP. Women are simply out for what they can get!!! While you are fantasizing about her big round ass and boobs, she is thinking about that money in your pocket. It is just the way they are. May the eyes of the blind simps be opened to see the red pills truths in 2021.

Yes this is fact, I pity who don't know this by now. I learned this the hard way, those cute girls with big ass and boobs(basically students) which is my spec that I was really crushing on and trying hard to date after I graduated from uni didn't want me back despite how hard I tried to get them, i drove them around, taught some to drive, took them out on dates, man still fresh yet none worked... eventho I didn't chase them like a simp would, yet they didn't want me back, I later got to realize that they were just overly hypergamous despite how young they were, girls are truly ruthless and redpilled in their prime. Just because they had the banging bodies, they believed they deserve the richest guys(in fact how u get it doesn't matter to them)... Don't think they're been chaste or they don't want premarital sex, No!, in fact they were really fvcking different guys back then. I later realized these girls I was dying for were fvcking sugar daddies old enough to be their fathers and big time fraudsters.. I wanted a relationship with them but love didn't exist in their books, they preferred to go to those that would only sleep with them and give them a lot of cash in return. I learned the hard way, now I see all of them for who they are and I can confidently tell you that majority of fine naija girls in their primes are nothing but hoes. They actually don't love, it's all about what you can offer.

Evolutionlove:
Most Nigerian Ladies/Gurls wouldn't even give you this much time before they discard you outrightly lol. "So you are telling me It's that easy to Just get them Into your kingdom, Just like that lol?? Modern Females are "Cunning and Smart" In Relationship Game but not Wise. You will be dumbfounded and frustrated while towing this kinda path......

This is absolutely right. They're so ruthless these days, you can't just tow the simping path with these females at any time, they'll use it against you and you'll regret doing that.

When the preferable is not available, the available becomes preferable. Ladies, make u na dey form small small o, e get why.

Trex4:
In my opinion I would advice you to go ahead. Make that call, text and chat. just generally respond and see how it goes. Only then will you notice if she's materialistic and a gold digger. But if she starts flaking or feeling like a goddess, you know how to cut her off, Close the chapter and probably pretend as if nothing ever happened.

But that's just my opinion sha.

Nice input. Sounds really good. I may do just this. I may give it a shot. Thanks bro.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] You really have feelings for the girl but your sixth 'TRP' sense is kicking in because your fears or worst night mares are well founded on this issue..... Let's tell ourselves the truth, females over centuries have honed their 'intuition' as to sniffing out the best mate or best genes for their progeny is concerned infact The CIA,FBI,FSB M16,NKVD,GRU,KGB combined cannot beat the pretence of a woman when it comes to attracting a favorable mate even as she has nothing to offer with the WALL fast approaching and the biological clock ticking away...Now let's assume we might be wrong and this here is bombass Unicorn that is the lady in question, I think you should give it a shot but keep the ejection button close at hand should you need to bail out.. Cheers.[/color]

Well said bro. I doubt she's unicorn tho coz that girl look way too materialistic but I may just call her once and see where it goes but I'll hold the ejection button very close in case I notice any form of misconception or rejection coz I'm the prize she has to fight to get.

Chiagozieking:
You can't rule over an empty kingdom, the power of an average man is determined by the many females he got calling his phone, "go out there and meet new people" , you can't read without having someone or people to practice the redpill on , there should be people you will be training with, be a simp and get them into your kingdom, fine, since you know what you are doing,after that you will then show her what you are really made of. If I was the guy I will made the girl get hooked on me so well before I start backing away

Another angle

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]Trouble dey sleep jejely...Inyanga come go wake am... This here is your first sh*t test..Sometimes we wonder if there is a unicorn out there amongst the female folk of nowadays, that's why we "thanklessly" take the plunge knowing fully well the cost of our time, money and efforts it will expend and all for what?....That cute face?...That f**king pussy?! All of these just gets us into sh**ts we never envisage for? Sh**ts that can tank promising careers,potentials Heck even destinies. My people say If you must eat a toad, you gotta eats a very fat one..I for one, if given a green light... The numbers (not the pussy) must come correct..does she have a job, business even assets? will she be emotionally moved over basic not expensive tokens of affections and what not etc...I understand her biological clock is ticking thus her need for a man, hypergamy and sh*t but If I surrender the keys of commitment to her via giving in to her green lighting then The Numbers most definitely has to come correct....[/color]

Thanks for the input. Well she claimed to have a business the day I met her and I even promised to patronize her business but I haven't really taken my time to know her beyond that. I just don't know if to proceed and get to know more about her or I should just let her go coz she looks like the so called materialistic slay girls and I might not be the one she's looking for coz I'm not one that will spend on her lifestyle. I don't want to proceed and still get rejected by her at any point, that will make me feel really cheap coz I don't chase any girl.

CaveAdullam:
Greenlight is for sexual adventure regardless of whether a woman like/love you or whether she's a wh0re. The mission of both is letting you have access to their body. But in the case of the former she may want you to posses her, while for the later, she might be there for fun or to gold dig you. For these reasons I stated in the post you mentioned: "always be armed with your vetting parameters". Green light varies and you must be very smart in decoding it. It is very easy to decode. Take for example:

I was moving from a particular state in Nigeria to another state last week Wednesday, the side of the bus I was sitting down has 2 in 1 seat, I and a very young lady shared the seat and she was very responsive when we started talking. The cap I was wearing already signified high value, but I had to progress with the normal rapport bla bla bla.

Beside me, was another young lady, though older than the first who was doing her own thing. I first saw her when I entered the bus, wanted to open but her body language signified that she will not easily be respond; she was serious from her facial outlook, and looked disappointed. On our way, our bus developed mechanical faults and the driver had to call another driver from the park to come pick us. Everyone came down from the bus......... meanwhile, before this time, me and my seat mate has progress farther in gisting and having little fun.

Now, the new bus arrived, I entered my position waiting for other passengers to transfer their belongings from the previous bus to this new one. Guess what? That lady that was forming seriousness gave me her sweater and phone to hold for her as she go transfer her belongings......... this is green light. The rest is history.

The key to demystifying green lights is you first having a proper understanding of the female nature, body language and reading people's inner motives from their actions and eyes. Don't mind what people say; people are what they do.

No woman that really like/love you will let her intentions go unnoticed without sending green lights. It is impossible! It is either you're unable to decode it or have doubts about it. No matter her godly a woman is, once she sees a man she loves, she will definitely send him signals, it is then left for the man what he can make do with the signals.

For your information, hardly any woman will walk up to you and make direct approach. Don't even wait for it because they are outliers. According to Ubunja: she invites; you initiate. The reason is because they feel less value if they outrightly initiate and because men has been bastardized by the chasing syndrome, they won't really appreciate what they didn't worked for---a common trait among humans though.

The green light is an invitation, and your response is your initiation. Your initiation now seems like a chase, of which is not, but it will make her feel so, and you will do little or nothing to please her, so far you maintain frame and continually boost your value.

Thanks.

You're very intelligent, all you have been saying is facts and I can relate. I'm really interested in this 'greenlight' of a thing, coz I have a recent experience about it lately.
I went out to buy a stuff somewhere few days ago, this girl started looking at me the moment I got there and she wouldn't remove her eyes. I thought I was imagining it until I looked again and we lurked eyes for almost 15 seconds or more, then I realized this was an 'extreme greenlight'. Immediately I moved close to her and initiated a conversation, she seemed very excited to meet me and we exhanged contacts, in fact she was smiling and she still touched me. Mind you, I hadn't even had my shower that morning and I wasn't wearing the best of clothe, I know I'm goodlooking to a fault, but this girl looks like these so-called expensive girls, she had an expensive hair and nails on and she's very beautiful, I'm still wondering what could make her do such move because we know how girls are these days(especially the ones that look like this), they're always looking for rich guys or guys that look flashy. I'm doing well on my own tho, I have my crib and my small car but I won't spend a dime on any girl I'm not dating except on date. I haven't even called her, I only texted her once because I don't want to be played. Why I used the word 'played' is that I've had experience once when a girl showed greenlight, she eventually billed me, she insisted that I must pay before we can have sex when she came to my house and I realized she was a prostitute/runs girl, I had to chase that one out of my house. I don't want the same thing to happen with this girl. Also I'm feeling she could be thinking I'm one of those simp ballers that waste monies on her types, when she gets to know me and realize that I'm not one of the ballers, I feel she may start ignoring me and I wouldn't like that at all. Don't blame me for thinking like this, there are just too many hoes and simps nowadays, we don't know the girls with genuine intentions anymore. She's very cute and all but I'm not making any move yet, she has my number and I want to believe if she has a very high interest in me, she'll call me or text me at some point. Or should I call her?

Danycrusoe:
Now, the truth is I don't joke with my male friends, although not all men I know are my friends. I have a male friend who I won't place in the same category with the guys in my group. The guy is a closet feminist and does things in a way I'm not too sure of his loyalty.

Guy has his close male friends too but at work he is with the women folk more, the kind of relation I have with him is limited, he is close when u have a financial benefit he can enjoy. This is why I said one should be sure to be in the same side with the said male friend.

That kind of guy you described should be categorized as a female. I know those types too and I don't really have anything to do with them, you can't trust them. Yeah, one should be sure to be in the same side with male friends. Little helps you do for guys you don't even really know goes far, it's still better than giving it to these ungrateful females.

luminouz:
Isn't it wonderful how she was quick to broke shame a dude over what she can't even afford? Na ojuelegba luxury she be na

You read my mind bro. The matter super funny.. Broke shaming a dude probably doing better than her. Wonders shall never end.

luminouz:
....
She called herself luxury....

I hear her na...na Gucci and Lamborghini she be

She had to quickly materialize herself
She's most likely for those that can AFFORD her . That same clown/luxury will still say she has an equal right with men.
When you ask the luxury how much she's worth for a quickie or short-term, she'll still pick offense. Luxury my azz
She's a luxury today, she's a woman when it suits..

luminouz:
.
i almost died of laughter when she said that last line. .

she even called him broke ass

That's how petty they are, she was so pained .. They quickly resort to broke shaming men when you counter their bants and shove the truth right in their throats.

Danycrusoe:
In relation to this, I have a guy who we are basically colleagues but he sees me as a boss and inspiration, we are both like 5 and 6 altho he met me on the job.

Now, when we met in 2019 I didn't have a gf and I was carefree and jovial, he took a liking to me and he is always calling and we are always together after work. I help his needs financially and on the job, infact he sees me as a role model to build his career, yet we are just age mates.


Quickly, his reputation grew across board but he still didn't have financially, alongside other members of my group, I seem to be the one with a decent pocket and after work, I treat my group members to lunch or breakfast depending especially when I can easily afford it and when they ask.

All my group members are up to seven, I'm the group head and I'm regarded as the best of them based on the job and all.

However, something happened, the guy towed a line that soiled his reputation, he was seen as a snitch to a new head of organization whom majority didn't like. This period was when my ex came into the picture.

Quickly, I was said to have insulted the new head and that there is a recording to that effect, now I don't talk to anyone about the new Head except him cuz he is the only one other than me that is a staff in our group, others just come for our 1hr program and leave. So he was seen as the one doing the recording and snitching.


I started dating the girl during this period and she leveraged on the discord to separate myself and the guy, on the ground that he envies me and looking for my downfall so that he can take my place. Others at work too pointed my attention to it.

I bought their idea and I fought him, I didn't tell him about the girl, we only did our job and leave separately.

Long story short, after the girl broke up with me, the guy and I settled things and we are back to the way we used to, now this girl finds it difficult to bring food for me, ordinary food, despite the financial support and all while we were dating, yet she has time to bring for herself, she has enough cash to carry around.

I went broke, coincidentally, during that time. Guess who helped me financially?

That same guy I fought with, he spoke to me and revealed his mind, little did I know how high in regard this guy holds me. To the extent that he revealed that he doesn't think there nothing I'll do that he will get offended. So far its me.

He never took an offence on the incident that happened between him and I.


The guy got a better job and he comes to my place everyday, at a time, I was close to trekking two hours to and two hours back home from work, the moment I told the guy, he took a bike to my place and gave me cash, I couldn't believe it.


Every member of my group, albeit all have left for better organizations, helped me financially during my down period, all I hear from all of them each time is Dan you are worth more than what we are doing for you now, you have done way more for us.

I felt humbled, I felt grateful, I learned, I thought about everything over and over again, I wonder how better it would have been if I had spent the way I spent on that girl for those guys.

Lastly, on my birthday in May, I was still dating the girl, she gave me a portrait of myself worth 3k. One of my guys got me a clothing material, the girl broke up with me that month. I have never spent half of what I spent on that girl in four months on any of my guys.



You can never go wrong in investing in ur fellow man, especially when both of u are just settling into life after school and hustling to make a career.




The guy that gave me the gift and the guy I fought with said I did one thing that made them respect me n become more loyal and appreciative. I got a big writing contract that paid huge, then I dropped the one I was using as a side source of income to both of them and the client kept paying for their sercives.

It was their source of income for many months before the new job, even into the lockdown and they still get paid till now.

something which I never took serious, yet one babe doesn't even care that I bought her phone or paid for this or that, she can't even do me a favour of giving me a cooler of food after break up.

However, study ur friends, know if you all are on the same side. If u have 5 sources of income, u can drop the smallest for ur guy who is jobless, provided he can do it. Teach him if he is teachable. Niggas don't forget good deeds. Babes will forget once they step out of ur room cuz another is offering something more from there.

You're absolutely right. Majority of the successful men I know today got where they are today by their male friends and male acquaintances they once helped in the past, sometimes that goes farther than even high grades in school, the females they helped are no where to be found. Men help men, men help women, women rarely help anyone. We men should invest more in each other, it's one of the best investments you can make in life. Most of you guys doing well out there today got where you are today through the help of your fellow males, u know it. We should do that more pls. Peace.

Martinez39s:
In that CAPSLOCKED's post, there was no loss of judgement or attempt to demonize women. Let's assume the woman's story is accurate (something I don't do due to fact that women are usually shameless and bold liars, and they are good engineers of a spurious narrative and impression). If your husband has been financially incapable and always made excuses for money, why decide to teach him a "lesson" with your daughter's health at stake? Why not do it with something like the PHCN bill (refuse to pay that bill and let the heat reach everyone so you can teach him a lesson) ? Why put your daughter's health at stake over #25,000 when you have #3.6M and you can simply leave the marriage (if she had had enough with her husband) and care for your own daughter by yourself?

Not only is she petty, she is also trying to shift blame when she could have done better; this shows she has no remorse and doesn't desire to be a better human in future. Throughout your life, have you ever met any loving parent (especially men) who would have #3.6M yet put his/her daughter's life at risk over #25,000 just to teach their spouse a "lesson" ? Don't you see how incredibly stupid, petty, and heartless that is? The daughter had been convulsive for two days, two fùcking days.

For those who would say "but the money [#3.6M] might not be her money," they should have it in mind that if that were the case, she would have mentioned it without hesitation and used it as an excuse, trust women.

All I see is dumb attribution of blame to the man:
1) It was okay to put my daughter's life at risk in order to teach my husband a "lesson" BECAUSE my husband is financially incapable and always make excuses. [It's the husband's fault].
2) It's not my fault that my daughter died BECAUSE I am not the one that is supposed to provide. [It's the husband's fault for not providing].

What could she have suffered in the husband's hands for her to make such heartless and stupid decision? I wouldn't be surprised if it turned out that the husband happened to be a great provider in the past and he recently hit hard times; or that the story is not what it seems. I personally know a senior colleague of my mum who has money but the husband is broke and struggling; the woman is stingy like madt. If her children meet her for anything, she will tell them to go and meet their father. She would rather see the family struggle than help out, even her kids. It took my mum's intervention to force her to open her stingy hands to provide for her daughter who was living hand to mouth in the university while mum was earning big. What do you think the story of woman would be? Would it be any different from what CAPSLOCKED shared? There was even a story on nairaland about a woman who fell sick and instructed her sister to hide her money in case the husband, who was running helter skelter to pay her hospital bills, finds it. I am not saying all women are like this, but most are.

In a bid to show you are fair and a moral champion, don't make excuses or downplay any harsh truth about women in order to prove you are not a woman hater or misogynist. No one cares bro, drop the moral badge and accept the red pill as you see it. If not, when the red pill shows you certain devilish aspects of women, you will ignore it and think it is hatred or misogyny towards women. The truth don't have to be the way you want. If it happens that the truth says "the kind of specimen A are heartless, brutal and remorseless in their manipulation", you must accept and not ignore it because you don't want to be a misogynist or a moral defaulter. It's just like ignoring the truth that many Ashkenazi Jews have a higher IQ than Africans because you don't want to be a racist.

Let me drop this harsh truth that many might not come to grasp in their lifetime: you can either love or understand women, you cannot do both. This is pure fact. It doesn't mean you should hate them, just approach women with indifference and let you association with them be based on necessity and what you can benefit from them. Forget about friendship with women.

We can agree to disagree.

I personally agree with you. Saying the truth doesn't make one a misogynist, if anyone can't handle it, they may just ignore this thread.