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NYCnextStop:


Not so easy though boss. You find out that most times there's this urge to approach and chase. We go sha dey alright las las

You can approach but at least see 'greenlight' first, they do this mostly through eye contact, she wouldn't get her eyes off you, that's her subtle way of letting you know she chooses you. The confident ones will wave you or come to you by themselves or send her friends to you. When a woman chooses you, you will know. (from experience).

SOZINN:
The measure of a man's TRP game is now calculated by the amount of women he gets.
I believe there are discrete segments of the Red pill philosophy. Every male gives his own verdict and decides what to do with women after he becomes cognizant of the reality. Some make temporary resolutions, others perennial. In the end every man chooses a path which he will take.
I repudiate criticism from other members of this brotherhood, to me or any other person because of our preference. There are various levels of the Red pill as there are disparate sections, don't be bewildered.

Some of us are nescient of this simple fact, that's why we are of the opinion that others have lesser knowledge of these principles because of the choices they make. I mean, why would someone think, "if they were at my level in this game, they would be able to mingle and sleep with so many women" or "women would pay flattering attention to them with gifts just to have a taste of their penïs". Someone stated that women were put in this world for our venereal delectation, wonderful.

If you check my erstwhile posts/messages, you would discover that I espoused this ideology in the past. Yes, part of my reason for typing this is to clarify that it's still me, the same person and moniker. But like I said, some of us permanent, others transitory.
Should I say I have outgrown the level of making women a priority in my life. Or maybe those of you still interested in women are below me.
I will not unfold this piece of clothing again.

You make complete sense. I share in the same school of thoughts. Seconded.

I have decided to take a break from approaching women, I notice the females I approach don't yield to nothing, they either play hard to get, seem uninterested, entitled or feel too bigger than life, they feel they have too many options, I guess.. Good look or being redpilled or been charismatic will not even save you from getting rejected from these females. On the other hand I notice some ladies do the approaching now and they even go as far as getting my number, show greenlight or send their friends to me to express their feelings, this has been happening a lot to me since I took the redpill, i work harder, I focus more on myself, I take good care of myself, look nice all day, I rather spend on my car or buy more wears or eat good food than spend a dime on a girl. These girls often approach guys they fancy, they are the choosers, I personally feel they take advantage of us approaching them to manipulate us, my personal opinion. I feel we should all focus on our goals and self improve and see the magic, trust me girls shoot their shots to high value males or guys they fancy all the time, we should be that guy. No approach now until there is at least a greenlight. We keep staying on our purpose while the girls do the chasing.

Zabiboy:
Every male out there, right from their young age dont want to be poor.. Why??
Because broke niggars are looked down on, Not only by the opposite gender but also by their fellow hommies..
Now, if MEN can channel this same hate, disgust and Segregation to hoes/baby mamas/ broke ladies, you want to tell me ladies wont become more useful??
But No, Men's love for pvssy has made even small girls of nowadays to think they carry gold... Then these same men would come out to say women are this and that... That's a joke man

Simps(men) are the root cause of all the problems we are having in the society. Ladies will start to respect men and learn to behave rationally when men stop simping.

NeduLuiZ:
like I stated I've been sticking to routine too much and it's getting boring for me...what other motives are you insinuating man?

There are no guys you can be friends with?
Why must your friend be a girl? Lol

Mandela27:
It's just the normal feeling like every other redpiller..some times I wanna be vunerable then when I get back to my senses I just thank God for coming accross TRP I can't regret seeing the light.

I'm still trying to figure out the part that could make anyone regret. Where exactly makes anyone kinda regret?.. Maybe I'm the only one not feeling any form of 'regret' tho, it's the opposite for me, one of the best things to ever happen to my life is the redpill, there has been a lot of positive changes. Regret ke.
Special thanks to CaveAdullam, Bloodysperm and other great redpillers for their daily nuggets.

SOZINN:
Are you kidding me?
I was patiently waiting for you to come online to defend his lordship.
I wasn't wrong.
Dear, nobody is above questioning.

E shock you too
Some ppl are above the movement now.
Anything their lordship says. They even trolled Glycolysiss (owner of the thread) out of his own thread for similar things.

I have never regretted signing up for the redpill and I never will. We should not make the redpill look like some toxic or hateful thing. Yes we put ourselves first. Some of us still relate with ladies well but we only deal with high interests now, we respect ourselves more and we realize our value now. We still have female friends we don't find attractive but still remain friends with them. Redpill is an awareness, there is nothing to regret here. Let's be guided.

ikillbrokegirls:
That is why i support DEMZEE opinions.

Am patriarchal To the bone. You can't see me around woman or talk about am just improving myself day-by-day am not on this thread to impress or game woman am just want to learn more about their nature that all.

And there is nothing bad in that, we respect your opinion and what you stand for, anyone against it has some deep personal problems.

luminouz:
And you quoted her?

We all agreed to leave her alone na.

Bro I tire. Seems like everyone isn't into redpill here at the end of the day.

Haven't we all agreed not to reply trolls?
All this shalaye to a troll isn't necessary. Similar to what Glycolysiss was doing. That troll even hate Martinez39s to the bone marrow. .
Mtchww

RightToReject:
So, all women aren't hoes, ethically the same, and sex objects that the boys should always play or mete out /pump-and-dump again; interesting. I wonder what will now happen to the multitude of impressionable and naive people (men mostly) you ignorantly and haughtily misled to believe that perfidy is the new meaning of cleverness; wickedness the new meaning of strong; haughtiness the new meaning of confidence, etc.

Anyway, the same you I have known over the years will still change your stance very soon when someone elsewhere with a mention opposite to the one you replied references you - because it's all about bravado and posturing at every given time.

This is what always happens in every area of life where one teaches something based on a copy, edit, and paste rather than from the core grasp of the subject matter. Experts will always be different from novice teachers on any same subject matter.

This isn't an attack on the red pill or any social movement anyone chooses to identify with. Of course, it doesn't disprove all of your work. Nonetheless, most of the things most of you have copied, consumed, or disseminated aren't healthy and are from mentally unfit people.

Create your life path and encrypt it, people. Servility is as bad as cruelty; avoid being any of them, but never be afraid to be good or go to war when it becomes a necessity.

Thank you. The hypocrisy...
Someone that openly said "all women are hoes'' amongst others suddenly knows some boys are bitter with their comments about women. Isn't that the peak of bitterness?. How bitter can anyone else be pls?

SOZINN:
Sounds like feminism to me. Someone originated the feminism dogma to try and "open women's eyes to the truth" about male supremacism and oppression. Initially, women propagandized for equality and egalitarianism. But as time went on it turned into something else. It became a man-hating agenda. An avenue women used to express their deep revulsion for the opposite gender. Even the laws that their cries were able to effectuate, what did they do with it?
These days we see women abort male foetus due to this same hatred. Hash tags like "killallmen" making waves on social media.
Phoney charges everywhere, nobody is willing to give an ear to the male accused.
Now even some of the founding mothers of feminism have come out to deny this present day portrayal.

I'm not trying to say we will be able to achieve half of what feminism has done for women. But I don't want us to make the same mistakes they made. But just as there are some women who are not necessarily man haters but have decided not to have anything to do with men. There are also men who carry this as a form of personal thesis. The fact that some men choose not to apply your so called "game" to reap the rewards of numerous female copulation does not make them "woman haters". Maybe some of us are more focused on our goals and are not interested in meeting women to enjoy those benefits.

Maybe if we had respect for our fellow men's decisions we would not feel the need to burn calories contradicting ourselves. Funny how we call women distractions but refer to men who avoid them as bitter.

The red pill does not indoctrinate bitterness (by the true definition). I don't want us to make the same mistakes feminists made and are still making today.
That said, know the difference between true hatred and lack of interest.
Good day.

Thank you for this. Seconded. I agree with all you said. I'm beginning to believe some ppl are not redpillers, they could be gamers, pimps, players or whatsoever. We should all learn to respect each other's opinions. There is no way you talk about the other gender that you won't come across as bitter, especially when their true nature is revealed, and it's normal to call them out and give appropriate examples to back up each redpill points, I don't see anyone really bitter here tbh. Guys even ignore the female trolls trying to derail this thread, bitter ppl won't have that amount of patience. Some guys are patriarchal and that doesn't mean they're toxic or bitter, we can't all stand for the same thing. There is no way there wouldn't be some resentment when you realized some things society made you believe about the other gender was a lie, we should let ppl outgrow it. The way I see it, there is no way men air their opinions that ppl won't term them to be bitter or mysognistic.
And it'll be fair if they could point out the bitter comments so we can all know how to comment next time.

aomine:
AOMINE IN DA HOUSE SEE EHN FOR THOSE REDPILLERS THINKING YOU DONT NEED MONEY JUST STRONG FRAME SHAME ON YOU ,Y'ALL LAZY MONEY IS HARD TO MAKE ,A RICH SIMP WILL BE MORE SUCCESFULL WITH WOMEN THAN A BROKE REDPILLER YOU WONT EVEN BE NOTICED JUST INVISIBLE GET MONEY,BEUTIFY YOURSELF,TAKE CARE OF YOUR SKIN,BUY FINE CLOTHES,EAT WELL, BUY NICE WHIP!!!!ALL THIS SHIT COST MONEY MEN DONT USE REDPILL AS AN EXCUSE FOR MEDIOCRITY

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SOZINN:
I am so happy for her.

How lower can a man be
Still kinda make sense if he had also worked in the adult industry, coz I don't know what else could justify this level of simping and stupidity.

saladinnoir:
There's a thread on front page right now titled a broke guy is disturbing my sisters life. The majority of page is filled with emotion driving opinions and sentimentality

The op made a good point from a good angle, his sisters wellbeing, the amount of likes are even more worrying. You can tell that the replies are born from a need to defend what they feel is a personal attack

How did the Op make a good point?
What happens when the new guy also lost his job, she should free him too and look for the next provider? We can't be fueling hypergamy here, here isn't the page for that. The op is the typical black female, her sister seems like a oneitis. Kindly take this to the thread where it belongs, peace.

ikillbrokegirls:
I've been redpilled since 2019 ever since then i've been improving my self

side hustle - moved from $100 to $500+ monthly.

just in......A female told me am a gay she said i don't interact with females am just me she don't understand me anymore.

she asked why am i a changed person? Bro i ignored her.

#Redpillpatriarch

I can relate with this. This is just like me, redpill makes you focus on yourself, you self improve and you don't take shit from any lady anymore, and yes It makes you realize a lot of Nigerian ladies don't worth the stress because most of them have similar behavioural pattern, that could make you a lone wolf, I will date only when I meet someone that ticks most of the right boxes trp preaches, most importantly she must be very respectful(submissive) eventho that quality seems to be going extinct among the ladies of today by the day...

waywardpikin:
Oh please just stfu! You don't practise any of these things you espouse.

It's time to ignore bro. Enough is enough.

How can this beautiful thread turn into this. I'm disappointed in everyone throwing cusses at each other here. I don't want to call out any monicker but can you please stop insulting ppl and respect others opinions?... We should do better please.

If anyone feel disrespected or insulted, pls learn to ignore and only post redpill contents, so peace can reign on here again.

You're on the right path. Keep that up, channel that time into productive things and watch yourself grow. Nigerian girls are playing their own games well coz they are very ruthless and it's all(relationship&friendship) hustle to most of them, keep playing your own game well too and don't let them have even a token of your hard earned resources even if you have it in abundance coz there's a great percentage that they will call you a fool for it. Not that you don't put effort in getting your spec, you're not getting your spec because your specs are busy chasing ballers that will only pump and dump them... that's naija girls for you as we already know. A lot of guys should adapt this style lately tho coz these girls don't care about any of you.

franchasng:
The truth is majority of guys of today are half mad.


But they don't know it lol.




But on another level, na mostly fine girls with amazing shape de do runz, and you know it's not easy to resist that curvy big buttocks with flat tummy and dangling boobs.


Unlike the decent ladies who are mostly flat buttocks, curved legs and frog eye



On a more serious note, those wayward girls hardly turn guys down. You meet them and say hello, they reply you with smile and you ask for their number and they give you freely without making it a herculean task.


How then do you meet a potential husband if not through meeting different guys


Most decent girls are anti social, to reply hello is a problem, they feel they are doing the guy a favor by replying his hello. Then ask of her number na another wahala be that, she will form like she is Miss Elliot.



So most of them so called decent girls are the architect of their own problems; they need to make more friends, stop forming and stop making themselves difficult for guys to meet.

Even the hot bad girls form a lot, just that they mostly choose very rich guys alone who are most likely to be their potential customers, naive rich bfs and sugar daddies. It still remains a mystery to me why such well to do guys tie the knot with such bad bitches, maybe they enjoy the sex, maybe they don't want to lose all that shape, banging bodies and try to personalize it for themselves, and maybe these bad girls jazz them, afterall most of them are jaruma's customers.

doscar:
Brooooo we on the same page of thoughts. That dose called "Redpill" is a vaccine!!

E be things. It's like a redemption tbh.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I understand a lot of people are here because of some brutal and personal backstory. Mine, on the other hand is more of external observation than a story of some lady that hurt or betrayed me. Trust me, this is not the case.

I had to see things outside my world; the guy on social media that got a false rape allegation, the lady that dumped her faithful partner for someone else with no valid reason but hypergamy. And several other experiences I've heard, seen - some within my circle, but not my personal burden.

Most people aren't that open minded to accept change and progress. This is why for a vast majority, they need to have personal experiences to learn, the experience of others is never enough.

I'm glad you observed all of that. It doesn't have to take personal experience for a smart person to take the pill. You're welcome to the redpill truth.

Martinez39s:
As in. I have the intuition that nwaezeemmanuel is not telling us all there is as to what prompted his acceptance of the red pill. I might be wrong. It's okay if he doesn't want to divulge, I can understand, all that matters is that he is redpilled and will be never go back to the matrix. Dude used to be one of the biggest simp on nairaland, if not the biggest. His transition is a miracle.

That's why they say you don't enforce the redpill on any man. They will find the redpill themselves when they've been severely dealt with.

ObinnaValentine:
my question is have you deleted her number?.. cos I did delete a contact for something lesser that this..I even blocked ✌

Lol. I didn't even take it personal since I already know it's their nature, I didn't loose anything anyway. You just reminded me to delete it and I'm doing that right now.

fattprince:
Bro you 100% right. I mean things girls will do to me before and I feel like its a big deal, like my dreams has come true now I just see it as normal. Right now I'm tired of the attention I am getting from girls. But I don't see it as a biggie anymore. I just interact with them.

Exactly bro. It's a very good development. Thanks to the redpill. I'm glad we're seeing the positive effects. We're realizing our own self worth now.

miracood:
tnks for this indept explanation..

When I talk to a girl, I read there mood and contenance., The moment I discovere u're not at all feeling me, I just meeuve.. without trying to ask why she looks bitter or sad.

I'm just like this too, no high interest, bye to them. That's how it should be. If they care enough to know why you are like that, they should pick up their phones and reach out, if they can't, bye to them.

This is an example; I collected a girl's number the other day, called her to meet up, she said she was going to chicken republic to buy food(takeaway), I drove her there and let her buy what she had to buy(she must have been shocked that I didn't offer to buy her the food she wanted to eat), she paid for her own food and hopped back into my car, we talked in the car and got to know each other more, (that's enough to consider a date to me anyway)...I drove her back to her place, she told me to call her when I got home, which I did and that was all, till date I've not heard from her, and I'm never calling her again. If she got high interest in me, she'll pick up the phone to check up on me. So we moouve, we deal with high interest alone and no room for simping.

miracood:
Why do I always have this reluctancy to ask girls out? Not that I cant ask them out...

But I just don't have that natural desire to go after girls..
I'll hit a girl up.. Collect contact and details but... I don't follow up the paroll. R'plliers what's wrong with me

Not only you, I thought I was the only one. It's part of what the redpill will do to you. Don't you know what you have consumed/swallowed? it's the redpill bruh, no be beans...That's 'see finish'. Redpill has made you see the female nature finish, you don't want to do anything to fuel their egos anymore when you already know their true nature. It also makes you become a little cold and laid back towards females because you see yourself as the prize to be won, not the other way round. You just don't want to tolerate any BS from them at all.

As for me, I give ladies very less attention now and mostly focus on my goals/productive things. Funny enough, random girls come to meet me and even buzz me with calls but if they aren't my spec, I'm not letting them in. Shit is crazy. Redpill basically improves your standard towards life in general, and sorry to say you become more selfish and only choose to love and care for yourself alone(and maybe love ones). You just always put yourself first.

naenaesosa:
You are correct but you cant deny that them focusing on bettering themselves financially (albeit negatively) is a major cornerstone of the red pill philosophy which is leave women, focus on self development and the women will come back.

I have seen a street yahoo boy that couldnt even speak proper english smashing ajebutter girls from pristine homes that we used to carry on our head.

The only simp move yahoo boys make is 'lavishing money on girls' and buying them expensive things, pussie shouldn't be so costly, it should be free. Yahoo boys, drug dealers and politicians sit on this table, they make good money illegitimately but they attach too much price on pussy, they make money seem like it ain't a thing to these hoes, they've literally raised the bar and most legit guys with average income can't match, in fact most girls nowadays don't want anything to do with guys making average earnings. Apart from the fact that times are hard, many girls are materialistic, greedy and lazy, all they do is use their bodies to gold dig whoever has gold, it doesn't matter what the person does for a living or where the money is coming from.. lots of opportunists out there, a lot of girls are just looking for helpers in this country, nothing more.

Some of these yahoo boys don't even have a house of their own, no tangible investment but they keep giving girls huge amounts of money, those are big SIMPS. To those that are already very rich and have a lot of properties&investments yet still giving girls a lot of money, they're most likely into yahoo+ which is very deep like they say, sometimes these guys pay this hefty amount of cash to compensate these ladies for the spiritual things they have taken from them, not because they're simping, other fetish rich men and politicians included.

Raalsalghul:
"Most women today have eschewed femininity and embraced masculine traits. They are hyper sexual in an attempt to get a man with money and power. They dump decent but plain solid wage earners for abusive, non committing drifters. And many, but not all truly enjoy the drama until they begin to realize the beatings are taking their toll. Then run to a decent guy for comfort, only to dump him for the next abusive loser. After 34 yrs of social work (ret), my advice is to men, as hard as it is, the minute a woman criticizes your job, insults your family members, compares you to ex boyfriends, says your dog, who would take a bullet for you, is nasty/smelly, starts hinting about expensive gifts and a lifestyle you cant afford, DUMP her. Dont look back and dont bother with detailed explainations. Simply say "you deserve to be happy. I cant do that for you. Best of luck. And block the number. Save yourself a world of grief. And TrumpReagan, dont be bitter. Date. Dont isolate yourself. Just approach dating like adapting to new rules for an old sport. Be more alert for the signs. Dont stay too long. Follow your gut instinct. Learn to dump immediately with grace. You deserve a companion. Dont let the past ruin your future."

Source: wiseowl792

This is a very wise piece. This is one of the realest thing happening in our society today. Social media also keep giving these females a false illusion of options, betas aren't helping either by wasting resources on them eventho mostly their sole purpose is to sleep with them. Most of this generation girls are basically looking for already made guys to give fake love ,they don't want to build with anyone and they wonder why they keep having problems in their relationships.

ZACHIE:
no one told you that even a Dangote will owe you payments and will refuse to pay

You're 100 percent right about this. True talk.

Beirut01:
Hmm

Canceling on a date (especially with a hot chic) for other productive goal is a good thing. They do it without remorse all the time. Be equally ruthless and don't care about the outcome. #abundancemindset #trp

Vecto:
This is what it means to be a public figure and be red-pilled. There's no such thing as being red-pilled inside and navigating/interacting with the world with a blue pill mindset. That's bullshit. Reno doesn't mince words, he drops them like hot cocoyams.

Reno is obviously redpilled, he's got nothing to lose or gain from the public. He once said he doesn't expect any favor from the masses, he doesn't mince words and all he says is unfiltered... he's not an artiste neither is he trying to get back to the political office. More reason why he hasn't got more followers than he currently has.
When you're a mainstream artiste or celebrity, it's understandable when you're not fully redpilled, I think it's even smarter when you're purplepilled than being the core bluepilled or core redpilled just to be accepted by many and for commercial successes.