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luminouz:
Really homie?

Using my trademark carry some royalty payments.

Now ask for my account number to pay yours .

Lol . How much boss?

sajmark:
Bowing out like a little wimp, men have really been emasculated

K

sajmark:
"If you pray for rain, you've got to be prepared to deal with the mud too"
If you want to marry just know that you are marrying a farm tool, that's why many redpillers don't want to get married.
If all women are like that then why stressing yourself to bug her phone in the name of vetting? Asking around and making friends with people who know her is enough vetting, no need to become a CIA agent because of women...
If you read my comment well, you will see that I said "don't be surprised if the said Virgin cheats"...
The way you carry this vetting for head Hope you don't end up like the guy below.

K

ubunja:
everyone must be vetted. Virgins included.

Exactly

Some ppl are funny here. Someone said a girl being virgin is enough to vet her, my brother you have been played. How do you know a woman is a virgin? Coz she told you? . Even if she is, and so what?
Even if she says she's a virgin or you sleep with her to know or you take her for a test and it confirms she's a virgin, never you still trust her, still continue the vetting process. Virgins cheat too, some of them give the best head and anal. Never stop vetting any woman you consider for a serious thing, you commit to them or not. My 2 cents.

PS Don't get me twisted, I'd rather choose a virgin over non virgin myself but I'll continue to vet her like any woman, no pedestal.

Maxxim:
Why hacking your partners phone isn't supported is because, not all men can handle it's end result which is emotional outburst.
Some men have ended up tracing their partners secret lovers to the extent of harrasing and threatening them some even go ahead to beg them to leave their partners.
That's the outcome of stalking its not good esp when it happens to a man without value, it won't interest the society to even listen to your plight
More reason Trp teaches you not to look down to her shit instead it tells you to stay in your frame and bounce back, it's her loss once she cheats on you.
But how many men can handle it one's it happens, more reason to set your standard and give your conditions before showing commitment and never to feel bad once shit happens.

I believe a true redpilled man will know how to handle such. Knowing your woman is cheating doesn't make you violent or immediately make you become beta, you simply cut her off, we've been taught that here severally. However Redpilled men that can't handle to jog into both worlds could simply choose not to be in a long term relationship or marriage tho, that simplifies it all.

Maxxim:
Checking her phone once in a while isn't bad since there'll always be chances to do that, tracking her phone is and if you're bent on doing that, it hould be ones personal opinion.

They’re all for the same course/purpose. How a man chooses to do it is irrelevant here.

Smartb0y:
Vetting is more like 40 positive - 60 negative tbh.
There's absolutely no guarantee you'll get an angel

And yes in marriage one is very likely to lose frame especially in this age we find ourselves in.

Yeah it’s why there is no limit to vetting, even if it involves tracking her phone or checking it up as to know who she truly is.. you can’t take chances. Redpilled men could simply just go their own way and shun marriage then..

ubunja:
take it easy.

K

ubunja:
take it easy. You got the message. You're now pushing for the sake of pushing.

What are you saying? What have I said wrong there? Give me a good comeback to buttress your point or we can simply agree to just end this back and forth, we can agree to disagree. Cheers.

ubunja:
you wish so bad I was wrong don't you. Dream on.

Let me clarify that snapshot for you:

Your commitment is your asset when it comes to women, since it includes your wallet, protection and all the other resources females need from men.
Any guy of marrying age has a list of qualities that a prospective woman must satisfy in order to be considered wife material. Now, when you start dealing with a lady you check how much she meets that list before you commit to her and propose. Is she ticking the relevant boxes? Are you satisfied with what she brings to the table and what she is as a person? If YES then you go ahead and take things to the next level.

That comparing of the lady against your standards and expectations is called Vetting.

You vet before you commit.

I've long been talking about guys need to vet:


You and your guy confuse vetting with the insecure tracking of your woman watching her every move and eager to get in her head. That's not red pill. And as hell that's not vetting.

You have to understand that we live in modern times. Part of trying to get to know someone(what you referred to what she is as a person) nowadays is knowing their online activities, most things are done online now, businesses, dating, prostitution, etc, don’t underestimate what ppl are capable of with their smartphones, it’s why I consider tracking phones as getting to know who someone is.. “Getting to know what she is as a person” which you also defined as vetting, either you’re already committed to them or you’re not, it’s not too much to do just to know them.. Married or committed to someone also doesn’t mean you stop vetting them. I hope you can see where they’re coming from now and don’t just throw the word ‘bluepill’ and ‘insecure’ around. We live in modern times, sometimes this is the only way to know someone, modern women are so sleek in their ways nowadays and smartphones make it easier for them. Don’t be totally convinced that you know her or she meets up your criteria without really getting to know her. Women do a lot with their phones these days and when you deal with a lot of women, you’ll know this. Cheers.

Maxxim:
I think we have to understand the two words and it's difference, STALKING and VETTING with examples

Hacking your babes social media account is Stalking, its bad, unhealthy and it shows how one is insecure, stalking someone's account breeds unrespectful partner and the stalker is also prone to manipulation.
While
Vetting is natural, it creates respect and standards esp for the Alpha male, outlining your principles to your female partner won't only make you a god to your her, it also make your partner understands that if she makes a mistake or go below your standard she's loosed you.
The goal here now is to see yourself as a man of value, you don't care who comes around or who loosed you, and you're not emotionally affected once she's caught cheating.

Oh well I consider tracking your partner’s phone or asking for it personally a vetting process in this modern time. If that is the only way you can really know her, so be it, I don’t see that as stalking. After all that’s who you choose to live the rest of your life with, we live in a computerized world now, ppl cheat online now and meet at discreet places. Wake up, times have changed..these females are so sleek now. Do what you have to do before it gets too late.

If vetting a woman means nothing. Then no one should encourage marriage anymore on this thread. Marriage institution should be considered bluepill, and let us be real with ourselves that you can’t be a married man and be redpilled Alpha at that, because married men often make moves that seem beta.. You’ll make such moves if you choose to marry, like it or not.

You must show concerns for who you choose to take to the altar, because their decisions in life will affect you.. To avoid contradictions, redpill should rather focus more on men going their own way and have nothing to do with women except for fun and fu.cks, if vetting doesn’t work, It’s simply safe not to commit to anyone. Just my humble opinion.

JESHAL:
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Don't spread misinformation, vetting is Paramount for long term relationship, our forefathers had vetting rituals why shouldn't we continue in such fashion, you think you can be wiser than your ancestors

I wonder

ubunja:
you literally have Google right on your device. Go search what vetting in dating means and stop taking shots in the dark.

I already gave you, here is another one, similar to what those guys are saying, innit?.. Do the math, you're clearly wrong. Give me a good ‘comeback’.

ubunja:
@sozinn @joker09 you two don't use the word "vetting" if your don't quite understand what it means.

You’re clearly wrong on this boss.
I understand those guys’ standpoint. Yes, tracking your wife or fiancées’s phone could be considered vetting. It’s their own way of vetting in a modern way in a modern time. Cheers

SOZINN:
Personally, I don't care what my woman does with her life or her dealings behind my back because I know from the start that the relationship is not going anywhere. But when you are talking about a woman you plan to take home to your mama. Asking you not to care is like asking you not to vet. By all means then, go to the market, get one hòe and tie the knot ​because she should be the one mate guarding you and not the other way round.

As far as I'm concerned, adambeatz and Quoteit have given valid and useful pointers for those who are heading for something serious. And no, vetting and invading your wife or girlfriend's privacy will not automatically make her a unicorn. They never said that, that's just some emotional bûllshit coined up by a manipulator to try and ridicule their standpoint. We all know there is nothing you can do to change female nature. That's why it's called nature.


Also, vetting your woman is not supposed to make you appear insecure and overprotective (another emotional bûllshit). We've talked about these things before and how it's meant to be a secret for it to work effectively. The trick is to act as though you don't care when in secret you do. The same thing can be said for men who go behind their wife's back to conduct DNA tests for their children. If you find out those kids are not yours, you can dissolute the marriage when you get back with your proof.

On the other hand, if the results are good and the child is your blood. You can do away with the result secretly. Nothing spoil, nothing has to. It's not as though red pilled men in relationships are not ready for anything. You can't fault them for not wanting to raise other men's kids or continue serious relationships with women who are fûcking other men. I'm just trying to make it simple.

Well said!! this couldn't have been said better. As far as I'm concerned, vetting your wife or fiancee is not a bluepill approach, everything isn't bluepill bluepill blah blah, there is no way you have a plan of doing a long term thing with anyone without vetting them or trying to know them and what they're up to or their sole mission in your life. If ppl can think logically and unbiased, they'll know the angle those guys are coming from by trying to track their partner's phone or trying to know what they do behind their backs. I personally might not use that approach of tracking their phones but I understand vehemently when some men do, I might vet them differently by asking around about them, the family they’re from, the kind of woman she is and where she goes when I’m not there, I’ll definitely do my findings, these are ppl you plan to live the rest of your lives with not hoes you want for short term fun. Doing all this doesn’t mean you don’t maintain frame or they aren’t playing their parts to worship you. In fact a woman can worship you and want you selfishly and still be cheating on you, don’t play yourself. Vet them!

No one wants a wife that could give him HIV, STDs or bastard children, you keep vetting them till they show what they're capable of and if it doesn't work for you, you cut them off, that's the whole point of what those guys are saying, that doesn't make them bluepilled, a successful married man will understand their standpoint. Female nature is ruthless and can’t be changed but does that mean all married women cheat? No!! Vet them to pick from the sanest ones for a long term thing... And don’t stop vetting...
If vetting a woman is bluepill, then we shouldn't even be bothered about them again, we should just use them for fun and boldly encourage ourselves to stay single and never marry. That simply means marriage is a bluepill move(maybe it is). Then let’s simply encourage ourselves not to marry at all, instead of trying to be redpilled Alpha and still getting married, perhaps both can’t work together and enough with the contradictions. You’ll do a lot of things that seem beta when you choose to get married, vet your fiancée or wife pls.

Ppl should start thinking critically about what they write and like on here so they don't ruin themselves on the long run because of trying to be Alpha. Cheers.

Karlifate:
If you're a public figure or a person with huge followers, you need the bluepill mask.

48 Laws of Power comes to mind.

So, Calibrator is right.

Exactly. Even Reno Omokri made it before he came out as redpilled, he once said he doesn't need females' help anymore, no political intentions anymore. He's a fulfilled made man now. Redpilled authors and creators are also exception because their major followers/consumers are males, they could care less, even at that they constantly get backlash, their pages often get disabled because we live in a bluepilled dominated society. If you have an interest in music, art, acting, politics, modeling, entertainment career etc.. it’s sensible you wear a bluepill mask, but you know what you truly are deep inside.

PS I personally know 2 comedians that are hardcore redpillers but y'all can't know.

fattprince:
Omo things dey happen oh,
I enter Keke this evening when this Keke driver started to gist me wetin he babe do ham.
I mean this guy told about how he spend on this girl and how this girl kisses him in public to make it seem like he's the only one for her. He said he still bought 30k cloth for this girl on 31st and how his account went from 115k in November to 31k and how the hoe asked him for transport to go to her sister's place but ended up in the other guy's house. He like technically funded his girlfriend tfare to go get some fvck. The girl still hasn't know this guy knows because the guy hacked his babes WhatsApp. I wanted to tell the guy about redpill but he was bursting with talk so I just allowed him hoping to tell him to google redpill before I drop but I decided against it when he told me he was going to show her evidence then talk to her to cut off things with the guy but if she doesn't then he will break up with her. Men, she's getting a second chance. SMH our guy is still going to get fvcked up at least once more. Thank God I wouldn't be there then

The second time will be her giving him a bastard child to raise.

Calibrator:
Be fluid like water.



Acting like Idi Amin all the time makes you very predictable and predictability breeds familiarity.

Surprise others and yourself in particular by acting bluepill at times, the burns suffered by such acts will keep your redpill lenses sharp and precise when you revert back to frame.


Redpill is a route of endless journey not a destination.

So true. This is why women are the master redpillers, they're fluid like water, you don't see them coming because of how nice they appear to be until they start unleashing their cunning&ruthless nature, emulate that. Play along like a guy who knows nothing about the redpill but serve them a cold dish when they try to manipulate you. Do not even post redpill contents on a space they can see it except your identity is anonymous, don't let them see you coming like a thief in the night.
This mainly applies to dudes that still want to have fun with girls tho or those that find themselves in the midst of women.

davidswhales:
Lol.. why won't he, when the rubbish, stupid, very useless lady who claims to be a medical doctor who's sells bleaching cream wanted to destroy his life.
It was God that saved dr olufunmilayo, everything he worked for would have been shattered to nothing because of that unfortunate girl and he probably would have committed suicide. A brilliant dr at that.
I remember very well, how dr olufunmilayo would always support this feminists until one of their own showed him shege.

With all he did for that useless girl, paid for her flight, the babe stayed in his home, he was feeding the babe and all, hanhan, aswear my blood dey boil as I dey remember(I don't even know why he was looking for a girl over here, is it that girls have finished in uk or what?).

This girl was ready to destroy his life cos she wanted to be in his life, which the Dr never wanted after seeing she wasn't a wife material. Very very useless girl.

I have never heard those in health sciences being an advocate of bleaching agents. Even from the school I graduated from, they are always against it. Immediately I heard she is into bleaching things, I knew she was and still is a useless girl.. I am happy dr olufunmilayo was saved.. he has learnt his lessons. Women or feminists don't care if you have been their friend or always got their back.
They will not betray one of their own even if she was wrong and you are right . As God liveth, I will show them shege, very useless set of demonic girls..may God continue to keep us safe from this set of demonic girls..amen
Happy sunday my people

Well said. He learned the hard way. I believe most men will learn about female nature at some point no matter how bluepilled they are. The redpill don't find men but men find the redpill.

Dliquidmetal:
No need for insult,syou misconstrued his point.
What he's saying is that,he didn't know why he had to bring a girl all the way from Nigeria when there are lots of ladies about in the UK where he resides and not whether or not they are any better.

Exactly o

JESHAL:
ODE
AWALT
Who told you British/ overseas gals are better than their Nigerian counterpart

Why call him 'ode'. On top wetin na?.smh.. Lay your points without insulting ppl. This is so rude.

CAPSLOCKED:
HONORED TO BE NAMED BY YOU DESPITE THAT I'M THE BIGGEST SIMP WALKING THIS PLANET.

BY THE WAY, EVERYDAY ONLINE AND OFFLINE, FOR EXAMPLE ON THE FRONT PAGE OF THIS FORUM, THE RED PILL PROVES ITSELF TIME AFTER TIME. EVERYTHING WAS GOING ON FINE ON THE THREAD ABOUT A GUY WHOSE BABE, IN HER PARENTS HOUSE, ASKED FOR FEEDING MONEY DESPITE ALL THAT THE GUY HAS BEEN SPENDING ON HER, EVEN FULLY SPONSORED HER THROUGH DIPLOMA... UNTIL MY SISTER CAME ALONG WITH THE POST BELOW.

NOW IT'S NOT THIS POST THAT IS FUNNY BECAUSE THE AVERAGE GIRL IN THIS COUNTRY ONLY THINKS OF THREE THINGS; "MAKEUP, FOOD, SEX (ATTENTION FROM MEN + THEIR $$$)".
WHAT'S LAUGHABLE IS THAT BELOW THE SCREENSHOTED POST SHE CALLED THIS POST OF HERS "THE BITTER TRUTH". AND SOME OF YOUR FRIENDS HERE LIKE CAVEADULLAM BELIEVES HE CAN REACH A LOGICAL DISCUSSION WITH WOMEN? HAHAHAHA. 90 LIKES FROM MAINLY WOMEN ON THIS STUPID POST AND COUNTING. COMPLETELY OFF-TOPIC AND UNRELATED TO WHAT NORMAL HUMAN BEINGS WERE DISCUSSING BUT SHE SUCCEEDED IN REDUCING THE GUY'S BABE (AND OTHER WOMEN) TO PROSTITUTES WHO EXIST ONLY FOR SEX, AND DESERVE TO BE PAID LIKE SEX WORKERS. OR HOW ELSE DO YOU INTERPRET THIS POST? THIS IS HOW 90% WOMEN SOUND ON THE INTERNET. THE FOOLS IN THIS INDUSTRY ARE THE NAWALT MEN THAT EXPECT WOMEN TO BE ANYTHING DIFFERENT.

You dey mind the olosho that posted that? And the fellow 90 hoes like her. That's why the fuul keeps trolling this thread, that speaks a lot about who she is. A stupid girl from the gutter that probably suck c0cks for a living, "pay for their overbeat coochie with million miles for sex" is all they know. See how she disgrace her family right there. No one should ever mention that troll again when she gets here.

Tonnyray:
Just seen this video "Woman" by Simi.
I keep getting more and more disgusted by the day by what she's come to represent.

Simi is a misandrist. That song is a diss against men.

Smartb0y:
Bro, kindly don't quote that female moniker trolling here

Noted bro.

Lightway:
I wasn't the one that told your father to simp for your mother and get cheated on and gave birth to a bastard like you.. take heart..

Sacrificial love... Because you train a woman through school so that you can marry her.. that's not love.

That's ignorance. A lack of knowledge on how women think and feel.

It's just like putting your money in investment schemes without doing a background check.

You will lose the money due to ignorance. A lack of knowledge on how investment schemes work

You keep throwing tantrums, cuss and insults to anyone that disagrees with you , you can't even back any of the jargons you've been writing with points, typical feminine behavior, also shows the kind of background you're from. Kindly stop posting rubbish on this thread, you're nothing but a troll. It's time to ignore you henceforth.

Lightway:
Rubbish, how did he love the girl?

There is no such thing as love

If you don't like my posts. Take a rope and you know what to do with it

If you have a father that provides(or provided) food, shelter and other needs for your mom, you and your other siblings like many fathers do, that should open your blind eyes enough to know that men love sacrificially, but if you don't, then I understand where you are coming from.

Lightway:
So there's this player that got this girl from a rich family hooked to him

She bought him stuff like foods, phone and cooked for him. He bleeped her silly and made her abort twice while cheating on her before dumping her..

The player used the girl the same way that girl use you...

If a girl is using you take note that another man is using her

The reason why men lose the most is because men love sex more than women love money..

Simple

That isn't what he's saying. He just told you he loved the girl wholeheartedly and the girl messed up on the long run. Men love, women don't, period. All you've been saying isn't in the redpill. This is a redpill thread, we should share redpill contents alone, let's be guided. I come in peace.

Bamzyriches451:
This ones wey nor even get customers wan lose the small customers wey Dem take Dey hold side.
Issoryt

Lmao .
Abi oo. The idiats won lose small customers dem take dey see front.

Skepticus:
I'll do what women do to guys they find unattractive/broke.

When it comes to the red pill part of putting one's self first, i'm learning from the masters of it - women.

By the way, feminine women will typically give green lights/mating signals than telling you directly which serves a great advantage of plausible deniability and hiding her game tricks, when rejected (you have got to give women some props for this strategy of "managing" rejection). Masculine women (common with super-damaged hoes, single mothers and post-wall types) and women who want a quick benefit from manipulating you (fake green lights) will often ask you out directly. They are strong red flags - be warned.

So apt!. You're very smart and intelligent.

Amillionnn:
I’m suspecting queen quarreled with someone ( an ex-housemate) just before the party started that’s why she is keeping to herself.

Thought as much, you're observant