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ubunja:
I'll explain to you gents why sex is the tip of the spear when it comes to a redpiller's dealings with women.

Money and success will bring you women and enable you to fvck all the women you want. No fool can argue this. Blue pill or Red pill.
Have money and Women will come to you and do anything you want. But guess what? this is the mainstream life - the blue pill world. And it's all a blue piller knows. This is as far as he can see, "Make money, women will come!".

It will then happen that after the women have ministered to the moneyman's needs, desires and Lust, that the women will then set out to seek those men who satisfy their own desires, needs and Lust. We have repeatedly said it here that women have their needs met by different men because it is almost impossible for one man to satisfy all of a woman's needs. It is in line with this reality that women go to one set of men for money and to another set of men for sex.

Because this reality is known by only a few men (bad Boys, thugs, players and red pillers) as red pillers being guided by logic and common sense we reason:"OKAY, so women go to one kind of man for the finances and to another kind of man for sex in such a way that the Man of Finance gets to pay for sex, while the Man of Sex gets that same sex free (which is what we mean by Alpha Fvcks Beta Bucks)," we ask ourselves," Why not position ourselves to be the kind of men women will come to for sex, not necessarily money even though we have money" - which is where the gym and the fitness and the Sexual expertise come in.

Mind you no one is saying be broke. But the message is "Why pay for the same pussy that other men are getting free? Find out how and why those men are getting the sex free then emulate that". Hence we shift our game from Choosing to Chosen. We put away our wallets and we take out our willies. And what do you know! The pussy becomes free.

Now the game of Chosen is attraction focused. It's women responding to you, or dealing with you, in relation to HOW THEIR PUSSY FEELS ABOUT YOU. While the game of Choosing is about women responding to you in relation to how their STOMACH feels about you.

Women go to the Man of Finance when they're hungry. And to the Man of Sex when they are h0rny.

It's impossible to separate sex from the game of Chosen because IT IS BASED ON SEX.
And even if you're looking for more than just sex with a woman SEX IS WHERE YOU HAVE TO BEGIN. because women will always love men who make them wet. Since those men are few and far between.

Check this out bro, Even if you have to go for a job interview - which is something that has Nothing to do with sex, dating and love- the women you'll find there will still judge you on your sex appeal. If you make all the women wet, they'll want you to join the company and if they have the power they'll use it to see that happen. If two guys need help women will always favor the sexy one.
THIS is why my game is heavily invested in sex and attraction. Because it opens all kinds of doors as long as there are women.

Women will forgive you so many things if they find you desirable. And you will not need all the psychological game and know-how if you make pussy wet. The Pussy does that job for you. I have even mentioned it before, Very handsome and sexy men don't need game because the pussy will fall in their lap regardless.

You went hard on this. Interesting read!

MJBOLT:

when ataga was fvcking chidinma,did anybody know about it
this is real life and not Nigerian movie,how the hell will a broke guy even attract a lady like Linda when they do not operate on the same level in life.Where she lives and work is surrounded by rich people,if she travels out, it's still rich people she will meet.

Exactly

SOZINN:
The audacity. Yikes

Redpilled men shouldn't fall into these 'date traps' anymore. Dates should be cheap as possible if at all there is any.

DieRich5:
We just have to air out view nd also learned from others views too.......dats the reason we here, to learn and grow together in dis simp world

This has been my point from the scratch but it seems like some ppl are quick to call others names here like simp, troll, beta and throwing all sort of tantrums. Here is getting too toxic for my likening. I'll stick to reading comments henceforth like I've always done to avoid insults coz one can't air his opinion here without getting bullied. I could see why the creator of this page left. Godspeed.

Sunnymatey:
The right man that will treat you like an angel is the one you're ignoring.

Those classic guys won't spare you cus their is a mission to subdue women.

They're good men and women everywhere but of problem is choice. We turn down many men cus of either acct balance, appearance, background.
Men on their part seems to be running after slay gueen.
Why won't you be hurt?

Above all, good character is what cement any relationship.
No matter how so attach, free you and your partner are, respect must be at the center of your actions

You said it all.

neyo0h:
People are saying we should drop this arguments but I'm seeing meme's, twitter hashtags similar to what we're discussing.

Could it be a coincidence ?

I think we should battle this to the end as buddy's, no hard feelings and we remain one family .. but this topic isn't dead yet.

Nairaland is preventing me from posting.

I want to scatter this thread with evidence.

Share the evidence if you can. Let people see clearly about what's going on.
It's so hard for some people to realize girls around here are no longer what they used to be anymore(compared to like a decade ago). Time will tell.

neyo0h:
The rate of growth. Why do you always miss the point.

If something is growing at an alarming rate it must have a catalyst .

This is exactly what a friend was discussing with me some minutes ago. Rate of prostitution is just too alarming, both coded and direct, so pathetic. Females are turning into something else in this country tbh.

I'm still trying to know the monicker(s) that encourage men to be spending on women on this debate. . Guys with that mentality should kindly go to the Ashawo thread pls. We should stop twisting words to suit our narratives please.

Zabiboy:
I dont want to join this debate because you all are saying the same thing..
Joker09 is saying because of the situation of the country, most naija girls wont reason you if you no get money which is true
Now, ubunja is saying if you dont want to spend, go for those who have chosen you.
So in summary, naija men spend because they want to smash anything and everything instead of focusing on themselves and dealing with only those giving them greenlight or those who have "chosen" them..
Meaning if you meet a naija girl and she bill you, leave am..allow who wan spend to dey spend.. Just keep working on yourself and you'll not need to spend on the money hungry girls if you only deal with those that find you attractive, giving you greenlight or "chose" you
The argument suppose don end ..
Too much pvssy talk is annoying tbh..

Well said bro.

Some of y'all need to grow up. When someone calls you out or you misinterpret their intentions, you need to start learning to ignore them instead of writing epistles, we shouldn't ruin the fun going on here and be whining like little bitches, afterall we all know how we ignore the female trolls, learn to ignore ppl that you don't align with and mind your business. Lord knows I won't talk about things like this anymore.

manuelberry:
like....the gal no get joy o.she would just be like "i like the boy but he doesn't have money"

These kind of females are over the place now, even some church girls are like this. Sad tho.

If anyone is going to contribute to the argument(civil redpiller war as someone called it ), kindly make it reletable to our society, this has been about the ways of our 'Nigerian girls' and the kind of guys they mostly choose for sex. Thanks

GrammarNazi1:
Some of them don't think.

Who is talking about "keeping" a fake woman?

Keep a woman as a broke man na

Lol, I wonder. All of a sudden, it's about relationship or being kept. The discussion has always been about sex.

No one is actually keeping any chic with money neither is anyone encouraging anyone to spend on girls but it's perfectly fine when girls see you have it, money(combined with game or not) gives you more option to pick from just to get laid, the discussion has been about sex. What's love or relationship got to do with it. .

manuelberry:
nope...middle class.she hates entertaining broke guys,don't talk to her if you don't have glk,benz and the likes

I can relate with this. She's just like most other Nigerian girls that perceive themselves to be hot. They choose who they fvck among these kind of guys even if the guys don't spend a dime on them. Survival instinct and the result of being pedestalized for too long, it's why they often get played. It is what it is. Very ruthless things.

Heard most other African countries girls aren't like this tho. Those respond to their biological nature better.

neyyoh:
Ha u dey here.

Civil war don end oh.. we put up some solid arguments..

Great team work there.

Yes oh
It has to be said. Ppl just need to have a better understanding about the kind of society we are here and the kind of females around.

neyyoh:
Correct and they've infected others , gaining ground at an alarming rate


Lagos is a den of prostitutes, gays and druggies.

We're being led by the lowest of the lows. Shame on Yorubas for allowing it.

Exactly. This is why we say a lot of girls now follow similar pattern, they only go where there is money and mostly exchange it for sex but some guys were busy arguing with the obvious realities in their faces. The moment most girls realize they have boobs, ass and look, they mostly bank on it for the highest bidders.

neyyoh:
Correct, money is a tool for civilisation and we're all trapped in it, westerner's at the top , Africans at the bottom .


With this new knowledge, what does a smart man do?

You break out of the system by being financially free .. freedom is the goal, this is completely out of the scope of the redpill though and has nothing to do with women in that sense and more about the capitalist system and your survival.



Alternatively you can move into the Amazon jungle or adaman island's where you have zero taxes, jobs( still have to hustle for food though ), cars, air conditioning, internet and so on and so forth.

Reads like something someone just getting woke will write .. leftist in the making .

Get your money, you'll need it for yourself and you don't have to spend it on women , nothing blue pilled here, just the way the white man set up the world to function and you must play to survive.

Well said

There is nothing bluepilled about making money . At some point, some ppl will label all rich people as simps. Smh

Ninejaywon:
Some folks here are getting it twisted. As a man don't forget to work on your grind, make MONEY to be very COMFORTABLE and HAPPY, To enjoy yourself and not to get laid because you can get it for free without burning CASH. It is always very sweet to turn the table around for these females.
So as you work on your grind to make money, don't forget to boost your sexual attractiveness. The v taper physique, how to make them squirt. How to make them wet on sight.
I know rich Igbo dudes that their women were coming to me on a steady.

Well said. Exactly, it should all be balanced. It's what we've been saying. That doesn't make anyone bluepilled or warrant to be called names.
And guys, let's learn to understand each other, no one needs to subtly shade the other. I strongly believe in 'games' and 'the redpill(which encourage self improvement which includes making money). If you don't believe in games, kindly respect the opinions of those who do. One love.

Skepticus:
Even in poor neighbourhoods, hungry-looking girls still dey dish that pussay for those yeye boys wey be like who no get future but know the "game" and still package dey bill guys wey no sabi anything outside money. Guys wey get future sef, are not left out.

I saw it all living and working in Yenagoa, Warri, Owerri and Lagos. Abuja not left out. Broke futureless boys are terrible in that Yenagoa - slaying pussays endlessly. The same girls go package go Port Harcourt and you'll see men with money and their life, organized, worshipping dem like say dem no dey shiit.

It only takes a few minutes for a girl to know if you are game-conscious. If she is money-hungry, she go avoid you (knowing that she can't manipulate a game-conscious man) but still has her eye on you. If u nor "sabi", na taxing straight.

It's shocking to see that a lot of guys don't know this thing. I just weak.

Good to know things like this are still happening in this country. Transactionless relationships with so called 'young hot females', good one. Simps pedestalizing women and showering money on them caused all these 'entitlements' among Nigerian ladies in the first place, that shows how simps keep ruining things and declining females moral values. The society we find ourselves could actually create an enormous confusion and make you start to have doubts in all the females around you and their motives. I'm glad you guys are sharing these experiences tbh.

PS: (Never done any kind of transactional relationship, but do I always get the type of girls I actually find attractive in this country? NO, not always, they always seem to be too full of themselves, materialistic, entitled, or money conscious. Always stay true to the redpill)

Ninejaywon:
You are spot on. When I was in festac, my dick almost pulled out and I billed those women no be small. See smooth chicks giving you pussies for free. But these girls had the money. They were only after the dick game and the muscles. Neighborhood matters too. Poor neighborhood have hungry looking girls just out for the cash. But in rich neighborhood, if you as a guy have ur shit together with swag, muscles, with no cash, u will hit the spot to stupor.

Nice one. Thanks for sharing this. Maybe it's the Nigerian girls around some of us here that is making us loose hope on them and making us feel like all they want from us is money, you'll be so disgusted with what many of them do. Guys should feel free to share more experiences like this pls. Cheers.

ubunja:
he really came through with the concepts. Nice one.

One love bro.

Skepticus:
Yes. It is women choosing who to fûck (sexually attractive) and while some of their reasons have an evolutionary (biological and psychological) background, they make almost no sense when a man tries to look at it, "logically". This "logic" causes so much confusion for undiscerning men that they look at women as crazy. In their lack of understanding, they throw money out and get played.

At this stage of my life, I've seen it all with women and I'm not big on the sex thing again as I was when I was in my 20s and early 30s. After seeing everything, you'll find out that "pussay" is almost a needless distraction in the longer game of a purposeful life.

Despite all of that I said above I would never deny it that Ubunja and other brothers are revealing significant facts about the shiit show that the modern dating scene is now. Some of these facts have logical explanations. Some others make no sense (to a man's logical reasoning). It is what it is.

You don't have to like game nor use it. Understand it for what it is. If brothers think it is money, I'll advise them to just get a prostitute. Their transaction is more "honest" when compared to the Nigerian girls in formal relationship that typically like money.

Hmmn deep. Thanks for the input man. I've never had anything against game and I've been saying that. You make a lot of sense. Respect.

Sapy442:
Now the reality you see around you.. Do you believe that's the reality that the same geocentric society wants you to see.??
Who are the enemies of the Red Pill??
Why do they oppose the red pill??
The red pill is your ability to look beyond the reality around you and see the world for what it is if you are bent on seeing the world from the surface of what's happening around you, then am sorry you cannot be red pill.

The red pill content creators of youtube have all been demonitized. Even the word MGTOW can get you in trouble within some spaces on the internet why is That??






So brother man observe this kin of guys in your area @bolded. Just observe them you'll start seeing things

Thanks for the response brother, I'll take a closer look. I hope we can always all speak about things we see around us and not be judged, insulted, bullied for it or called simps.

I could see how some of you are changing the discussions to suit your narratives. Some even go as far as trying to paint some of us 'bluepill', some said we don't believe in 'game'. Eventhough most redpill pages you even see on the net don't believe in games or PUA, they're just strictly 'redpill', yet some of us still choose to believe in this 'game' and encourage it. And we shouldn't forget this thread is a 'redpill' thread, not 'game'. The creator of this page said it is 'strictly redpill'. A 'game' page could be created as not to derail this thread if some of you want guys to learn game so bad. And I've come to notice that a lot of the so called redpillers are so emotional and uncouth. Someone even had to say we are trolling and we should be ignored because we're speaking out about our realities and things we see around us, I can't see where any of us with different opinion was abusive toward anyone, I didn't know one can have a different opinion on this page and be quickly labelled a simp or bluepiller, a lot of you actually need to grow up, honestly.

I'm using this medium to ask this again without any uterior motive but to just learn:

If you're a broke guy or once broke in Nigeria with games, good look(or bad boy look) and probably 6 packs(or not) and you're getting laid by different hot young girls in their primes(not ugly, not girls that aren't that fine or old girls pls), please feel free to share.

Skepticus:
Aswear! You just have to deal with women in the opposite way of whatever way you have been raised to deal with them.

I would never advise anyone to be like the boys I described. However, there is one major thing to pick from them which is red-pilled to its core: Never place your purpose above women no matter how "purposeless" this purpose is. The moment you do otherwise, you are done for, as a man, regardless of your experience or your relationship with the female gender.

These guys (purposeless dudes) revel in their "non-self improvement/depreciating lives" so much that a woman is not placed above it, making them have "success" with these ladies and passing their genes on.

Did you mean to write 'Never place women above your purpose no matter how "purposeless" this purpose is'?.

Abba114:
bro u cant game nigerian girls without money they wont even listen to ur games the moment they understand u are broke. i believe the game works but not as easy as money i would rather give money hit the coochie than waste time trying to game her into opening her legs.

I agree with you until you said you rather give money and hit, as a redpiller you don't give money to any lady to hit, you let them see you have money instead. Game is good and everyone should learn it but know at the back of your mind that most young and hot Nigerian girls are too money conscious, this is what I've been saying and I can't see how this make me bluepilled. It's just what we see in the society today.

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] Well, Pussy ass simp chicken ,F**k you too...[/color]

Alright. Bitter redpiller, Is this what you also learned from 'game'. Thank you . You'll be ignored henceforth.

GrammarNazi1:
You don't insult me.

Do you insult people when they argue logically with you?

What kind of upbringing have you got?

That's what he does bro. It's why I stopped engaging him.

MJBOLT:

they should give us Nigerian examples abeg

That's what I'm waiting for

Lmao . This argument has been about Nigerian girls, but someone brought Rihanna and Asap into the topic. Even at that, ppl shunned the fact that Rihanna had fvcked rich guys like Chris Brown, Drake, Arabian guy before giving Asap a shot while she's hitting the wall, y'all are ignoring the rich guys she fvcked in her prime. It seems like a glory and luck when broke guys are getting the pvssy innit?. It shouldn't have to be so. And ASAP is not even the regular broke guy in the street, that's to show how very hypergamous women are.

A lot of hot Nigerian girls are more ruthless than Rihanna. They don't do broke guys at all.