Most women have been brain washed, thinking that its the man's responsibility to take care of the home, Things and events have changed. .marriage now is partnership....if a woman is not ready to partner with u, my Guy leave her.
Back to the matter, the current econic situation in the country and the world at last have made it know to us all, that marriage is partnership, your wife is being selfish, to you and the kids, 60k per month is some couples take home pay and they still survive, so what will u do when ur kids are no in higher institution?....if she cant support u, my Guy leave her, to me i will act as of i dont have a wife, i will single handedly go to market and buy all Things needed at home and give her money to Cook food....Since she is not listening to ur Pastor, i guess a family meeting should be held, from there as a man take ur decision...u can act as a man with put a wife

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Only u hold the key to ur happiness and freedom, it's painful dear, but it's part of life, if there is no pain how will u see the gain, so work on urself in any area u think u can, be focus on things that will distract thought of him from u, try heal and be open up still for love, block him in any way possible to regain urself, see it as a bad investment, u can go to the gym to trim up, focus on ur future and goals remember u have family, people that still believe and love u....

When u have some one who believes in u, my guy there is nothing u can't achieve only if u believe in ur self, as of now try find any job, no matter how small it is, do it forget about the insult and stress, get a job, and try map out a plan to get an apartment if it's face me I face u, it's for a start, as far u have that hustling spirit u will make it, let her know ur intentions and plans carry her along, but for now don't try and impress her only assure her of ur love and hustle.....if she really love u and wants a future with u she will support u more as she have given u the assurance so my guy man up find a y job for now u can do and do the goal is the pay no matter how small....even is sales person job, labour job, Keke rider, teaching job any thing u can find and do....

I was once in ur shoes some years back, but I didn't rape her, my guy take this from me don't ever beg her and her family again, yes u did wrong by raping her and the beating, which you have begged and now u just have to man up, brace up urself the worst is divorce the earlier u put that in ur mind the better for you, what u need to do, go meet your family (parent) and pastor explain everything to them, cause it will be better your own family is involved and if your wife and her parent still insist on her staying with them ur family will be on the know cause u need people around u, I know loneliness is there the urge for sex etc, but as a man, man up face ur fears and move on till theyake up their mind, focus more on ur job and anything that will make u happy, stop sending them money they left ur house u didn't send her packing, they are not on ur roof and care so don't send any money let her parent do the husband work since they can't talk to their daughter, before any woman will denie her husband sex my guy her mind is off the marriage, no matter what u might have done to her if she really love u, she would have open up to u on what u did wrong, take this any thing u do now in despiration to bring her back without her mind being in the marriage my guy u will regret it, give her space don't call and beg if she really wants the marriage only she will get in touch with u, my guy if u stay small she nor dey come find babe to run things with, u are a man u need a woman by urside, but brace up for the worst and change ur ways cause don't let it repeat itself with her or any other woman u choose to marry, like my situation I have moved on, no child unlike u, am even happy now, achieving things I didn't achieve when I was married, as a guy never marry a woman cause of love, or shape, marry a woman who can be ur friend, who supports u in all aspect, marry a woman who hustle to bring things to the table for the home, u can't beat a woman who u know also provide in the home as u do, if she didn't give u sex, u lock up, u can do short time in any hotel, u run ur thing, a woman is more afraid when her man doesn't ask for sex more, at times starve her let her know how it feels too....concentrate on ur job the more....u can open up to ur boss if he is the friendly type so he understand ur situation more but if he is not friendly lock up....

Your friend is lucky to have gotten a child from the marriage, my advice to him from one who has passed this situation and have over come it, unforgiveness, bitterness, hatred, no interest in sex, anger all these display by a woman who has long lost love, respect, feelings for you, what is marriage without forgiveness, my guy there is nothing u will say and do more than what u have already done, her mind is made up, you too just have to be strong and courageous to fqce reality, that marriage is over my guy, in my case she told me if she ever comes back she is going to kill me and kill her self if any thing makes her leaves my house again after packing and going to her parents for 2 times this time making it the 3rd, my guy....start you life afresh, don't ever beg her again, delete her pics and no from your phone try make a way to be sending cash for ur kid upkeep, your happiness and peace of mind is a must, she has made up her mind and there is nothing you can do rather than to look for another woman and tell her the truth of ur past, then try make amends of ur ways things u know u did wrong previously in ur marriage try work on them so as not to repeat it again in ur new relationship....guy this phase will pass out, it's just a bad nightmare you are currently having....marriage these days are not what it is now....hustle hard my guy and stay strong with ur God....at the end things will fall into place as far you are the one who is fighting for ur home but she wants out, please give it to her, let her file for the divorce and grant her please.....tell her parents to do the necessary things to refund the bride prize since their daughter is no longer interested in the marriage. Don't kill yourself my guy.......hang out with people who will give u joy, if u feel like having sex my guy find a babe and run things.....you already have a child....

In a country being governed by a leader who pledge to defend his nation is acts is being committed and he stays silent...and the whole nation keeps mute, it's just so funny, even in the animal kingdom these things won't happen, u celebrate terrorists and they have audacity to attack the national internally like no fear and the military and armed forces are silent.....this is no Nation.......

If our leaders really have nothing to gain from these massacre etc, they would have long find a lasting solution to all these killings, kidnapping, etc...but as normal stake's and personal interest are high hance the silence.....

In the light of meter issues, my dad's area transformer has been marked for prepaid meter giving, since last year up till now no meter giving yet they bring bill to him his own flat 3 bedroom was given an estimated bill of 38,537 naira for September bill which he paid 15k, which I complained of and was told it's a general issue they will bring down the prize now October bill came out last week and he was given 61,702 as bill to pay, when I showed one of the BEDC guy the bill he shouted if it's a factory, he said he is confused with the bill that they will work on it and what's in my dad's house are fans, deep frizers, pumping machine for water, tv and I wonder how come they still pay 15k per month and am not talking of the two bedroom 2 flats and a bedsetter apartment bill which is an issue on its own....I can post the bills for confirmation so that the appropriate personnel can look into this matter, the area is in alegbo off pti road no 4 close to Bethesda gospel church, effurun, Delta state...my no 08066319486.

Some things I wonder why did they build up these refinary in the first place....until those refinary are properly working either privatized or overhauled fuel issues will never be solved.....this government doesn't know what they are in for...they just want to create more problems for the incoming administration....

We don't know what we have really gotten into until this administration pass out, then our eyes will see, hears will hear what really Buhari and his co-host have plugged Nigeria's into.....

The way to a man's heart is a supportive spouse who is intelligent, hard working, a good cook, a sex mate, a play mate, a praying woman, goal oriented and goal getter....who plans and win with her man....but still most men don't know what they still want...so it's either food nor sex but a man who really knows what he wants, who shares it with his partner.

We still have a year and some months before buhari's hand over to God knows who, and before then more borrowing to fund ghost projects....it will amaze Nigeria's when buhari leaves office the real shit, this country has gotten itself to....more borrowing ahead....enjoy the ride.

This is so sad, people don't show much respect to a civil engineer...they think they can get it cheap else where.....when u don't follow advice and Intend to short cut, things like this happens....so sad, more investigation needs to be carried out apart from substandard materials used....where the workers pressured to meet up target cause when one is stressed up, the energy to act safe and focus reduces....couple with financial issues cause most construction firms pays well, how will u expect a worker to give his or her best in this situation when salary is being hold for months....yet u are working....more investigation should be carry out....

Alots of factors determines building collapse, most exspecially the soil structure, foundation, supervision, quality of materials, skilled personnel, pressure, funding, timing, salary payment.....as said, it was meant for 15 floor but later increased might be due to greed, on the part of the owner, the soil bearing capacity, what type of foundation was done, what's the depth, was the project properly supervised by a registered or trusted engineer, was workers paid well, where they pressured to beat up dead line of completion, was qaulity materials used....

Do they know what they are inventing ?...no public awareness and campaign of what enaira is and meant....how to get it, secure it, etc.......I hope they know what they are doing.......

Ask her what she has passion for, which she can enhance into business, can be hairaking, and selling of female hair etc, female wears, shoes, bags, cake making, agriculture products or rearing of birds, or selling of poultry feed, beans and rice, drinks, pure water....business center where they photocopy materials....

Thank God for your life....how wish not for God's grace and favour ur story would have changed, so many innocent souls have been lost just like this....only a matter of time the masses will stand up together and fight for a real change for this country, Nepa doing theirs one way the other way police doing theirs....

Nice advice and points u gave her, things are not as easy as it was then, one thing is having a family the other are the responsibilities....this era a man's job or occupation along can't foot most of the house bills with the current trend of inflation, that's why it's very important at this time love is not enough to keep a home...financial goals and plans is a key factor, when both parties are hustling contributing meaningful to the growth of the home it promotes love infact it makes the home sweeter than just one party, she have to open up to her man her fears and expectations and find out how to help her husband financially, and she improves on herself more....the goal is to reduces cost and increase financial investments for the sake of the future and her children's own....family problem nor dey finish but any thing u can't achieve now for ur family at the expense of ur family, u will leave to regret it....

Thank God u graduated and have completed ur nysc....many people didn't and u still came out with 3rd class and not pass..... dear....be grateful to God...the current life situation is not about degree but God's grace....this is another phase of life that doesn't answer to degree but Grace and what can u do....life is about solving problems to be rich....look out for what u can solve in ur area as a problem....get a skill like in ICT or u learn something useful to the society...there is more to life and success than just certificate...most great me today didn't go to school but are successful after which they went to school and many firm doesn't give credit to degree but what u can do, contribute to society.... innovation etc...learn skill, business, etc to solve problems and that will give u money forget about degree, u can still be applying but concentrate on what problem u can solve in ur area to make money.

The only way we can get things right is when we as people in a nation come together and elect the right leaders, fight for our right, cause when the leaders see that the people are United them, they will make things right, let's forget political party, religion etc and come together as one, all die na Die....but Die a meaningful Death....Nigeria can only Change when we the masses sit up and be United...it's not funny things are getting harder, employment is based on connection, inflation on the raise every day and we are silent.....

The best thing this guy should have just done is just to be silent.....and move on with his life....a real man doesn't drag issues...only time will vindicate time....which those around him should have adviced.

When a few individuals are affected by what the masses have been enduring it's then they will start finding way out to please themselves after which they forget about the matter and other situations which the masses have been enduring after several conplians...well endure and enjoy it...

In every situation give thanks to God, for letting him knows who he has dating, it has been all for the money not for love....it's painful he just have to man up, look for a way to get a job or a biz, hustle harder and use the situation as a motivator to work hard....but next time never put money to please a woman...a woman who loves u will stay without money as far u are an hustler and have a goal and dream and working towards it....

To be honest as a man, u bleeped up, she did what she did cause of the pressure from work and to save her job, is she attractive physically, do u see your self spending the rest of ur life with her as a wife ? Well if ur answer to these, book a date with her, ask of forgiveness from her despite the situation, of taking her virginity if ur story is real, get to know more of her, and find a way of helping her out, via assisting her to establish herself from what she intend doing.....if with these and it goes well, u can start up establishing seriousness....medically, spiritually etc....people get married and connected in special and mysterious ways.....if u can't get over her find a way to see her...forget about what ur friend's will say....u are a man old enough and matured to stand on to ur decisions...