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We4all:
In case you have gay neighbors, you can introduce them to me. Mail me at Sp1ritHusband@gmail.com or NnamdiPapa@gmail.com or Cockpit@gmail.com.

I CAST AND BIND YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS.

what is so shocking about that? Children wey you suppose test immediately after child birth. mtcheeew

we4a1l:
Correction taken. My email is still open. We4all@gmail.com.

Thanks.

NO, THANK YOU

we4a1l:
I would not mind a sugar daddy but we must have a mind connection first. Broke me should avoid my mention and email.

Just say that instead of I HAVE A HUGE SEXUAL APPETITE AND I AM LOOKING FOR A MAN TO SATISFY ME.

Magnoliaa:
So what was my moniker's business on this thread, Mr. Akuna?


Why can you not leave my moniker out of your shenanigans on Nairaland? Why did you mention me to a comment insulting other women? Yes, you're the one who said you buy women in prostitution, and you've gone on to make comments sexually objectifying them. Your own words. That makes you a categorically bad person and that was exactly what I called you. You turning around to make the same comments about me now is all your imagination careening out of control.

If you aren't obsessive, why exactly did you deem it fit to quip my moniker to that comment?

I pity you o.
I thought your moniker or whatever is mongoliaa and not mongolia?
I can see that you are truly a woman possessed with demons.
I won't stoop to your level
The only thing FEMINISTS are good for is hating men but me, I WILL ALWAYS LOVE WOMEN.
Say all the terrible things that you want, I WILL NOT SHAKE ONE BIT.

You are mongoliaa, not mongolia.

Magnoliaa:
DON'T YOU HAVE WORK TO DO, MR. AKUNA?


Leave me alone and go find a purpose for your vapid life!

See witch o. Ahhhh.
I wonder the amount of digging you would have done to get my LAST NAME...
YOU ARE TRULY A DESPERATE AND JOBLESS FEMINIST.
GO WORK FOR THE CIA INSTEAD OF SURVEILLING MEN.

Meerahbel:
hmmm but if your likes don't patronize them there would be no market for it.

If they were not available, no one would patronize them.

we4a1l:
Like the topic goes, I am a mother of two kids in my early thirties. My husband left us 2 years ago and I must confess, life has really been hard as a single mom of two kids and it's not been easy. I sleep alone every night, hugging tightly to my pillows and body no be firewood, as a woman, I have needs to satisfy.

I am looking for a man who can satisfy my needs. We get to chit chat and know each other before moving forward with anything.
You must reside in Lagos and be well to do, Asaba or Abuja. I am a down to earth woman so do not waste my time. I will ignore any unserious mention.

You can reach me on my email.

We4all@gmail.com..

I hope I find a good man here.

Just tell us that you are looking for a sugar daddy

Magnoliaa:
Yep.

From his profile, it's apparent that he was more of the "fast life, freaky" kind. And now he's finding it hard to adjust to the very 'chill, slow' life. Or a partner who's not on that 'high' wavelength.

So you don turn CIA. You are now investigating every TOM, DICK and HARRY.
Don't you have work to do?

Magnoliaa:
You are the self-confessed victim of an abusive father, you're a man so low on the scale of human attractiveness that you resorted to buying women's consent and agency to feel better about the lack and void in your life. Fantasising about my dating life should be the least of your worries.

You are officially insane. Who the f told you that I had an abusive father?
Secondly, I don't wanna be attractive, biko. Na them they attract the worst banshees like you.
Why would I want to put myself in a situation where women see me as I sex object when I can use them as sex objects.
Not to mention that a woman would sleep with a dog for the right price.
Lastly, who dey fantasize dating life. TO WHO? SELF PROCLAIMED FEMINISTS LIKE YOURSELF...
I WON'T BE SURPRISED THAT ONE ANCESTOR IS TEARING YOU APART FROM LIMB TO LIMB IN EXCHANGE FOR MONEY.

awon FEMINIST. mtcheeeewwwww.

Anyways, she get sister? Because I am very much available

Tallesty1:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This is why I laugh at women who, instead of working on their stubbornness, say they will find a man that can "handle" them.

Who told you that a man wants to handle you? The last lady I asked out did something similar.

We vibed well, I took her out once, then invited her over, and it was at my place that I told her what I wanted. She straight up said "na."

I said okay, we're good, and that was it.

We gisted a bit more, I saw her off, and when she got home, she texted me, "Are you angry?" I said, "na," but that was it for me.

It wasn’t even the rejection that was the issue, but how it was said. If you want to play hard to get, at least drop hints that you're interested, otherwise, I'll assume you're playing "never gonna happen."

Later she told me I had everything on a platter of gold but wasn’t man enough to take it.

Ladies don’t realize how stressed the average Nigerian guy is already, and then you add unnecessary hard to get on top of it.

I will pass abeg.

That's what they always say after displaying their nonsense. Don't fall for it.

doggedfighter:
Jorion, stop dreaming 😁😄

Anyway, a man can dream. Its not a crime..
Na village love na I dey find self, I no go dey use too much energy.

[quote author=doggedfighter post=131659859]As welder wey you be😁😁

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The girl sounds like a very clean slate.
There's a lot she would be amazed by and find fun.
This is the kind of person that I even want and not the ones that knows the taste of all the alcoholic beverages.
If she start to spoil too, me go know and easily mend things.

LIFE MADE EASY. AND SHE GO EVEN SABI COOK

See wetin guys dey look for na another person dey disregard.

Abeg, na which village be that. I go shape her to wetin I want.

azidomedogo:
Same red flag I saw in my relationship before getting married. Now it’s hunting me. Mine just doesn’t apologize for anything .

My advice is that you quit the relationship else if you proceed with the marriage she will keep denying you of your rights as a husband.

Yoooohhhh. Even after marrying her

Karleb:
E no get wetin we wan tell you wey you go hear.

But brother! I and the boys thank you for taking another toxic woman off the street.

Your sacrifice will not go in vain!

He is doing the brotherhood a great service.

Zonefree:
All these are for men not serious with their lives.


Imagine dating girls like Ereluroz, Jennyclay, Proserpina etc and expects total loyalty from them

don't forget mongolia awon FEMINIST

MrBrownJay1:
of course she doesnt care about the dude... and this wont change whether you give her the best sex on earth (or not)

Very true. If he couldn't tame her before, he definitely won't be able to now.

nairaman66:
Haha! You don’t know women. I can authoritatively tell you she has someone whom she apologizes to!

FACTS, Bro. Around that person, she is less disciplined and more playful.
Probably dey hang her legs for ceiling fan to please the guy.

The lady I had this experience with became a BABY MAMA, 7 months after I left Nigeria.
WHAT NIGERIAN WOMEN CAN'T DO, DOES NOT EXIST.

MrBrownJay1:
yes bro, this woman may be worshipping another dude, but this has often nothing to do with how good you mount her... some men/women out there are NARCISSISTS and there is nothing you can do to change them. you can come with professors/diploma/FBI evidence that they are wrong, and they will still dismiss your clim and never apologize or admit that they are wrong,

Bro, they only do that when they don't care about or have little emotional attachment to the dude. I have been there, we know them wella.

nairaman66:
If she does this again, go 3 weeks without talking to her. If she doesn’t reach out. She is not wife!

I am currently having issues with my girl, she reaches out and can call me for more than 30mins on the phone even though I am the one who seriously hurt her.

You must take a stand or you have to deal with this problem the rest of your life and it will get worse!

Op, don't bother yourself with this because I can already tell you what is going to happen.
Spoiler: BOTH OF YOU WON'T SPEAK TO EACH OTHER FOR A VERY LONG TIME IF YOU USE THE SILENT TREATMENT
E NO GO WORK AND YOU WILL STILL APOLOGISE TO HER AGAIN
JUST TRY TO TOLERATE HER UNTIL GOD TOUCHES HER HEART.
AT 29 SHE DON SUPPOSE DEY PRETEND TO MELLOW DOWN O.
GOD WILL TOUCH HER HEART, DON'T WORRY

MrBrownJay1:
IMHO, sex is irrelevant here... a woman who has no respect for you and/or has no respect for how you feel, then you can give her the best sex in her life and she will still treat you like garbage. its her CHARACTER that is foul here, thats the type of woman that she is. a lot of yeye women are like that...aka women who think they are the center of the universe (thinking that life is only about them), believing its their way or the highway, even if/when they are wrong.

if a man tells a woman that she is wrong, and instead of using her brain to investigate the issue, she will automatically dismisses what you are telling her (and because she thinks she is so big in her head she wont even apologize), then you have a time bomb on your hand.

Dey play. I promise you, woman wey no get respect no dey around the right person wey dey handle her.
Don't be surprised that this particular girl is kissing the legs of another dude somewhere else
WE KNOW THEM
I HAVE BEEN THERE, I HAVE WITNESSED COUNTLESS GUYS IN THESE RELATIONSHIPS ALSO.
THE DUDE WILL MAKE A VERY FINE HUSBAND, WALAHI.
THESE ARE THE ONES THEY EVENTUALLY WANT TO SETTLE DOWN WITH

Even girls with no sense of accountability know how to playfully and indirectly apologise.

Do it at the risk of depreciating your mental and emotional health.

MrBrownJay1:
sadly, this woman is showing you her failed and negative character/traits/mindset, and it will only get worse as she get more comfortable in that r/ship. a person who never see her flaws and think she is always right. you have to value a woman for EVERYTHING she is, and sadly, that side of her is a a RED FLAG!

sometimes, no matter how hard it is, you have to let go of people who are NOT compatible with wh you are and what you desire in life.

If better guy man handle this babe, especially in bed, I promise you, she go mellow down.
All these behaviour is for those she doesn't take seriously.
Even ashawo for street, with all their bad behaviors dey mellow down.
The guy no just know how to handle her...

WITH THE CONDITION ON GROUND, YOU WANT TINUBU TO FAIL
BE LIKE SAY HUNGER NEVER BEAT YOU WELL WELL

OP, You seem like a good guy. Continue being that irrespective of what happens with this lady o.
GOD WILL GIVE YOU A VERY GOOD WIFE

skliz:
I dont think she loves you brother. See if a woman loves you and you don't call her for 1 week. She would call you and asked if it was becos of the argument and she would bury her pride and appologies.

I have an assignment for you.

I think you need to run a loyalty test on her. Bug her phones also. Bug her sms and watch this girl closely.

There is a very big possibility that she is seeing another man.

One of the signs of a lady seeing another man is out right disregards for the man she is dating.

She does not regard you. This is beyond her been stubborn.

No make me laugh. Me and you know say this guy go die of HBP when he finally see wetin you want am to find.
FORGET THAT THING. THE GUY NA GOOD GUY, NO SPOIL HIM MIND

davinchi101:
I seriously need your advice on this issue. I'm a guy of 31yrs, and my girlfriend is 29.

She's a very religious and strict lady, and she has the features of a good wife.

The issue I'm currently having with her is that whenever she does or says something against me that I don't like, she will never accept her errors and apologize. She will always stand her ground that she didn't offend me, and can't say sorry.

Often times, I get angry and refuse to talk to her for days, and she won't also make attempt to call or resolve the matter until I later reach out to her for peace. it's really weakening me as a man to always be the one apologizing even when I'm the one being offended.

Last week, while we were on call, she ended the call abruptly on me which really got me pissed off. She claimed it was because I was singing while on the call, and was not listening to what she was saying. This is not really true because we've talked for almost an hour, and at a point their was silence and I was just singing hymns.

When I reached out to her about how offended I was about her action, all I expected was a sorry, rather, she was claiming her right on how she has not offended me.

From that last week up till today, iv not called her, and she hasn't reached out to me for peace. This is a woman we're already making plans on having our wedding by next year.

My main issue with her is the ego, and never ready to apologize unless she feels she's wrong.

I'm seriously tired of all these and I think sorry should be the easiest thing to say for both a man and a woman. I really need your advice.

Na laugh I just dey laugh because I have been there.
ARE YOU SURE THAT YOU ARE THE ONLY OPTION FOR HER??

Because when a woman starts behaving this way, it means that she doesn't care much about the relationship or you are not a priority.
MAKE SURE THAT SHE'S NOT JUST STRINGING YOU ALONG O.

Women are known to apologise first when they are emotionally involved in a relationship.

Kipaji:
Yes. Even my mother told me this is very much happening. I was shocked when she laid down the whole thing to me.
There are so many problems you just don't have with virgins. The problem is that men want to marry thots. This is a reason why it is important that us men don't let lust control us.

No man wants to marry a girl who's for the streets.
The thing is that girls are very wise in dating men, most especially the THOTS.
They may have this humble, reserved, timid, naive, and well-to-do guy out there which they usually wrap around their fingers while they secretly jump from one PHALLIC to the next.

THESE NAIVE GUYS ARE USUALLY THEIR HOME RETIRED PLAN.
MOST OF THESE GUYS DO NOT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE HER BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT GAME.
THAT IS WHY NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOU ARE, TRY TO ASSOCIATE WITH GUYS ON THE STREETS, THERE'S ALOT TO LEARN.

SenatePresdo:
This is a result of don't chase a girl, just make money and she will follow you, they are all hungry bla bla bla.

If you make money and don't build genuein love with a girl, but decides to snatch her away from her broke man she loves, the chances of this happening to you is 8/10.

No matter how much you think you have made, alway go for someone you share genuine feelings with.
No wonder rich guys like E-money, Obi cubana, 2face and so on married the ladies they were with when they were broke.
They know these Ladies loves them for who they are and not the Money.

Stop snatching broke people's lover to marry simply because you have made small change.

Look for someone that loves you, or at least from a very rich home.
A hungry girl that dumped her broke girlfriend is likely to get banged by that guy.

Learn the rizz, you will be shouting "just make money" up and down

NA GIRL FROM A RICH HOME NA SWEET MW PASS.

MEN DEY SUFFER SHA ESPECIALLY THE ONES WEY DEY TAKE WOMEN SERIOUSLY.
ESPECIALLY THOSE GOOD AND ROMANTIC ONES WEY WOMEN DEY ALWAYS TELL SAY THEM GO MAKE GOOD HUSBANDS.