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why would anyone on planet earth wish what happened to shapey on themselves? telling truth is so alien to some people and so think everyone else is like that.

who cares who believes. so many people doubt God and His Son Jesus that doesn't change the facts.

you guys have nothing to prove. every adult here have minds of their own so can choose what to believe or not to believe. it amazes me though that people who easily believe lies doubt truth when they come across one.

Seun has nothing to do with the bad manners of the members of this forum. If you are going to recommend him for some thing that he has earned, do so. But to use the behaviours of members who are only guests on his forum to judge him, is unfair. He is an individual and not representative of the ill-brought up members of his forum.

that was a joke on the lovely seun. he gets enough criticism as it is.

my life on quarreling and anger was changed forever when my grand mum may God bless her soul refused my uncle to marry a girl because she came from a trouble making family. i was young and thought how unfair she was. i always had great favour with her as her first grand child and so began to persuade her to change her mind. she spent the next few years teaching me never to travel this life's journey with any one from a home and background that trouble excites. they never reach their expected destination in life was a word that stuck with me.

she was not a believer in any religion and you don't have to be to know that life is more than just fighting everyone that don't see your point of view.

one of my sister's is just your carbon copy. she is the most caring and loving person the planet earth has if you get close and understand her. she has a wicked sense of humour that people who don't know her misunderstand her easily.

keep being yourself and give life to those around you they are the important mission feed for you. as i say we are not sent to everyone we come across.

God bless

the Lord God of heaven will never let 10 generations after you see a day like that in Christ name.

every generation rewrites history. most of what you call wealth and civilization today in the west are the result of your "dark middle ages".

Christ church will spread all over this world and no gates can stop it

dont bother deleting your names.
it is good to know that you as a young woman can easily forgive and choose to stay in the relationship despite all and not jump out as many think is the way out of their problems.

you and your sister shows what a loving family is and what happens when you are always there for people you call your own. families are for life home and away. thank you amsky for being a good shoulder.

please leave this here for others to read and learn. hope you have a great and a blessed marraige too. we do get pressed all the time but we are never abadoned. the blood of Christ will always protect you guys. keep a clear mind and a conscience that is void of any offence towards anyone. not even that silly sister out-law.

let her be too big to carry in your mind. build a better life for yourself and family in your mind. carry a greater destiny and future in your mind not small people like her

loving and hating are choices. they say you spend greater energy hating. so make yours wisely

mmmmmmmmm na wa o. the wahala with the violent environment some people grew up in. an angry person is a dangerous person. my illiterate grand mum told us years ago that anger and poverty are first cousins. anger as a spirit only ever destroys and never builds anything good. some people by Gods grace and nature do not allow the irrelevant things that work most people up get to them and can be very easily mis-understood.

if you got a very quarrelsome lady you would have been very grateful. but trust me on this one unless you have not chosen to rise above the level of the environment you are at the moment it is better to live with this lady than quarrelsome always opposing things for the sake of opposing sake.

have you not watched most people who fight and have what they call little arguments all around them. they are always borrowing and living below what they are supposed to be. it is not that people wont do things you don't like or approve of but you owe yourself a duty not to be offended. Jesus said be angry but do not sin. most anger moves you into outright sin and trouble always follow sin.

my brother rejoice because whatever excuse you may have to suspect she is too good to be true bible said it is better to live with a woman like that than one whose mouth is opened 24/7. it sends people to frustration that may lead to early grave or a life of showing nothing for the 7o+ years they existed.

your life and destiny are too great to waste arguing. the mind is a terrible thing to waste as the Negro college mantra says.

darkness is not darkness unless you knew the force of light. check out peaceful living it is always better than strife and arguing environment. try it you will begin to enjoy it. it makes you produce great things. majority of the people you and i admire today could only succeed that much because of the peace and serenity that surround their homes.

it is only a miracle that keep war from the soil of Nigeria daily with this kind of attitudes. we are too quarrelsome as a people. i opted out of a multi million pound project at work because it didn't settle with my mind i was not looked down on for it. but if that was a Nigerian environment that would be the last day we talk. we need to grow up. we can all have different opinions about anything.

we used to be able to laugh as a people when we see foolishness. we have raised a group of people that can go from doing right to doing wrong without knowing it. how can you be arguing about someone doing wrong yet doing wrong yourself?

many people have what i call ANGER problem. if you add the letter D in front of that word you get DANGER. majority of the time you are angry you are a danger to yourself and your health. and for those that know what sin is and the sin this lady have committed the bible say DO NOT SIN. there are sins of attitude. i cant believe we adults call people names and abuse people like this. what do some of you teach your kids and younger ones?

i wonder why/how some people quarrel with people they don't know and cannot possible see for a life time. you guys must be a nightmare to live with.

there is a word called MERCY that over rides God's judgement. God is not a man. He does not throw tantrum like some people think. God hates sin/s but He never hates the man/ woman.

almondjoy is one of those few people every town must have. doesn't take things too seriously and probably have sound sleep every night than most you here trying to crack the whole tube with your anger.

OK this lovely sister did sleep with a bad man we all cried and stoned her. every Nigerian man stoped sleeping with young girls tonight that would be wonderful but we know we don't live in that world and probably never would.

i was going to recommend seun for some recognition until i saw what nairaland is doing to some people.

couldn't have put it better. sienna always the post to watch. great mind, common sense and never arrogant.

i went to a friend citizenship ceremony last year. someone asked him how he was his reply was it was not easy.

that is him having papers and all that still complaining. most nigerians complain by habit and nature and feel very comfortable with it.

just get on and work hard. get enough help and advice you can get. stay away from thieves, lazy people & others that allow fear run their lives. dont fail to educate and re-educate yourself. the only thing the english system forbids you being is king/ queen and maybe politically the prime minister unless you are an anglican.

if you work hard and you are fair with the stiff upper lip ( that is not letting everyone especially the white man know how you came to conquer the land), they don't notice you let alone try to stop you.

and it doesn't hurt getting God on your side.

hope you enjoy and prosper here. enjoy your stay. God bless you

amazing isn't it?. i was shocked to see the lagos prices beating london prices. guess they know people need it

it is okay. it is an open forum. everyone is entitled to their opinions. curses do not come without cause so we let the cursing curse because they love it. it is sad some people want everyone to be of their opinion about everything yet have the grace to criticize others doing the same thing with their sons and daughters. people the world over do what they do. informed or not. it doesnt make them evil that is my believe and i stand by that always

i wlll be married this june. am i not permitted to call them inlaws just yet? anyway if i am not yet one i just have 5months away.

shapey/ amsky you can always visit garry smalleys website he has so many materials that will bless you greatly.

this story has ended the way we want it all this side drama is just childs play. i didn't know cutting off clitoris affects the brain like this for years.

if men were God those lovely car stickers used to say.

the good Lord has blessed me with an incredibly gorgeous and fabulous lady. she doesn't do strife,arguments. she a very Godly friend and business woman. you see the Lord i know doesn't judge Christianity with sexual satisfaction. thankfully my in-laws are very wonderful to me too. they are very much like a second parents to me.

check what garry smalley said in his website today

http://www.smalleyonline.com/articles/truth/relationshipothers2.html

The truth is what we often call "needs" normally better fit the category of "wants." We want others to respect us, admire us, and need us. But are those true needs? No one can meet all our needs aside from God himself. If you depend on a spouse to meet your "needs," you set yourself up for trouble. The relationship becomes an unhealthy, codependent one. Your fulfillment is emphatically not the job of someone else. God has given this job to you, and only you can shoulder it. God has promised to meet all of your needs. You are the one who cooperates with him and receives his riches as he gives them.

Have you believed the lie?

How will you look to God to fill your needs, rather than others?

He will give you all you need from day to day if you make the Kingdom of God your primary concern.
Luke 12:31

if you bothered to check you would have seen this was my very first statement on female circumcision.

(m) england Posts: 189 Re: Female Circumcision: what's wrong with it? « #11 on: October 13, 2005, 10:51 PM » mmmmmmmmm if you thought education was expensive try ignorance they say. illeteracy which is not just lack of education is a very cruel thing. it rubs one of dignity and decency. i am not for any form of mutilation.

note the date and my words very well. you obviously have not noticed that because you are so worked up being angry over what i can't even understand. listen we are Africans. there are some things our people do that some of us may not approve of that doesn't make them evil.

i personally don't like vindictive and argumentative people but i let them be because the only person they hurt is themselves. you don't know me personally. the fact that you can go into October, 2005 to make your silly point says something very nice about you. as you know i promised not to comment on anything you say but i just had to post that comment so people see your point. by the way you don't have to win every argument.

if God spare you the next 500 alive there would still be groups of people doing circumcisions. it is not because they want to mutilate their kids that is what is difficult for the sex obsessed people to believe. but that is the truth.


this is th whole of my first article on the subject and 2yrs later i still stand by it.

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mmmmmmmmm if you thought education was expensive try ignorance they say. illeteracy which is not just lack of education is a very cruel thing. it rubs one of dignity and decency. i am not for any form of mutilation.

i must ask how some of you knew the aim of circumcission which is done not only for female both male kids too. so uncircumcised sisters enjoy sex than circumcised sisters? i don't think so. well you tell me. i have not finished my education

as far as i know almost every girl i grew up with in my area were circumcised and i know too that they were sexually active even before 15. when i went to the boarding house at around 11/12yrs of age most of the girls that came into school with us were almost glorified prostitutes including the ones you would say were villagers.

in my five years at secondary school, i cannot remember any girl apart from the token SU and the deeper life people that were not sexually active. and since you asked the teachers took them as ex-gratia payment for their services to the education of the nation. i wish some of those people can be jailed but looking back most of those "repressed circumcised" were willing participants and i just asked my 2 sisters who were with me at school then as senior and junior too. some of these alleged sexually repressed babes ended up marrying these monsters any way.

ok i hear that people are not enjoying sex because of some clit being cut. please give me a break. where did you guys grow up? you mean to convince me most women we have in nigeria are sexually frustrated? i don't buy that. i always thought sex was more than the joystick being in the right place business.

again i am not saying any one should be circumcised but i don't buy the idea that libido drops because some skin has been stretched. and i suggest it is mostly done to make that part of the anatomy look beautiful and since you ask this is one of the thing that attracts the white people to the black woman. i am not charging for this info. if you have seen most caucasian parts you will thank God for these things.

for those of you in the know. most uncircumcised willy and xxxxxxxxx looks unsightly in my opinion. i don't believe everything african custom and practice is bad. the lovely ms winfrey and her group don't have answers to all things black. circumcision started way back biblical times.

now if you are married go celebrate the tonight if you are not good things come to those who wait. sex is not all it is cooked up by the media to be. we have only one life let's use it well. there is more to life's beauty and joy than sex. and o sex in its right context and enviroment is great. oooo thanks be to good for the great things He has done. only a wise God like Him could have created something so pleasurable cut or no cut. i hope i didnt spoil any one.

have a good evening

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thanks that restraining order must be in place quick. God bless you for being there for her. mayyou get support even before the need arise in your life.

Everything God Said About You Will Come to Pass

Daily Devotional Wednesday, January 23 from Called to Conquer

Today’s Scripture Reading: Genesis 37:5–36, 45:1–15 Key Verse: Genesis 45:8

It was not you who sent me here, but God; and He has made me a father to Pharaoh, and lord of all his house, and a ruler throughout all the land of Egypt.After Joseph’s jealous brothers threw him into a pit and sold him into slavery because of his visions, he soon found himself in Potiphar’s house where he again faced mistreatment.

Although he was only seventeen years old at the time, Joseph held on because somehow he received and believed the vision of God despite his circumstances and the many people who tried to stop him.Whatever God spoke about you in eternity will happen in your life, no matter what people try to do to you financially, politically, physically, or spiritually.

If God said it, you will get it.God said in Jeremiah 1:5 that before you were formed in your mother’s womb, He knew you. Paul added in 2 Timothy 1:9 that not only did God call you, but He gave you a holy calling. No one can add to it or subtract from it. The devil cannot add or take anything away, no matter what he throws at you.God said it, so it has to happen.

Regardless of whatever happens in the “in-between” time, the things God said will come to pass. He will see to it that you make it through to the end.Today's Prayer:Heavenly Father, thank You for divine purpose and the holy calling You have given me. Today I am reminded that it was You who sent me here and not other men or women.

What You have said about me will come to pass as surely as the sun rises each day, and no one can add to or subtract from Your decrees. Thank You, in Jesus’ name.

okay sister it looks you know this is not good please leave this man and dont do it next time and can we all learn from this. there is more to life than these silly illicit relationships

heaven sure holds all the secret that only time will tell.  God help us. Jesus said the pharisee will get there before some people we think has a first class ticket there

The great Irony of life.  I say we shall all meet on judgement day and we shall see who will really experience "the rapture"

there is sure a judgement day coming when all things will be exposed

you remind of that great hymn

and o weeping and wailing
when the lost where told of their fate
they cried for their Lord and their master
but their cries were too late.

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shapey my dear you know we are all in this together.  
me i am waiting for your baby shower and dedication. when we shall sing what the Lord has done for me  i cannot tell it all.  we all have stories of situations we feared the worse and allowed God to pull us through.

whatever you fear now is not as bad as it looks. we are talking about your best freind here you know. i think in one of your earlier post you expected to be forgiven quicker than he did. now this is your turn to show this brother how to forgive. you know you will still need his forgiveness in the future  so show him how to do it

we did a project at work. we had to sit down carrying boxes on our lap and allowed people  throw various objects like silly names, racism, cheating and all form of disgusting names. suddenly  an empty box became full of junks and loads. when it was time for compliments and good things there was no space left to keep them.

we were also told to embrace any person we loved in the enviroment carrying that box you need to see how funny adults looked.  this was at work. i was nearly looking for the offering plate because that lady  preached something to me that day.  hatred and carrying bitterness is a load that pushes those we love from our embrace.

please dear sister biko forgive your darling brother and husband in Jesus name.  show him how to forgive i beg.  have a blessed day.  your relationship is worth saving

@'aysometin  

Almond Joy u don start, I am yet to understand u.

almondjoy is a class act and a wind up merchant per excellence. she is fun to read.  she makes you laugh. i think she travels lightly which is very good for a healthy living.

just leave this cheat and look for your own man. it is like we replaced polygammy with  this kind of dangerous living. hope you know there is HIV/ AIDS and that your heart is wearing and tearing away with all this buy one get one free  & buy now pay later relationships.

is the joy and whatever you are getting now worth the prize you end up paying?  hope you find the strenght to leave him

God bless you dear sister. good to know you guys are talking.  just relax. it is not time to answer her. you will know when that time comes. not just now.  my sister says your heart and mouth are your personal properties.  she is permitted to call you names  just as you are permitted to not answer the names she call you.

you are precious in your husband eyes. any other person talking rubish is just that RUBISH and non sence as my granny calls it.

you are in our prayers and know you are both going to pull through this one. the God of heaven will see to it that you come out  not hurt.do not let it. choose not to be a victim. there shall be no loss here

have a good day and thanks for coming to tell the house but please don't forget to tell Jesus always. He is right there with you.

that song says 
there is no mountain that we cannot climb. 
when i say we,
i mean Jesus and i.

there is no mountain that you cannot climb.

there is a calm after every storm. let the healing flow to you dear sister

Jesus is Lord over this matter. all sin is forgiven and forgivable. relax and enjoy a good relationship. if you ever have time to read i would gladly recommend garry smalley's  the joy of a committed relationship/love. it will bless you

Abrahams blessings be on you. Genesis 49:25 -26

mmmmmmmm  i don't usually comment on things like this. but is this true 

@toluxa1

My Father owns a church with about 13 branches in Niger state and the Federal Capital. My mother is a deacon in another church, infact a preacher

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the church with all its troubles is still a great force for good on planet earth.
think of the world without a church.  what darkness and despair would prevail.

God help us

calm down.

this is not everyday thing. there are millions of people happily married with good relationship with their ma and pa inlaws. people don't just wake up catching witches. things happens in relationships. there must be some thousands of ugly daughter inlaws calling their ma inlaw witches it doesn't equal every daughter in-law. it is my observation that most mothers love their kids more than any other person in the world would love that child. boyfriend and girlfriend husband/ wife included.

it so comfortable to want your partners to go to war with their parents because they don't accept you.  The Law of Attraction begins and ends with gratitude.  i can't understand how some people claim you love somebody and hate the people that gave birth to them.  have you heard the word " love me-  love my dog"?. becareful the bridge you tear down  because you may need to walk through it one day.

why do you major on minors?  you may have a bad ma-inlaw.  every mother is not like that and make sure you don't become one.  most  bad mother inlaws start by opposing everything in sight  which you are trying to do here. 
one moment it is all men not standing up next it is mother in-laws. seun created an open forum so we are allowed to villify everyone we wish.

there is a situation on the ground here that is bigger than your opinions on a whole group of people so i am going to leave you as i deal with more pressing issues. 

thanks for your time and have a very good day ma'am.  this is my last post here

i do not mind being naive.
i was blessed with an extra-ordinary mother that will do anything to bless and increase the children God blessed her with.  we didn't have much growing up. we had love and the best care she could give. people richer than us sent their kids to live with others not us even if we were cramed into one room.

thank God life has changed today but heaven forbid i forget the home that gave me the spring board the to life i enjoy today.

i grew up around women that wanted the best for their kids even if that means them opposing their choice of women. there is nothing wrong with that. most men i know today would have been happier if they listened to their mum warning them about the nightmares they choose for themselves.   they say love is blind but marraige is an eye opener.

come to think of it how many people know what is good for them when marraige is concerned? if everybody's choice was right why do we have all these broken people and broken kids all over the world  from broken relatioships?

i am not a spokes person for mothers every where. i do know most are not evil. infact their maternal disposition works against anything that hurts their own child. 

i am all for people choosing to live with whoever you want.  but i also know too that the right to bear my family name comes with the responsibility of not allowing any jezebels daughter into the family blood line in the name of personal choice.  uneducated illeterates have kept the family name pure and good before me. i owe a duty to the next generation to up their game.

hope that does not upset you. it is called duty it is a very good word. this small world of I,Me and myself is ugly dont you think? it is no crime anywhere in the world to advice your own child.

goodnight kind lady. God bless and dont forget my 1% when your money comes

thankfully i come from a family where we don't fight one another over any issue.  everyone is permitted to have different views and opinion but we all have a responsibility to know that the family is always bigger than you. i too like you left the family church years ago. like all good father will do my parents tought it would be a good idea to stick together.
i explained and left without a fight.  we agreed if i don't like it there i should back in 6months. some years down the road they came to join me and we are still one happy family.  

there is a promise that has to do with honouring ones father and mother.  there are too many battles a man faces in life that not adding his fathers/mothers blesings to his life makes him vulnerable to almost anything that would have otherwise not be able to overwhelm him.

talking about religion,  i will say  check my previous threads and you will see i have your back on that opinion. the problem our people have is that of religious as you rightly said.  Christianity is about relationship not religion[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font].
that is where most people jump on the wrong bus. you know obeying any rule/s is an expensive lifestyle for our people let alone obeying God the way He wants. i am all for standing ones ground and having the mind of Christ when doing His will. sadly i have seen too many people starting right in defending a just cause erring into errors that God cannot defend let alone bless. Christianity on its own is a force for good anywhere it is allowed to shine.

john avanzini said madness is doing one thing over and expecting different results.

i personally detest religion. religion is ugly and souless. not many things get me worked up like it. i strive towards Godly living and the good Lord has put His blessings and mercies upon my life for which i am grateful.

i must end this thread now by saying i disagree that outlaws wahala are only profound in africa . i have lived in this part of the world long enough to see the greek/ turkish and the lovely english people fight themselves over these same issues to the point of going to the courts.   you need to know how many % of the families here that will not go weddings for the same reasons we will see in africa.
human beings are human beings everywhere especially mothers. good old sinful people as my mum would say.

most women shouting here now will be in the same position when some few years down the road little johny will bring sally home.  it is the love of a mother for the male child. it is not wickedness just a misguided love that can easily be passified without fighting.

@ armsky   when you get your money don't forget  to ask for my bank account please.  relax my dear sister  you will get your money

the wisdom and grace of God will prevail dear sister.
there is time for everything. trust the Lord He will repay you that money quick. there is some pressured cooker burning at the moment. i am a believer in miracles and i know God is fair. this money is not a bad debt.  
you will get the money but please lets see God get glory over another pharoah first.

this time next year we will hear sounds of babes and new life in this young couples house. whatever the enemy has used to torture them now just became an instrument of unity and blessings for them.  it is always in that order.

unity and the blessings follows.  thanks for being there for them. know too that God has set angels to watch and be there for you and yours.

@D-reloaded.  this is no forum for another fight. you refered to males

kogi, Hopefully the males will read your post and let it sink in their heads.

. check your post. we will not start another fight over this matter. thanks for your concern. this aint male business. this is people being people and giving themselves to silliness.

once again i am glad to know we have great women  in our midst.

VERY SAD. we want to reduce this ugly thing to africa men bashing. 
is there a school that teach men how not to stand by their women in nigeria?

@ sexxxyy many thanks dear sister. you give me hope that we have some great women amongst us. i always watch out for you and adeboo's post. God bless you and the womb that carried you. you are a blesiing and breath of fresh air here

this story is not about this guy. most of us have missed that point. 
i think the enemy is about to tear 2 young people to pieces all some people see is an oportunity to bash all africa men not fighting their family for their wife.  why must any sane person fight their family? is fighting the answer to every trouble we face.

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there is an ugly script the enemy is trying to right here. it is not about these 2 people at all. laughing or not laughing. the enemy just want to get another trophy. it is time to pray people not time to judge and throw sticks at africa men.  Jesus said peter peter the enemy wants to sift you but I have prayed for you.  it is prayer time.

majority of the wahala we have back home are not caused by some "wicked men"

pray people - pray until we see this 2 people happy and re-united. we wait to see victory and rejoice with you both.

we do get pressed on everyside but we are never abadoned. God is with you dear sister and let your husband know God is with him too.

brilliant. keep it up

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couldn't say it better than the lovely yolanda adams this too shall pass

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just thought to use this song to encourage you all this day that thingswill turn out right.  God is about to another 360 degree change. don't loose hope people.

2 Corinthians 4:8 (New Living Translation) We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair.

God bless

hmmmmmm amsky and shapey. things wont be this way always.

thank you guys for a beautiful story. i wish this was just a story. about 2 years ago i was listening to TBN and heard a young black girl kept saying "don't waste that pain". my first thought was shut up what do you know about pains but when i heard her say she has buried 3 kids at less than 33yrs old i thought this must be a graduate of the school of pains.

as i said earlier a junior sister is going through this mother out-laws wahala at the moment. i don't know the devil that commission Nigeria women to torture the younger women. i have told her God does not show up when we try to fight for ourselves. the battle is of the Lord. thank God she heard my word and didn't say a word. as i speak that same mother is being sent out of her matrimonial home by some surprise wicked women alleging she is the only one benefiting from her kids their brother is not traveling abroad.

there is this word in exodus called the finger of God. God only use it when we allow Him. He cannot fight for us when we fight for ourselves. we defending ourselves put God in spectator mode. sound preaching but true from my experience.

@ shapey. dear sister you are in my prayers and i bet many people here. God will heal you of the pains and vindicate you and one day you will have this as a testimony. release it to Him and He will heal you. your husband loves you and i can tell you he is more broken than you know now just be prepared to be healed and get on with your lives together. this is a storm but guess what? it shall pass too. it shall not be this way always my dear. God wont give you a burden than you are able to bear. roll it back to His cross

the Lord God be with you and bless you

thanks for being a good brother helping out out a sister in need. like i said before it is my people at their best. you know i am not going to fight over this with you dear brother. see your question and think what you are insinuating.

What role did big bros hubby play in making sure the mini-crisis did not get blown out of proportion?

the wife is not blamong the hubby but you can. you guys are doing the same thing you blame the husband family for. taking sides with your own.

if you check my previous post you will see i have nothing against these 2 people. the husband is probably as young as the wife.

i have had the misfortune of a mother passing to eternity and trust me it kills you a thousand times. especially when you are away. you run on auto pilot for weeks. all the apology she was doing was to a lifeless soul. this guy is in pains for goodness sake.

please please i make an appeal on behalf of these 2 people let everyone pray for them rather than blame the husband. the guy cannot be made to fight the people that brought him up. there is more to this dear brother.

we know our people can be silly at times but i sincerely believe there is more to this than this laughing business.

hope you did not see me as a supporter of the husband. i am only saying you guys dont forget there are 2 sides to every stories.

is that too much to point out kind sir?

you can now pass the offering plate dear pastor.

i used to think there was always 2 sides to every story until i started reading this one.   i am shocked by the men here who dont know this guy and his opinion on this matter but are rushing to take him to the gallows.

i hope to God you guys are not real. i am all for defending ones partner  but i am not for destroying your family in the process.

this story strated from the fact that the mother in-law was already aggrieved before all this laughing matter.  knowing the typical nigerian woman she would not have gone back to nigeria without adding some dangerous salt and pepper to whatever happened.  

you guys dont know what effort the son must have made to make sure peace reigns. i your books a "bad" mother have given birth to a "weak son".

God bless and help us all.

thank God you choose to obey order. too many drama already. don't be like the sea rescue team that save the drowning but loose their lives.  be very careful. that old diabolical one is on a mission here. God will see her through. she has been in my prayers. and by the way dontthink God didn't answer your first prayers.  He didn't promise to always do things the way we want. He is God and He does have knowledge of what we don't know.

what if the actress didn't show up for rehersals and cleverly came back to hunt them from within, would that have been an answered prayers.

Genesis 50:20  says
 
You intended to harm me,
but God intended it all for good.
He brought me to this position so I
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always watch out for the God dimension.  His ways are never our ways. and for those outlaws calling satanic fire, i wish they know the love of God for humanity.  their  unholy spirit doesn't have a better thing to do than break peoples legs.  you see the wrong religion and God our people caught. sad.

The same Holy Spirit creating lives, healings and miracles all over the world can be stopped by some misguided fellow to quickly break an enemies leg. 

God help us. He is a better God than that. we forgive every sin your sister and her husband have commited in Jesus name.