Ohraykon:
you are right sha i remember how they disgraced a female air woman who dint allow dem dey even raped her. I felt bad dat the female lawyers dint even help her. It was still the men dat condemned it. I weep for dis nation sha....

Dear leave all the whole talks,the discrimination in the military in Nigeria is on another level.None-commissioned officers are seen as errand boys and girls for the officers, as far u are an Oscar no level fr u.U dress well ,hv nice gadgets or even hv a car as a young nco,double wahala fr u.Its as if they expect us to an epitome of suffering. As for the senior female officers just leave those ones alone, majority of them see the younger airwomen as competitors for their officers boyfriend's and sugar daddies.The master slave relationship in the military is overwhelming dats why most times soilders lash out on innocent civilian

Nairalanders as usual showing their myopic reasonings,i cant marry a military woman cos of promiscuity, am not going to deny the fact that we get involved with our colleagues and superiors alot.When u are always confined to a particular space,work and live in the base,of course u become attracted to people u see everyday. We tend to marry ourselves aot too cos we understand the dos and donts of the job,drills,fire alarms and all.
About the promiscuity angle,every woman has a tendency to be promiscuous, its all about opportunity,Including the civilian ladies sef,Having performed duties at yhe main gate alot and ushered in a lot of military events, i hv seen the number of ladies who troop into the base on daily basis to hook up with senior officers.Corpers in the base hv turned to our officers sexmates and cleaners all in the hope of getting a job or becoming NAFOWA.Most of my civilian girlfriends hv begged me to hook them up with senior officers.
Am not slandering civilians here,am just trying to get a message passed accross the promiscuity angle isnt limited to military personnels alone.Most of those ypur civilian girlfriends will leave u and run away if a very senior officer ask her out, hv seen a case where a civilian female staff walked out on her boyfriend and followed a one star general for a rendezvous.
Lastly no one is making it a must to date military women, if u like one fone if u don't fancy them fine too.We are flesh and blood like civilians, nothing different about our bodies. Shalom

MissRaine69:

Sometimes it’s not even widowhood
Domestic violence
Men abandoning their families
A man can make a child and walk away with little or no consequences a woman does not have that luxury.

You dey mind those myopic people? They just open their mouths and judge with out thinking at all.I always insulted girls in abusive relationships until I found myself in one.Anything can happen to anyone, we are arent immune to mistakes or bad occurrences.

MissRaine69:
So many single mothers but I am yet to hear of single fathers. That’s the hypocrisy of the society we live in.

My dear the matter tire me,who impregnated the women ghosts? Its takes two to tango oh

A woman in our base became a widow overnight when her husband of just three weeks died in an airstrike attack, Guess what she was just a few weeks pregnant.
She became a widow and about to be a single mom if the pregnancy gets to full term,i just shake my heads when people especially women beef single mothers,u dont knw their struggles or what happened with them.One will see her,a young woman in her early twenties with a baby, and just open their mouths and judge her without knowing what happened. Before judging people,be sure of what happened to them,take a mile in their steps.Life can be ironic and funny at times.Shalom

Nurrex:
There are two different sectors, Commissioned those that got employed with their degrees/master Degree, their pay is okay about 160k for Freshers, and the Non-commisioned the one the OP is trying to do, he only needs his SSCE, about 30-35k for Freshers.

The OP should look at the kind of course he got, if its very lucrative, he should forget about Air Force, and be very prayerful. He can still apply for short service of 'Commisioned' after attaining his degree.

An Airforce fresher also called aircraftman earns about 65k monthly, its also depends on ur field and courses you go for, in which certain allowances is added.

Its depends on the individual, parents. Was 22 when I moved to a new state cos of work;in my base i see young peeps of 18-20 already staying alone and working .

Both sides can lose out depending on who develops feelings for each other.Most times FWB gets messy with one getting jealous of the other falling in love with anoda person,why him or her and not me,feelings of low self esteem develops.Fwb has its merits and demerits, to be frank many so called relationships are fwb on a lowkey.P.S why do people always assume its the woman who loses out or wants more?its vice versa

jacobsphilipshola:
please what will be the rank of trade in Air Force
Nigerian, I want to apply with my ND result, what will be my rank, or is it going to be the same with recruit personal,.........please I need good respond

if you hv an nd,Apply with the result ,if you are accepted into the Airforce, after the training and passing out, six months after you are going to be promoted to the rank of a Corporal. Good luck

Finally passing out of Nigerian Airforce training after six hectic,frustrating, tiring months ,at a time i asked myself wetin carry me come here[color=#006600][/color].But it was the best decision i ever made,it changed me not just physically but mentally, became bolder, more confident, just literally bursting out with self love, esteem and pride.I thank God for everything joor.

Am a soldier , part time student in the making by nxt year

Ed sheeran perfect, enrique Iglesias hero.

Nice write up,i just hope some vain,insecure people will adhere to it.You see some guys or ladies go beserk ,whenever someone turns them down bases on their preference ,forgetting we all have individual preferences and wants.

MarieSucre:


Ishilove It's like she doesn't know she is on nairaland. One small argument with a silly boy and he'll go dig up this old post and call her an army olosho smh.

I'm just laughing at you. It's like you don't know what you did in your previous post. You're like the Buhari of soldier girls. The same way Buhari went abroad to cast Nigerian youths and still expect foreign countries to come and invest in companies that will employ Nigerian youths. You came here to cast soldier girls and still expect men to date them. You're asking them to pick any fine one they see after your comment has given them smackdown.

You should have used your position to even erase misconceptions about them like how some guys are saying that their superiors use them for sex but this what you choose to do instead? You're a horrible ambassador I must say, and even in the following comments you still go on saying more horrible things about them all the while asking men to date them, are you sure you know what you're doing?

Best of luck sha. I hope nairaland guys will take the good, if there is any sef out of your comment and actually try to date them.

.Lol sweetheart, i said the truth irrespective of hw it seems, some misconceptions about them are nothing but the truth. Am a military personnel so i can assure most of those misconceptions really happen in the service. So what the point of lying or hiding the truth. About being called an army olosho,no be today guys dey call women olosho,no be new thing

Cutehector:
would like to date an airforce lady or naval lady. Pls connect me to any of your military friends... Thank you. If you need more details of me, I'll be willing to share.

.wow you are in choba ph,been looking for any nairalander in my area.post your phone no so we can connect

enemachris:
No one is scared to date a female military personnel. The problem is that, they earn so little and it is barely enough for them. So to embarking on such a relationship, you have to be ready to spend. You also have to be ready to share your woman with her superiors in the office.

.oga if it is the issue of finance, i disagree with you, How many jobs really pay well in Nigeria as a whole? The civilian lady, who knows if she is earning a good salary as well, in the issue of greediness and prosmiscious ladies, its not limited to military ladies alone, its a trait that can be found in any lady irrespective of her job.The civilian lady, do you know if her superior is sleeping with her too?

rottenegg:


Its hard to absorb this because at calabar navy barracks, the male officers always taunt and do all sorts of things to prevent guys from dating their female counterparts! This is tested and proven!
Then the useless strict schedules your work entails is another wahala.

Quite true, majority of the senior officers just want to prevent the ladies from marrying civilian guys.That why i always tell my friends, go outside the base,make good civilian friends both male and females, have a friendly and respectful approach towards them. Stop leaving in a dream world that the senior officers would marry you. Most female soilders are just pleasure toys for them, at the end when the beauty has faded, They leave them fr the younger ones,leaving old,frustrated, bitter single ladies, who then vet their frustrations on the younger ones

Ishilove:

Soldiers, male and female are notorious for harassment and assault of civilians so don't blame civilian men for keeping away.

.ishilove dear,don't get me wrong, am not blaming civilian men for keeping off soldiers. Am just highlighting the reasons they do that. And also military ladies shortcomings. Some military ladies are married to civilians.,the civilians they are married to dont hv two heads tho.

IamPlato:
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I Have Only Seen Beautiful American Soldier Females.


Nigerian Female Soldiers Are looking Like Somalia war Victims

Oga please there are pretty military ladies. Just look well and find the right one

Am an airwoman so am gonna talk about this issue, i think its fear from the guys part,thinking the lady would punish them if the relationship goes haywire. And most guys are insecure,always trying to intimidate ladies to boost their ego,so probably they can't really intimidate those ladies. Lastly, majority of military ladies are always unruly, saucy and having a low value of civilians .Ordinary admiration from civilians, they blow up,some even goes as far as punishing the guys fr it,forgetting that its not an order you must marry a military personnel as a female soilder .So my fellow military ladies abeg calm down if civilians toast you, if u fancy him, go on with the relationship, stop intimidating guys with your military presence. Alot of us are in the base old and unmarried, frustrated always putting undue pressure and trying to frustrate young ladies.As for civilian guys are my pick for relationship and marriage. A word is enough for the wise.And my fellow military ladies, Please always look good, simple and pretty, leave your military attitudes in the base,stop looking manly and unruly cos you are a military lady.if you are on mufti and unarmed, You are a civilian, stop intimidating people.

thowbie7ven:
Wow!...Wah happened to her?..was she sick prior to that day?...or she slept and never woke?

She was sick but recovering tho,she slept off and never woke up again.

On 12th December 2009, when I walked into the palour ,from a short nap in the room, only to find my elder sister dead body on the chair.For a while, i thought she was sleeping, but the posture of her body made me suspicious. I tried waking her up to no avail,i stayed with her dead body till Mumsy came back,cos i didnt know what else to do. I was just 14 then and it left a psychological scar on me.The first time I saw a dead body of one close to me.

Take antibiotics, rub palm oil on the affected part.Sorry the pain no be oh

donstan18:
Wow!!,...you are indeed a very wise man!, you are so intelligent that I'm beginning to envy you now, don't mind them brO, you are wise.


Next time, when you see her drinking Garri with a guy in your house, ask them if they enjoyed very well.

If you see a guy being shirtless with your babe in your house, tell him to remove his boxers to get enough air.

If you see a used condom you didn't use in your house, don't bother, just pick it up, lick the ice cream in it and start using it as Balloon.

Whenever you see male nude pictures in her phone, just say to her "Wow!!, these nudes are dope, do you have more?" tell her that.

When making love with her again and you notice the wideness and space in her pussy, just kneel down and apologize to her for not having a huge d*ck that will match her pussy.






MUMU!!....Since you don't have sense
C'mon will you get out of here, now!!!!

My bros the matter weak me sef,don't know what to type sef.If the op is my brother, nah sixty days fasting and prayers.

Well, I know most people would attack me for my post,But I believe people have right to their sexual orientation in as much they don't hurt people. This also shows the financial hypocrisy of humans, the rich weirdos are left alone, But the poor ones are attacked. We should not attack people for sinning different from us.

remi1444:
if you think achieving the emboldened, am sorry to dispute that analogy, you might be 8898yrs b4 u achieve that aspiration. get into a relationship with some1 with promising goal for you and fact is you would be surprised that this your commitment phobia would zoom into tiny air. Btw still a AAU student?

.Nope, finished last year.As for your advice, Thanks but not now;Have lots of emotional issues to work on.Don't wanna go into a relationship and be a emotional burden to someone

Omoluabi007:

What could ve caused that

.I have no idea, been like that since i was a young girl. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age would be a single mom. It's so annoying, I feel that way.

I have no idea, been like that since was young. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age, That would be a single mom.

That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me

Married Yes,happily married, I don't think So. Many marriages in Nigeria are still functional cos of the children and societal norms