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Romance / Re: Six Tips How To Approach & Date Single Military Women by joyberry(f): 1:36pm On May 06, 2019 |
Ohraykon:Dear leave all the whole talks,the discrimination in the military in Nigeria is on another level.None-commissioned officers are seen as errand boys and girls for the officers, as far u are an Oscar no level fr u.U dress well ,hv nice gadgets or even hv a car as a young nco,double wahala fr u.Its as if they expect us to an epitome of suffering. As for the senior female officers just leave those ones alone, majority of them see the younger airwomen as competitors for their officers boyfriend's and sugar daddies.The master slave relationship in the military is overwhelming dats why most times soilders lash out on innocent civilian 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Six Tips How To Approach & Date Single Military Women by joyberry(f): 7:14am On May 06, 2019 |
Nairalanders as usual showing their myopic reasonings,i cant marry a military woman cos of promiscuity, am not going to deny the fact that we get involved with our colleagues and superiors alot.When u are always confined to a particular space,work and live in the base,of course u become attracted to people u see everyday. We tend to marry ourselves aot too cos we understand the dos and donts of the job,drills,fire alarms and all. About the promiscuity angle,every woman has a tendency to be promiscuous, its all about opportunity,Including the civilian ladies sef,Having performed duties at yhe main gate alot and ushered in a lot of military events, i hv seen the number of ladies who troop into the base on daily basis to hook up with senior officers.Corpers in the base hv turned to our officers sexmates and cleaners all in the hope of getting a job or becoming NAFOWA.Most of my civilian girlfriends hv begged me to hook them up with senior officers. Am not slandering civilians here,am just trying to get a message passed accross the promiscuity angle isnt limited to military personnels alone.Most of those ypur civilian girlfriends will leave u and run away if a very senior officer ask her out, hv seen a case where a civilian female staff walked out on her boyfriend and followed a one star general for a rendezvous. Lastly no one is making it a must to date military women, if u like one fone if u don't fancy them fine too.We are flesh and blood like civilians, nothing different about our bodies. Shalom 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Why Do We Hate Singlle Mothers? by joyberry(f): 7:16pm On Apr 30, 2019 |
MissRaine69:You dey mind those myopic people? They just open their mouths and judge with out thinking at all.I always insulted girls in abusive relationships until I found myself in one.Anything can happen to anyone, we are arent immune to mistakes or bad occurrences. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Why Do We Hate Singlle Mothers? by joyberry(f): 7:12pm On Apr 30, 2019 |
MissRaine69:My dear the matter tire me,who impregnated the women ghosts? Its takes two to tango oh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Do We Hate Singlle Mothers? by joyberry(f): 7:08pm On Apr 30, 2019 |
A woman in our base became a widow overnight when her husband of just three weeks died in an airstrike attack, Guess what she was just a few weeks pregnant. She became a widow and about to be a single mom if the pregnancy gets to full term,i just shake my heads when people especially women beef single mothers,u dont knw their struggles or what happened with them.One will see her,a young woman in her early twenties with a baby, and just open their mouths and judge her without knowing what happened. Before judging people,be sure of what happened to them,take a mile in their steps.Life can be ironic and funny at times.Shalom 40 Likes 2 Shares |
Education / Re: University Admission Offer Vs Nigeria Air Force Recruitment Offer by joyberry(f): 8:06pm On Mar 16, 2019 |
Nurrex:An Airforce fresher also called aircraftman earns about 65k monthly, its also depends on ur field and courses you go for, in which certain allowances is added. |
Family / Re: At What Age Should A Child Leave His/Her Parents And Start An Independent Life? by joyberry(f): 7:09pm On Mar 15, 2019 |
Its depends on the individual, parents. Was 22 when I moved to a new state cos of work;in my base i see young peeps of 18-20 already staying alone and working . 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Friends With Benefits – Who Loses? by joyberry(f): 6:21pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
Both sides can lose out depending on who develops feelings for each other.Most times FWB gets messy with one getting jealous of the other falling in love with anoda person,why him or her and not me,feelings of low self esteem develops.Fwb has its merits and demerits, to be frank many so called relationships are fwb on a lowkey.P.S why do people always assume its the woman who loses out or wants more?its vice versa 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Air Force by joyberry(f): 10:30am On Feb 02, 2019 |
jacobsphilipshola:if you hv an nd,Apply with the result ,if you are accepted into the Airforce, after the training and passing out, six months after you are going to be promoted to the rank of a Corporal. Good luck |
Nairaland / General / Re: What Are The Best Moments You Can Never Forget in the year 2018? by joyberry(f): 10:02pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
Finally passing out of Nigerian Airforce training after six hectic,frustrating, tiring months ,at a time i asked myself wetin carry me come here[color=#006600][/color].But it was the best decision i ever made,it changed me not just physically but mentally, became bolder, more confident, just literally bursting out with self love, esteem and pride.I thank God for everything joor. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: As A Naija Girl What Do U Do For A Living? (shame The Guys Pls) by joyberry(f): 3:46pm On Dec 08, 2018 |
Am a soldier , part time student in the making by nxt year 19 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Which Song Moves You And Teaches You Tips On How To Love? by joyberry(f): 1:35am On Aug 02, 2018 |
Ed sheeran perfect, enrique Iglesias hero. |
Literature / Re: Naughty gods by joyberry(f): 8:01am On Aug 01, 2018 |
Still waiting 1 Like |
Romance / Re: When Who You Want Does Not Want You. by joyberry(f): 11:02pm On Jul 21, 2018 |
Nice write up,i just hope some vain,insecure people will adhere to it.You see some guys or ladies go beserk ,whenever someone turns them down bases on their preference ,forgetting we all have individual preferences and wants. 22 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys Scared Of Approaching Soldier Girls? - Airwoman by joyberry(f): 5:04pm On May 24, 2018 |
MarieSucre:.Lol sweetheart, i said the truth irrespective of hw it seems, some misconceptions about them are nothing but the truth. Am a military personnel so i can assure most of those misconceptions really happen in the service. So what the point of lying or hiding the truth. About being called an army olosho,no be today guys dey call women olosho,no be new thing 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys Scared Of Approaching Soldier Girls? - Airwoman by joyberry(f): 2:41pm On May 24, 2018 |
Cutehector:.wow you are in choba ph,been looking for any nairalander in my area.post your phone no so we can connect 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys Scared Of Approaching Soldier Girls? - Airwoman by joyberry(f): 2:32pm On May 24, 2018 |
enemachris:.oga if it is the issue of finance, i disagree with you, How many jobs really pay well in Nigeria as a whole? The civilian lady, who knows if she is earning a good salary as well, in the issue of greediness and prosmiscious ladies, its not limited to military ladies alone, its a trait that can be found in any lady irrespective of her job.The civilian lady, do you know if her superior is sleeping with her too? 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys Scared Of Approaching Soldier Girls? - Airwoman by joyberry(f): 2:25pm On May 24, 2018 |
rottenegg:Quite true, majority of the senior officers just want to prevent the ladies from marrying civilian guys.That why i always tell my friends, go outside the base,make good civilian friends both male and females, have a friendly and respectful approach towards them. Stop leaving in a dream world that the senior officers would marry you. Most female soilders are just pleasure toys for them, at the end when the beauty has faded, They leave them fr the younger ones,leaving old,frustrated, bitter single ladies, who then vet their frustrations on the younger ones 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys Scared Of Approaching Soldier Girls? - Airwoman by joyberry(f): 2:17pm On May 24, 2018 |
Ishilove:.ishilove dear,don't get me wrong, am not blaming civilian men for keeping off soldiers. Am just highlighting the reasons they do that. And also military ladies shortcomings. Some military ladies are married to civilians.,the civilians they are married to dont hv two heads tho. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys Scared Of Approaching Soldier Girls? - Airwoman by joyberry(f): 10:57am On May 24, 2018 |
IamPlato:Oga please there are pretty military ladies. Just look well and find the right one 16 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Guys Scared Of Approaching Soldier Girls? - Airwoman by joyberry(f): 10:54am On May 24, 2018 |
Am an airwoman so am gonna talk about this issue, i think its fear from the guys part,thinking the lady would punish them if the relationship goes haywire. And most guys are insecure,always trying to intimidate ladies to boost their ego,so probably they can't really intimidate those ladies. Lastly, majority of military ladies are always unruly, saucy and having a low value of civilians .Ordinary admiration from civilians, they blow up,some even goes as far as punishing the guys fr it,forgetting that its not an order you must marry a military personnel as a female soilder .So my fellow military ladies abeg calm down if civilians toast you, if u fancy him, go on with the relationship, stop intimidating guys with your military presence. Alot of us are in the base old and unmarried, frustrated always putting undue pressure and trying to frustrate young ladies.As for civilian guys are my pick for relationship and marriage. A word is enough for the wise.And my fellow military ladies, Please always look good, simple and pretty, leave your military attitudes in the base,stop looking manly and unruly cos you are a military lady.if you are on mufti and unarmed, You are a civilian, stop intimidating people. 305 Likes 27 Shares |
Nairaland / General / Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by joyberry(f): 6:17pm On Mar 17, 2018 |
thowbie7ven:She was sick but recovering tho,she slept off and never woke up again. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by joyberry(f): 6:03pm On Mar 17, 2018 |
On 12th December 2009, when I walked into the palour ,from a short nap in the room, only to find my elder sister dead body on the chair.For a while, i thought she was sleeping, but the posture of her body made me suspicious. I tried waking her up to no avail,i stayed with her dead body till Mumsy came back,cos i didnt know what else to do. I was just 14 then and it left a psychological scar on me.The first time I saw a dead body of one close to me. 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Literature / Re: Kasala Vegence by joyberry(f): 8:55pm On Mar 08, 2018 |
Welcome back bro.Nice story as usual. Love stories about our heritage and gods,it intrigues me ,tho i wonder why Nigerians will hail thor and other foreign fictional gods ,but condemn ours.Keep it up bro |
Health / Re: Nairalanders I'm In Serious Pain. Whitlow by joyberry(f): 12:33am On Mar 08, 2018 |
Take antibiotics, rub palm oil on the affected part.Sorry the pain no be oh |
Romance / Re: I Saw Used Condom & My Girlfriend At Home, Should I Break Up With Her? by joyberry(f): 11:33pm On Feb 27, 2018 |
donstan18:My bros the matter weak me sef,don't know what to type sef.If the op is my brother, nah sixty days fasting and prayers. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: The Gay Queens Of Jamaica Living In Drainage Systems(Photos) by joyberry(f): 7:15pm On Aug 02, 2017 |
Well, I know most people would attack me for my post,But I believe people have right to their sexual orientation in as much they don't hurt people. This also shows the financial hypocrisy of humans, the rich weirdos are left alone, But the poor ones are attacked. We should not attack people for sinning different from us. 15 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by joyberry(f): 6:04am On Jul 31, 2017 |
remi1444:.Nope, finished last year.As for your advice, Thanks but not now;Have lots of emotional issues to work on.Don't wanna go into a relationship and be a emotional burden to someone 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by joyberry(f): 10:59pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
Omoluabi007:.I have no idea, been like that since i was a young girl. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age would be a single mom. It's so annoying, I feel that way. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by joyberry(f): 10:57pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
I have no idea, been like that since was young. Anytime my friends talked about marriage, kept mute. Told myself from a young age, That would be a single mom. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Do You Feel Nervous When The Thought Of Getting Married Someday Sets In? by joyberry(f): 9:40pm On Jul 30, 2017 |
That my major problem, Am commitment phobic The thought of being in a lifelong relationship scared the hell out of me . Just decided to stay put off relationships, till I can work on my commitment issues. Cos I rarely stay long in relationships sef.Lol nairalanders and their funny advices, gone tru many comments about my post. It's funny many Nigerians find it difficult to understand that both women can be commitment phobic, Of I wanna fall in love, get married and have kids,But am so scared of waking up one day, and loathing the man I married. I see a guy I like, we start dating, before I know it, it's just start fizzling out, and am gone without giving the guy a reasonable explanations.Am ok being single for now till I understand my issues. GOD help me 41 Likes 5 Shares |
Romance / Re: Are Your Parents Still Happily Married ? by joyberry(f): 4:44pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Married Yes,happily married, I don't think So. Many marriages in Nigeria are still functional cos of the children and societal norms 5 Likes |
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