₦airaland Forum

debbie:
True and very true.....even if our population grows to that of China,we dont even have the finance to handle it like china is doing.
As for the doctors the blame is shared equally......we are not encouraging them to do their job,and some of them too are not even willing to answer the clarion call on their part.
Corruption is not the only problem facing Nigeria...we have so much attachment to out culture and old traditions that we develop some sort of stiff neck.Imagine a mother advising her daughter to give birth to plenty children as a mark of regard or respect in the family,or to show that she has the capacity to reproduce....yet she hasn't thought of how those kids will be trained.Even religion is not address it.

Some of those men and women in the village who depend on their little income,wont even listen to you when you preach family planning or any sort to them.....WE HAVE A VERY LONG WAY TO GO.

debbie:
Well you have said it all....truth is,this is one case out of hundreds out there.
The health sector is not doing anything to help.I hear them in hospital where a woman comes to give birth,the doctor doesnt care to know how many children she has,what she does for a living and her health statues (to give advice).It is only few of them that go out of their way to counsel you......most of them are more interested in how the woman will pay her hospital bills.Even some NGO's no longer create such awareness.
No wonder there are alot of street kids,some without good parental care....the population keeps going high and there is no check .
Our problem in Nigeria plenty ooooo.

debbie:
Welcome back to your rightful responsibility....See the beautiful children that God blessed them with.I hope he wont plan to have another baby.
In as much as there is freedom to give birth in Nigeria....there should be some sort of advocacy or health campaign to make people understand what we call family planning.Give birth to the number of children you can carter for....especially in this present harsh economy.So that you cant endanger the life of your wife and children.I have come across some very poor families who have up to 7 children and i wonder how they plan to train them.

The aftermath of it result in child trafficking,child abuse and early marriage...even some end up becoming a liability to the society.
Education either formal or informal is very necessary to drive the message home.

My Question-why is it that some rich and wealthy families have fewer children? why do the poor keep on giving birth even when they find it hard to feed and take care of them?

Physika:
Alot of things don't apply

If you are in your early 20s and find somethings difficult..

Don't ache.. Cos your forefathers themselvesdid not make out of life alive.

I like the shirt too but not with the rest of the outfit and Joy, I don't think you must use a plain shirt and tie with this. But that shirt is too busy tho

bilulu:
u guys should read before commenting

Seun:
The psychiatrists at the hospitals that specialize in Psychiatric medicine are good. Psychiatrists are not psychotherapists. They are real doctors.

basille:
Just found out this thread has been pulled from the front page. I guess some people didn't consider it worth sharing. I'm glad for the few that picked a thing on two from it.

eleojo23:
You can. Just link it back to Nairaland.

timilehing:
Yea cos it's not about giving a head or....... That's Nairaland for you

ikechukwu354:
weed kills the depression

priiince:
Mtchwww! This one na oyinbo thing o jare, I can't fit imagine say somebody like akpos go get depression.

herald9:
Your post is shiiit. It can't help those in whose school cooking has been banned.

Emmyk:
Just passing by...

#Chessaddict

Loluores:
Ah, I see... notation has been covered. Okay, I'll post lessons on something else then, probably about understanding chess tactics.

Lolz I don't play blindfold chess... yet! I generally lose the position in my head after like 15 to 25 moves, buh I'm still working on it.