Nairaland General › Re: Describe Mr Oluwaseun Osewa In One Word by joywendy(f): 11:08am On Jul 10, 2015 |
Codedrock: You totally understand him like I do  |
Romance › Re: Problems Faced by A Big Booty Lady. by joywendy(f): 3:33am On Jul 10, 2015*. Modified: 3:54am On Jul 10, 2015 |
Chidexter: 12. If you expect this to hit front page, then my friend, you're highly mistaken 13. If you don't expect this to reach front page, then you are a dreamer.  Expecting most of the males has usual to tell us their problems with ladies and their big booty while we the females just watch has some will come up to display their pervertedness  |
TV/Movies › Re: Avatar; The Legend Of Korra.... by joywendy(f): 1:32pm On Jul 09, 2015 |
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Career › Re: DON'T PANIC ..u Can Gain Admission Into University Without JAMB.. by joywendy(f): 3:38am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Mmm...the struggle is real  |
Culture › Re: [serious Topic] Arguments On African Culture, Homosexuality And Human Rights by joywendy(f): 2:35am On Jul 09, 2015*. Modified: 6:19pm On Jul 15, 2015 |
As per your post... 'Additionally, if the behavior affects others negatively, is the impact sufficient to call for a ban? ' I don't get this statement from your post. Are you implying that a behaviour which affects people negatively shouldn't be banned? Explain to me further. |
Culture › Re: [serious Topic] Arguments On African Culture, Homosexuality And Human Rights by joywendy(f): 2:29am On Jul 09, 2015*. Modified: 5:23pm On Jul 10, 2015 |
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Career › Re: Overcoming The Confidence Gap For Women by joywendy(f): 1:35am On Jul 09, 2015 |
Mmmm..interesting article! |
TV/Movies › Re: Avatar Last Airbender Comics The Promise Part 1 by joywendy(f): 10:54pm On Jul 08, 2015*. Modified: 11:12pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
 Finally pls more update op... Hey guys let's have some lil refreshment  Cc:cao ujsizzle preboy saintneo seun lucario007 guykhena pickabeau1 |
TV/Movies › Re: Which Game(s) Would U Like To See As A Movie? by joywendy(f): 6:21pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Super mario  Just kidding anyways, Anyone seen the uncharted series? Assasins creed Gta Mmm...did I just see the sims in your list? Won't that game be somehow has a movie? Edit: na wa oh this thread is old oh! Chai how many years gone |
Family › Re: Difference B/w A Man And A Woman. (A Must Read) by joywendy(f): 6:14pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: Unbelievable! Check Out This Extreme Make Over. by joywendy(f): 6:12pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Fear of being hurt and embarrassed. Advise needed please :( by joywendy(op): 3:00pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
To be honest,I was really scared of putting this up...as I thought I will be bashed and all that as I see how people are bashed daily on this forum sometimes when asking for advise.  I was really shocked and really glad at the same time that it went well. I really appreciate everyone on this thread for their wonderful and lovely advise so far. Would take all your words to heart and work on the areas that I need to work on. I m truly grateful from the bottom of my heart. Best regards, Joy |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 12:57pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
saintneo: I always try to minimise my moves in any game. Gain moves off my opponent using checks.
Also, you gave me your knight for free. Haha that works,demoralize the player and gain as well. Wicked when used against you  Yeah that also, I was using a chess photo trying to remember where all my pieces was placed,forgot about your pawn on d5. When you took it it suddenly occurred to me that your pawn was still there. |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 12:44pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
saintneo: Yeah, don't make moves with thinking. Most times I consider a3 and h3 moves as useless unless my bishops are out of reach.
Also, it will be good to think of the possible moves by your opponent. Example 19. Rf8c8 was played with a check in-advance; thus it made me gain a pawn.
As for me I am becoming more interested in playing chess using the coordinates eventhough it can be tedious. Sincerly I saw that check coming anyways I kindA miscalculated. Castling to the queen side was one of my worst mistakes. I was going to take the pawn but I had a change of thought Playing a3 and h3 was to stop your two knights from advancing further. How exactly did you pull that off? |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 12:23pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
saintneo: What did you learn? To always arrange my board correctly  Okay really plan well,don't just make a move without thinking of the consequences. |
Forum Games › Re: **NAIRALAND COUPLES' COMPETITION 2015** >>PLANNING/NOMINATION STAGE << by joywendy(f): 12:18pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
Sorry luxanne got your mention late Anyways thank God it is finally over,after all the fight there and there. Sha proud of you and the other organizers for not letting some peeps put you down. Keep it up,definitely next year will be way better than this year. Kudos!  |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 12:11pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
saintneo: 37. Rh2#
Thank you for the game. Lolz! Thank you saintneo,nice game.  No analysis? |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 12:08pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Nairaland General › Re: Fear of being hurt and embarrassed. Advise needed please :( by joywendy(op): 12:03pm On Jul 08, 2015 |
luxanne: @ Joywendy 
Hi dearie,
There is nothing to be ashamed of about your natural make-up. Matter of fact, we were all wired that way - to be nice, kind, forgiving etc but our daily interactions with the world has made us switch off albeit permanently that sweet part of us to something more monstrous and deadly.
Don't let that happen to you. No matter the criticisms you receive, no matter the laughs, they all are geared to making you a better and stronger person, also more enlightened about yourself.
Be yourself dear and don't lie to yourself ever!..What you can't do/change, you simply can't! There isn't any point promising to give to someone what you simply can't offer. At the end, you may end up hurting them and even yourself in the process and then wishing you had rather said NO. Politely say NO to what you can't offer and if you can try, just say so but never promise.
And on being shy or scared of being embarassed. You simply can't run from the latter either. Everyone gets embarrassed here and there but what do you do when that happens is all that matters. You don't let it get to you never! You've gat to try and bring your head high and move on.
Life isn't fair, people aint fair either. We've gat to all survive while learning to choose wisely friends we can be cool with. But never change your good persona for something not you, let your conscience guide you okay?
You will be just fine   Luxanne,I really appreciate and thanks so much for this lovely advise, I will always put this in mind. Thanks once again |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 11:53am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 11:42am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 11:37am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 11:22am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Fashion › Re: SNFP:Social Network Fashion Police by joywendy(op): 11:20am On Jul 08, 2015 |
VERDICT
Thanks for your comments(took prettyong to get 3 comments)
As for the picture,nothing much to say,he looks good not so bad. Colour combo seems cool on him.
Except for the shoes which was a huge turn off for many with the lace sticking out like a primary school kid.
Sorry Van you have been fined for that terrible shoe.
NEXT PIC PLS |
Phones › Re: [] Post Your Android Phone Problems Here And Get A Solution[] by joywendy(f): 11:09am On Jul 08, 2015 |
Carlcaresophia: Hi! You can counsel with our Carlcare Service Center directly about the cost. If you need us to send you the contact information of our service center, pls tell us the city and state you're living in now. Thank you! Thanks but Really I just need to know the price before hand so I can prepare or buy another has I need it urgently. I already know the service centre I have been there earlier this year |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 11:04am On Jul 08, 2015 |
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Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 11:00am On Jul 08, 2015 |
prof800: Mydear you still remember birthday while your King is on "check" 
I think your f-pawn has not moved. It is on f2.
I'm enjoying your game with saintneo btw.
Happy birthday to akinov the chessguru. Lol! Seriously you won't believe I had my board disarranged all this while,  thought I already moved my f pawn. I just had to reanalyze everything this morning,I just realised my mistakes. What I had in mind is different from what is on board. Thanks! Oh well,terrible game for me at the moment. |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Have You Learned From The Religion Section ? by joywendy(f): 8:05pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
urheme: Every being has a conscience, whether you are religious or not,
When bad people such as robber are religious, i call them religious hypocrite Why do you term them religious? Aren't you also religious by believing that conscience is your god? |
Nairaland General › Re: Fear of being hurt and embarrassed. Advise needed please :( by joywendy(op): 8:02pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
theAtheist101: Then start reading! And, maybe, watch also. It goes into your subconscious. Read people's biography (original biography, not tweaked book) and see that they were just as mortal as you are.
Everyone has the fear of criticism, but it is how we manage it that matters. You just have to accept the fact that we are not perfect (no one is and ever was), so mistakes are bound to happen. Learn to be less critical of yourself and your actions, though they might be wrong. You just tell yourself that: anytime you find yourself in that same situation, you would act otherwise and just forget the incident. Finally, learn to embrace criticism -- try to look for ways to improve on that thing people complained about, but praise yourself for the good (your opinion, which the only one that matters) work done.
Same thing goes the hurt phobia. You definitely would be hurt by people and the funny thing is that you would also hurt people. The solution lies in how you handle people's action towards you. You have to learn to think less of people's action. Just free your mind from it -- behave as if it never happened. This doesn't mean you have forgiven them, but that, you have better things to think about. And if chance gives you the opportunity to do your own back, please do it (!) . You might just be helping the person from hurting someone else. Note: I am only writing for hurts like curse and abuse, and so on, not aggressive ones. If faced with aggressive hurt, I would advise you report to a law enforcement agent for proper handling and please do anything they ask of you to bring the person to justice (another act of selflessness). Wow! Lol@ do it part.I guess I have to develop a reading attitude then, Thanks so much for this advise,I really appreciate  |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Have You Learned From The Religion Section ? by joywendy(f): 7:46pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
urheme: That part of my conscience that restrain me from wrongs is the God in me, if i loss it i have lost God. I understand the concept of human beings being their own god,but this here is wow! Mmm....so what of those who don't have a conscience like you say, are you saying that they have lost their god? We have armed robbers who believe in God, What are you gonna call them? Like johndon has said I think your are mixing morality with belief in a deity. Anyways I m not attacking you,just trying to understand where your stance is |
Christianity Etc › Re: What Have You Learned From The Religion Section ? by joywendy(f): 6:57pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
urheme: Not at all
God exist in my world, but not the religion god,
It exist in form of good conscience You know there is something called agnostic theism,I think that is where you fall in Mmmm....good conscience has in how please try to explain to me. Want to learn  |
Gaming › Re: Nairaland Official Chess Thread! by joywendy(f): 6:43pm On Jul 07, 2015 |
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