₦airaland Forum

Techpik:
Happy Sunday guys, this have accusation of labeling me yahoo guy in the compound have happened on many occasions during compound meeting, side talks etc.

But I’m not to be sincere I’m a freelance website developer working from home, I have worked for lots of people even on this nairaland, within Nigeria and abroad at the comfort of my home.

What use to trigger this labeling is because most of my neighbors go out in the morning and come at night and I’m always indoor (at home) living good.

So this have been causing side talks and even confrontations from some neighbors.

Most times I have been explaining and try to prove to them, that I’m a freelance website developer that I worked from home.

Before anybody will think the same on nai.raland, you can check me on google Techpik and all social medias and my site.

You will even see good reviews from people I have completed projects for.

I also need your advice guys, to deal with those neighbors.

Bencolink:
She has A1 in Maths, and i have C6 in Maths.

Pls between the both of us, who's supposed to help the kids with their Mathematics assignment?

SpencerForbes:
Fake story😏 How does it even make sense for a man to take his own wife’s underwear to a herbalist just to shut down her business? It’s not even like he’s doing it to get rich or improve his own life; it’s just pure "bad belle."

Either the guy has completely lost his mind, or this whole story is just fabricated for clout. It’s hard to wrap my head around that kind of logic.

Kaido:
Many married women are successful in their various businesses and careers. Most women especially the Blacks, dont hit the gym or even take walks to stay fit, after eating like gluttons & childbirth. Marriage isn't responsible for terminal diseases. Terminal diseases could be either hereditary or due to one's lifestyle.

Men age like wine while women age like milk. Aging is not a curse.

No human can run away from stress, pains and problems. Married people suffer from problems & stress cuz they are married. The also single suffer from stress cuz they are single.

And yes, women benefit more in marriage in both patriarchal and matriarchal societies.

Orlandoo:
Keep deluding yourself. Just because you are a woman, you can say whatever you like.

franchasng:
Hmmmm, very deep.


But I have friends who shower praises on their wives.


I have a friend that stay in the states, he told me around xmas that one of my cars I wanted to sell which he planned to buy that he was not going to buy it again that his wife wants to buy a bigger and more recent model SUV they would use last xmas. I was even the one discouraging him as a marketing strategy to fly my own car I had marked as sold lol.


Even my own wife do try too, she does some things without waiting for me and I will be surprised.


Only a foolish man will lie against his wife in midst of his friends, not even when your friends know that your wife is a high income earner, it will be hard for them to believe you.

Savageman247:
The Nigerian music industry has been thrown into mourning following the tragic death of fast-rising singer and vocalist, Ifunanya, popularly known as Nanyah_music.

According to reports from close sources, the young artiste reportedly died after being bitten by a snake at her residence. She was said to have been rushed to a hospital immediately after the incident in an effort to save her life.

Sadly, despite medical intervention, she did not survive.

Nanyah_music had been gaining attention for her vocal talent and growing presence in the Nigerian music scene, with many describing her as a promising artiste whose career was just beginning to take shape.


Her sudden passing has sparked an outpouring of shock and grief among fans, colleagues, and music lovers, many of whom have taken to social media to express their condolences and share tributes.


.The family is yet to release an official statement.

May her soul rest in peace. 🕊️

Source: https://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/fast-rising-nigerian-singer-nanyahmusic.html

franchasng:
So apt, nothing else to add



The only thing I would say is, most women don't like assisting their husband financially even when they are working and earning very well, they just believe their money belongs to them alone and highest they save and buy properties for their kids, those are very terrible practice by some high earning women of our time, but you said something about marrying from the start right and I agree with you

franchasng:
Its subjective and based on individual experience.


Agreed, some ladies can make life a living hell for their partners while acting like all is well.


Many ladies enter into marriage empty handed and expecting their husband to become a commando and spider man Pope John Paul The Bill Gates at the same time, it can be frustrating if you are married to such women at the long run, reason many men regret getting married.


The truth is, in Nigerian setting, marriage seem to benefit women more than men, especially when the man is financially successful, the only thing he benefits is having children and heir in wedlock, outside that nothing else for most Nigerian married men and reason some see marriage as a waste of time.


I addressed some issues on a new thread on my profile for single ladies to learn.


Many well to do men are regretting getting married because they married valueless women whose only contribution is sex that many married men even get bored of over time due to over-familiarity and the natural male trait of desiring new experience at some point.


So to all single and married ladies reading, this is a wake up call for you all, try and become valuable woman that contributes immensely to the success and growth of the man and the overall family finance to avoid your man having this kind of regret of marrying you at the long run.


Marriage in this time and era is beyond providing sex and keeping the home, domestic staffs and side chicks can provide those, be more than just that, be a valuable woman, strive to be a contributor to your husband and family's financial growth and wellbeing, peace

Orlandoo:
Even if you marry the right person, it is women that benefits the most in marriage.

motymop:
They married the wrong woman.

It takes 2 to make a marriage work

They couldn't make it work for themselves then they project their own failures on other

Babatunjo:
So I was at dinner with a friend this week. Guy has been married for about 8 years now... married almost immediately after uni. Tall guy, always had fine girlfriends back in school. You’d think na him go dey hype marriage pass.

Out of nowhere, he just sighed and said he regrets marrying… apart from the kids.
His advice shocked me.

He said if he were single again in 2026 Nigeria, he would never marry. That I should just find a woman, have between 1 to 3 kids if I want, make her comfortable, take care of my responsibilities... but avoid marriage completely.

I laughed it off, but then it hit me:
My boss had told me something very similar some time ago.
Then I remembered a former neighbour... fine wife, two kids, lovely family pictures on social media... he also warned me not to rush into marriage.

These are not bitter, broke men o. These are men society would call “successful”.

So now I’m asking myself (and una): Wetin really dey happen?
Is marriage quietly becoming something different from what we were sold?

completed:
a lady that cheats don't bother if the husband is cheating. That's why as a man, if you are cheating and your wife doesn't bother,accuse or fight you over it even when she knows, please check, she is cheating also 💯

TONYE001:
This is about people's experiences post-divorce.

I'm hoping it won't be turned to another female-bashing episode.

Sonnobax15:

On behalf of my neighbor who married the greatest female werey .

The dude keeps complaining to me about how his wife's family was the main reason why their marriage didn't last...

Sometimes I begin to thank God I didn't used the money i used in buying my refrigerator last year to do the small low-key marriage I almost did last year



If a refrigerator supercedes and usurps marriage on your scale of preference, then marriage isn't for you, trust me.

If not,by now,my water for no dey cold..

Rexymania:
Insecurity

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Abizz:
Good morning guys, I need clarification on something.
Some years ago, we were paid quite a sum at work, you know one of these unbelievable bonuses. One of my bosses who's always liked me called on me and advised I put the money to good use.
She specifically advised I should start working on building a house and she gifted me a parcel of land in a government reserved area to encourage me.

I have all necessary documents; The original Certificate of Occupancy and Deed of gifts with governor's consent.

The project took off and was completed the following year.
She was happy for me, congratulated me and that was the last time we talked about it. It's been over four years now.

I sold the house some weeks back and I'm wondering if I should have carried her along or engaged her dutifully from some legal standpoint.
Money is never her problem really, I'm just curious if normalcy demands I should have sought her permission before making the decision. One, as a boss who wants to see me do well in life. Two, as the gifter. Three, if there is any legal implications of not involving her or possible breach of intention.

DrFunmisticGlow:
let's not forget the health repercussions for the woman years down the line.

Are we not tired of seeing grandmothers coughing all the time in the village? COPD is real o.

All to please a man.

Marriage is looking less attractive day by day

QuinQQ:
But where did he say it is not tenable
Here is what he wrote:
"There are moments I just wish I had someone to talk to someone who would listen, understand, and remind me that I’m not alone"

His soul is clearly telling him something. I don't think what it is telling him is to go inwards, isolate himself more!

Man102:
My Mum Died in Ethiopian Airlines Flight from Abuja to US and the Airline is Covering Up Cause of Her Death, Adiele Jacqueline Cries Out for Help 😭😭


My Mom now of blessed memory.. Mrs Patience Ngozi Adiele returned to Nigeria from United States of America during the Christmas festive season to celebrate with her family as she turned 70 years old.

She has over 10 years experience flying abroad between UK and USA.

She boarded Ethiopian airlines *ET 950** and *ET500* respectively on the 19th of January, 2026 going back to the USA from Abuja.

She did not make it alive back to the USA as she died on board Ethiopian airlines on the 20th of January, 2026.

We are calling on passengers on board Ethiopian airlines who flew from Abuja International Airport on the 19th January , 2026 to come forward to share eye witness account of who could have gone wrong on board that led to her death on that faithful day.

Any relevant information from passengers of the same aircraft could be shared to this email address @ princeucheadiele@yahoo.com

JuanDeDios:

See where dis wun mind go. So he should stop fueling his car. Ok. If e do am now say make them enter keke go church and the wife revolt, you go still tok.

being:
@bigpicture001, nah true she talk.. cooking everytime is stressful enough.. having to add something that fumes makes it more stressful. 15k every 1.5month will not kill u.. if a must, take that money from something else - maybe ur own person comfort or car fuelling or even data

QuinQQ:
The is like saying the warmth you get on a cold day from another human body lying next to you is same as the heat you get from a heater!

bigpicture001:
Because of the high cost of energy, I barred her from overly use of electric hot plate, also gas finishes so fast.. all these are draining the family maintainance resources..

So I deviced a means to bring down the cost of energy by purchasing gokpo charcoal stove.. it's a new kinda charcoal stove that doesn't fume, it's clean energy and also burns faster..

Just that u need to infuse charcoal enough and cook straight hours so u can exchaust the charcoal, lest it won't stop burning inside..

Believe me, it doesn't darken pot nor fume..

By she has refused to use it, claiming I am taking her to olden days and causing lots of stress..

Okay I suggested she start to part pay the cost of cooking energy if sh must stick with her choice.. but sh has not filled gas since then nor part pay the huge NEPA bill that comes monthly..

Abeg wetin I go do for this case

Ibkay32:
I’m a single guy, and there are days the loneliness hits me deeper than I expect. Sometimes it feels heavy, like something is missing. There are moments I just wish I had someone to talk to someone who would listen, understand, and remind me that I’m not alone but 🥲

Brahamimo:
How do I narrate this without feeling let down?

It's really painful and sad.

Last week, I bumped into an old school mates of mine. In fact, we weren't just sch mates but coursemates.
This is someone who wouldn't attend lectures or read. He used to copy from me during exams . He was more of a nuisance to almost every of his coursemate. It wouldn't be act of exaggeration to say he was the dullest amongst us. You know these types of coursemates that are never serious, they just go about talking and disturbing everyone. The guy no get shame at all. He will beg you for money, food and everything.
During exams, he would go into the hall with chokes. He was a photocopier. You must open your scripts for him to copy, else he will keep disturbing you.
So, yesterday, we had into each other. He's married now and doing very well for himself. He is the most successful of all of us.
I'm a hussler. I do all sorts of menial jobs. So last week, he drove into a car wash stand where I work. I saw him and I was surprised. All the while, we were only seeing on Facebook. When I spotted him, he didn't know I was the one until I went to him. We hugged and exchanged pleasantries, I saw the disappointment in his face. Why would I be washing cars after sch?
Did you know that this same guy asked that we took a picture together?. We posed for the camera and one of my colleagues snapped us..
He left. And this guy began sending my pictures to other former coursemates of ours. The next week was my birthday, and this guy posted same picture on our WhatsApp platform. I was mocked. They now call me a car washer.


This has affected my self esteem and confidence. The admin of our WhatsApp platform had to delete the photo . Most of my mates called me directly to pacify and encourage me cos I was among the best students during our time.

I'm really disappointed. This guy didn't call me on my birthday, but had the guts to post a picture of me while wearing rags and washing cars at my workplace.

I am really traumatised at this moment. I'm pained. Nothing has ever hurt me like this, not even the death of my dad ever hurt me this way.

Nlfpmod mynd44

Alaefulu:
Okay, thanks for this tip🥰

fineboynl:
What's really going on? Young women are now renting houses and apartments more than guys. Is this the new trend?

There is a new house close to me here. Pop blast and full option. But the people the agents keep bringing are majority young women. Even on social media young women are now renting houses fully furnished. Is this the new trend? Are they promoting prostitution? What does the future hold for thiese woman? And how will they maintain it on the long run? We are talking of apartments running into millions.

Many are under pressures as social media is promoting the trends


We have left the blackberry and iPhone era. It's now apartment fully furnished.

Alaefulu:
Yeah but those things I'm my hand happened as a result of me trying to crush maggi cubes

Alaefulu:
I tried to get myself involved in kitchen activities yesterday and this happened some minutes later.am curious do this also happen to ladies in kitchen

HeatSeeker:
This was hurriedly push to front page without a single post! A very ludicrous article! What bunkum is this seun?!