tduorhen:
A whole estate??

A massive one at that, housing important personalities in the state.

The governor should call his boys to order.

Triplebuzz:


Exactly…Glad it later turned out well. Just gotta be really careful from now on.

Good! I was once in your shoes. It was so bad that a job with a pay within minimum wage would feel like a miracle... God came through. Not the height of success, but it is getting better.

Cheers to a better tomorrow and see you at the top.

More often than not, God uses challenges to drive us through the path we are intended to take and remove unwanted encumbrances. If all was well and fair with you, you may not have towed this path and your ex may have stayed. Thank God those days are over. Do well to save up cash heavily nd create an alternative source(s) of income.

Chevrolet076:


I did, I called her all the way to the place until I asked how far and she said she'd get back to me which was the last message I got from her till her mother called that she had been robbed.

Alright then. Please learn from this experience. Instead of referring direct job links, forward a site that does that. Thst way, it'd be the person's discretion to choose what offer to take.

Cc
Successtube


I can't believe I'm saying this. I believe you married wrongly. It is okay to seek divorce if your partner is not supportive and forthcoming, but do well to exhaust all options at mending the cracks on the wall before towing this path. And for your ex, do not be hasty in tying the knot with her. I want to believe your current wife gave you great warmth whilst you two were dating, yet your marriage is where it is now. As a man, you should know the stunts to pull to check if her feelings would be thesame through all weather.

All the best!

Chevrolet076:


I don't know many companies that are employing so the only I saw is what I thought of assisting a friend with. She's just struggling for herself and needed something doing.


I won't respond to you if you reply me with such demeaning words.

I know his words are brash, but he is right. You ought to have done your due diligence before forwarding to your friend

Chevrolet076:
I saw a job advert yesterday on a WhatsApp group chat and forwarded to a friend that needed a job. She went to meet the person this morning and the person robbed her of her phone. The said job is at Oriental Hotel and Suites

Now the Mom is calling me saying that I was the one who gave her the link. Please help me. She hasn't even gotten home and I don't know what to do.

This is my chat with the person that posted the job and he also said he doesn't know the Franklin guy personally but had done a printing job for him once.

Please help me. I was just offering to help a friend and this is even worse than the situation she was initially.


I want to get this Franklin guy please. Anybody that can help. And I need help for this lady too. This is the phone number of the guy +234 902 712 9761.


Cc Davide470, Seun, mynd44, nlfpmod

Update

The lady just got home now. She said the person asked her to follow her to a cafe where she will add his name into her CV as the referee. On getting to the Cafe, he asked her to go and snap a passport and open her phone so she can send the CV from her Gmail.

And that's after she had paid 8,500 for 10 postal stamps


Then she couldn't find him again

Wise men have said it here, times without number, that most of the jobs posted online are not legitimate. The victim trusted your judgement and let her guards down because she assumed the job giver is your trusted ally. I pray you sail through this unscathed and learn your lessons. You don't have any option than to appease the victim and her mother.

poshestmina:
Sabinus.
Neekah.
Layi.

Same

Rapmoney:
Nigerian men compromise too much in relationship and marriage. A man who is educated and financially stable can marry an uneducated and financially handicapped girl but the reverse can never happen. Only in the dream or Nollywood movies can a financially stable and educated Nigerian lady marry a broke and uneducated man.

If Nigerian men follow the same pattern women employ in relationships, then many women will clock 45 in their parents' homes.

Ladies should have up to 500k in their bank accounts for a start before they dive into marriage. At least, such can serve as backup so that they don't depend on their partners for every little thing they want. And they should also be working or doing business. No man deserves a liability as a wife. If you don't have up to 500k and above, then go and work or start a trade and leave marriage alone. You are an adult and not a toddler that should be spoonfed.

Don't crucify me. It's my opinion.

I share in this school of thought. 500k is too small an amount to make a reasonable impact, however. As a matter of fact, I am more keen in the woman having a source of income than just savings.

murphy2get:
As a man, when things go down financially 4u, only ur woman will feed u. 98% of your friends will abandon u, invest in your woman.

But to see d right woman is the problem now, all we seeing now are slay Queens..

God pls help me ur Son🙏🙏😭😭😭

As a man, try to keep a balanced front. Good friends are as helpful and useful as a good woman. You can have the best of both worlds. Don't be restrictive in your thinking.

Henry2405:
The water dey always cold

I knew what cup it'd be, even before opening the thread.

LilNetty:
Please I need your candid advice.

My wedding is coming up in some months and I need your advice. My fiancé and her family are insisting on court wedding which I don’t want to object to. I should have moved on but she pregnant. What can I do?

What's your deal against court wedding? If you are worried about your assets, you can sign a prenup.

Kvarachi:

And what's the truer words you think he just spilled if not jargons.
Oh! It's bcus he said saving the 2k instead of giving it to her would have yielded millions of me right?
So in you guys mendulla oblongata, you really think I will be giving someone 2k everyday without saving for myself.
And with you guys logic, can we also go and tell those who drinks bottle of beer worth more than 5k everyday to be saving them also so that it can yield billions in a couple of years time.
And you guys ignore the part where I said this particular girl made me stop gambling that eat up to 10k everyday from me, and it's giving her 2k I should now be worried about.
Abeg make una talk another thing

You are a bus driver. I won't banter words with you. I am sorry!

Namaster:
OP is FOOLISH and ENTITLED.

Regular customer of a Filling station?
Wants special privileges?

Foolish man.

ALL the money that you've spent at that Filling Station is less than 1% of what they make per day.

Your spending is a BIG DEAL to you but it's CHICKEN CHANGE to the Filling Station.

Let that SINK in!

Only privilege you deserve is being attended to AS and WHEN due.

Also the fact that you're fucking a fuel attendant, who's practically a salesgirl, does NOT give you the right to JUMP queues in a time of DIRE fuel scarcity.

Nigerians complain about corruption and nepotism in the political class but are EAGER to take advantage of the same when it benefits them.

People had been on that queue for HOURS and you wanted to CHEAT them because you are a "regular customer" who's fucking a salesgirl.

What an ENTITLED joker!

ALSO putting a girl on a DAILY allowance is STUPID!

If you work at least 5 days a week and save 2k each day instead of giving it to a girl, you'd have 40k saved each month.

If you started since February when you began dating, you'd have ALMOST #250K extra saved.

Anyway, the girl did the RIGHT thing!

Did I type this? No truer words than these. The change we desire starts from grassroot acts such as this..

pyyxxaro:



Got which Job , after falling on the ground like someone that was possessed 😩😩

LOL! This is really bad. That bad fall, all for nothing? Eyaaaaa!

You are truly lucky. Our justice system is highly flawed. This act would have landed you in serious trouble.

pyyxxaro:
Nor reason am oh , no level

I remember attending an interview in Lekki phase 1 , I came from Berger , got there late, sweating profusely… When it was my turn, I was called , as I opened the door , didn’t even walk up to 4 steps , I slipped 😳😩, my file scatter for ground , my eye de shine like who de purge , they screamed, get up , sorry , get up 😩, at that point , I knew Devil was fully around 😩😩, Devil nor get conscience oh🙆🏿‍♀️


That was actually my first interview, can’t forget that Special day 😀😍




Ogbeni nor fear , a good and healthy job is on the way for you

I replayed this scenario in my head and had a good laugh. Hope you got the job?

Zeal0000007:
I'm an engineer, just acquired my license in my career pathway 4 months. Securing a job as not been easy with the license as our job is offshore, God helped an opportunity came through, I went there after all the preparations and readiness and messed up myself. Till now I'm yet to forgive myself. This was a good opportunity for me , there are alot of bills to be paid, expections was high. Till now I feel I have disappointed myself and my family. No job no paid. I wish I can overcome this guilt, I feel extremely bad since then. Please someone should advise me on how to overcome this in this harsh economy, I'm feeling terrible right now.

Dust yourself up already and push on. If one opportunity is lost, another would suffice, but not when you are feeling downcast.


All will well!

Irupetepete:
Just tell them you will bring it up for review when the time comes ....
There are pros and cons in all enterprise

Also reiterate your commitment to the company's growth and the attainment of their goals.

Melagros:
COMRADES, since I was desperate, I will lie to them that I won't leave in order to secure the job, till then...

That would be tantamount to shooting oneself on the leg. It is human nature to seek growth. This question is mostly thrown out to test the interviewee's honesty.

Gbadugbakun:
In a job interview, the panel asked you, "Will you leave this job if you find a better one?” What will be your answer?

I'm drawn to this role and the company's vision. If I were to come on board, I'd be fully invested in driving success and meeting our objectives. While I'm open to future growth, my initial focus would be on making a meaningful impact in this position and contributing to the team's achievements. I'm excited about the prospect of joining and growing with the organization.

Goldmynemaniac:
Are you people's brains paining you or something? What is the difference between accomodation, rent, and housing allowances?

That was the conviction I needed to conclude that the school management is not serious.

Didi2d:


Na wetin I dey face be that, I don't know if they don't like leather,always scratching my white leather chair

If you want to maintain a prestine space, then you shouldn't house a pet. Only animals have a good understanding of boundaries.

WorkTheTalk:
I can't stand the bad odors of cat faeces.

Same here
This is the sole reason why I do not have a pet. It would be hard to manage clutter and dirt with these pets.

sam121:
Apart from keeping pests away from my home, I want to know other benefits of keeping cats within the home as pet.

If you can deal with the stench of their excretion, then you don't have a problem.