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Kobojunkie:
How many men do what you say ? Not many that is why the women should instead be informed of her powers in marriage as well. 🥱🥱🚈

A woman knowing her powers in a marriage with a man who doesn't understand his woman's right in tantamount to gross failure. It is the responsibility of a man to stand up and man up... or do you also want to push this simple tasks to wives Those "balls" aren't meant solely for what you know them to do, they are also for situations such as this one.

SPAMBOX7:
Never has a woman asked to be trusted and ends up not breaking that trust. Trust and woman na cat and dog abolish that word from your mouths

Please speak for yourself. Flawed opinions like this one is the sole reason why gender conflict is persistent.

bulunton:
Hi community 👋🏽,

A member reached out seeking guidance on the possibility of in-laws to be the reason for divorce
Please share your thoughts, experiences, and culturally grounded advice.
Let’s keep responses supportive, respectful, and focused on healthy boundaries and solutions. 💛

Though I'm not an authority in this field, one thing I know is that in-laws can vert much lead to the annulment of a union. A man should be able to define boundaries between his wife and his family. Not abandoning the latter, but ensuring that they understand the new arrangement. This is necessary especially if the in-laws "do not like" the wife

SPAMBOX7:
https://www.nairaland.com/8549215/lady-blasts-men-demand-dna

I saw this post and I have decided any girl I plan to settle down with will have to go through a minor test so I will know what I'm dealing with before I proceed.

I'll simply tell her DNA test is non negotiable soon as we have a child. If she got a problem with that then I know exactly where she belongs; for the streets. Na mumu dey wait for proof and evidence when they are already being shown the redflag.
Try this with your woman and see what you dating. It will save you alot than trying to evade it now and get the shock of your life later.

The image below says all
Bye

If you do not trust her so much so that you want to make this demands, please do not marry her and if your insecurity pokes you to tow this path, please do so quietly. Telling a faithful girlfriend or wife that you intend doing a dna test on your children would hurt her so bad because it goes to show you don't trust her.

bestman09:
The golden rule says; FEAR WOMEN, 24HRS EVERYDAY!

"Fear some humans" is more like it. No gender has the monopoly of promiscuity, fetishism and adultery.

Unclebayo:
Hey guys…

Why did we always go with the girls that don’t care about us and leave the ones that has pure heart for us.

A man sent 250k to a lady and she replied with seen and same man sent launch to another lady and the girl wrote a long epistles thanking him and appreciating the love..

But guess what the man will still go with the one that wrote seen..

I’m currently in the show that’s why I don’t blame him… I know a girl that loves me so much but I don’t have feelings for her and I still don’t knows why, this girl can do anything for me to survive Yet I’m not even replying her messages.

Why ? 😢

This is pure psychology. Avoidant attachment us the reason why men love and marry b***ches.

Don't let this one experience deter you from instilling discipline. Character development is one facet of child development that I don't joke with in my class and that is because the country is already a mess. To sour above this mess, the next generation has to come morally prepared.

natedensel:
The problem is why can't she just LovePeddler herself and leave, why is she now trying to control a family she just invaded few months ago, now she's diverting every support my siblings are supposed to get from their father for her and her child, her grown up teenage child, did you read what I wrote at all? She's now my father's voice like she speaks for him now, isn't it logical to nip this in the bud before it becomes rooted.

If you have an elderly figure that your father listens to, you can try reporting him to this person, but know these: She didn't invade your home. She was invited. She is not a love peddler. She is a replacement. She is not a leech, she has been placed above you and your siblings on the scale of preference. The odds are against you. The sweetest revenge and the best option for you is not to fight what will not go in your favour, but to leave and work hard. It is only a matter of time before karma sets in. I pray God gives you and yours the strength.

natedensel:
My mum died not long ago, and my dad has a hand in her demise because her marriage was a turbulent one and she died of HBP, now shortly after she died, my dad came along with one woman who is very bold and shameless, first off she already has children from another fling not marriage, and now she comes and sleeps over, infact she's not discreet about it she's bold, brazen and doesn't feel ashamed of what she's doing.

Recently she has gotten more relaxed , she used to mind her business, she comes and do her thing and leaves, now she overstays, and she's now meddling in our family affairs, trying to mom me and my siblings now, then turning our dad away from us, now my dad sponsors her and her child from another relationship but neglects us like he did our mom.

I could easily make life miserable for her but I am not interested because I'm moving out as soon as possible, but what about my siblings, she has taken over everything and now she's my father's voice.

I'm sorry about your mother's demise, but it seems like you want to continue the work that she failed to finish. It is just unfortunate that your mother chose an indisciplined *** for a husband.


Good thing is that you're moving out. What about your siblings? Are they also independent? I hope God gives your and your siblings the strength and the finances to break free from home. That woman is your mother's replacement and she is likely to make life hell for you and your siblings. So the best thing is to move out.

saphiere:
Confiscated say wetin? Please explain more.

If you're given the device for free, try not to renege on renewing your subscription, else they will collect the device.

Angiewhite:
No it wasn’t a mistake dear, he knew what he was doing , that’s why I just want to know the motive behind it, he had this evil smile on his face while searching for the phone, like someone who knew what they were doing and that’s why I was more confused myself and had to sit down and just looking at him.

Okay then! I'm sorry about your ordeal.

He subconsciously put the phone there, hence when he cannot remember. When you are in a state of panic, your body secretes adrenalin. This might cause you to act irrationally, hence the reason why he asked you to search your bag and all that.


My point is that, it's like an honest mistake and you don't habe to end the relationship unless if he has other flaws that you cannot forego.

saphiere:
Please whoever is using this MTN fiber X should drop a review because I want to get it tomorrow.

Thanks.

Absolutely worth it, but make inquiries to be sure your area is fully covered. Also, note that if you fail to renew, your device might be confiscated.

Jennyclay:
Men display their real character as soon as they get married.

She must have discovered some certain things the man lied about and she won’t be able to cope reason she call it a quit

Men can lie, Jesus Christ!!
It could take years and months before a lady can notice a man have been lying to her

I’m glad it took her just weeks to discover in this case.

....or the true character has been there and as clear as day from the onset, but the lady assumed she can pray him into changing...

immortalcrown:
Wedding reception quality does not determine marriage quality.

The poorest marriage can begin with the richest wedding reception, while the richest marriage can begin with the poorest wedding reception.

A poor marriage can begin with a poor wedding reception, and a rich marriage can as well begin with a rich wedding reception.

I keep using "Wedding reception", not just "wedding", because what is expensive is not wedding itself but the reception that follows the wedding.

In conclusion, wedding reception is about public entertainment, not about the state of the marriage. Entertain the public well if you can afford to. But, don't use the entertainment to predict your marriage.

You've said it all and even more. It's just a freaking ceremony to join two people in matrimony, so why spend so much on what may not last? Is it safe to say that one's scale of wedding ceremony (big or small) is a measure of one's maturity?

overdrive:
Following this,I want to know more about pcos and if it has a solution.

It is a condition that can be managed. Women with PCOS can conceive, only that it may not be as care-free and easy compared to those without it. A fe adjustments here and there and you're good to go.

Rega99:
Despite her having pcos during our dating year, she got pregnant and she decided to abort it which i was strongly against.

Now we are married and she still hasn't gotten pregnant, it's over a year now. We did series of test and I did too and we are both okay, except for the fact that she has pcos. She hasn't seen her period for the past months. Very soon people will start asking questions.

Anyone with any experience about this and how to tackle it?

I don't see any problem here. Seems you're newly married so no need to stress yourself this early. She has PCOS and that condition can be managed. You need to research on how to gl about triggering ovulation. Simple lifestyle adjustment can help aid your wife in being pregnant.

thesicilian:
In the country of the blind...

You have said it all.

Iweakbro:
In the world of AI, you’re are not educated enough. This is a statement of fact and not an insult. Tertiary education Teaches you research through your assignments, and project. It is imperative to make your research—before joining the bandwagon of religious low-lifes to berate years of hard work in form of AI—as a demonic tool.

I am a developer —fluent in rust, python, and c++.

Chat-gpt and co are not demonic tools. It took years of complex concepts like deep learning and natural language processing by software engineers like me who trained the machine on all the data available on Google.

That is what you think. However, on a deeper level, you are ignorant. These features you mentioned are on the surface, but diving deeper into the rabbit hole, there's a grand agenda that AI is driven to promote. I hope you come into contact with that.

Iweakbro:
See how uneducated you are. So after I spend 6 months training a machine, when it begins to output words , you will call it devil’s tool. Go and read about LLM, machine learning, deep learning and educate yourself on how AI was created.

Bold of you to tag me as uneducated. I'll forgive you for your wanton ignorance.

Perhaps we can hold this discourse when you are ready to think outside that tiny box your world revolves around.

StoryHaven:
God bless you.
You are on point.

And bless you too!

PerfectStranger:
He said unless there's domestic violence.

Yes, he did mention physical abuse, but no reference was made to mental abuse. Contrary to the opinion that most people hold, mental abuse is more deadly than physical abuse. So I believe that any woman who isn't happy in her marriage and the situation is irredeemable should seek separation.

The irony of situations like this is that the woman may stay put for the mental health of her children, but kids who grow up in such environments would grow up to be either people pleasers/pick me or narcissists.

KnowledgePower7:
My life changed after I had a very deep conversation with ChatGPT .
It blew my mind to different layers that I never knew existed and it all made sense.

I think the Future is going to crazy
In a good way I pray🙏🏿

We are in very interesting times
I thank God for being alive in this period of A.I
We are witnessing a huge shift in modern civilization.

It's funny how you think the devil's tool is a good replacement for fellowship.

Life as a dead wife is harder. Leave if the tides are not suitable and irredeemable.

Is that what you're in school for..? LNY!!!

No point getting in when we won't have a phenomenal outing.

This is one of the worst fate that can befall any man. Being at the mercy of intoxicated fellows would make you understand how fickle life is. 3 years after and my experiences still remain fresh.

May the soul of the departed rest in peace.

dailyflavour:
Good day ladies and gentlemen,
I Welcome you all to my kitchen gallery

These look yummy. Keep up the good work.

Sirchiboy:
Tell me one mistake I should not Make or avoid before getting married

Don't only settle for a partner that you love, prioritize values: ensure that your partner's values align with yours. Look out for complement. Ensure that your partner's strengths and Weaknesses aligns with yours.

Diegostan:
If only you know how much your failed country has played a vital role in limiting you brother.

The only limit is that which you have created for yourself.