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Family / Re: DNA Test Palava (What Do I Do?) by Juliearth(f): 11:55am On Aug 01
I am pretty sure the baby isn't your, but just to the double sure, a "family" outing can be a perfect bait. Take her and the baby out on a nice treat and after that, make your way to the hospital. Her reaction afterwards would make you know if the baby is yours.
Romance / Re: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by Juliearth(f): 3:50pm On Jul 28
citywal:
I'm sorry I let my emotions get hold of me I apologize



I am sorry too for overreacting. Follow your heart and find your peace!

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Family / Re: My Wedding Estimate 4 Years Ago by Juliearth(f): 12:33pm On Jul 28
Prechgold1180:

Omo second to comment
I dedicate this spot to my no nonsense lectural mr Clifford thanks for trying to bring back the seriousness in me

But try know say as e be now I belong to the street
Back to the question

Where u wan for see cow buy 100k


Wetyn u write self nur go reach for birthday


Only cow go collect everything wey u write

Just write x5 for everything wey u write




Chaiii, *5? This country don spoil true true. We really need to start exploring cheaper options. In my opinion, the white wedding is totally unnecessary and the traditional can be a parlour event, case close. Imagine burning 3 million and counting just to have a wedding 3 million that would be more than enough to kickstart a business.
Family / Re: My Wedding Estimate 4 Years Ago by Juliearth(f): 12:29pm On Jul 28
EBUBS:
I wrote this wedding estimate four years ago thinking I'll get married but it didn't work out again. tongue

But with the way things are going in my current relationship I think it's going to happen this year grin.

So please if you know the updated price for the items on the list please drop it here so I'll upgrade it. I know say things don expensive cry
Thank for the feedback



Just multiply your total cost by 3.5 and you are good to go! HML in advance.
Romance / Re: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by Juliearth(f): 12:26pm On Jul 28
[quote author=citywal post=104173981] go and read my response to others that's not the only thing. [/quote



Stop dishing out orders like you are my employer. If you cannot post the other response here for me to take in, then let this slide please, let's pretend I never stumbled on this thread.
Romance / Re: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by Juliearth(f): 9:30am On Jul 28
cejaypriesty:

Even though we need God's protection we also have to be smart ,you can't be keeping late night ,not helping your mom in her business and expect all to go well with you .Late night for me is a big red flag and not helping her mother reeks of irresponsibility and laziness.Wisdom is profitable to direct .



I totally agree with you bro, but I think op is a bit brash to break up with his woman because she keeps late night.
Romance / Re: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by Juliearth(f): 5:20am On Jul 28
citywal:
I just don't get it at all, I swear I don't. How can a girl know that you love her, like she knows legit.

I told her times without numbers reduce the way she goes out with friends, she lives in the mainland n I live at Ajah (lekki axis) her mum recently opened a restaurant and she should be helping the woman... Like I advice her alot.

I came across pastor Kingsley Okonkwo preaching that says "you saw her the way she was before you married her and it you didn't change her then why change her now"
Heaven knows I tried but if she can't stop we can't get married and I can't date her.

I can't keep getting worried anytime she goes out considering the dangerous times that we are now.

I am not a simp but fact is sooner or later y'all calling yourself redpillers will want to settle down.

I mean if this is how looking for a partner is hard I'll just get myself a baby mama n focus on my life n kid. I'm legit tired of all this...so pissed this night.



Wait a second, you mean her only offense is/was going out too often with her friends? If an issue this trivial can make you breakup with her, it means you may have to carve/mould your wife by yourself. We live in perilous times , but what we need is God's protection and not seclusion. The truth of the matter is that even in your room, you can be greeted by danger.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Feel Like Quitting My Job by Juliearth(f): 3:21am On Jul 26
ceevee2003:
not that easy a decision to make. Very difficult. I feel I might regret.






Your feelings are correct. You don't run away from challenges, you face them. If there is a reason for this animosity, address that reason. If there is none, focus on winning her over. Hustle or not, I am sure you will need a steady source of income.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 9:45am On Jul 19
nonny400:


Amaka like you.




LOL!!! Better an Amaka than a Chidinma cool

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Romance / Re: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by Juliearth(f): 4:39pm On Jul 18
My dear, you love this man and I think what he earns should not matter. You said it that he has prospects and drive for success... This means he would break even soon. However, I think you shouldn't be the one to break the ice on the relationship issue. Not that it is bad, but we do not know how mature this man is... We don't want this man tagging you a desperate lady due to this move. Let things flow and if he gives you a push, plunge! All the best!
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 9:56am On Jul 18
nonny400:


Just here, waiting for you. kiss grin


LOL!! Don't wait for me oh. I will disappoint you.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 12:11pm On Jul 17
nonny400:


My baby. cry





My bae, LOL. Where have you been?
Romance / Re: Groom Caught Bride Cheating On Him With His Best Man And Called Off The Wedding by Juliearth(f): 9:21am On Jul 17
Sergioaguero:
Groom disgraced bride and his best man for sleeping with his fianceé. He didn't expose them earlier on, but decided to disgrace them on the wedding day.

He eventually calld off the wedding with people begging him and fianceé crying and rolling on the floor.

Did the groom do the right thing?
On my opinion he should have forgiven her as no one is perfect.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQmRHqDH1pw



I strongly believe that this is a stunt.

1. Of all the places to break up. Why does it have to be on the road and not in the church for instance?


2. Why would the best man dress better than the groom.

3. The silence that came prior and during the groom's exposé says it all. Looks planned.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 8:45am On Jul 17
coolsan:



The target was the vehicle he was delivering...
If he had left the car to climb the bridge.....dey would have stolen the car




Too much sense! Same thing that came to my mind. People are wicked sha.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 8:32am On Jul 17
azpekuliar:


You are absolutely correct. I have already told the owner I am not ready to risk more than N50,000 for the fridge “as is”




Good decision. Be patient, I am sure a good deal might suffice here and/or check the declutter pages on IG.
Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 8:20am On Jul 17
azpekuliar:


I like the fridge but I am really worried because I know the owner would have tried to work on it without success. I no get money to waste oo.
I also know a former neighbor who had one of those big side-by-side refrigerator (that sell for almost N1m) and it got spoilt. He was not able to fix it till I relocated out of that estate.



As an extra tip, there are various declutter pages on Instagram where you can get to chat the owner up and show her what you want. I can't mention names here for fear of being banned, but you can just search on IG.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 8:19am On Jul 17
azpekuliar:


I like the fridge but I am really worried because I know the owner would have tried to work on it without success. I no get money to waste oo.
I also know a former neighbor who had one of those big side-by-side refrigerator (that sell for almost N1m) and it got spoilt. He was not able to fix it till I relocated out of that estate.



If you like this brand of fridge that much and cannot afford a new one, wait for other deals that come without fault. Buying second handed goods that come with faults is a red flag because if the fault isn't that complex, the owner would have fixed it rather than selling as is.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Juliearth(f): 8:16am On Jul 17
azpekuliar:


Thanks, no be dash at all oo. The relocating owner wants me to pay N130,000 as is.




Haba! Oga save yourself the stress and buy another refrigerator. With 130k plus the amount you would "waste" to repair the refrigerator, I am sure you can get a new haier thermocool refrigerator which is guaranteed to work for ages without stress.

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Family / Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by Juliearth(f): 2:39am On Jul 14
goodheart02:



Hmmmmmmm... Counselling counsellor



Smiles!
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Age Reduction Effects by Juliearth(f): 9:18am On Jul 13
Sylove:
Please what are the effects of reducing age to apply for a job? Will they later find out
Please I need a guide



Please don't ever be tempted to reduce your age. I know someone who reduced her age and has been applying for a job in the organization where her husband works. By default, she should have an upper hand since her husband is a staff (FG job). However, each recruitment process ends in tears for her. On digging further, it was revealed that her age was the problem. Her husband's file shows that his wife is in her early 40s and her CV shows something else. Infact, that almost cost her husband his job because the management saw it as a case of impersonation (bringing his mistress to impersonate his wife). Years gone by, job openings have been sufficing in that organization, but she cannot apply...well unless she resits her WAEC, ND, HND OR BSc. and this time with her correct age. That woman is my aunt so this is not a case of hearsay.

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Politics / Re: World Renowned Economist Steve Hank Draws New Cartoon For Buhari by Juliearth(f): 8:42am On Jul 13
SeeThisLoser:
wow !!

This cartoon depicts the mess this country is in. However, it would have been better if Nigeria was inscribed up there as against Aso rock because it is the entire country that is at the verge of drowning under his watch.
Crime / Re: Help!! A Friend Withdrew 900k From My Account And Reported Me To The Police. by Juliearth(f): 8:34am On Jul 13
Metu2016:
It Happened That I Went To My Friend's Boutique On Saturday Morning Been 10th July To Buy Some Clothes Worth 20k, I Tried Transferring But Network Didn't Allow It Go Through, So I Gave The guiy My ATM Card To Go Make Withdrawal From The Nearest ATM Machine, He Sent One Of His Boy And In Less Than 3 minutes I got An Alert Of 20k Only For The Boy To Come Back And Tell US That The ATM Machine Swallowed My ATM Card.

On Sunday Been 11th July I Got An Alert of 500k And Another Alert of 400k Totalling 900k, I Ran Straight To My Friend's Shop And Asked Him If He Or Any Of His Boy's Made Withdrawal From myi Account With My ATM Card, His Response Was NO And That How Can an ATM Card Which Is Stucked In The ATM Machine Make Withdrawal.

As Early As 8:00am On Monday 12th July I Was In My Bank To Print Out Statement Of Account, Only For Me to Find Out That The 900k Was Withdrewed From A POS Shop. We All Went To The Bank Where The Boy Claimed My ATM Card Was Stucked And They Told US No Such ATM Card Was In There Machine.

Around 12pm On The Same you Monday, I got a Call From State CID That I have A Petition Written Against Me By My friend On 10th July Been Saturday For False Accusations and Defamation of Character And Hope Am Aware That it's a jailable Offence And I Should Report To State CID In Ikeja Before 4pm on the said date..

Please Nairaland How Do I Go About These And Get Back My Money



No matter the pressure, do not give a third party your ATM and pin for withdrawal. Your friend set you up. If he was truly your friend and innocent, why would he report you for coming to his shop to enquire about the withdrawals, when in actual sense, he and his boy would naturally be the prime suspect?

Get a lawyer
Have your bank trace the POS merchant and do the needful afterwards.
Involve the EFCC also
Travel / Re: What I Witnessed In Oshodi Today by Juliearth(f): 8:28am On Jul 13
Monogamy:


Eko means Lagos Island,Idumota, Obalende, Tinubu square and co....




Interesting!
Travel / Re: What I Witnessed In Oshodi Today by Juliearth(f): 8:27am On Jul 13
Dogasas:
I am based in Abuja but come to Lagos State once in a while. Now because of my unfamiliarity with Lagos roads, I decided to use public transport this morning.

I was at one of the Oshodi parks when I started hearing "eko" "eko" "eko". I moved closer to the conductor to ask where the bus was going and with a sachet of dry gin in his mouth, he harshly said "Lagos". That wasn't my destination but as I was looking for a bus going to my destination, I kept pondering, no be the same Lagos we dey abi is there another Lagos in Lagos?




LOL!! Lagos is like a mystery to me. Maybe it should be an elective in our higher institutions. Hope you got to your destination though?
Romance / Re: If This Is What It Means To Cheat On My Husband, Then I Will Do It Again by Juliearth(f): 8:09am On Jul 13
Hi Ngozi,

I am sorry about your ordeal. It hurts to love and not to be loved back. It hurts likewise to be abandoned.

However, have you ever thought about what might be the reason for this change? I am sire it wasn't like this from the onset. I am not penning the blame on you, but it seems that value has shifted grounds.


Psychology puts it that men would only chase after what they see as desirable, a challenge...something stellar. You retiring from job search and not being independent to some extent has made you so many things, but desirable (reason why he doesn't touch you), a challenge (reason why he doesn't make am effort to make you happy).


Its obvious your husband likes his women ambitious. I know parenthood and marriage can be tasking, but please dust your CV and get your groove back in the labour market. Whilst at it, discover your entrepreneurial flare, draft a business proposal and mail it to him.

For your man to desire you, he needs to be turned on by your "doings". Make sure you look prem and proper even when at home. Get some hot négligé, do not act thirsty, but make him thirsty. Please don't nag....


I wish you good luck!

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Education / Re: Do You “wear” “spray” Or “apply” Perfume? by Juliearth(f): 7:59am On Jul 13
jawalis:
Pls elites and Everyone with good knowledge of English language should help me. I’m confused of which the correct one is.
Is it wear, spray or apply for a perfume?
Pls help. (endeavor to make the answer clear and understandable)
Thanks.



You wear a perfume.
Romance / Re: She Said "Yes" Yesterday But Demanding 60k Today. by Juliearth(f): 4:05am On Jul 13
24brains:
you are wise




If that comment is wise, please do this lady and yourself a great favour by dissolving the proposal. You belong to the streets.
Romance / Re: She Said "Yes" Yesterday But Demanding 60k Today. by Juliearth(f): 4:03am On Jul 13
24brains:
No woman, no cry. A girl that barely said yes to me yesterday is demanding 60k from me for wardrobe allowance.

Giving her the money is not the issue. but i fear a relationship built on such ground will collapse in no time.

What happens when hair and feeding allowances enters? i sometime wonder if having a girlfriend is worth it because almost all of them have multiple boyfriends whom they cash out from. i see no difference between them and olosho. petronizing olosho gives much rest of mind than a girl who is yet to be your wife.

Nairalanders, how do you people cope with girlfriends palava in this present state of Nigeria?




How can you say these mean things to the woman you just proposed to (@ third paragraph)? With this mindset of yours, why did you propose to her? Has she not been asking you for palliatives before? If this is her first time, has it not occured to you that she might truly need it? If this isn't her first, why is it coming as a surprise to you?


Her timing is wrong and I am team independent woman, but honestly, instead of bringing this issue here, you simply should have given her a suitable response (yes or no). Instead of nursing the mindset that she could be like the others in the bandwagon you talked about in your third paragraph, you should really get to understand your wife to be. Deep down, you know that the responses you would get here would be negative, so are you trying to make them bash your wife?
Religion / Re: See The Tilapia My Neighbor Offered Me For 20k by Juliearth(f): 11:21am On Jul 12
theTranslator:

The fish sef na end time fish
Tilapia that is as big as catfish? undecided

Besides tilapia is very bony



LOL, real end time Fish.

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Religion / Re: See The Tilapia My Neighbor Offered Me For 20k by Juliearth(f): 2:42am On Jul 12
donnie:
I bought some scaled fish a while ago from my neighbor who deals on dried fish. I haven't bought fish from her in a while as she hasn't had scaled fish. However, she recently sent her son to my house with this... looks like a tilapia. I offered to pay 6k but they refused. I would have even offered 10k if they hadn't stood on their 20k.

What do you think? I haven't seen a tilapia this big, except online. 20k can buy me 5 chickens or even a goat. Anyways... Your comments.




I won't even buy this for 5k. The other choices you mentioned are better. 20k worth of chicken or Mutton would last you a month or more, depending on how large your family is.

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Crime / Re: Gray Ekpezu, UNICAL Student Killed By A Soldier (Pictures) by Juliearth(f): 11:09pm On Jul 11
After all these years of hardwork, his dreams thwarted just like that... Sad sigh!
Food / Re: Fast And Easy Way To Make Semolina by Juliearth(f): 6:22pm On Jul 11
dominique:



Lol, I made that silly comment 7 years ago before kids and a whole lot of responsibility landed on my neck. I can't remember the last time I turned semo on fire. What I do now is turn the semo in cold water till all the lumps are dissolved then I put in on low heat till it solidifies.





LOL! Way to go sis!!

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