OilandGasMarket:
You must plug it into the wall socket in the house the meter is connected to

Okay, but that may not be possible considering the fact that power is down in my apartment .

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice

I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood, three rented apartments. I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home. They always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs.

One of them, her husband is not always around. He goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me in conversation any little chance she finds me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too.

I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution.

The other lady is here with her husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally. It happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor's house to ask her if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives.

On our way going the husband was coming back home, he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she dares disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it.

A this point, I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s mwife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this)? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action?

Matured advice please.

Also desist from collecting free food. Over familiarity breeds contempt.

Letuspray4niger:
Good day all, please I need ur advice

I’m the only bachelor in my neighborhood, three rented apartments. I’m in between two families, they both have three three kids each, they are all very nice people, they rendered assistance to me in any slightest opportunity that presents itself, they pack my washed clothes under the sun fold it and well arranged before I returned home. They always sweep my surroundings, when they are doing theirs.

One of them, her husband is not always around. He goes and comes once in a while, she will always like to engage me in conversation any little chance she finds me outside, knowing fully well that she is a married woman, I don’t give room for such familiarity, she always offer me food by giving it to her children to give to me. (Make I no lie I need the food cus I no fit cook) I’ll also get things for her children too.

I noticed her getting me food was getting too frequent, I started given her attitude and being very official with her, and she took caution.

The other lady is here with her husband, she will join me in my car if I’m going out maybe coincidentally. It happened she was going to my direction, also, there was a faithful day I left my apartment keys at a barbershop in front of my estate, I came back that evening looking for this barber guy his number was not connecting, I went to my neighbor's house to ask her if he knew where I can find this guy, the man was not in the house, the wife came out that she will lead me to the guys house, and me I don’t know where the guys lives.

On our way going the husband was coming back home, he saw us walking in the street of the estate, he confronted us and we told him, just yesterday I came back at about 11:30pm when this woman with her husband here came knocking at my door that her husband is accusing her of having an affair with me, that he threatened to send her parking if she dares disclose the information to me and it happened that I’m close to the husband, we both discuss about politics a lot, the other neighbor who’s husband is not always around also came out, I had to confront the husband why dragging me into ur family issues did u seen me on top ur wife, why this allegation? He said is his family issue that he will take care of it.

A this point, I’m considering taking a legal action against him for character assassination, did I do wrong for given my Neiboure’s mwife a lift Or asking for where I can locate the barber guy? I’m guilty of this)? The husband has the right to suspect, but since nothing going on between me and his wife what I’m supposed to do, should I proceed with the legal action?

Matured advice please.

There is really no need to take legal actions. Take this as a lesson and keep a safe distance. It's always like that living around couples.

The error message below pops up whenever I try to recharge.

Last night, I noticed that my apartment was without power supply even when my neighbours had. I concluded that my power units were out, even though that was uncanny. I carried the recharge box, which also shows the number of units available, to work, so I could top up. I noticed an error message, but brushed it off. I bought some units and tried loading, but the error message persists and the recharge was not successful.

Has anyone ever experienced this? How do I go about this please??


Cc
RoyalRoy

Jewessgratitud3:
A lady is trending online after cooking rubbish for her family claiming she only knows how to cook for herself.

Heres what her family has to say and peoples reaction to what she cooked.

Meanwhile it is very important to start teaching a girl child how to cook quite early in life. By age 9 I've started cooking. As in.. I'll go to the market then obalende market after returning from school o, we would go with a small list and buy soup items, come and still prepare it on my Moms directives. Family food o.

By the time I was ten, I no longer needed assistance. Once you're coming back from school just know you're the one going to the market and because I love food a lot it's me they'll always send to that market if I like make I knack my head for wall my Mom will tell you when you're done scattering everywhere, the money is behind the table clock waiting for you. Chai! Then I saw it as punishment but today I'm glad for the culinary skills I have.

This my gender sha! What can you boast of if you cannot pull basic tricks in the kitchen as a woman? Let's just believe this was staged, because....

FunkyAlhaji2015:
I trust Juliearth to deliver anyway. She and good cooking were made for each other

Interesting!

EmekaStanley:
Around middle of November 2018, I had an accident with a scooter I had bought to ease my transportation to and from Apapa where Givanas, a company I worked with at that time is situated.

The scooter was a life saver for me considering the state of Apapa road at that time.

As a result of the accident which was as a collision with a distant-minded person crossing the road, I fractured my radius, had deep scratches on my shoulder and face.

I was rushed to a local orthopedic who wore me a cast on my arm to immobilize it.

At that time, I was actively seeking to leave Givanas, so I saw Jagal vacancy for the post of a ‘buyer’. I took the test online, scored high and was invited for a face to face interview.

While at home taking some off days due to the injury, I attended Jagal interview with the cast and injury marks on my face.

I arrived Ikoyi, the headquarters of Jagal, met Ian Moodley, the then Group Supply Chain Manager, who was to interview me.

Ian Moodley looked beyond my injuries, interviewed me properly and told me he was going to hire me, and he did.

He just referred me to the Group HR then, Daniel Ayscough to formalize it.

By the end of that day, I received an official email from Daniel informing me that I have been hired, and asked me to resume by the second week of January, which was enough time for me to notify Givanas that I was quitting.

I immediately sent an email to Givanas informing them of my resignation, went to work few times with the injury and that was it.

There are lots of things I could pull out from this writeup including Jagal's penchant for recognizing talent irrespective of a physical condition that some employers could use as an excuse not to hire someone or my own part of not being discouraged to attend the interview because of my injury.

Now, here is the purpose of this write up.

I was supposed to carry that cast for at least 2 months or even more than, to enable my radius heal well but I removed it the week I resumed at Jagal.

Almost 6 years down the line, close to 4 years after I left Jagal, I have to wear the cast again for that same injury I had.

Apparently the bone joined but didn’t heal properly. All the pains that I should have borne 6 years ago, I am bearing some of them now.

Surprisingly, throughout that time, I was carrying weights at the gym, though I noticed that there was a particular gym programme (which was my favorite) that I couldn’t do without pains in the arm.

That was when I got convinced that my arm has not healed completely.

Today, anytime I go for massage of the arm, I feel real pain, and thoughts keep running through my mind. But, I have serious life lessons I have learnt from this.

One: There is no shortcut to healing. The only exception here is if it is a miracle because I believe in miracles.

If you are meant to receive a particular treatment routine, please stick to your treatment until you are healed completely, confirmed by qualified personnel.

If you abandon your treatment, there’s a high chance you’ll meet the ailment in the nearest future. It could be a form of relapse or something.

Two: Do not postpone pains. Pains are part of living, and every stage of life seems to have its own pains or place of discomfort. Sometimes it could be a form of progress. Unless that, do not postpone pains, they have a way of coming back.

It could have been better for me if I had borne all these massage and cast pains 6 years ago than now. I mean, it is a distraction for me at the moment.

Thirdly but not the least, your health is more important than any job. Take care of yourself.

In any job, no one is irreplaceable. Even the business collapsing due to your absence could be a way of your replacement in the grand scheme of things.


Finally, life is beautiful, I personally don’t want to be dealing with things I should have dealt with years ago, No I don't.

Do you?


ES

I would treat this as a personal note to self. This was the same mistake I made in 2009 and till date, I'm still bearing the cross. A permanent fix is possible, but I'm too scared to venture. The fact that I would be immobile and helpless for months scares me.

OhuDealer:
The likes of Soros, Schwab, Schiff, Rockerfeller ,Rothschild and Kissinger will never die .

They only fake their deaths to hide their immortality and appear again as another being.

They are the Sanhedrin who Jesus cursed that they will not die until they witness He's second coming.

They are vampires and that's why their agenda seems to be trans-generational.

You are right.

Skooltynz:
Rotschild family the richest family on earth.
i learnt they are jewish and are reptilians..

The reptilian theory is real and quite a number of these influential world leaders aren't left out on it.

officialwdhtv:
Can you translate this photo into words?

Can you be ready at 5 PM?

yeslollipop:


Loyalty N200 | Financial worth N400 | Hygiene N200 | Romantic N200

That is a good purchase

carojody:
My fellow Nlanders, Good evening to all. I will not bore you with long stories so I will get to it right away.

I got married to my wife about 6 months ago. We had a 3yrs dating though it was a long distance relationship. During the courting period I asked her all the pertinent questions and she answered maybe to suit me. We eventually got married.

A little of my own life story: I am an orphan, the last child in the family with 3 older siblings. Growing up was tough without the love of parents so it was hell of a tussle in the streets. Recorded lots of loses financially. Also lost the first love I ever had but life has to go on.

On her part, she is the first child in a family of 5 children. Both parents alive and young. Healthy and strong. She currently works with a bank.

We go married 6months ago, I told her things I desired most during our days of dating which was a caring person capable of love. And she told me she has that quality being the first child. We went ahead and got married.

After marriage I discovered a strange thing. She really do care, she shows love too but to her family. She acts like I don't even exist. She does not see me. Sometimes I get jealous the kind of love she bequeaths on her brothers. I provide every thing in the house even to her transportation to work, but I hardly knw when her salary drops. In fact she shares her salary to her family before it drops. She would go through my wardrobe and select my clothes she deems too tight for me and send to her brothers.

I can sspend 5 hours with her in the house and she will be on the phone giggling and gisting with her family. She cannot cook well no clean the house. Totally lacks "Respect". Instead of eating poison every time she cooks, I do most of the cooking myself.

She does not need my approval for anything she simply sends money to her siblings as she pleases and even quarrels with me for not giving her to send. Recently I discovered she paid her brothers school fee. And as I write she is asking me for her transportation to work this week and I noticed she just received her salary yesterday cos I overheard her on the phone.

Please this is not the life I prayed for. I'd have remained single that be in a marriage like this. Who has a good advice please. I beg of u fam, how do I navigate these waters.

Your marriage is still young. It can be likened to a fresh stick. Make the necessary adjustments now before you will start procreating. You see the man of the house, so do not fail to communicate your displeasure.



All the best!

blackpanthar:


It is weak to use what happens to others are a yardstick to limit your own life

But anyway it is also wise to know what works for you.

A GOOD wife is rare and only few ever find her.

Are you a good HUSBAND?

Have you met people who enjoy their marriages after many years? Before you concluded?


Please be balanced so you don't generalize.

If the part you have chosen suits you, then avoid sex and focus and may God give you grace to remain strong

This is a balanced reportage. Dwelling so much on the negatives won't do him alot of good. Choose the right partner and soul mate you won't have to worry about this.



If sexual chastity is a norm and is not to be broken, op won't keep this notion. When you milk the cow for free, you won't see the need to own it.

jumper524:
Wike is most likely playing dirty with those state actors who are hell bent in frustrating the growth of the FCT.
(Enemies from within)

Wike be like, you won't be diplomatic in sabotaging the FCT growth I also won't be diplomatic in making you run from the fight of the greater good.

Disclaimer: This is not reality but figment of my imagination. It could be very much true cos I'm from the FCT.

As crazy as your analogy sounds, I believe you.

ObalendeCMS:
Me, I put on white noise on my phone & voila I'm in dreamland!

I also have this app that plays different rain sound, I love the sound of rain on the roof.

What about you?

White noise
Castor oil
Honey
Cold water bath prior to any of these options mentioned earlier.

Christianoir:
It is weird, I don’t talk with my neighbour, we only greet nd hail each other that where it end, but I haven’t really have any meaningful conversation with them before and it bother me sometimes tho.. I’m mostly an introvert nd the shy type. Is something wrong with me, sometimes I want to speak to them, but me speaking to them will mean being friendly, which I’m avoiding, ever since I rented this compound I’ve avoided trouble. Nd I’m someone who cares about what people say or care about the opinion of others, things get to me easily tho

Do they see me as a proud/arrogant person.
I’m I weird. Is there people out there like me who have neighbors like me.

Im a student tho.

Please ignore my typo error.

You don't have to do too much. It is good that you exchange pleasantries with them. Don't over indulge else you would have to deal with contempt.

Gold

Those who bought gold worth 200k 2 years ago are now millionaires in assets.

How clueless can these people be? So subsidy was removed so 12 million Nigerians can be reduced to beggars? Why give us Fish when they can provide a pond/river for everyone to Fish on their own according to their needs?

JayPeeOham:


I must commend what you did up there...

You asked a question and you answered first, that's how it's done

Not those bunch of OPs that would ask a question then step aside for their "students" to answer for them

Thank you!

queenblossom:


1. Hygiene= N200 because I can't stand a dirty man.

2. Financial worth=N400

3. Faithfulness= N300

I still have change of #100 can I use it and buy height. I love men with height.

These are all I need in a man

LOLs! Good choice, babe.

noblechoco:

Financial worth + spirituality + faithfulness

That is a fair deal.

bewla:
without the rest will you still be faithful to him

Absolutely. Funny enough, the other factors left out can easily be attained by an intelligent man.

chris4gold:


Ogini😆😅🤣

Ehen now

jos4kay:


I have over mingled and done with mingling. Until today, I ve never seen a woman values intelligence above money. Maybe you grew up amongst boys, you are not thinking like a girl

Funny enough, I grew up amongst women. We are a product of our environment, association, exposure, experiences and the value systems we enmesh ourselves in.

BarrElChapo:


Wait, did i quote you in the first place ? Or are you the person behind the male moniker.. ohhh i see ride on.

..if you lay claims on a thread I created, even if not quoted directly, I would take that as an affront.

Johncuppa:

Intelligence=700, spirituality=300.
#1000 spent wisely.
Wisdom and power are the greatest treasures of life.
When they lead, it's a matter of time, every other thing will follow.

Beautiful!

metaluterus:


A perfect man will have NO PENIS

Wow! Care to expatiate?

Anashe:


IF I were to choose, it will be faithfulness and intelligence. The rest can be taught or learned.

Beautiful!

jos4kay:


Also speak for yourself, I have never knew a woman who values intelligence above money.

Maybe white women o but I m not used to them but Nigeria women money first

You are a rare womanhood to have score intelligence very high above money and sex

I would advise that you keep an open mind, mingle more, desensitise your mind from some of the gospel preached on nairaland about women. This way, you can be able to see certain virtues....

Advancedman:


Intelligence also can be negative.

I factored all of these options in the positive sense.

emmyluizzz:
why are all the ladies going for financial worth??

guys this is to tell you .without money no girl will love you genuinely..be wise

Not like a man's financial worth matters, but a sane lady would factor that in when choosing a partner. Just like men, no woman would consciously want to marry a liability without prospect. The assurance that a man can hold the forte solely assuming a woman's finances runs into deficit is reinvigorating.