₦airaland Forum

Pojomojo:
Team JAPA are among the lazy and irrational citizens. I wonder why many don’t think of the reason why they found themeselves to be citizens of Nigeria.

JAPA mentality IMO you have no plan to influence your nation or your society, it appears you’re not in tune with the purpose of your existence but only focused on your personal interest.

We’ve been lied to that life is what we felt it is when actually it’s extremely the opposite of what we’ve been told.

Don’t be surprised that citizens of civilized countries are tied of their country just as we’re tied too. Strict laws we don’t follow here, you’ll get there and comport yourself meanwhile, their citizens are tied of such laws cause they know some countries are lawless.

Wow, humanity on the run to nowhere when nothing is chasing them but themselves and they lament it’s life.
This money for relocation is enough to set up a micro enterprise to meet the fast growing population in Nigeria / Neighboring African country, with a plan for upgrade of the business as the cash flow increases. There is no free launch any where in the world. Africa has a lot of gap and opportunities to be filled and harnessed. All the same relocation is good with respective individual evaluation of the opportunities and risk.
For every thing in life, there is time and season for every one, so it is always good to get prepared for the opportunities.

My advise is that individual should relocate on personal reasons and not because your close friend or family member has travelled to the UK or Canada, The case varies and individual potentials, opportunities and luck varies.

A family of 4 that have truly "Japa" to the UK knows your total initial cost is highly exaggerated for the popular one-year masters.

1. School fees can be paid at an official rate (less than 500 nairas) and some schools require a 2k or 5k pounds deposit. This drops the tuition deposit to about 1m to 2.5m. If I assume a 5k deposit, it saves 2m nairas compared to yours.

2. For proof of funds (in interest), you need tuition balance + living expenses. Most school tuition is less than 13,000 pounds, and there are schools with less than 10000 pounds tuition. If you deposit 5000 pounds (2.5m nairas) for a 13,000-pound school, you will need about 8000 pounds (4m nairas) more for the tuition balance. You will also need 29,000 pounds for living expenses for a family of 4 outside London. (29,000+8000) pounds= 37,000 pounds (about 17.5m naira). At 3.5% interest, 17.5m naira will yield 612,500 naira. Saves about 1.9 million nairas compared to yours.


To-be continued..
All the best.!
Peace

leave who won japa to japa abeg, I rather be in a sane country with sane people, some people just want the civilized life, good road, no noise pollution, 24/7 electricity, security, good internet etc

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fidelmarshal199:


I will never forget the first time I took tramz, Its over 11 years now but the memory is as fresh as yesterday's news. It was just 250mg but it felt like it was 1000mg, I almost vomited everything in my stomach including my intestine. It was my first and the last day of taking it sha





It was peer group pressure bro. I wanted to feel AMONG

250mg just to feel among…. Wow, na God save you

Abeg make Nigeria rest

DeJoeee:
My gf just developed this recent habit of going to the kitchen with only her panties and shower cap leaving her breast bare.

Sometimes she will wear my polo(which is long on her cos I'm much taller) with no panties
This is a girl who is naked shy as recent as december last year.

I'm not supposed to suspect her cos she's from a very responsible home and possibly my wife to be but the experience of others have thought me to suspect any new move of the other gender no matter how innocent.

Do I need to worry about this?

Please mods help push to front page for more mature advice . This issue is of big concern to me

girls are naked most of the time when they are alone, she’s comfortable around you, no need to panic!

internationalman:
Too small compared to what players received weekly. I mean most of these referees cover more ground on the pitch than some of my darlin Chelsea players like Lotus Cheek and Kai Harvertz.

They are lucky I ain't a referee. I would have been making up for this meager salary by influencing the match I'm going to officiate. All I would have had to do was give money to someone else to stake on the match I'm officiating.. I would influence the result in favour of my bet in the least noticeable way.

Shame on you! Na only fraud full your head….. Tufia

Westerhoffe:
Ain't this too small compared to footballers', knowing they both run same race around the pitch…

do you know the amount of training footballers receive?

Kriss216:

You spent huge amount on your last album to feature washed up foreign artist


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Music is business. Africa to the world!

You call young thug and lil baby washed up?

APC is evil, they cannot take what they are doling out

thesicilian:
Osimhen and Haaland will likely replace the Messi and Ronaldo rivalry within the next few years

oh my God what happened to mbappe

VTJN:
The boy is a complete spoilt brat. I personally won't allow my son go to any Europe for any football without having at least a degree. His father might be wrong to have imposed his choice on him but that isn't an excuse for him to have dropped out of school after millions of naira spent in year 3, having just 2 years left.

Millions of kids out there in Nigeria will pray to have someone like his father

you never get money to take go interview na Europe you wor send your pikin go? 😂 😂 😂

VTJN:
Hahahahaha i guess obi lynus will give you money if he had won

Consolation speech by a serial loser

no go pack your fowl shit dey here dey engage me

VTJN:
pained looser I'm done engaging you biko

😂 😂 😂 how much Tinubu give you? Foolish thug, no wonder you support a father using thugs on his son……. I pity those around you

cedricksly:
I Wonder how people reason self, a father is trying to shape the future of his son and he is frustrating his effort you expect him to be happy or clap for him? That you son needs better prayer and counselling together because something is obviously wrong with him.

something is obviously wrong with you

VTJN:
You're Obidient who believe Obi can be president in Nigeria ahead of Tinubu

Sorry for engaging you

You even get time to go through my profile 😂 jobless and senseless

Focusmind:
I wished I had a son that is good in football. I will get him enrolled in an academy and give him all the support.

My wife is busy shouting at my daughter, who is always coming top in fine and applied arts in her class instead of sciences and mathematics.

I kukuma warned her to stop. I went ahead to get my daughter a drawing canvas and some drawing tools during her birthday. I could see her excitement and happiness much to my wife's dismay. Her art works are amazing.

We should support our children in their respective aptitudes. Don't force any profession or career on your child. You are there to guide him or her.

God bless you….. art will take your daughter far IJN

VTJN:
why going at the first place when you know you'd stop half way?

From this alone I know for a fact that you don’t have sense……. Goodbye

VTJN:
the boy is a spoilt brat. He dropped out of school in year 3 after spending millions of naira. Who does that?

What stopped him from completing the remaining 2 years and pursue his football dream or start his computer science course?

He knows he has a rich father, reason why he has that guts to drop out of school easily without thinking twice

Do you know if he’s failing in school? For jamb na me use my own hand choose biochemistry and I know as e hard me. Someone wants to study computer science and you’re forcing him to study pharmacy to make matters worse e nor even sabi chemistry. My issue is not even the football, the problem did not start from the football.

cassyrooy:
You see the Father, I believe has armtwisted the boy too much, which will make him harbour resentful thoughts towards everyone.

At 17/18/19, I was equally angry with many things and almost left Abuja and resettle in Akwa Ibom due to suppression similar to what your son is passing through.

But on another note, your son lacked diplomacy to get his father off his way by comprising a little before running off on his own.

If he had pledged to be going to school and pursuing his footballing career, it would have given him leeway to enter the UK and pursue his dreams.

In life, freedom is not given, it's taken by negotiations, not outright wars because even if he wins the war with his father, can he sustain himself?

The father is looking out for him, but his ego is also working against him.

My advice, your son must stop expecting to be given everything, else, he loses it all and himself, rather, he should work smartly and diplomatically to get his ways and sustain himself.

Let him kill that thought of running off, it's terrible outside these days, so burning the bridge between his father and himself will make him a prodigal son.

Also, your husband should have stopped using brutish character against his fellow man from the age of 15 and employ diplomacy as a way to reach him, else, like Jaja in Purple Hibiscus, he too will be at the mercy of that boy someday and he'll not hesitate to strike him fatally.

the problem started from after secondary school by forcing the poor boy to study pharmacy, the football situation is even after he dropped out from school, you guys don’t read to understand you just read to respond.

VTJN:
why dropping out of school in year 3 after spending millions? That boy no serious

Even the father told him to get educated before considering his football dream

I wouldn't blame the father for accusing him that he wanted to become a footballer because of girls

I believe we don't know him more than his father

After forcing him to study a course he’s not interested in…… I pity for your child

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

This is a very simple case and it's very relatable to mine's, I wanted studying the same computer science your child hoped for and my dad opted for mechanical engineering and that cost a lot of issues between me and my dad in the past, which escalated to me leaving the house and never wanting to return again but my mom stepped in and payed for me to go study the course of my choosen in another school, far away from my town and I graduated with flying colors.....na your husband Bleep up madam, he should have let the boy study what he's got passion for from the get go....them no dey force person to study course wey he or she no go dey good at.

It's very wrong from parents especially African parents, the lack knowledge in that department very well.


Una even get pikin wey get football talent and let me guess the papa go fit afford am but he choosed not to, he dey like say your husband no Sabi how much footballer's dey earn...abi him no dey watch ball? And he even gather men make them mend the boy, chai

Madam, your husband dey dull

and the pikin no even good for chemistry, pikin nor know chemistry you want make e study pharmacy.

VTJN:
The man isn't against his football dream entirely. He only want him to get a decent education before considering his football dream which isn't bad. Are you justifying the boy dropping out of school after spending millions of naira in year 3?


Btw, hear from the father first before crucifying him

you’re just spewing thrash, you don’t force a child to study a course he does not love, I told my dad I wanted to go to NDA and become a soldier, he sat me down and made me saw reasons why the Nigerian army is not worth it.

You and your husband are at fault, you’re putting all the blame on your husband but shame on you for not standing up to your son. @booksbo0k

Fiscus105:
I think he got the issue from boarding house.

Meanwhile, did he use to interact with outsiders?

I mean if u know any of his close friends or even girlfriends?

parents are wrong too Oga, The father and mother are at fault here.

AndrewTate:
what would it cost to allow him study what he wanted in the first place?
What did it cost to take him to a private university just to force his will on him?
There is something in your head but it's not a brain... It's something, I don't know what its called but it's responsible for your one sided thinking!
Stupidity warrior!

na shit full e brain

Iliveforever:
I think you people started late with the iron hand.

Involve him in family activities like church (Sunday service, mid-week service, make him join maybe the usher or choir), sometimes knowingly ask him questions involving the family issues and seek his ideas even though you won’t be making use of it much, send him on family errands and try and make him in charge to boost his self esteem.

Las las you guys have to seriously pray

I’m sorry to say this but you don’t have sense. So you cannot see that the father is at fault? I pity for those around you….. God forbid

ScottSummers:
Good day and happy sunday everyone

I work in a lounge in sabo and i'm paid 11000 a month.I have served my boss faithfully and dilligently for months during the course of my stay in this shop despite being owed salary.Even when other workers left citing underpayment and workload,i still stayed.
It happened that during governorship election season,our lounge was robbed.The robbers made away with 194,000 new naira notes my boss kept in his office. what was more shocking that the robbery was a clean one meaning the robbers had access to the key to his office.It's only me and my boss that have the keys so I was questioned and interrogated.I didn't know anything about it and so I said.I was beaten and bruised.
Nobody believe me say i dey innocent

Police came and i was detained.i was in cell for 13 days(i hear am for cell God)before being released last week.I was rold the culprit has been found.It was my boss mistress and brother that planned it.How they knew about the money is what i don't know.
My boss messaged me to return but i don't want to.I want to know if i'm making the right decision.Thanks.

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Your boss is crazy….. 1500 for what exactly? Oga better quit that job, I wonder the kind advice you dey find.

Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

bro don’t go down this route, will be traumatic especially for her if she keeps terminating SS foetus, it will tell on your mental health, call it quits.

phemmyfour:
And not every football make it to the big stage

yes o some are playing in conference league

SultanOfPuna:
You see this generation
To hell with Medicine, Engineering, Lawyer, Architecture

If my son no play football
I WILL DISOWN HIM FOR LIFE

THE DAY MY SON GO OPEN MOUTH SAY NA MEDICINE HIM WAN STUDY. I GO BEAT SHEGE COMOT HIM BODY.

MY SON MUST PLAY FOOTBALL WHETHER HE LIKES IT OR NOT

Medicine, law, engineering can go to hell

U never see anything
I go wear Barca Jersey and boot when I dey Bleep my wife. I go play YouTube video of best goals of the year with loudspeaker as I dey burst nut inside my wife.
That PIKIN she go deliver, must be the next world best player.
Once she dey pregnant I go force her watch seria A highlights, bundesliga highlights, premier league highlights everyday.
U Neva see anything

lol Oga rest professional sports is not for everybody, just like military. Your son may be too slow to be an outfield and not tall enough to be a goalie.

ganisucks:
You think it is easy to cook, clean, take care of the children, watch your husband perambulate with his male appendage to and fro, take condescending insults from male staff and people around, keep the house steady, and after all that still keep your sanity.

You should try be a woman for a week, and see if you wouldn't want to lock someone in a dog cage too.

so the women that are not dehumanizing staffs are not going through all this shit too? Defending rubbish