₦airaland Forum

VTJN:
why going at the first place when you know you'd stop half way?

From this alone I know for a fact that you don’t have sense……. Goodbye

VTJN:
the boy is a spoilt brat. He dropped out of school in year 3 after spending millions of naira. Who does that?

What stopped him from completing the remaining 2 years and pursue his football dream or start his computer science course?

He knows he has a rich father, reason why he has that guts to drop out of school easily without thinking twice

Do you know if he’s failing in school? For jamb na me use my own hand choose biochemistry and I know as e hard me. Someone wants to study computer science and you’re forcing him to study pharmacy to make matters worse e nor even sabi chemistry. My issue is not even the football, the problem did not start from the football.

cassyrooy:
You see the Father, I believe has armtwisted the boy too much, which will make him harbour resentful thoughts towards everyone.

At 17/18/19, I was equally angry with many things and almost left Abuja and resettle in Akwa Ibom due to suppression similar to what your son is passing through.

But on another note, your son lacked diplomacy to get his father off his way by comprising a little before running off on his own.

If he had pledged to be going to school and pursuing his footballing career, it would have given him leeway to enter the UK and pursue his dreams.

In life, freedom is not given, it's taken by negotiations, not outright wars because even if he wins the war with his father, can he sustain himself?

The father is looking out for him, but his ego is also working against him.

My advice, your son must stop expecting to be given everything, else, he loses it all and himself, rather, he should work smartly and diplomatically to get his ways and sustain himself.

Let him kill that thought of running off, it's terrible outside these days, so burning the bridge between his father and himself will make him a prodigal son.

Also, your husband should have stopped using brutish character against his fellow man from the age of 15 and employ diplomacy as a way to reach him, else, like Jaja in Purple Hibiscus, he too will be at the mercy of that boy someday and he'll not hesitate to strike him fatally.

the problem started from after secondary school by forcing the poor boy to study pharmacy, the football situation is even after he dropped out from school, you guys don’t read to understand you just read to respond.

VTJN:
why dropping out of school in year 3 after spending millions? That boy no serious

Even the father told him to get educated before considering his football dream

I wouldn't blame the father for accusing him that he wanted to become a footballer because of girls

I believe we don't know him more than his father

After forcing him to study a course he’s not interested in…… I pity for your child

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

This is a very simple case and it's very relatable to mine's, I wanted studying the same computer science your child hoped for and my dad opted for mechanical engineering and that cost a lot of issues between me and my dad in the past, which escalated to me leaving the house and never wanting to return again but my mom stepped in and payed for me to go study the course of my choosen in another school, far away from my town and I graduated with flying colors.....na your husband Bleep up madam, he should have let the boy study what he's got passion for from the get go....them no dey force person to study course wey he or she no go dey good at.

It's very wrong from parents especially African parents, the lack knowledge in that department very well.


Una even get pikin wey get football talent and let me guess the papa go fit afford am but he choosed not to, he dey like say your husband no Sabi how much footballer's dey earn...abi him no dey watch ball? And he even gather men make them mend the boy, chai

Madam, your husband dey dull

and the pikin no even good for chemistry, pikin nor know chemistry you want make e study pharmacy.

VTJN:
The man isn't against his football dream entirely. He only want him to get a decent education before considering his football dream which isn't bad. Are you justifying the boy dropping out of school after spending millions of naira in year 3?


Btw, hear from the father first before crucifying him

you’re just spewing thrash, you don’t force a child to study a course he does not love, I told my dad I wanted to go to NDA and become a soldier, he sat me down and made me saw reasons why the Nigerian army is not worth it.

You and your husband are at fault, you’re putting all the blame on your husband but shame on you for not standing up to your son. @booksbo0k

Fiscus105:
I think he got the issue from boarding house.

Meanwhile, did he use to interact with outsiders?

I mean if u know any of his close friends or even girlfriends?

parents are wrong too Oga, The father and mother are at fault here.

AndrewTate:
what would it cost to allow him study what he wanted in the first place?
What did it cost to take him to a private university just to force his will on him?
There is something in your head but it's not a brain... It's something, I don't know what its called but it's responsible for your one sided thinking!
Stupidity warrior!

na shit full e brain

Iliveforever:
I think you people started late with the iron hand.

Involve him in family activities like church (Sunday service, mid-week service, make him join maybe the usher or choir), sometimes knowingly ask him questions involving the family issues and seek his ideas even though you won’t be making use of it much, send him on family errands and try and make him in charge to boost his self esteem.

Las las you guys have to seriously pray

I’m sorry to say this but you don’t have sense. So you cannot see that the father is at fault? I pity for those around you….. God forbid

ScottSummers:
Good day and happy sunday everyone

I work in a lounge in sabo and i'm paid 11000 a month.I have served my boss faithfully and dilligently for months during the course of my stay in this shop despite being owed salary.Even when other workers left citing underpayment and workload,i still stayed.
It happened that during governorship election season,our lounge was robbed.The robbers made away with 194,000 new naira notes my boss kept in his office. what was more shocking that the robbery was a clean one meaning the robbers had access to the key to his office.It's only me and my boss that have the keys so I was questioned and interrogated.I didn't know anything about it and so I said.I was beaten and bruised.
Nobody believe me say i dey innocent

Police came and i was detained.i was in cell for 13 days(i hear am for cell God)before being released last week.I was rold the culprit has been found.It was my boss mistress and brother that planned it.How they knew about the money is what i don't know.
My boss messaged me to return but i don't want to.I want to know if i'm making the right decision.Thanks.

PS:In case you have job for me,I stay in jakande in ojo.owu dey blow me.My number:08186844232

Your boss is crazy….. 1500 for what exactly? Oga better quit that job, I wonder the kind advice you dey find.

Zeal0000007:
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together.

Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me.
On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences

bro don’t go down this route, will be traumatic especially for her if she keeps terminating SS foetus, it will tell on your mental health, call it quits.

phemmyfour:
And not every football make it to the big stage

yes o some are playing in conference league

SultanOfPuna:
You see this generation
To hell with Medicine, Engineering, Lawyer, Architecture

If my son no play football
I WILL DISOWN HIM FOR LIFE

THE DAY MY SON GO OPEN MOUTH SAY NA MEDICINE HIM WAN STUDY. I GO BEAT SHEGE COMOT HIM BODY.

MY SON MUST PLAY FOOTBALL WHETHER HE LIKES IT OR NOT

Medicine, law, engineering can go to hell

U never see anything
I go wear Barca Jersey and boot when I dey Bleep my wife. I go play YouTube video of best goals of the year with loudspeaker as I dey burst nut inside my wife.
That PIKIN she go deliver, must be the next world best player.
Once she dey pregnant I go force her watch seria A highlights, bundesliga highlights, premier league highlights everyday.
U Neva see anything

lol Oga rest professional sports is not for everybody, just like military. Your son may be too slow to be an outfield and not tall enough to be a goalie.

ganisucks:
You think it is easy to cook, clean, take care of the children, watch your husband perambulate with his male appendage to and fro, take condescending insults from male staff and people around, keep the house steady, and after all that still keep your sanity.

You should try be a woman for a week, and see if you wouldn't want to lock someone in a dog cage too.

so the women that are not dehumanizing staffs are not going through all this shit too? Defending rubbish

youngeagle:
You see the reasoning of an average Nigerian, they like celebrating what is not feasible or tolerated in anywhere in the world because it favors them, so countries that doesn't have agbero are just missing out in this wonderful arm of the government.

your comment cracked me up bro 😂

JONSYN7154:
This new neighbor of mine parked into our compound with his newly married wife. They were busy flaunting kisses every where. On the stair case, toilet, inside the car, outside the compound even on the road.
At times, they will kiss till the extent, i and my wife would think any moment they might get naked and ravish themselves.
Compelled by this recent development, i decided to spice my own love and sex life before my wife starts feeling somehow about us.
I came back home to meet my wife in the kitchen. She had her wrapper tied to her breast as usual. I slowly tip toed passed her, heading for our bedroom.
I walked into our bedroom, and dressed the bed. I changed the white bulbs to red. I scattered red and white flowers on the floor, and arranged red candles round our bed, placing some candles in the centre of the rug carpet.
I pulled off my cloth and wore a white and red trouser to match with the moment.
I was arranging the bottle of wine and bouquet of flowers in a small bucket, when my wife opened the bedroom door to see every where in red.
'chimmmooo! Praise, you are now a ritualist .' my wife shouted.
She opened the door and ran out. I chased her behind to explain.
'Uju i can explain, stop!' i shouted as i ran out shirtless with just my red and white trouser"
I was chasing Uju with a red candle in my hands and i didn't even know.
Our new neighbors saw my wife zoom passed them in a flash. Moments later , they saw me with a red candle and red trousers running towards them.
On seeing me, they removed their shoes and ran out of the gate, chasing my wife behind....
.
My wife's family and i, have been gathered for over 2hrs now. We are all receiving marriage counseling from pastor Ebube... My surprise romance may have put me in trouble.
But then, i learnt something from this very experience. Fear anything red.

mehn this piece made me laugh 😂

Hadone:
Is it the first time for some one to die while playing football? Why most every death be blamed even for no reason? So the boy must continue to live even when his time is due? Thanks to almighty for the blessings for being a MUSLIM

don’t mind dem, even professional footballers dey die for field.

accordadoga24:
Are you saying Yul Edoche used his son for fame just the same way people are saying about Davido?

people that are already famous? So e no see the pikin use since na now e see am….. mtchew

ManirBK:
Peppers@300

Onions@100

Tomato@100

Total = 500

very cheap

SultanOfPuna:
You see this generation
To hell with Medicine, Engineering, Lawyer, Architecture

If my son no play football
I WILL DISOWN HIM FOR LIFE

THE DAY MY SON GO OPEN MOUTH SAY NA MEDICINE HIM WAN STUDY. I GO BEAT SHEGE COMOT HIM BODY.

MY SON MUST PLAY FOOTBALL WHETHER HE LIKES IT OR NOT

Medicine, law, engineering can go to hell

not everybody can play football, know this and know peace ✌️

Lol…. use AC with your Gen and you'll know that opening valve half way is a waste of time.

1Alex:
people who talk like you are the ones who have never been a victim of robbery.

have you heard of false accusation? Sometimes the victims are innocent…. Something like this happened in uniport and four innocent students were burnt to death

Ehinjuola:
My name is Dimeji (not real name tho), I'm in my final lap in one of the prestigious uni in Nigeria.

It happens my fiancee and I have been dating for long now, recently she discovered that she missed her period (though I'm not happy with it and at the same time I don't want ab*rtion) and couple the fact that I really love this lady and I want future with her.

I want to quickly do her introduction before the bump is visible n I have taken a bold step by taken my parents to hers for unofficial intro before the real intro which has been set for next two months.

But recently I do observe that she do post on her status about praying not to choose wrongly in term of relationship, (she has once asked me whether I don't feel we are rushing things in one of our conversation one time like that) plus the fact that whenever I called her recently the vibe is not there any longer, this is the person we are both serious with the relationship oo Infact she's the one that's pushing thing initially.

My question now is that, Is it anxiousness or marriage phobia or early pregnancy symptoms or she's just confuse or the feeling of not been ready that's worrying her? (She will be 26 next month)

thread carefully bro, women have hormonal imbalance during pregnancy and act weird sometimes.

okrikaboi:
Omo you dey vibrate, me sef don see these reptilians when I dey on exotic backwoods and pampydene plus Travis Scott songs.

my backwood finish last night. I jus roll up the remaining loud, mix my csc and do my things 😎

okrikaboi:
Listen yoga yoga by Asake, buy loud and codeine

bro see my loud, I don pop coda, I listen to yoga yoga almost everyday.

OurTruth24:
Good evening.

It is common for entities from the 4th dimension to interfere in our world. They see us, watch us, and sometimes manipulate us, but we can't see them unless we become spiritually aware.

Sometimes these entities take interest in a particular human and attach themselves to him or become possessive over him. This is the situation with spiritual husband and wives. It's when a possessive entity believes it has sole right to you and no one else will have you, whether human or non human.

These entities will normally take on the form of a human to keep you at ease and appear appealing to you, because if you see their real form you will be disgusted and afraid.

But here is the catch. A low vibration entity is only attracted to low vibration humans. A low vibration entity will not even come close to a high vibration human because such human is like poison to them.

The simplest way to free yourself of a spiritual husband or wife is to increase your vibration.

I’m not even vibrating, please how can I vibrate.

Na wa

essentialone:
Surprised to see something that Octopus does not know.

Octopus is supposed to see everything, hear everything, smell everything and know everything.

SAPA hold this octopus 😂

What SIMPicity. This guy is being abused

[quote author= post=109026066]We would have been your best friend if we support your Atiku abi?

And who be ur bro?
We are simply WE......okay?[/quote]I don't support Atiku nor bullhari