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Well! Only if they are made in nigeria.

If I had 1000 naira for every time someone posted something like this on nairaland. dangote will have nothing on me!

Women are sooooo guilty of this! Lol. And some men tooo but mostly women.

This movie trailer sounds interesting! Coming to theaters near you!

Now i am wondering if you have ever crossed that line with ya brother or sister!

Zulash:
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They can’t ALL possibly be “just not that into us” … right?!?

By Mandy Hale.

I seem to keep running into the same problems lately in my dating life. And so do my friends. Literally three or four different amazing, beautiful, successful single women in my life keep hitting the same wall as me… so I KNOW there must be something to it. I mean, as much as I adore Greg Behrendt (and here’s the proof), they can’t all possibly be “just not that into us” … right?!?

What am I talking about?

COMMUNICATION.

I don’t know if it’s modern-day communication or modern-day men in general that are causing us the greatest amounts of heartburn, but all three of the issues I see single ladies struggling with stem from a communication breakdown.

I recently wrote a blog post called What (Most) Women Really Want, and all you have to do is scroll down to the comments section to see firsthand the giant Grand Canyon-sized gap between what expectations women have and what expectations men are willing to meet.

So what are the top three communication trends right now in dating that are driving single women bonkers? Glad you asked.

1. No follow-through.

He shows interest. He flirts. He beelines to your side the minute he sees you at trivia night. The message is clear. He’s into you! So when he FINALLY asks for your number, you think it’s just a matter of time before he calls, you go out, you fall in love, you live happily ever after. Right?

Wrong! Instead, he texts you halfheartedly a couple of times before dropping off the radar completely. So what gives, fellas? Why ask for a girl’s number and act interested if you have no intention of following through?

Read more at: http://9jaexclusive.net/latest-3-dating-mistakes-men-make-drive-us-insane/

I may or may not be speaking for myself and I maybe speaking for most guys.

1. It's prolly because u took sex off the menu.
2. It'sprolly because u took sex off the menu and mayb you took sex off the menu and also you are not what he expected and more offers came in
3. He prolly just found a better option.

sunhosting:
how to become attracted to your woman.
really woman don't need your money that much. they
fill that being a guy that all ladies would like come even more personalities. not all ladies are move by your money. they need a honest relationship. doing that u have to be true to your self.

U right!! Not all ladies are moved by your money. But 99.9 percent are! Especially in Nigeria.

TrishaP:
Most guys have said worse than these statements you saw here and they were forgiven and bck together. Don't be too fast to criticize someone.

please! Enlighten me with an example that could be worse than realising I have been dating a prostitute and I need to get my asss tested!

TrishaP:
I heard it clearly. That's the problem with guys like you, you are too fast to judge a lady by her actions and words. No one perfect don't forget that.

Ohhhh I know about forgiveness. Let me be clear! I can forgive her but that relationship will be over. What kinda of woman says something like that? You have to be a prostitute to compare the worth of sex to money!

TrishaP:
Anger can make someone say alot of shitty things. Forgive her but you still have to try and convince her to open up more about herself to u. Cus there might be more to what you heard.

did you hear what she said And u talking about forgiveness?? Lol!

Why are u trying to run back to where God saved you from?? Leave that höe alone!!! All these signs and you still asking questions. ...no matter how angry a woman gets NO DECENT WOMAN! and I repeat NO DECENT WOMAN will say some crap like that unless she's been out on the street working hard for her money with sex. Leave that Girl alone! And Yes!! You have been dating a textbook prostitute!!!

People really ask questions like this Go get a prostitute, kiss her and find out!

beautycrush24:
I have this set criteria d guy i need must have. It doesnt look unrealistic to me but its becoming impossible to meet guys that fit in. Everything in this list is compulsory. Lol
- handsome (not d kind of handsomeness only ur family can see o)
- catholic
- educated
- ibo or delta (minus abia and imo)
- working and comfortable
- between the ages of 28 and 32.

I always look out for all this b4 i get interested in knowing more about them.

Am i sitting on a long thing or do they really exist?
I'm sorry if this is in d wrong section. Didnt know if to put it here or dating and meet up.

lmaooo @ not the kind of handsomeness only your family can see.

I am sure you can find them. U might need prayers tho.

That's d problem with this country! A real woman makes a real woman gesture and ask a man out and the brother gets confused. I have been telling people I know that if you take spending power away from these men who use money as power. They won't kno how to act! For more exposed and smart men, a woman asking you out is not a big deal!

spark4daz:
lie lie
lie lie

I can only speak for myself! Don't hate the players hate the game.

She can't change them but prayers can! Prayers changes everything but God helps those who help themselves

Lmaoo @ the title tho. 9 types of wicked husband

SuperMartins:
Bro..if the emotions fall in place on d 1st day,give her &make her want more..

Nah! She will lose value real quick like the stock exchange market.

SuperMartins:
Niccurs differ..D 1ce who just wana fvck,if they get u on d 1st date den she bcomes a LovePeddler to 'em..but some other niccur see it as a connection and smtin special..
I wont like sex on a first date shaa..

Yeah! Neither do I! It makes the girl lool easy regardless of how good the date goes but it does happen. If iit's a girl I really like then I won't want sex on d first date.

Men and women don't know what they want! Sad truth!! They just accept what feels right!

SuperMartins:
d 1 on d 1st dateNah,not so cool but it happens shaa..

True! but somethings niggas be mistaking prostitutes for dates.

Ghostlady:
i dont av to be sure cos am not cheap.....i have respect for myself...

That's good!

Ghostlady:
i have never done all that
6.following a guy to his house on first meeting..wetin you dey find?

You sure?

Preach!! You are so right. But there nothing wrong with sex on d first date. That means the date was so good and she thinks u are the one.

Oh lawd! I already see where this is going.

Love is/can be forever. Infatuation is a temporary feeling like lust.

Lmaooo @ ya s perm will turn to ice.

MERITS: you stay healthy! No headaches!

U better chase ya happiness!