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elantraceey:
That's naija's mentality for you.

I was afraid someone will say this! Is just sad that they never stop to thinking or asking why u are single in the First place. They just automatically believe u should NOT be single.

So lately I have been getting funny comments from family, friends, colleague and so forth wondering why I am not taken or married at the moment! The worse part is they try to stylishly hook me up with people you would never catch me dating! Just last year alone! This happened

1. a colleague from church tried to hook me up with this girl! To me she was just a fine face and that's it! I turned that down fast.

2. My own parent tried to hook me up with some othergirl STYLISHLY! I shut that down too. She was too sensitive and far away from my type.

3. A relative from the village forcefully wanted me to meet this girl at some wedding and demanded that I come. I didn't go but I eventually met the girl. On site and after a 5 min convo....I knew I didn't want her!

4.i could go on and on and on! There's some more!

I believe the more people you date the stronger your standards should get! At this point!!! I have normal standards and I could be picky when it comes to character! I promised myself that I would never settle to please anyone other than myself.

My question is why do these people feel the need to try to link you up with someone and find it weird If you are single? Is it a crime in nigeria to be single among relatives and such? Its not like I have been single all my life and I am desperate!

I have heard if this before! But with all the women in the world, why would I want to date girl that's my sister?

Princecalm:
did u read the topic at all?

Yes I did! Like if he has to ask then yes! They both need jesus!

OP YOU NEED JESUS!!!

I don't believe you got in a relationship because of your parents! If both parents are loving n understanding parents. Then they will still b friends even if u breakup! Life is tooo short to remain miserable. You don't wanna be around the wrong person when the right person comes along! So end that relationship today and not tomorrow!

Give her everything but RAPE!!

Haaa! She question ohhhh!!! am I reading this right??

I don't play with my bible....

Lisaflex:
Stop calling n texting her 4 a wyl...If she cares,dt will get her attention

Exactly! !!

Age is not just a number! Its A FACTOR in The future. As for me! She can't be younger than 22!

harrysterol:
If a guy stays in LAGOS and the girl is in BENIN she will say it won't work out but if the guy stays in USA and she is in Nigeria she will say is love that matters not distance

Girls sha

Lmaooo! It's because she thinks having a bf in USA is better than benin! Even tho he could be washing dishes or working at Burger King! She doesn't care!!!

The only one reason a man will hit a woman is ignorance or lack of wisdom! Fin.

ronald4lif:
You're making sense bro. With a flawed character a man can keep away from his home for days, wey nobody dey pursue am. Where him go dey come chop the beauty body?

For beer parlour ni

lmaooo! Exactly! Beauty is just spare part n good character is d entire car to me

Pashtim:
been through this with some friends yea, finally decided to ask my wonderful nairalanders: please a cute face and an awful character / a-just-there face (not cute but presentable) and good character; which would u go for in a life partner?

Good character over everything! When u have been through hell and back! You will make that kind of decision. Good character will raise your kids! Good character holds you down when things at bad! Good character is heaven sent and a cute face can be irrelevent! Good character is forever and a cute face is for a day or two! Tops!!!

The woman I see in my dreams is a top of d line dime! No celebrity can match that! Before anyone has something smart to say, just remember that "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder"

kristina1:
Bf??YES
Husby??NO

Kristina1?? Liar

PvtParts:
I have been in a more sticky situation... I was cheating on my ex with her aunt.

Nooooooooooooooooooo way!!

Ipledge:
I would break up because I won't want another member of the family to know

But we can still bleep when we see free chance

lmaooo!!! As long as u keep it away from the family.

EroticAngelina You never fail to entertain! As always! Am gonna say a prayer for all you hard working men breaking their bodies and losing sleep to make that MONEY! May God deliver us from these triffling ass girls! May we find the courage to say HELL NO! when we see them from a far! May we be disgusted by their trickish SEXY LOOKS (BUTT PADS AND PUSH UP BRAS). Can my real brothers say Amen?

PvtParts:
Truth be told I had this mom an pop play with my cousin when I was 7 up to 11.

Went to boarding house and naturally we grew up.

One time when I was in SS2 and on holiday she came over to our place. She was hot! Icouldnt help resisting and when we were alone at home one day watching tv together there was this awkward moment of silence. She kept getting up and going to the kitchen to check what she was cooking and her azz was swinging so hard on the bum shorts she had on. I could see she wasn't wearing any bra her nips were showing through and I could even make out the dark areole around her big sagging titts. I got so hot that I was practically sweating and looked all pink and red. My heart was beating so hard I thought I will have a coronary. In one of her get ups to the kitchen I decided to follow her. I got into the kitchen and saw her reaching for the top cupboard to get something. I volunteered to help her. As I got close I could smell her sweet fragrance and my hand brushed gently against hers. By this time, I had an over surge of adrenaline, my mouth felt bitter and the cold sweat streamed down my face like a leaking faucet. I gave her what she wanted and muttered something I can't remember till this day but I knew I said something with ketchup will freeze or whatever. She gawked at me with that look like are you ok. I abruptly turned to go back to the sitting room. By this time I was really embarrassed with myself and to make matters worse she did not return to the living room but just told me that the food was ready and that she was going up to take a shower. This last statement is probably the only I have scrutinized so much in my entire life. Why did she not return to watch the program on tv? You scared her away you sick Phuck? No, she doesn't want it downstairs, she wants us to do it in the shower! You sick Phuck, she will scream if you dare near the bathroom door! Phuck!

I stood at the base of the stairs contemplating all this nonsense for what looked like a life time. I said it is either now or never, you saw the way she was flirting with you besides no one's at home and you and her use to do it back when you were kids. She needs the dik. Do it now fagg0t before your sis and mum return.

At this point I was like a raging bull. I dashed up stairs in a quick sprint and by the time I got up I saw her coming out of the toilet. She had this shocked look in her face more of surprise to see me since she did not hear me sprint up. My heart froze. I phucked up now. She will take my for a perv. But when all hope was lost she smiled to me and dropped her towel to the ground...

The rest is non of your business.

lmaooo! Yeaaah right!! Sounds like tales by moonlight! (Adult version)...when is dis book getting published? I want to buy it

naturally:
Kpege of the highest order.
But in some places, cousins marry sha

just not nigeria! I kno someone married to their cousin in us!

MrCork:
...yea I ask ma cousin for punnny years ago & she gave me a slap.....she waz fat anyways!

Woooow! Please what did u do aftwr the slap?

braine:
Shii happens. Its bad tho. Stopping it won't be easy as it would be like a new challenge to the relationship.

Exactly! ! People act like it's easy to end it like an on and off switch

braine:
Shii happens. Its bad tho. Stopping it won't be easy as it would be like a new challenge to the relationship.

Exactly! ! People act like it's easy to end it like an off switch

krall:
How won't you know its your cousin you've been "beeping"

This happens alot actually

xtervaganza:
and kpanshing my family is the easier route?

its bad regardless but all am saying is that if you start growing feelings then it's easier said than done!

cooljoe:
V u bin bleeping ur cousin?

No!!! Just watched a video that relates to that! So I thought I ask!

xtervaganza:
Na to just go our separate ways oooo



And if my family did not know we were dating better then.



We can't continue the relationship sha

You are sure it would be that easy

aristocrazzy:
Are they blood cousins or extended cousins, as in far away cousins

what if they are blood cousins?

Hey!! What if you found out the girl or man you have been sleeping with is your cousin. What would you do?

keep this in mind!
1. The relationship has been good!
2. You guys are getting along well and you feel she/he is a keeper