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Romance / Re: What Should I Do About This Lady I Want To Marry? by justphillips(m): 8:30pm On Jan 10, 2023
Fmartin:

Bro it's not funny, i kept asking myself what have gotten myself into.
I feel like na juju dis gurl take capture me.

I have been seen her for over a year, we only greet, things spike up jus In space of months, and boom, she took in. I feel like she planned it.
She confessed she's been crushing on me.

OP do you live in Asaba? Or anywhere within Delta state? I think I know this your "woman"

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Properties / Re: Hot Deal! by justphillips(m): 3:39pm On Apr 25, 2022
This is a standard plaza along nnebuisi Road close to grand Hotel with 24shops
The two shops facing the road side pays 600k each for a year,then other shops inside pays 240k for downstairs then upstairs pays 180k yearly so if you calculate it total, it will earn you 6million naira yearly rent and you can also increase the rent after a year of you acquiring the property...
The property has
Deed of conveyance
Survey plan
And building approval by delta state government..
This property is going for 100million.
So you have the opportunity to grab it now.
Properties / Re: Hot Deal! by justphillips(m): 10:54am On Apr 18, 2022
Still Available
Properties / Re: Hot Deal! by justphillips(m): 10:53am On Apr 18, 2022
On a major road opposite A' Division police station.
Properties / Hot Deal! by justphillips(m): 10:50am On Apr 18, 2022
70ft by 100ft with a very large plaza
Location: after grand Hotel before traffic light very busy area along nnebuisi major Road Asaba..
100million...call/whatsapp 08030959475/ 09151975421

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Health / Re: Fire On The Mountain!!! What Happened To Neo Medrol In Nigeria? by justphillips(m): 12:58pm On Jul 26, 2021
Jonsnow123:
Please how can i order for this neo medr

my WhatsApp
Travel / Re: The Hardest Decision Of My Life (travel) by justphillips(m): 12:14pm On Jul 26, 2021
Jonsnow123:


You can search for agents in Poland that will do the whole paper work for you over there

Google?
Travel / Re: The Hardest Decision Of My Life (travel) by justphillips(m): 12:01pm On Jul 26, 2021
Jonsnow123:


When do you want to start cos firstly you need to get a work permit and other important documents from the prospective employer in Poland

What's the process, I'd like to start processing as soon as possible.
Travel / Re: The Hardest Decision Of My Life (travel) by justphillips(m): 8:29pm On Jul 25, 2021
Jonsnow123:


Write me bro. I will put you tru, got my work visa last month

Bro please quote me on a dead thread, let's discuss there. I don't have access to my email at the moment.
Travel / Re: The Hardest Decision Of My Life (travel) by justphillips(m): 6:51pm On Jul 24, 2021
Limassol:
With that amount your options are limited to mostly African countries(Which are not that good for hutsling), i suggest you double down on your efforts to make it atleast 2m, with that amount you can hit the likes of poland. Goodluck.

Bro I am interested in this Poland movement. I have $10,000 I just need the right information.
Travel / Help by justphillips(m): 4:19pm On Jul 04, 2021
Which country can I migrate to with #5M

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Politics / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Arrives Mali For Talks On Mali's Path To Democracy (Photos) by justphillips(m): 9:56pm On Jun 08, 2021
eeetuk:
"Goodluck Ebele Jonathan has arrived in Mali with ECOWAS Mediation team members to meet with stakeholders in order to have a peaceful and successful transition to democracy in Mali" is deceptive

And here is why
When Goodluck Jonathan was the president of Nigeria from 2009 to 2015, Nigerians witnessed the most fraudulent election in Nigeria history.

In Akwa Ibom state for an example, all elections in the state were decided in Godwin Akpabio----then state governor office .

So, if Goodluck Jonathan could not conduct free and fair elections in Nigeria as president, how can he tell another country to conduct free and fair elections?

That is why I call his trip to a country of Mali deceptive.

Mumu, he did not conduct a free and fair election in 2015, how did Buhari win?

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Politics / Re: Yemi Osinbajo Sighted At Reddington Hospital - The Boss Newspaper by justphillips(m): 8:15am On May 24, 2021
Abi dem wan eliminate our VP?

Politics / Re: Throwback Video Of Mbaka Hailing Buhari With Adorable Names by justphillips(m): 8:11pm On May 08, 2021
Guyman02:
Even Samuel hailed Saul before he became King and when Saul sinned against God, Prophet Samuel did not hesitate to condemn him and warned him about the wrath of God.
So there's nothing unusual about Mbaka speaking good of Buhari and turning around to speak ill of him when he is not doing the will of God but bringing untold hardship upon the people of God.

You're wrong bro. Saul was not elected, God appointed Saul. Think bro.
Crime / Re: NDLEA Arrests Grandma, Granddaughter With Cocaine; Fake Officer With Skunk by justphillips(m): 9:50pm On May 05, 2021
So far, I've not seen anyone criticizing the whole Yoruba nation because of this shameful act. Yoruba na the problem of this country.

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Politics / Prosecuting Kidnappers, Bandits Not Fg's Job- Lai Mohammed. by justphillips(m): 12:55am On May 05, 2021
The Minister of Information and Culture, Alhaji Lai Mohammed, on Tuesday, said it was not the responsibility of the Federal Government to prosecute suspected kidnappers and bandits.

He said kidnapping and banditry were not federal offences.

Mohammed said this at a press conference in Abuja.

He was responding to statements credited to the opposition Peoples Democratic Party on the security challenges facing the country.

He was responding to statements credited to the opposition Peoples Democratic Party on the security challenges facing the country.

The minister said, “The PDP alleged that kidnappers and bandits are not being brought to justice. This is
apparently aimed at the Federal Government.

“It is shocking that a party that ruled this nation for all of 16 years does not know that kidnapping and banditry are not federal offences.

“The PDP should therefore call out the states, including those being controlled by it,
to ensure a rigorous prosecution of arrested kidnappers and bandits.

“Meanwhile, PDP conveniently forgot that as far as terrorism, a federal offence, is concerned, this Federal Government has successfully prosecuted thousands of Boko Haram members in Kainji, as part of a continuing exercise. We are now seeking the cooperation of the judiciary to continue with the trial of arrested terrorists.”

https://punchng.com/prosecuting-kidnappers-bandits-not-fgs-job-lai-mohammed/?

Politics / Prosecuting Kidnappers, Bandits Not Fg's Job- Lai Mohammed. by justphillips(m): 12:50am On May 05, 2021
The Minister of Information and Culture, Alhaji Lai Mohammed, on Tuesday, said it was not the responsibility of the Federal Government to prosecute suspected kidnappers and bandits.

He said kidnapping and banditry were not federal offences.

Mohammed said this at a press conference in Abuja.

He was responding to statements credited to the opposition Peoples Democratic Party on the security challenges facing the country.
Politics / Insecurity: We’re Suffering Consequences Of 1975 Coup – Lai Mohammed by justphillips(m): 2:47pm On Apr 28, 2021
Minister of Information, Culture and Tourism, Lai Mohammed, says the country’s security challenges are a consequence of the 1975 coup d’état.

The coup, which took place on July 29, 1975, overthrew Yakubu Gowon and brought Murtala Muhammed to power.

Speaking during a Channels TV programme on Monday, the minister said the lead discussant at the town-hall meeting on national security organised by the federal government narrated how the Gowon government was planning to ensure free and compulsory primary education for children of school age.

According to him, the decision was arrived at then, as part of efforts to avoid another civil war in the country.

Mohammed said; “The fact is that in 1973, we were informed by the lead discussant and that the government of the day then had a retreat and said there must be a national pledge that what is that thing that we must do to ensure that we did not go through another civil war.

The government of that day came out with a decision that what will prevent another civil war is to ensure that anybody born after January 1970 has free and compulsory primary education.

“Regrettably that administration was overthrown two years later and all the lofty ideas and all the preparations that were needed to ensure that every child of school age acquired free and compulsory education were jettisoned.

“And we are paying the price today because if you have 13.2 million children of school-age out of school that is the market which Boko Haram, bandits, IPOB and other militants, that is the market where they recruit people.”

The minister said it was consequently resolved at the town-hall meeting that all three levels of government “must ensure that we go back to that and ensure at least free primary education for the first nine years for each child”.

https://www.correctng.com/insecurity-were-suffering-consequences-of-1975-coup-lai-mohammed/

Family / Re: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by justphillips(m): 3:59am On Mar 26, 2021
izito:
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

This is Twitter story na.
Politics / Re: Soldiers Rescue 172 Students Abducted In Kaduna, 30 Still Missing by justphillips(m): 1:08pm On Mar 12, 2021
Some dey charge phone sef..

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Religion / Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by justphillips(m): 6:53pm On Nov 17, 2020
Please can someone give a commentary on revelation 17:1-18.
Religion / Re: Seeing Demons, Angels, Fallen Angels, Spirits.. - Hsp's by justphillips(m): 11:19am On Nov 15, 2020
Please has anyone here heard about the Assasin of Burma?

I had a dream last night, a lady tried making love to me. I refused and during the course of struggling with her, I ask her name. Assasin of Burma.


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Politics / Re: EndSARS: Buhari To Address Nigerians At 7pm by justphillips(m): 5:40pm On Oct 22, 2020
Health / Oosa Herbal by justphillips(m): 7:29pm On Oct 02, 2020
How genuine is this "oosa herbal"
Fashion / Re: 10 Different Types Of Nigerian Barbers by justphillips(m): 7:58pm On Sep 09, 2020
SweetDipBenny:
My barber wants to b a musician,always playin his mixtape. Dont know how to tell him his songs r shit.he gives d best hair cut tho

Reminds me of Pato, the barber at Ola Street junction, bdpa
Romance / Re: Should I Marry My Boyfriend With This Behaviour? by justphillips(m): 6:46am On Aug 27, 2020
AFvckingAlpha:
The fvck

Niggarr!!

The guy needs to grow the fvck up!!

He ought to treat you better. You deserve a better man!


My brother in Christ

Science/Technology / Re: Kaavan, "World's Loneliest Elephant" Regains Freedom After 35 years in chains by justphillips(m): 7:22am On Aug 19, 2020
KaptainAfrika:
Nigerian Pastor: So shall you be released from every chains!

Amen!!!

Romance / Re: My Boyfriend Ended The Relationship, But Still Wants Me To Cook For Him by justphillips(m): 9:18pm On Aug 15, 2020
khia:


So you are keeping your butt cheeks closed in hopes of finding a white man to split you open? Why do you think marriage is rubbish, don't you dream of finding Mr.Whiteman to sweep you off of your feet and pledge to stay with you forever, in sickness and health, rich or poor, good and bad times, while giving birth to beautiful half-caste babies? Isn't that what every fairy boy dreams of? grin Those dreams can come true but you have to leave Nigeria to pursue them. grin


Kai!

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